If anyone wants advice I can give it. I have delt with friends who tried to commit suicide, who were anorexic and other tough issues.
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ok ill get rite to the point. i have a problem with being open. i dont like telling ppl anything. my mom and dad always try to get things out of me but most of the time it doesnt work. ive been trying to lighten up and tell ppl things but its hard. does anyone know how i can tell ppl more about me and how i feel? i always think that they are y feelings that i keep to my self. i mean why should anyone else care about how i am feeling? is this right? please help...i rate~
signed
to many feelins inside (link)
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an easy way to open up is to find one person ant tell them anything. I would be happy to listen!
email me at samgirl122003@yahoo.com if ya wanna talk.
rate me
TiffanyCroft
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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If they were your real friends then they wouldnt make fun of your boyfriend. If you like him then it dosent matter what everyone else thinks.
so, ignore them and talk to your boyfriend about it.
good luck
TiffanyCroft
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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?! (link)
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Love means wanting the best for the person you love.
Love means not caring what others think to be with the person you love.
Love is accepting the fact that you might not get to me with the person that yo love, but being glad when they find someone anyway.
Love is the best feeling in the love, once you get over the pain.
rate me!
TiffanyCroft
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my mom wont let me play the gutire because she thinks its for boys only!!!! isnt that stupid?!?! my friends and i are in a band and i want to learn how to play the gutire! how do i convince her to let me??? (link)
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I think that is dumb. My little sister owns an electric guitar. If you want to learn why dont you save the money for lessons and that might help a little. Rate me!
-TiffanyCroft
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I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird?? (link)
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Of course not! Im 13 and I love Days of Our lives! I have to watch it everyday!
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wow...I'm completely obsessed with Jeremy (the guy who plays Peter Pan)...and I feel bad for being obsessed cause I kno if someone was obsessed with me I'd freak out...but I dont kno I like knowing a lot about him...what should I do oh mighty advice giver? (link)
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You 2?
I just love him as peter pan!
Why dont you start a fan site about him?
You can start a group at msn.com
its really cool!
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Hi dose anyone want to become friends with me???
my names Jenipher and Im 15 , Im feeling kinda lonely on here ???? (link)
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if you wanna chat then you can email me at samgirl122003@yahoo.com
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i am 14 and i am a female. i was wondering if i am only making matters worse . i have been helping my crush feel better about the fact that his crush doesnt like him. and at the same time i am trying to make his crush like him. she has a boyfriend. i am doing this bc i thougt maybe if i talk to him more and help him, maybe it will click that he likes me bc i am such a helpful person. should i keep up with my plan or stop it completely? (link)
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I can tell that you really like him because you are helping him. I have faced the same problem. I had a crush on a good friend of mine and he really liked one of my other friends. Since I am good at writing poetry, he asked me to write a poem to give to her. I wrote it and they started going out. Soon I stopped liking him and realized that I liked my best friend. Ironically, he liked the same girl as the other boy. They broke up and I tried to get my best friend to go out with her but she didnt like him. To answer your question,
If you really like him and are trying to make his crush like him for real and you want to see him happy then continue what you are doing. If you are just trying to get him for yourself then you might want to find out how much you really like him and tell him. Of course I cant really talk because I have liked my best friend for 5 months and the only reason he found out was because my friend told him.
hope all this helps and if you want to talk or need more advice then you can email me at samgirl122003@yahoo.com
-TiffanyCroft
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holaa. ok well i love getten my palm read..tarot cards..horoscopes..all that stuff. ne one kno any cool ways that work and tell ur future or answer a q or anything cool i feel like doing something like that.
thanks :)
hope u all r haven a good 4th cuz mine suckks! (link)
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It probally dosent really work but here is a cool way to 'tell the future'. Get a deck of cards and take out the aces. Lay them in a row face up.
Diamond-Maybe
heart-yes
Club-no
spade-definetly.
(or however you want to do it)
Then ask a question and draw a card from the deck and whatever it is then place it on the same ace and thats the answer.!
hope that helps.
-TiffanyCroft
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I'm a 12 year old with the biggest dream!! I want to become a singer so bad. I have the right voice. All my friends and family wanted me to try American Juniors, but my school district had a strike and now we dont get out of school until July 19th!! Too late for American Juniors!! please help!!
~Amy~ (link)
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Ceck your local newspapers for talent shows and singing contests. If you do really good then you can make it big. Or you could become a 4h member and they always have talent shows.
Good Luck!
-TiffanyCroft
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what are some relaly touching good heart felt songs? (link)
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Lets see-
Everytime- Brittany Spears
great song!
cant think of any others but ill get back to you!
-Tiffany Croft
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ok me and this guy just met this year and were already best buddies!!hes really nice when no one else is around but when hes with his "cReW" he changes his attitude and everything.i like him and i kinda think he likes me too but he wont say anything but then sumtimes when were on the fone together(which makes me soo happy!) he kinda drops little hints but then goes back to these two girls he thinks he might like but then he says he'll probly never get with any of em..and one time he asked me right before we hung up on the fone if there was anything we wanted to clear up..so how can i get him to tell me how he feels about me truly??? (link)
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You sound like me. I have a best friend that I really like. He knows it because my friend told him. Maybe you could get a friend to tell him and find out how he feels about you.
-Tiffany Croft
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i have this friend he is a nice friend but i like him more than a friend i like him to be a boyfriend to me but he has a girlfriend but i realy want to go out with him i like him a lot but i cant tell him what do i do and how do i brake my friend and his girl friend up? (link)
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First, of all you need to talk to your friend. Tell him how you feel and find out if he feels the same way. The best way to do that is to write him a letter. If he does feel the same way then you can go from there. If he dosent feel the same way then there is no reason for them to break up. Tell them that if he dosent feel the same way that you hope you can still be friends. Good luck!
- Tiffany Croft
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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.
Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.
Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation. (link)
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I know you think that your not jealous but it sounds like you are. Are you sure you dont like her as more that a friend. or it could be that you were embarrased for her and you just wanted her to stop.
-Tiffany Croft
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Me and my little sister do not get along at all! like if she does one little thing i seem to get really mad at her and we end up getting into a bit fight, and the same way for her, if i do something wrong she yells at me too. she has her own room but im surprised if she has ever stepped foot into it lol, she says shes not going to sleep in there until there is cable hooked up, so basically she is in my room 24/7!!! she lays on the floor and watches tv and plays ps2 and leaves plates and cups all around my room n then my parents tell me to clean it up cause its my room but its her room too cuz she like LIVES in here! Please help!!! (link)
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wow. you sound just like me. What helped me was that i layed down rules.
-tiffany croft
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theres this friend that i have, lets call her "lindsay" shes REALLY skinny i mean like a size 1 or 3 and she's like 5' 8" and she weighs like a hundred pounds. the problem is she hardly eats, i'm sayin like she won't eat anything! i was at her house and for breakfast she ate like 2 bites of an apple and said she was full, for lunch, she had a half of a sandwhich, and only took like 2 bites, and she wouldn't eat dinner cuz she said she wasn't hungry. i told her she would hurt herself, and she said it worked for mary-kate! she says her goals for the start of the school year, she wants to be a size 00 and lose 30 lbs! I want to help my friend, what can i do? (link)
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My best friend did the same thing. Watch her and tell her that she needs to eat and have someone make sure that she dosent throw it up. If all fails tell a parent.-tiffany croft
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i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him?? (link)
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I hate to tell you this but it sounds like your boyfriend has another girlfriend. But maybe its a misunderstanding. Just talk to him.
-Tiffany Croft
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okay, i know i kinda already asked this question, but i didn't really get very many use-albe answers. i want to publish some of my poems. i've already done it at poetry.com, and through american poets society, but i need some more (preferably free) places where i can publish them.
(online places work the best for me... any websites you know of?) (link)
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I have had some of my poems published and you can go to ask.com and type in exactly what you want.
-Tiffany Croft
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We all know that love is a sweet but sad thing... Well me na this guy have dated 2 times before an it didnt work out because of the people around us always starting shit. Finally i realized to just not believe drama anymore and stick to me an him .. well hes in the army and right now hes just in training but hes been gone alot but we've been together for about 2 months but i love him ... Hes the sweetest sin you kno- He goes to iraq for a year in november and he told my best friend that more then likely were gonna breka up for that year and its hard cause i dont want us to break up ever i just cant see me without him for a whole year. I understand thats a long time to be with a guy but not actually with him so i gues shes right .. but do you think hes just saying that because he wants us to break up ? I dont kno what to do bout this guy anymore .. please i need someones advice (link)
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Here's what I think. Love is one of the most precious things in the world. If you truly love him, then you should have no trouble talking to him. If he feels the same way then thats great! If he dosent, dont spend time dwelling on the past. You may not want to hear this but there are plenty of fish in the sea! If you need any more advice go to my advice collum-on this site- Tiffany Croft
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