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well my name's carly & i loveeeeeee to dance with all my heart and soul cos i'm just cool like that...psh yeah! well i deff. love smoothies and starbucks, shopping x3, hangin out with my girls, flirting (a must, haha), my cell phone, talking, laying out, swimming, going to the beach, going to the mall....ohh yeah and just being crazy, ow ow!
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dear friends, well, will some intelligent grammar expert tell me, why in american english there is somtimes the omission of letter 'u' eg- color, neighbor etc, why are the pronounciations different, eg- schedule is pronounced as skedule instead of shedule ( are you getting me). please explain. (link)
k, this goes back to the american relovution. when american broke off from england, they decided to "americanize" english. mr. webster (hint, webster's dictionary, wink wink)decided that he was going to change some english words to look more american. so on words like "colour" and "favourite" he dropped the "u" so it'd be "color" or "favorite". people in england and austrailia spell it with the u and americans don't. also the english language is already just a screwed up language with exceptions so yeah. idk about the schedule thing, sorry


Whenever I put eyeliner on, there's no affect. It just looks like I have black stuff all over my eye. Does anyone have any tips to put it on better? Thanks! (link)
it depends what eyeliner you're using. twistable stick eyeliner generally have that effect you're talking about. i would suggest using liquid eyeliner, it's much smoother and won't smudge nearly as easily. as far as putting eyeliner on, i put my finger at the corner of my eye and pull (like when we were all kids and we'd make our eyes look chinese by pulling on the edges) i do that so it's a smoother line and isn't so rounded. as for the bottom you just kinda have to wing it, place it under the lashes, if you put it above then the eyeliner has a good change of getting into your eye. i hope i've helped.
love/advice always,
carly


where is Penny Pinchers located?
thanx
~silent_end~ (link)
pretty much ne where. they're more common the more south you go. they're about as common as the dollar store really


I saw the Grudge last night, and I thought it was pretty scary,and now I'm really scared. Like when I'll be in my room, (my light always does this)the light will go on and off and I've never been scared by that, and now I'm totally freaked out! what should i do?!! (link)
get the light fixed and uhmm...don't be afraid?
it's all imaginary so nothing should hurt you really


does anyone know where theres a place i can find fake belly rings and stuff? (link)
there's this place called "penny pinchers" it's a real kinda cheap store but they're got fake belly rings there that acctually look real. try checking there


do most girls shave their pussys? (link)
it depends on their age. a lot of younger girls don't because they're not sexually active. but most older girls who are active tend to do that. it really depends on their age and if they're sexually active


Could you possibly explain the work out to me thats in Seventeen. It sounds awesome!! If you did that would help me out sooo much and id def rate you. If not thats okay too. but thanks for your suggestion.
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okay, here goes.

bend over toe-touch-
1. stand with you legs wider than shoulder width apart. put your left hand on you rhip, and touch your right hand to you left toe.
2. stand up and extend you right arm as you twist your upper body to the right. Do the same move on the other side. Ten toe touches on each side equals one set. do three sets

twisting up-
1. sit with your legs wider than shoulder width apart and arms out to the sides at shoulder level. keep you upperbody straight.
2. gently twist to the right as far as you fan, bending y our arms to bring your chest to the floor. push yourself back up to the first position. do the same movie on your elft side. ten twists on each side equals one set. do three sets.

leg lift sit up-
1. lie on your back wit h you right leg straight out on the floor and your left knee bent. keep your arms at your sides.
2. sit up as you lift your right legs straight up until it's parallel to your bend left leg; hold on to it for two seconds, then slowly lower yourself back to the first position. do the same move with your left leg. ten sit-ups on each side equals one set. do three sets.

crossover sit up-
1. lie on your back with arms at your sides. bend your right leg, keeping your right foor flat on the ground.
2. sit up, keeping your right foor planted as you lift your chest toward your knee (use right arm for balance) then reach your left arm across your right thigh. switch legs and do the same move on the other side. ten sit ups on each side equals one set. do three sets.

v sit up-
1. lie down with legs in the air in a v-position, knees slightly bent. bend your arms, resting elbows on the floor.
2. sit up and try to touch the ground in between teh v, then return to the first position. ten sit-ups equals one set. do three sets

do this routine five times a week and you'll see results in ten days!

always,
carly


I work out everyday and do sit-ups everyday too. these crunches are really helping my upper abs but im not seeing any results in my lower ab area. Does anyone know of any really great workouts that are specifically for your lower abdominal region. If so please explain how to do those exercises. Thanks so much. Please only give advice if you know it actualy works. (link)
in seventeen magazine in the may issue (with drew barrymore on the cover) there's this awesome abb workout that i've been using. it says that if you do it 5 times a week you'll notice results in ten days, but i did it twice a day and noticed results in less than 4 days so it worked for me. You might be able to find the workout also at www.seventeen.com, i'm not sure if it's there but i would definitally check it out! Good Luck!
Always,
Carly


A couple nights ago I got the worst feeling.. like something was TERRIBLY wrong but everyone and everything ended up being okay. So I don't know why I got that feeling. But lately, i started noticing bruises and discolorations on my body. Most of them don't hurt. Then today i started getting sick.. like i could barely breathe, i was dizzy, my head was pounding, and i blacked out a few times. I don't know what's wrong. Someone please help me.. and please be serious.. this isn't funny at all. I'm really scared. (link)
Sometimes some of that can be caused by nerves. But some of that stuff i don't think could be caused my nerves or stress. There are some people that for no reason, they hurt themselves while they sleep, so that might be where the bruises come from. If you notice a LOT of bruising, it also means that you're not getting enough vitamins so the blood vessels break easily. so take lots of vitamins, once a day. i would go to the doctor imediately though, they can really help you. this could be a signal of something larger than just bruises and blacking out, so i would get it checked out just to be safe. also make sure that you're eating a well balanced diet and urinating and using the restroom reguarly. with that many symptoms, i would think it might be a sign of something else that's going on inside your body, i would go get it checked it as soon as possible. I hope everything works out well for you! Good Luck! if you have any questions or you just need to talk, let me know
Always,
Carly


I was wondering what the day 4/20 meant?

Thanks (link)
It's National Pot Day, where all the people at school that smoke pot, they skip that day and just smoke pot the entire day.
Always,
Carly


there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!! (link)
if he has instant messenger, just pop up and talk to him and be like "hey, hows it goin? i haven't talked to you in a while and i just wanted to see how ur doin." u kno, friendly stuff. then after like a week or so of this, casually ask him to a movie with a bunch of people. he'll feel comfortable and so will you. if he doesn't have instant messenger, maybe e-mail or letter, but meeting and talking in real life is always good too. Good Luck
Always,
Carly


Lately at night I've been having this weird problem. Like all of a sudden my chest hurts like in the middle and it gets harder to breath. It feels like I can't take a deep breath. Then I get this weird whistling noise in my nose when I exhale. Sometimes this happens for a little bit during the day too. It isn't really that bad but it's pretty annoying. At home I can usually try not to panic until it goes away because I feel more comfortable. The problem is Wednesday-Friday my grade is going to Washington DC. I'm not sure what I should do if I start feeling bad or begin to panic. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance. (link)
yeah, i had something similar to what you're feeling now. it could be a heart problem or a resperatory problem. It could be a heart mumer, heart palpitations, or constricted airways. None of these are serious problems that can't be solved with a few antibiotics. Heart murmers are just where your heart is beating at an odd beat, where one side of the heart isn't corresponding with the other in a way that makes your heart beat sound like a hummingbird. A hear palpitation (what i have) is just where you start to feel really hott and your heart beats so fast and loud people can hear it without a stethiscope and you feel like you've just run 5 miles. Heart palpitations can be a diet problem, or it could mean you need to do more cardio workouts. All in all, it just means to eat a variety of good foods and excersize in a way to staminize your heart (dancing or running are great examples). Having a constricted airway means that there's something blocking the airway between your throat and you're lungs. Most of the time it is mucus that wasn't broken up and it sticking to the walls, but in rare cases it might be dried blood. To rid of the mucus, take musinex, which breaks up the mucus particles in your chest. Even though the symptoms seem mild, i would go ahead and see a doctor because it could turn into a bigger problem if left alone or untreated, i would go just to be safe. If you have any questions about this, please ask me. Good Luck!
Always,
Carly


Last year I was on the track team on the four by 100 meter relay. It was awesome and I loved it. This year was not the same. I was absent for a few days and missed my chance to be on the relay team. Another girl, who I happen to not really like, got on the team. This is her first year to be in sports and she honestly thinks she's better than everyone. She's one of those girl's whose egos are bigger than their wardrobe. I was upset, yes, because I wanted to be on the team not her. I was mad and her and I got in a little fight. I got over it quickly because I realized that it was stupid of me to be upset, but she got her "BFF" involved. A few days after the last track meet her BFF posted this in her xanga hopeĀ  you did great at the trackĀ  meet w/ YOUR relay team..and showed kristin whos relay team that really is..! (because we ALL know its not hers)... I'm upset, but I don't know what to do? Am i right to be upset? (link)
heck yes i would be so mad at her! not her, but her best friend. if it were me i'd tell her "BFF" to stay out of it and if she wanted to be involved she could just have a piece of you, heck the whole thing. Work it out with the girl, NOT her best friend. And as far as i am concerned, it's not ANYONE'S relay team, there's more than ONE person on the team so i think that's really self-centered. you don't need to tell her that though, that would probably just make things worse. just prove that you are worth every cent and that you don't need her pity or her comments, you can stand strong and do BETTER than her. I would try talking to the coaches and say "yeah i know i wasn't there, i had some conflicts that just happened at the wrong time and it unfairly affected my position on the team. If there is any way possible to redeem myself or possibly fill in for someone who is absent, please do not hesitate to let me know." other than that, i would just ignore her...and travel in a group of friends, they'll feel less intimidated if you're with people. hope i've helped in one way or another! good luck!
always,
carly


my hair is black and im getting some kind of brown highlights.. my hair is KINDA poofy so i was wondering if getting highlights would straighten my hair a bit.. also.. i straighten my hair so i wonder if straightening my hair like 5 times a week would lighten my highlights.. pleaze answer! (link)
Acctually, getting highlights will make your hair more poufy if anything. Since your hair is black, the only way to color it and get good results would be to bleach your hair. If you tryed to dye highlights then it wouldn't show up so your colorist will no doubt choose to bleach in the highlights. What happens is the hair soaks up the bleach and stores it in the inside of the root which makes the hair strand thicker which will make it more poufy. And straightening can lighten highlights but as long as you condition very well when you shower it should be fine. There's color protecting shampoos you can find at almost nay grocery stores, john frieda is a good brand.Try to only straighten your hair every other day. If your hair gets oily, there's a powder you can buy at drugstores for around 8 dollars that can hide oilyness in your hair. I hope I've been as helpful as possible! Good Luck!
Always,
Carly


Does anybody have any rhyming websites? I have to make up a song for science.. using vocabulary words. Well, some need to rhyme. But it isn't too easy thinking of words that rhyme with science vocabulary words. I figured maybe there were some people who wrote poetry that might have a good rhyming website (where you type in the word and search for a rhyming word). Thank so much in advance! (link)
here, just go here to poetry.com. just type in the word you want to find ryhmes and the computer data base loads all the words that ryhme with it! hope it's what you were looking for!

http://rhyme.poetry.com/


omg is it normal to have yellow discharge? i'm kinda freaked out because its kinda like.. sticky or it cums out in peices.. i'm not sexually active and it feels normal down there.. whats wrong with me??? I NEED TO NO PLEASE HELP ME
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it depends since every girl is different. if it is normally that color then i'd say everything is fine. but if not you may need to talk to an adult about it. most of the time colored discharge can mean a vaginal infection, but sometimes it just means it's getting all the bad things out of your vagina. and yes it normally can be sticky, and if it's flaky and falls to pieces, it may just mean that you need to wear a pantiliner and that you need to wipe yourself more frequently. wait a few days and if the problem persists see a doctor. but if it starts stinging and is a thick texture or turns to a brownish color, make an appointment right away. well i hope everything goes well for you! good luck with it!
always,
carly


This is really random but im going on a school overnight trip tomorrow for 5 days and they said we can bring music but i cant think of any! does anyone know any really good songs? I like emo music ..thanks (link)
cold- by crossfade
ohio is for lovers- by hawthorn heights
hold on- by good charlotte
so cold- by breaking benjamin
ugly- by the exies
the best of me- by the starting line
addicted- by simple plan
first date- blink 182
always- blink 182
look what you've done- by jet
i'm not ok(i promise)- by my chemical romance
helena- by my chemical romance
buried a lie- by senses fail
all that i've got- by the used
cut up angels- by the used
getting away with murder- by papa roach
scars- by pap roach
hysteria- by muse
great romances of the 20th century- taking back sunday
passive- by a perfect circle
she's the blade- by sugarcult
my paper heart- by the all american rejects

that seems like a substancial amount for five day plus the music you already have. well, hope you enjoy your trip!
-carly




omg, i'm like 12 and i get horny all the frikin time. i finger myself and masturbate and all that, but i just can't help it. is there something to do to like not be this way? (link)
i don't think there is. as long as you don't over do i don't see the problem. it's normal for teenagers to feel horny and want to explore their sexuality at this age, especially after you watch the video that explain how everything works. you get anxious and wonder about things and when it will all happen. teenagers are expected to do some of those things naturally of course. these changes will happen in good time, don't worry. it also depends on how frequently you do this. one way i know helps me concentrate on other things is to really focus on school or sports. i know it sounds really stupid and dorky but if you're concentrating on something else, it's less likely to pop into your head! i was really perverted when i was younger (ask any of my friends) but it's just hormones and i don't that there's anything you can do about it. it dies away eventually. you could ask your doctor about a type of medicine if there is one if it really bothers you this much. otherwise i don't really think there's much you can do. i hope it all goes well. good luck!
always,
carly


well, this is not really a cry for advice, but i have a question. Wehn you are kissing someone while standing up, what do the gurls do with tehir arms and what do the guys do with theirs? (link)
Easy! Girls usually reference their hands with the guy's neck and shoulders. Like if it's a passionate kiss, the girl's arms should be around his neck or up and down his back. If it's a more soft kiss and not as passionate, their hands could be on the guy's shoulders, neck, or holding hands with the guy. Guy's usually reference their hands with the girl's waist or the small of her back. Sometimes for gentle kisses they might place their hand under her chin or behind her ear, but usually it's on her waist. I hope i've been as helpful as possible and feel free to ask me anything again! Good Luck!
always,
Carly


hey! i like your backround colors a lot! how do you do that lol?!? (link)
you mean like the pink stars? if you go to "Page Backgrounds" there's tons of backgrounds you can choose from. you'll have to search through the backgrounds for a while to find it. This is think is what is on my page settings.
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