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Hi My name is Tara (taaaar-ahh) im 15 years old. Ill be 16 in July. Im from South Carolina. I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters.I love cheerleading,track&feild, skiing and dancing! I love my 4 best friends Tatz,Rachel,&Haley My boyfriend ALEX is amazing i love him more than anything in the world. Im full British. I love making people laugh :D Im skinny and i love it. Abercrombie&Fitch is my closet. My Cell Phone,Ipod,DDR,Lip-Gloss,and Chicken Wings are all amazing ahah. I like giving out advice and I will be HONEST about it so dont get mad about anything. Usually im nice though. No! I wont give out my screename or my myspace. Dont ask thanks. Well thats me in a nutshell :)

advice

what are the best styling tools and hair products i have long thin hair and like styles that i can wear down

This is what you need :)
-Round Brush//Paddle Brush//Flat Brush
-Volumizing Brush (like a comb)
-Flat Iron (Solia,Chi,Conair,etc..)
-Curling Iron (Chi,Hot Tools,etc..)
-Hair Dryer (Chi *best*)
-Pantene Classic Clean Shampoo
-Pantene Classis Clean Conditioner
-Pantene In Control Shaping Mousse
-Pantene Light Spray Conditioner
-Pantene Classic Hairspray

You should go to www.folica.com it will help you!!
Good Luck!

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I JUST turned 13 and i'm i'm around 5 foot 4 to 5 foot 5. Also I just weighed myself and i'm about 102 pounds. Do you think I can grow about 4 or 5 more inches before i'm like 20 so maybe I can be a model, maybe even before 20? Also, do you think i'm skinny enough? Please tell the absolute truth. ALso, my legs aren't STICK SKINNY. They aren't like chicken legs, but they aren't fat either. Do I need really skinny legs?

To be honest i was just 100 pounds last year and i was 14. To be a MODEL like a really high grade model (runway models/print models in NYC,Paris,etc..) You have to be SKINNY..like your legs have got to be rly thin. But some agencies will want you because on covers of magazines or commercials on television none of those people are stick thin. If you have a pretty face and are not over weight but at a healthy weight you should be at good size by age 20. But their is no use waiting talk to your parents about it. Im sure you will find an agencie/photographer around your area to help you :)

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okay, so our prom has this cocktail party theme, and our prom's already on the 1st of March. Prob is, I don't have a dress yet! What are some good sites that I can visit to get some inspiration on the look of my dress?

please, i need it as soon as possible! ;)

thanks in advance!

Here are some websites :)

http://edressme.com/
http://www.onlygowns.com/purchase/CocktailDress.asp
http://www.cybernetplaza.com/

Good Luck!

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I really want to empress people because i have the personality but my family doesnt have alot of money to buy me new cloths. how can i put an outfit//hairstyle//makeup together to make me look like a million bucks? =]

That below answer is okay but what your appearance is the first thing you see its a first impression :)

You really just have to be creative. Like look at all the new hot trends and then see whats in your closet and old clothes that you dont want and you can just be creative with it. Like if you have a pair of pants that dont fit make them into shorts or a skirt or capris. And like go to thrift stores to look at some cool clothes. Or cut shirts and wear a long shirt under it. But be careful with it. Also look around your house for stuff to wear like old stuff :)

For your hair and make-up you just have to go with what you like. I cant really tell you because I dont know what you look like!

If you need more money and your old enough then get a job dont rely on your family. Then you can get tons of money for stuff!! Good Luck :)

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heyy i need cute quotes for my aim profile !! expecially somthing that will sraw the attention of this guy i like
plzzz helpp!!

Go to www.xanga.com and click Blogrings or whatever at the top and then type "Quotes, Cute Quotes, Love Quotes" then click search and click a blogring that you like and then click a site that you think will have good quotes. And then whalaa their is your quotes!! Good Luck :)

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okay im turning fourteen on the eleventh and i want to have a birthday party but i don't have any ideas. i either want to invite my three best freinds or invite my whole clique which is roughly 15 girls.
i need some ideas for both.
thanks in advance :)

For your 3 best friends--you could all go out somewhere like a fancy restaurant or coffee house and just have a fun night and then have a sleepover!

For 15--Then just have a BIG sleepover it would be really fun :) You could do alot of games and you would get alot of presents lol. If you live where its snowing you could sled in your yard or you could all walk to a hill!

Good Luck :)

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I just bought/rented a lot of clothes and equipment to go skiing within the next few weeks. I've never gone before. I'm pretty excited but I wanted to also try snowboarding. Would learning to ski first be a better idea? I heard it would be easier to learn that but I wanted some more opinions... could I do both in one day or should I wait till next time to snowboard?

You should really learn to ski first because once your good at skiing snowboarding wont be too hard. I think snowboarding is so much harder but some say its easier. You should first try skiing and if you rly like get it then go ahead and try snowboarding. My friend likes snowboarding way better. Good Luck :)

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Do you think that Abercrombie clothes are expensive? If so do you own any of the clothes.? Just wondering people

I own alot of their clothes. Yes they are expensive but they are totally worth it. If you get any kinds of clothes that are like that from like JCPenney's or any department stores they will shrink,and rip. And Abercrombie lasts longer their jeans are soooooooo comfortable too!! If you buy like anything their you just feel wonderful haha. Hope i helped :)

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Heyyy.
Well my Valentine`s Day dance is coming up *& i was wondering whats a good outfit from Abercrombie *& Fitch (http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/index.html)
i`m ordering it online so tell me what are some good outfits.
(preferrably red or pink or a valentine`s day colors)

thank you!

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_317789_-1_13062

That In Pink-->Under this-->

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&parentCategoryId=12203&childCatgroupId=12203&categoryId=12282&productId=1&langId=-1

That In Cream..it will look rly cute trust me :)

And for your bottoms! I would wear a skirt if i was you.
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&parentCategoryId=12203&childCatgroupId=12203&categoryId=12262&productId=1&langId=-1
That one in Light or Fade.

If you dont want a skirt then get jeans from there that you like!

For shoes i dont think you will find any in Abercrombie but if you know Charlotte Russe those stores have the best shoes ever and they have all different kinds :) And get like pink/red bracelts/necklaces/earings/headbands/rings from Claires,Icing,Charlotte Russe,579,WET SEAL,yeah any of those stores will help you. Good Luck!!

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how can i stretch for scourpians. i can now do the splits and my healstretches are good, and i almost have my bowin-arrow, but i want a better scourpian. how can i stretch my back and shoulders?

You should do splits but like hold your toes for a long time and then go backwards so you can stretch your back too. You could also put one of your legs up like on the wall and move your body toward your leg and hold it. And just try holding your feet. Hope i helped :)

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I'm going to be wearing high heels [3 inches] for the first time tomorrow.
I can balance..

Is there anything I should know about wearing them?

Like.. how do I get up stairs and stuff without getting the heel part off?

I really dont want to fall or slip.

Well you should have broken them in like worn them around your house for a couple of hours to get used to them. But if you couldnt then i get it :). You just have to be very careful like dont run or anything..walk smooth and slowly and concentrate. Walk with your toe hitting the floor first too not your heel. Walking upstairs will probaley be hard but your just gonna have to work at it. The only time that you most likely will fall or lose your balance is when your standing still for a few minutes or so. Good Luck

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im 14 and i hav a really small chest, so what kind of swimsuites should i wear? i dont like one pieces at all, but its hard for me to fit into some bikinis.

Go to Old Navy before like June lol because they will all be gone (you can get them on the internet too). But anyway they have XS bikin's and they tie every where. Like they are string bikinis..The tops tie at the shoulder, and behind your back. And then the bottoms tie at each side of your waist. Im pretty flat and they work fine for me :) Its so hard trying to find ones that fit and Old Navy is the best place for me so far. And they only cost like 12-20 dollars. Good Luck.

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I want to get DDR for PlayStation2 but my parents think it's stupid. I've got enough money to get all the equipement and everything but they won't let me. Is there any way I can convince them it's more than just a 'stupid arcade game'? Thanks.

Tell them that its EXERCISE and it really is! You will get a work out doing it. And its not a stupid arcade game tell them that its probaley one of the best PS2 games ever made...thats what my uncle told me. Along with Wii. Good Luck :)

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ok well during school i see some of my friends fingers and they have very thin, elegant fingers
on the otherhand.... my fingers are a somewhat wider than normal. If it helps, i'm a tall, skinny person and I play volleyball. could this be the reason?
what are some tips or advice on how to make my fingers look skinnier?

thx

Hmm. usually if your tall&thin you have very skinny fingers. Maybe its because you play volleyball? I really dont know a solution. The best way would be to like lose weight and then maybe you lose the weight in your fingers. But if your already thin you dont want to get too thin. The ebst way is to love the way you are. I have very long thin fingers and I HATE IT because their so odd looking and i can never find rings that fit!! Hope i helped :)

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Ok well Im 13 & I have never kissed a guy. I really want my first kiss because I just want to know what its like. I had my chance to kiss a guy before because when I was going out with my boyfriend(i dumped him a couple days ago) he asked me for a kiss but I said no because there were to many people around.

Im not say that im ugly or a geek or something, because I have had plenty of boyfriends, we just have never been at the right place at the right time ya know?

But anyway is it weird that im 13 & I havent had my first kiss yet?

You are only 13!! No its not weird..trust me. Don't plan your first kiss because it will not be special. Your first kiss should just happen because its meant to! So dont just go out with someone to kiss them. Your time will come :)
Oh and if you know Adriana Lima shes a Victoria Secrets model..she didnt get her first kiss until she was 17! So hun you gotta long time to get kissed ;)

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i use cover girl continuous wear cover up but i can never get my face to look very clear like i have litte spots that i want to cover up...like not zits but little like marks and it doesnt really cover them up? is there a diffrent way to apply it so you cant see blemishes and make it stay on longer?

You could get foundation and then put cover up on it. Or you could put the cover up on then get a cover up stick and cover up the blemishes. You should also be putting it on with a big make up brush. It will look more natural and clear. Good Luck :)

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i might be hanging out with the boy i like this weekend sometime i asked him if he wanted to today and he said definatly but i dont know what we should do. what are some good ideas? keep in mind that i like him and im not sure how he really feels. and what things should i do that day to hint to him how i feel? thanks for the help, you guys are great!

This is a perfect way for both of you to get to know eachother! you could..

*Go to your house/his house-and watch a movie,play games,eat,sit&cuddle,or talk.
*Go to the movies-find a good movie to go see and then go get some food or a drink after and talk about the movie
*Go to the mall
*Go walk around your town
*Go skiing,sledding,snowboarding(if you have snow)
*Go to a school event like a sports game
*Go to any sports game

You should just really get to know him ALOT so you can see if you REALLY like him! Make sure you listen to him, make eye contact and dont be to all over him. Just keep it cool for the first time. Good Luck :)

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well i told my boyfriend that i have had sex before but i havent. if we do have sex, is there any way he could tell that i am still a virgin?


oh and what does it mean when somebody "pops your cherry". lol

When someone pops your cherry it means that your hymen broke (where it will bleed) it usually happens when its your first time! So that will probaley be the only way he could find out. But you should seriously tell him because if hes your boyfriend you two should have a honest realtionship with eachother :)

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What Do I Wear To A Valentines Day Party? Thats Not A Dress? Thanx!

You should wear jeans or WHITE jeans/pants! Then a cute fun red,pink,purple top maybe with hearts on it? Then get a heart necklace or heart headband and bracelts and stuff. For shoes you could wear heels. They would look cute with the pants. Or wear flats. Or you could wear sneakers. Good luck.

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I'm a female teenager and I had sex for my first time yesterday and down there is in a little bit of pain, is that normal?

Yes it is very normal :) It should go away soon.

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