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Heyy guys. Let me know if I can help you out with anything. I might not always tell you what you wanna hear - but just trust me eh?advice
I am reading different things on how soon HIV will show up in a blood test. Most I am reading are saying by 8-10 weeks it will show up (2 to 2 and a half months) ..others are saying 3 months just to be sure but that it will most likely show up sooner. any knowledge?
It's 3 months. Anything before that could be a false reading. A bit like a pregnancy test. You know how if you take it too soon it might say you're pregnant when you're not, or vice versa.
prom is coming up and so is the 4 day after prom weekend.. I've decided not to go to get waxed cause its expensive and I dont have time.. so I'm gonna do it myself but I need advice on the best method out there if anyone has tried any of the store bought kits or whatever... I shave regularly down there so I dont think it would be severely irritated by like waxing or whatever but I just want something easy that works.. thanks so much!
It'll hurt, but you know that. Waxing is good because, unlike shaving, it lasts for long time.
Home waxing kits work fine, but I would recommend trying it out on your legs first, to get some practice in. It can be irrated for a couple days afterwards, so I would do it soon as.
Well until a few years back i used to be a deep thinker...I was amazed when i read my old journals because i couldnt belive how i've lost contact with myself these days...there is so much stress around me...i used to write brilliant poetry before... but now when i write poems they sound lame... i wanna be the same deep and articulate person that i was...how??
f/19
It's hard to answer questions like this because it's different for every one. Try listening to your feelings. If you're stressed, you're stressed. That's emotion - that's you. Try going for walks now and then - without listening to music or talking to people. Just you and you're thoughts. You will be aware of you're perceptions of things and can ask yourself why they are the way they are. You will learn about yourself.
Watching the sun set takes about 5 minutes. It's insipring, thought-provoking and quite relaxing. Great for help writing poetry.
Meditation is the other thing. Try it, there are classes but you might find it easier doing it by yourself. Look it up on the internet and give it a go.
I'm a freshman and I broke up with my boyfriend, now I realize that that was a very stupid move because I still like him. We are friends right now but I want to be more then friends. Another problem that I'm facing is that my mom doesn't want me to date anyone at all anymore. What should I do? Any advice would be helpfull.
Do you know why you're mom doesn't want you to date? It could be that she doesn't want to see you get hurt, or that she wants you to concentrate on your studies. If you reassure her that you aren't at risk of falling behind and that you know what you want out of a relationship and feel the benefits outweigh the risks, then she might come round.
As for you're ex, just tell him how you feel. Worst case scenario is that he doesn't feel the same way, but then at least you know. If I were you, I would be prepared to answer questions about why you broke up with him in the first place though, because chances are he'll ask. You might want to ask some of those questions yourself though. -- Are you sure you didn't break up for a reason? It might be that you just miss him, or dont want to see him with someone else. But that's just a part of the healing process.
Just make sure it's what you really want before you tell him.
Was Kurt a happy guy,or was he sad?This is something that's always bothered me,because I've heard that he was generally a fairly happy (or at least average)person,but I've also heard that he was upset with his life and felt very isolated (which would make sense because of his lyrics,his upbringing,and the crowd that he was trying to reach).I know that no one could really know for sure,but what do you think?
I'm not sure he even commited suicide. he was found having took 3 times the amount of heroin needed to kill someone instantly. To then go and put the needles away and then go shoot yourself, seems a bit far fetched to me. But im trying to reserve judgement. If you want to find out about Kurt Cobains life, i suggest reading his bioigraphy. HEAVIER THAN HEAVEN by Charles R. Cross.
what are some basic fashion do-s and don't-s?
thanks in advance!!
what the hell? Wear what ever you want! What's wrong with you!? And as for the comment above mine, just because you cant pull off your "don'ts" doesnt mean everyone cant. Live a little, experiment. If you're confident to go outside, do it.
I recently went to an inverview at a university thing, and the interviewer ws gorgeous. He's not THAT much older than me, but is clearly an authority figure. Should i still persue him or not?
WHAT? NO! you said it yourself, hes an authority figure. Do you want to get kicked out of school? Do you want him to loose a job? AND DO YOU WANT TO COMPLETELY EMBARASS YOURSELF WHEN/IF HE TURNS YOU DOWN? Not worth it
hey ;;
ima 13 // f
and im in love with this guy .
he nos that i like him
but he doesnt no how strongly i feel
and he doesnt even care that i do
he makes it rilly awkward but we used to be friend before i told him
and recently i told him that i didnt like him, and now its even more awkward and we rarely talk .
hes been ruining my life and i fell so hard for him .
ive been cutting my wrists and my friends have been very supportive .
but i just dont kno waht to do .
because i love him, but i dont want to scare him off or anything, so please help ?
sorry if its long i didnt mean for it i just tried to explain as well as i could
please leave advice :]
you sound like me when i was your age.
I'm not going to tell you that your feelings arent valid because they are. But unfortuantely i am going to tell you what you dont want to hear. Get over it.
No guy is EVER worth hurting yourself over. And dont cry over a guy that wont cry over you. If he makes you happy, maybe you could be friends or even tell him that you like him (a normal fancying amount). But to me, it seems like he makes you sad. One day you'll look back and thank yourself you realised in time that he's immature, and you are worth more. And you are. Your friends have been amazing, its time like this when you realise who your true friends are. Concerntrate on them.
As i said before, you remind me of me when i was your age. Im going to try not to bore you with the details but i fell in love with a guy at 13. I felt awful all the time and i cut my self. I tried to commit suicide but that plan failed. My friends were really supportive. I liked him for 2 and a half years, we went out for a few months at some point but i didnt get over him. My point is, i have to leave all my friends really soon because im leaving for college, and im going to miss them so much more than that guy. Any guy. You'll meet someone else, someone is worthy of you. Till then, best of luck xxxx
I am 15 and this is my first job. Basically im a cleaner (woo) but im saving up to go to italy so its not that bad. Thing is i was wondering if there is a minimum wage? I get paid £5 an hour which i've heard is really good. But i heard that there isnt an minimum wage for under 18's, which confused me. why am i getting paid so much? thanks x
To be honest, i dont think there is a minimum wage for under 18s. Not under 16s anyway. maybe your employer is just generous...
The love of my life. We were talking about getting engaged. I am a lot younger than him but it isnt a factor in our relationship. He told me he has AIDS. This didnt bother me at first, i mean, i lvoe him, im not going to break up with him because he's ill. I dont believe in sex before marriage. I'm slightly uneducated about STI's and AIDS. Could we have sex with a condom? Am i not supposed to risk it? Do i go my whole life without loosing my virginity??
This is quite a hard question.
If you want to marry him, you should. His illness shouldnt affect that. If you are uncomfortable with having a sex with him, there are other methods which could give you both pleasure which are safer. Maybe you and him should look some up?
There is also the factor of children. Also something to talk about.
A doctor might be able to give you some better advice, so that would be what i recommend. Best of luck xxxx
I am jealous when my boyfriend goes to hang out with females I can tolerate but dont like. I dont know why or how to tell him that I am jealous without him getting angry with me. I need some advice quick because he will be over to my house in a few minutes and then he is leaving to go hang out with his "friends", who are initally girls. ;x
Maybe you could try to become friends with these girls? I know you wont want to, but if you do, you could maybe hang out with them. Even if its only for a few times until you realise you have nothing to worry about. Also, if your mates, they will have more of an obligation not to take him away from you in anyway. Maybe in a chat with one of them you could politely explain your concerns - making it seem more like a compliment?
You could tell your boyfriend that it bothers you. Just say something like, "Look, i dont mean to sound insecure or anything and i totally trust you, but i dont like it when you hang out with them". Maybe if you explain a few reasons why that you think he'll see as valid.
I'm sorry i couldnt be of more help. If you like i could yell at him for you? lol. best of luck xxxx
What do you do when you are afraid that your mother in law is going to try to tell you how you should raise your kids? Like, I need to do things this way or that way, and they need to go to her church that my husband grew up in that I totally don't agree with everything.
Explain to her that although you value her advice, you have your own methods you wish to use. Maybe you could explain to your husband, he could ask her politely to "back off". In the end, your children are your children, not hers xx
What is "emo"? I've heard so many people talk about it. Thanks!
An emo is a label. Like a chav, goth, grunge, indie, prep etc. An emo usually wears skinny black jeans, they might their hair in a side parting, with a fringe covering one eye. They wear the colours clack and red mostly. They like music like Panic! At The Disco, and Fall Out Boy. They are stereotyped as depressive people who cut themselves and are usually bisexual, but this is rarely the case. They express their emotions, hense the name. Sometimes they are also referred to as "Scene". Usually seen as depressed and lame. But as many stereotypes i have found this one to be false. But basically, its just a label.
any have any tips to get clear skin?
my skin is VERY VERY sensitive so I can't find a product that won't make my skin turn all red and get dry.
and i want to get rid of my pimples because they make me feel very self-concious. : /
Nivea creme is very sensitive. After exfoliating, apply it to the skin, and before putting on make up. Your skin should feel a lot smoother quite soon just give it time. Clense tone and moisurise before bed and in the morning. Also avoid wearing make up when you dont have to, like around the house or when your not seeing anyone important. best of luck xxxx
my crush[kyle] is supose to talk to my dad about me and him dating but kyle basically told me that its up to me because i have to write kyle a letter telling him why he can still trust me and what i would want out of our relationship, but i think thats just a waste of my time. because kyle can trust me and i havent thought about what i want out of our relationship because i've been really stressed lately because of all of this and i just cant handle it anymore. im starting to be physically sick.
If you want to be with Kyle, then writing him that letter is not a waste of your time. He obviously feels insecure about you leaving him or something. If you dont want to write him a letter, maybe you could prove he can trust you another way?
Another thing you might want to ask is, can he trust you? Lie down somewhere quiet and think. Ask yourself how much you like him, whether he is worth proving this thing to him, and if you need to, what you want from the relationship. It seems as though kyle needs to know what he means to you, and maybe after you have that clearly in your own head you could put in clearly in his?
Best of luck xxxx
Name of the "groom" in corpse bride?
Victor xx
Whats that song that has the line about ripping up your heart and sewing it shut. its like, bout trying to help some one i think...
Papa Roach: Scars
Does anyone know who directed Edward Scissorhands? Love that film!
Tim Burton - best director in the universe!
I'd discharge for about 3yrs.I still havnt go my period.My friend said you'll you;ve started when the discharge in your vagina goes brown
True?
Not necessarily. It is different for everyone. How long you have discharged for doesnt always have a correlation to when you will start your periods. It will always happen when you least expect it... best of luck xxxx
Does anyone know how much it costs to get Permanent Laser Hair Removal Surgery?
and how old you have to be to get it?
and if there are any side effects/problems with getting it?
Possible complications include: darkening or lightening of the treated skin, burning of the treated skin. Laser hair removal is a safe procedure if carried out by an experienced person. It costs from about £100 depending on the size of the area. Most treatments require 2-3 sessions for permanent hair removal in any one area. The procedure can be uncomfortable, but it is not usually painful. The length of a laser session may be a few minutes to an hour or more, depending on the size of the area being treated.
Any redness and swelling of the affected areas usually disappears in a short time. And most people return to normal activity right away.
If you are serious about this procedure i would recommend talking to a dermatologist of something first. Best of luck xxxx