The love of my life. We were talking about getting engaged. I am a lot younger than him but it isnt a factor in our relationship. He told me he has AIDS. This didnt bother me at first, i mean, i lvoe him, im not going to break up with him because he's ill. I dont believe in sex before marriage. I'm slightly uneducated about STI's and AIDS. Could we have sex with a condom? Am i not supposed to risk it? Do i go my whole life without loosing my virginity??
If you want to marry him, you should. His illness shouldnt affect that. If you are uncomfortable with having a sex with him, there are other methods which could give you both pleasure which are safer. Maybe you and him should look some up?
There is also the factor of children. Also something to talk about.
A doctor might be able to give you some better advice, so that would be what i recommend. Best of luck xxxx [ Tan's advice column | Ask Tan A Question ]
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