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W00H000 iT`S KiMMY N0W =D! AND i GiVE 0UT SUCH BETTER ADViCE THAN SH0RT LiTTLE CRYSTAL.. (WH0, BY THE WAY, KEPT MiSSiNG THE PASSES iN BASKETBALL, AND YET i WAS SCREAMiNG MY LUNGS OUT FOR HER ANYWAYS!!)AB0UT ME. . . MY NAME iS KiMMY.. MY CL0SEST FRiENDS ARE SAM, SAMAWi, MAL0GNA, LARRY, AND MiKE((BRAGG!!)) and erm.. i HAVE A L0VE *HEART* =D 10.24.04 BEEE0TCH!!
LETS SEE.. H0W B0UT i FiLL UP THiS PAGE WiTH USELESS iNSiDE J0KES WiTH SAM! >=}! STEEE-VVVEN! LMA0! "WAS S0MEB0DY MEAN T0 Y0U?! D0 i HAVE T0 BEAT S0ME0NE UP!?" i'M L0 AND YER LC!! i THiNK THAT WE SH0ULD ALL JUST STAB CAESAR! THE BANGiN PARTY! RiDiNG BiKES iN THE DARK, BUSY STREET T0 GET T0 WALGREENS.. AND THEN BUYiNG HELiUM! CUPiDS, SAVE.A.L0T.. GETTiNG M0RE HELiUM AND GETTiNG THE TH0NGS! "THESE G0 UNDER Y0UR PANTS.. N0T 0VER THEM!" LMA0! WHEN Y0U PANTSED ME AT THE MALL AND i WAS WEARiNG THE TH0NG.. THE LADY WAS L00KiNG AT ME =S! =o)! PASSiNG N0TES.. AND TALKiNG AB0UT ..HER.. iN THE LiBRARY! MEAN GiRLS.. BiLLY MADiS0N.. LEMMiWiNKS!! THE HAMSTER WH0 SURViVED SAM'S ATTACK-- THR0WiNG HiM AGAiNST THE WALL!! THEN G0iNG T0 THE PARK AND FiGHTiNG WiTH SAMMY'S FRiENDS! "WE JUST G0T 0UT 0F DETENTiON!"
((ME AND SAM ARE iN MY DADS CAR WiTH THE GARAGE D00R 0PEN))
---BEEEEP BEEEEEP BEEEEEEEEEEEEP---
[[BEEPiNG G0ES 0N F0R A G00D 5 MiNUTES..]]
{GiRL FR0M ACR0SS THE STREET C0MES BY}
"SHUT THE FK UP!!"
ME: ((GETS 0UT 0F CAR)) "Y0 D0 SOME'IN!"
...THEN...
::RUNS iNSiDE:: "0HMiG0D SAM THEY'RE G0NNA CALL THE C0PS 0N US!! WHAT ARE WE G0NNA D0!!!" ::haves anxiety attack::
..the conclusion? Kimmy panicks and Sam plays "Mary Had A Little Lamb" On the piano..
LMAO!! REGGiE!! Y0Gi.. WHEN MY M0M AND Y0UR M0M DiD Y0GA!! L0L THE YEARB00K SiGNiNG THiNG WiLL BE S0 LONG... I LOVE YOU!!
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ok hey kimmay whats up call me as soon as possibel cuz i dont feel liek doing my homework rite now lol..
Love always...THE GROUCH..yea courtney ur cool...
Sam you asked that like 3 days ago and I just called you at the party I WASNT INVITED TO =/ and we was only kidding about ze Sesame Street thing. GOTTA TALK TO YOU
okay hey kimmy its me again.. who the heck is baybay4? i was wondering who it was and i have like no clue...please tell me at school or sumthing!!
LOL I DONT KNOW CRYSTAL ADDED HER BACK IN THE DAY WHEN WE SHARED THE COLUMN... STEE-VEN! LMAO
~hey kimmay!! it took me like forever to find u and ur sistas advice column!! lol omg what we pulled off today in school was hilarious!! shes like if u have something to say, say it to my face ad i was like woa!! lol we are just too cooll...:D anywhoo...lol call me lol i really am bored and i dont feel like doing my math homework...lol i mean really whats so great about math? (ceaser) lol kk well i guess i should probably do it!! lol kk well call me soon!! :D!! lyl lylafklc! haha SATURDAY PARTAY...just like we did last weekend....yea okay lol lol
IM OUI!~*samI* A.K.A. THE GROUCH! YEA COURTNEY UR COOL...lol kimmy
Wait weren't we talking about Caesar the whole time? =S PARTY OH MAN THAT ONE WAS NICE.. especially with you and Darren... I saw some SPARKS!! >=}
o0k well you see i like this guy, that well my friends dont approve of. they say he's such a kid and he's immature and stuff. my friends go for the older, hot, guys with nice cars, this guy that i like well, his name is osama. funny huh? its actually kinda creepy, lol but well a while back, we're freshman, in the begginning of the year, he and my friend joe were in a fight, it was about a month ago and osama punched joe and things have been really shaky between them. but now i see him around and we make eye contact and i think i like him, i think about him a lot. my friends think im crazy and its 'just a 'phase' ' and stuff so yeah i dont know how to tell joe. osama doesnt even know who i am, our school is realy big. he's not cute or anything and i've never really talked tohim, but there's just something mysterious about him that gets me. but yesterday i told my friend if she knows him and she said yeah and i told her to find out if he has a gf and i told her i think hes pretty cute, and well today she told me she told him, and now today he went around asking everyone if they know me. he only knows my name. so hes trying to find me out, and i dont know what to do. i mean my friend joe, its gonna be tough on him and so what do i do about the whole situation? should i just come up to him sometime next time i see him and talk to him or should i forget about him or what? please help!?! ill rate you, thanks.
.p.s.i ii rate good!~!~`!!!! =)))))))
Wellll.. what do you see in him? Its not really about what your friends see.. if Osama is tough and all that other junk.. yiiikes maybe you should look out, but if he's tough and yet friendly.. there could be a connection! I say get to know him a bit more.. introduce yourself to him if you ever see him.. and flirt =D Since Osama got in a fight it sounds like he's kinda not nice.. but don't make judgements.. get to know him before you do anything! Just get to know him first and see if you two have anything in common.. and remember it's not about what your friends think.. its those things that YOU see in him! Good luck >:}
OK...first off im in 7th grade and on the cheerleading squad and its b-ball season and every cheerleader has to make up a cheer to use and i have no idea for words/motions for one...so if anyone has any cute b-ball sideline cheers id be very thankful!!
Yay! Mkay, get the whole team together for this one.
::stand up on the bench, and start cheering::
"Up up on your feet! Mighty ((mascot))'s can't be beat!"
::repeat until everyone has stood up::
::start to sit down after this one::
"Down, down on your rear! Mighty ((mascot))'s have no fear!"
::repeat 'till everyone sits down!::
------------------------------------------------- "DRIBBLE IT *stomp stomp* PASS IT *stomp stomp* WE WANT A BASKET! *stomp stomp* ------------------------------------------------------------------ "BEAT 'EM, BUST 'EM, BEAT 'EM BUST 'EM, THAT'S OUR CUSTOM.. ROCK 'EM, AND SOCK 'EM.. OUT OF THIS GAME YOU GOTTA WANT IT, TO WIN IT, AND WE WANT IT MORE.. YOU GOTTA CHEAT US, TO BEAT US, AND THAT'S NOT RIGHT SO GOOOOOO (mascot)'s!! ================================================================================================== TAKE THAT BALL AWAY, I SAY TAKE THAT BALL AWAY! DEFENSE! ================================================================================================== brain fart! =P my basketball season just ended, so yeah. There yew gooooooo!
I have a crush and I just started going to this new school a couple of monthes ago and he's well one of the popular rich kids and i don;t think my new friends will understand. You see i have a hard time opening up to people. Like i'm almost diagnosed with paranoia. Just about there sometimes i think and some days my vision just goes blury even though i have glasses. Now u see at my old school whenever I told my friends who I liked they would tell the guy i liked that i liked him. I'm just confused with everything now and sometimes i dont feel as though i'm real like my parents are the reason i get A's and B's in school.I mean i know my parents said i couldn't date till high school but i would like to. they just don't understand. What should I do?
Singned,
Can't live with guys and you can't live without 'em.
AWW! iF THiS QUESTi0N iS AB0UT Y0UR CRUSH.. i THiNK Y0U SH0ULD TALK T0 HiM. THE P0PULAR KiDS AT MY SCH00L ARE S0 MEAN.. iF HE`S MEAN, i THiNK Y0U SH0ULD JUST STAY AWAY FR0M HiM AND FiND A NEW CRUSH, BECAUSE Y0U'RE A SWEET GiRL AND iT`S N0T W0RTH iT. i`D SAY TO HANG 0UT WiTH A GR0UP 0F PE0PLE AND A C0UPLE NiCE GUYS.. AND THEN WH0 KN0WS!! L00KS AREN`T EVERYTHiNG.. ;-) AND Y0U'RE NOT PARAN0iD.. i'M THE SAME WAY!
ok so i have this frend who is always worrying about her feelings and only her feelings. She doesnt care about ne of her frends' feelings..as long as shes happy shell push any and everyone out of the way to get there. and no matter wat she ALWAYS has to have a boyfrend..please tell me wut i should do...try look past that? or realize that shes ben well "pissy" at me one too many times and forget about her?? ive put up with a lotta ..stuff...and im gettin sick an tired of her doing this..so u think shell come around or wont change?
iS SHE LiKE.. your really good friend? If she is.. and you don't wanna lose her.. then try talking to her about it.. tell her that she's been too selfish for the past *however long shes been doing this!*. And if she only cares about HER feelings.. maybe there's something on her mind? Maybe you should talk to her about it, and she won't have so many feelings! ANd about the boyfriend thing.. boyfriends come and go and yeah friends are kinda like forever(yeah that sounded really cheesy just WORK WITH ME!! heh) If you sit her down and talk about her behavior, she'll eventually come around. But if she doesn't change, it's not worth your time. I know that sounds horrible, but ya can't keep putting up with that!
so what do you do if whenever you get in fights with your mom your step dad gets involved too adn every time he gets involved i tell him hes not my dad so stop talking to me and hten he says yeah im glad im not bc if i was your dad id beat your damn ass ... idk what to do or to say to him and its really pissing me off! please help!
OHMiG0D!! Does he seriously say that?! I have a stepdad too.. and yah.. I say that stuff. A coach called and wanted me to play on an All Start Traveling team for softball, so I talked to my mom about it. We obviously couldn't carry a conversation without my stepdad coming in.. and he started yelling. If he's abusive.. tell someone! That's not safe.. and I don't blame you for saying "YOURE NOT MY FATHER!" cause I say the same thing. He has no control of your life.. that's your birth parent's decision. Talk about it with your mom.. if kids were her first priority-- she would think about getting a divorce. =P
I've been suffering from clinical depression for a few years, and recently started having panic attacks and mild hallucinations. The hallucinations are morbid (pools of blood, reaching hands, ect.) but clearly recognizable as they're so out of place. I don't want to see a psychologist or take medication. Is there a way to make your mind stay away from depressing thoughts or just clear it if things start getting hazy/weird?
Hey, what`s wrong with seeing a psychologist? I go to one =D (or a shrink, haha) and I`m perfectly normal.. I think :o! And medication.. who cares? I take paxil and amprozolium (I cant spell..) and they both work. I started having attacks in 6th grade.. and now I can totally control them! Talk to your mom about going somewhere.. nobody has to know about you going anywhere/ taking medication.. Seriously it helps, and that's the only thing I can think of that can help you clear your mind. Talk to someone about it! =)
WOOOOOOOOOOOO ... err
thanks for the advice it's hurt.. and its rosie lol
ROSiE L0L i KN0W Y0U T0LD ME AT KELLiES PARTY.. L0L S0UR SPRAY AND THEN PLAYiNG V0LLEYBALL AT LiKE 11 WiTH MADDiE.. THEN.. HELiUM!! fun =D!
okay so recently this kid i was with before had been talkin to me again...well he still has this girlfriend...which he cheated on me with and like hes been talkin to me more...well one night he told me he still liked me and always will...and he said hes scared to talk to me and hang out with me and go to the same school as me cuz being around me will make him like me more...and then the other night he called me and piccked me up and we drove around for two hours just me and him talkin and stuff...well at the end of the night...he asked me for a hug...but like i figured since we were in a car it would be quick...but as i went to pull away kinda he kept holding on to me....and wouldnt let me go...and squeezed me really really tight and was rubbin my back...i mean hes gonna go to my school this year...do u think that we will have another chance to get back together by the way hes acting and what hes said to me? i mean he has a girlfriend and he said he loves her to death but like...all this doesnt it make u think that he might want to be with me but like...doesnt wanna break another girls heart?? help me please because like...i need to know what to do!! thanx...!
x0 Broken 0x
Ahh! Hes just being a guy.. =P seriously guys are like that.. make sure you're not falling for something though.. and maybe it's real and he really DOES like you-- and maybe he just wants to date around a lot, and doesn't want a serious relationship.. what I`m saying is that maybe that`s why he doesn`t want to get so close to you.. and he`s not ready for a relationship. I`d say that just be yourself around him and don`t flirt or anything.. (well, if he`s getting a hint.. he might back away) and just slowly work your way up.. it could progress into something beautiful! =DDDD!
I just found the love of my life.....please help me...... :D im stuck with love
signed,
Rem :o
=O
WOOW REM.. yeah I found the love of my life too >=D SMALL WORLDDD! ILU >=B
what do you need help on mister rem :O
Hi Kimmay,
This is diane! wjo is kellie w? ASK PRINCESSDIANABIRD
Dianeeee!!!
Who is Kellie with? What do you meaann? =O Like who is she going out with or something? Harr harr I'm seriously trying not to be so like nosy and stuff so idn!! =\
WHY WERENT YOU AT OUR GAME!! we WON.. =P
Kimmay!:)
Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me?
You don't have to hate yourself! Think about it- I'm sure there's one thing that you're good at. It could be ANYTHING; sports, acting, whatever! Its okay because I think I'm fat, ugly, and yeah I try losing weight ((it has worked, maybe you need dieting suggestions)) anyway, You're probably beautiful, but insecure. Haha- I don't think anyone has had an actual boyfriend that they wanted to be with.. all my friends just get boyfriends for the pleasure of saying they have one! Don't cut yourself-- believe me, I tried that. I know exactly what you're going through, and it's not worth it. I know you might think that nobody understands-- believe me, I do.. you want to cut to get away from things and you think it's the only thing you can control, right? Wrong! If you actually put your mind to something, and think "hey, i'm a motivated, pretty, talented person, and nobody can stop me from doing anything!", your self confidence will get the better of you-- and you'll become that happy person. You're not crazy.. you're just going through tough times and it'll eventually get better! =D
-Kimmy:)
I need advice! well see i lie this boy alot and i have or a VERY long time. He like gets mad at me when i admit i like him and he always kinda makes fun of me. He makes it feel like im the ugliest person in the world. how can i make him start to like me?
Signed,
Hurt
Hey..ya that happened to me before..theres really no way u can actually make him like you..but whatever you do dont like act like a different person around him just so that he'll like you! And if he does that kinda stuff to you and makes you feel like that then i dont think hes the person you should be liken! So try and find someone else! hope i helped..-»CrYsTaL«-
I am 12 and I have a boyfriend, but he hasn't talked to me since school ended in june! i am really thinking about breaking up with him. Should i do it over the phone, or wait until school starts to do it face-to-face? P.S. he has(according to my friends)said that he didnt care about me and now i am hurt by it so i want to embarass him as much as possible.
Thanx
*HURT*
well thats really bad that u guys havent seen eachother or talked since juNe!..and i dont think hes friend would lie to you about something like that...so ya dump him as soon as possible!..so talk to him on the phone or talk to him online about it!..and about making it embarrasing..spread a rumor about him! ;)! hope i helped!xOxCrYsTaLxOx
Kimmy says to make him embarrased..u should pants him when hes around all his friends..and then kick him in the balls! ;)!
hi.. this is awesomE!
lol thanks! xOx Crystal and Kimmy! xOx
I have had a couple of boyfriends and i really liked all of them. but none of them last for a long time because when i really like someone just all of a sudden i wake up one morning saying, ok well i dont really like this person anymore or i like someone else. Do u think that i should wait to have a boyfriend for awhile? or if i start to like a guy i should be his friend for awhile and then see what happens?? please answer my question!! i need some advise!! thanks!
(Im 14)
I would focus on having one main boyfriend. One that makes you happy to be around.. not a million that you know you forget and everything.. try to spend more time with one you think is "the one" and flirt..a LOT, lol. Just talk about things you think you have the same interests in, and make sure to make him laugh a lot. If you do this, and he makes you smile, then you wont get that feeling when you wake up, telling you that you might like someone else.
xOxKimmayxOx
O.K. my family members and all sometimes say that I'm annoying, I have also heard it from some friends, I am 13 years old but I act like I am 5, I try not to but I guess its a habit and I can't help it! Have any tips? How can I not be 'annoying'?
*I RATE*
Do you think you're annoying? If you're a hyperactive kid then maybe you're just like that... not in a bad way.. but instead of talking a lot, if you do, just listen to other people, and make a few comments/ jokes.. to make them laugh. Don't be going overboard with the comments, just nod if you're listening to someone and smile, and see if you can relate to what they're talking about.
If they think you're annoying because you just are always jumpy and in the way, try to calm yourself and pretend you're in that person's shoes, and think "would I really want this kid to hang around me?" ..I'm not saying you're a bad person..lol.
xOxKimmayxOx
my friend is here and she had a fever a couple of hours ago and there is a movie in the park that i really want to go to and I'm not sure if she wants to go but I REALLY want to go and I think that she s well enough (she had a fever a long while ago and she was well enough to come over to my house what should I say/do?
Did you ask her if she wanted to go? If she still has a minor fever, I think she should just lay down and chill for the rest of the night, and not be so active, because the fever might come back.. but if she says she's better and she's not warm or anything, I think she's well enough to go =)
I hope this helped!
x0xKimmayx0x