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i have mediaplayer.. would that work? (link)
Is it windows Media?? And if it is does it say "Burn" at the top?? That's what mine says. I'm pretty sure you could burn it but I've never tried it. Get back to me to tell me sorta exactly what you have :)


My hait is pretty thin & long. Is there any way I can get my hair thickened. I know its proboly not possible but I was just wondering. I eat extremely healthy. Eveerything I basically eat is organtic & I take supplements. So its not because of my eating habits. Thank you! (link)
You can get you're haircut and get it layered..OR I think volumizing mousse after you take a shower would work. I use V05 volumizing mousse and it works very well. If you need anymore help feel free to drop one in my inbox!


Can i burn a CD from limewire? and how do i go about that? (link)
Yes you can. What you have to do first is make sure the song is in you're library for Limewire. Then you have to have a CD burning program (mine came with my computer it's called "RecordNow!")Then you have to go to that program and on mine I have to press "Scan for Music" when I get to the right page. I guess it really just depends on what program you have. If you have RecordNow also, just drop another one in my inbox and I';; help you out :)


I was just wondering if any has any suggestions for a really good foundation - preferably something with full-coverage and with a flawless look? (link)
ehh..I don't use liquid often but I use Rimmel London and its like a pressed powder and it works VERY good. If you want the liquid though, just go for the top brand stuff (revlon,Maybeline (sp?)..etc..)


ok.....well this boy asked me out, and i dont like him, i like some one else! but i dont know how 2 tell him that i dont like him.
HELP ME!!!!! plz!
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If you wanna be simple, just say no. But if you wanna do it so you get through to him more, say something like "Well I think it's best for us to be friends right now because I need to straighten some things out and plus I wouldn't want to lose you as a friend." You may not wanna tell him about liking someone else because thats sorta a diss because he would feel like hes sorta not good enough for you. If you need anymore help, feel free to drop one into my inbox!


Im 13 and I really want a boyfriend...so to all of you guys...what do you find attractive in a girl..13/f (link)
OK I'm not a boy but I think what they find attractive at this age are your looks and somewhat your personality. That's just how boys are at this age. To the girl below me,she shouldnt be saying that we're immature and stupid or whatever because she's 14 and I'm almost 14 and it's only a year difference so its not like an "OMG HUGE" age gap. But just try to find a guy that you're interested in and flirt a little with him. If it's possible try to hang out sometime. Hope i helped!


I'm supposed to analyze a few significant passages from the book 'Les Miserables' by Victor Hugo but Irresponsible Me left my book in my locker at school.

I'm not sure what any of you could do to help me but maybe there's a site somewhere that someone knows about that could possibly have 'significant passages' from Les Mis? >< Or, possibly, someone who has the book could send me a couple passages? I'm absolutely desperate - I'm doing very well in this class and this might jeopardize my grade.

Thanks in advance. (link)
http://www.lesmis.com/

try that. I just figured it may be a good site because it has the name in it n stuff. If it doesn't work drop one in my inbox and I'll try to find another site.


hi. ok im going into 7th grade and i NEED a straightener. like you dont understand how hott i look when i use one (at my cousins house) and how GROSS i look when i dont! so the problem is, i asked my mom if i could buy one-WITH MY OWN MONEY and she was like no! its dangerous and you dont need it! i was like "im very responsible when i use them at *cousins name*'s house!" she was like well see ill talk to your father! so if they says no, what are some things that i could say so that they would reconsider?! (link)
Well if they won't let you use a straightener, then theres one more thing that you could do if you wanted to without disobeying them.

What I tried once was after i got out of the shower, I put in some mousse and then using a paddle brusah, dried it straight. My hair was even striaghter than when I straighten it with an iron!!

If you really wanna use the straightener, go to the hairdressers and do whatever with your hair then ask about striaghteners. Then say that your mom thinks they ruin your hair and the hairdresser will probably say it won't ruin your hair if you get the right striaghtener becaus my hairdresser usually striaghtened mine after she cut it. Then have the hairdresser talk to your mom. Hope this helps!!


Yesterday I had my first attempt at scrunching my hair. I used the product 'Sprunch' by Aussie, but I'm not so sure I did it right. I got out of the shower, and dried my hair until it was just damp, and not soaking wet. Then I sprayed in the stuff and scrunched itttt. It only took like 8 minutes, so do you guys think I went to fast and wasn't patient enough or something? Because my hair didn't come out really scrunched by the time it dried, it was just likee my natural wavy hair, but I want it scrunched. Can anyone who scrunches their hair tell me how long to scrunch it for, and maybe some other tips to get it looking really good. I would like to wear my hair to school tmorrow scrunched, but I need to know the right way to do it first.

THANK YOUU. (link)
I use the same stuff too but it doesn't work for me. Probably because I have thickish hair. What my sister does though is she puts in a gel when her hairs still wet, then she scrunches then she put si nthe spray and scrunches again. Then she puts it into a messy, loose bun at the top of her head then takes it out after like 20 minutes.If you need anymroe help feel free to drop one in my inbox!


I have very fine hair. It's about shoulder length and I have lots of layers and bangs (its blonde too by the way) The problem is it's super straight and kinda thin so when I roll it to make it look thicker in the morning it always ends up fallin down and looking icky. haha. what could i do to help my hair hold the curl, who should i get a special hair cut...if so what kind? (link)
Well my hair doesn't hold a curl AT ALL so what i do is i take a shower the night before, then put volumizing mousse or just mousse in general in, then blow dry it or let it dry, then curl your hair and go to sleep with it. In the morning it should have like nice waves and curls and it looks really good because my hair is really thick but it doesn't make it look that way. The same should work with thin hair. Hope I helped


Hey! I really need to make a couple of CD's so I was wondering if any of you knew some good songs. I am into rock, but not metal. I like some R&B, some pop but I just hate rap. So if you could list some songs I`d appriciate it! Thanks a bunch! I`ll rate if you want me to. (link)
A couple bands that are my absolute favorite are:
`My Chemical Romance
`The Killers
`Fallout Boy
`Taking Back Sunday
`Matchbook Romance
`Hot Hot Heat
`The Used
theres tons more.I really like my chemical romance and the killers. EVERY SINGLE song I like from both of them. Some other really good songs are:
`I'm back;;baby bash
`How to Deal;;frankie J
`Shake it off;;Mariah Carey
`We Belong Together (i like the remix);;Mariah Carey
`Lose Control;;Missy Elliot
`Hands Down;;Dashboard Confessional
`Listen to your Heart;;DHT
`Gold Digger;;Kanye West
--If you want anymore don't be afraid to drop one in my inbox:)


Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?

Friend wanted to know (link)
EXACTLY the same with my cousin and her bf. They work out perfectly. Theres nothing wrong with that. Actually, if you think about it, are your parents the same exact age? I know mine arent. So theres nothing wrong with it whatsoever :)


i just got my hair cut.. and i can't find anything to do with it, except straightening it. my hair goes past my shoulders a little bit, and i have short layers.. it kinda looks like ashlee simpsons, but my hair isn't as long. does anyone have any cute ideas how to do my hair? if you need an idea of what it looks like.. go to my myspace.. www.myspace.com/jmacx16

oh yeah, i have bangs too. i cut them so i could do the side angle bang thing, but it doesn't stay. is there any good kind of hair product that could train them to stay on the side? if u have an idea, please tell me the name and the cost. thanks so much! (link)
My hair is exactly the same. Only theyre long layers.Here are some things you can do with it:
`Half ponytail
`full ponytail
`put mousse in after a shower,wait for your hair to dry, curl it and sleep with it in and it'll be wicked nice waves in the morning.
`obv. straighten it lol
`scrunch it
as for the bangs, i didnt have a problem with that but put your hair on a sidepart and your bangs should go to the side too. If not, put a metal clip in like when you're around the house and whe nyou go to sleep so it gets trained to go to that side.
If you have anymore questions, feel free to drop one in my inbox!


Is it abnormal for a guy to like Full House? Like, from the first season to the end, having seen nearly every episode? I've only seen one other guy who watches it, so I don't know whether it's something to discuss... thanks. And if the answer is no, please don't me a smartass about it. I know that I may be metro. I don't care. (link)
There's nothin wrong with that. My friend is wicked cool and he watches full house. so no problem :)


omg i started crying when this happen so just listen up...ok theres this kid who i went out with 2 times then he broke up with me both times now hes "crawlin back to me beggin for a second chance" and hes makin me feel bad he told me im the only thing on his mind n im like there must be something wrong then because im ugly n theres no reason to like me and hes like your so pretty im like no hes like then why would i be madly inlove with you n then like an hour went by and im like do u even like me and hes like well your beautiful,your rele nice,fun to talk to,you always have a way to make me laugh ..now i told him im sorry for bein bitchy and hes like the olny thing that would help is you goin out with me and im like that will make things worse well break up n then well never talk.......but he keeps askin me but i still wanna be friends i told him that but he keeps on askin what should i say? (link)
OK go back out with him is what I think you should do. This same exact (seriously) situation happened to me.Only I broke up with him the first time and he was telling me he loved me and he's sorry for whatever he did and he wanted to commit suicide and I started crying. I knew I still liked him when i broke up with him but I also liked another guy. It turned out the other guy wasn't worth it so i went back out with my other ex (who said all that stuff) he ended up dumping me 2 other times and I was heartbroken and it was horrible and I still like him A LOT.You may not realize it now but you probably deep down really like him and it will show sooner or later and you may be kickin yourself in the butt for not giving him another chance. BUT..
if you dont wanna go back out with him tell him nicely "can you give me some time to think it through..I think we'd be able to go out in the future but right now it not the greatest time and if you REALLY like me that much you would respect that.Right now i just wanna be friends with you." I'm sure he'll understand after he said that. If you need anymore help then feel free to drop one in my inbox! good luck!


How do I tell my parents I want to date? I dont want to flat out say it

I rate high (link)
OK..I think what you should do is just be like "hey mom/dad do you think that my friend *name of guy* can come over for a little?" And as your parents get used to guys coming over the more and mroe they will trust you to go on dates. That's exactly what I did and they have no problem with it now. If you neeed more feel free to drop one in my inbox! good luck!


ok...so i`m 13/f...i like 2guys! nd i have a problem with both of em! One of them...he lives closer to me nd could ride his bike down to see me nd stuff nd he likes me bacc! but he barely ever iMs me on aim i always have to give him hints nd sumtimes those dont even work nd he wont go out with me until we hang out nd stuff but when i`m free hes not nd when hes free i`m not!its suxxx!! nd the other guy....well mi best friend has a boyfriend but she also likes the guy i like whom likes me nd likes her! but the other nite we were on the fone nd he wus getting HIGH!!! i hate smokers druggies nd drinkers but i dont mind them as long as they dont do it around me er while i`m on the fone! nd he told me that the next day he wus goin to get drunk! but i like him a lot!but hes a jerk sumtimes too! sumone please help me

i`ll rate high!! (link)
I think the second guy would be wrong to go out with on so many levels lol. I would hate to go out with a dude that does drugs and drinks all the time. It could definately interfere with the relationship where if he got too high or too drunk he may cheat on you with another girl without even knowing. The other guy i think would be alrite. Just pick a day where your free and ask him ahead of time if you guys could hang out that day so if anything comes up he can say "I already have plans" that's what i do. Good luck!!


is it good to have sex at the age of 13 ? because my friend has several times and she asks me if i have all the time I mean it gets soo annoying help me please i wanna tell her its bad but i dont know what to say? (link)
Just say "The reason why i haven't yet is because I don't wanna have a reputation and I don't think it's right to have sex at this age..and I wanna lose my virginity to a guy that I like A LOT and right now the time isnt right for me because I think the time is bad because I'm so young" sorry if i didnt help much haha good luck!


ok.. im 14/f and i know this guy that likes me.. and so does my best friend.. shes the one that wants me to go out with him.. but whenever its the 3 of us.. like if were at the movies.. she makes it so that she sits in the middle.. and i dont know how i can flirt with him if shes inbetween us.. and i dont know how to tell her that i cant flirt with him if shes always between us.. please help in any way possible (link)
Wellll..it seems like your friend doesn't want you to talk to him AT ALL. I think that she thinks that if you start flirting with him or you're next to him, he'll pay way more attention to you than to her. and if she likes him, she doesn't want that. Just sometime go to the movies just you and him. It's not like your friend HAS to go because she likes him too. Since your friend wants you guys to go out, then don't hesitate to go out with him. She shouldn't say that if she doesn't mean it. And if you definately like this boy..go for it!:)


hey.. its me again.. with the kid who was definately a jerk to me. (you're right.) but anyways.. like you need to know this kid, he would be real gay about it, if i told him how i felt..and i had one of my friends talk to him, and he said he doesnt like me anymore. im not like disagreeing with ur advice, it was very good.. only if it was a different boy. lol i really shouldn't still like him, cause he is a jerk, and yeah i cant get him off my mind. but, another reason why it wouldnt work out, hes goin to high school this year, and im stuck at the stupid middle school. so yeah.. any advice on that? not tryin to say urs wasnt enough, but its hard to explain. thanks so much! (link)
ok well i'm not gonna say "just get over him he's a worthless piece of crap" because everyone says "get over him" like it's the simplest thing ever. But since he's going to the high school i dont know if it'd interfere that much. You guys could always hang out other places every couple days. As for him and how he handled you liking him..some guys are just queer like that. I htink they get all uncomfortable when you tell them you like them and they're thinking "wtf am I supposed to say i dont wanna sound like a cheeseball and be like 'oh i like you too' ". It just really sucks when you like a jerky guy, I've been there before. I ended up dumping him and then he went out with my cousin haha but thats life. If you do decide to tell him how you feel..what i said was "I REALLY need to get something off my chest because i've been thinking about it for a really long time. I still like you and i just wanted to tell you that because if i didnt say anything i woulda exploded k thanks" and see what he says lol.I dont know how he'll take that though. So depending on the guy, you have to tell him in a way that won't be too cheesy for his personality.like if he's the way he said (which is sorta how the guy i like is) I'd phrase it about the way i put there. For example if he joked around a lot you wouldnt wanna be like "my love for you is as deep as the ocean" haha um if you need anymore help just ask :)




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