awww that's such a sweet idea!

well I don't have a boyfriend, so I wouldn't be too good about writing this kind of thing. but my guy friend wrote this one about his girlfriend not too long ago.

alot of it is repeats and doesnt make much sense... but hopefully it'll give you some inspiration!

1 Good person 2 good friend 3 helps people 4 helps me 5 helps anyone who needs it 6 she will open up to me 7cares 8 listens 9 easy to talk to 10 easy to get along with 11 more to her than meets the eye 12 good personality 13 good heart 14 lots of friends 15 great style 16 lovabale 17 has fun 18 isnt boring 19 funny 20 all ways has something to say 21 easy to make convorsations with 22 isnt annoying 23 interesting 24 different 25 trustworthy 26 beautiful 27 reliable 28 complimenting 29 whole hearted 30 alot in common 31 wierd 32 she helps me with depression 33 she helps me with my relationship 34 has awesome rants 35 fun to be around 36 fun to swing with 37 has great friends 38 i could tell anything to 39 pretty much saved my life 40 cured me of my self mutilation habit 41 easy to compliment her 42 easy to talk to for 5-6 hours 43 fun to talk to for 5-6 hours 44expresses her feelings 45 reaches out to people 46 easy to cheer her up 47 fun to cheer her up 48 easy to type 7 - 8 long paragraphs about her awesomeness 49 her happiness is contageous 50 noticeable 51 rebellious 52 addicting 53 reassures me im a good person 54 reassures me im a good boyfriend 55 puts her friends first 56 great actor 57 makes people happy 58 unique 59 abnormal personality 60 doesnt hurt my feelings 61 raises people's confidence 62 thoughtful 63 random 64 is to good for me to even know 65 time passes when talking to 66 lets people know how she feels 67 isnt an open book 68 doesnt spread rumors 69 loves friends 70 dependable 71 cool name... "Coolleen" 72 good taste in clothes 73 good taste in movies 74 good taste in food 75 good taste in people 76 bondable 77 assertive 78 lets you know she cares 79 never tries to hurt you 80 never could hurt you 81 easy to understand 82 mysterious 83 talkative 84 she loves hugs 85 she loves high fives 86 thinks "higs" are great 87 does crazy arm thing all the time 88 is a leader 89 not a follower 90 not EMO 91 doesnt hold grudges 92 you cant be mad at her,,, 93 she cant be mad at you (unless your a dick) 94 doesnt hate anyone (unless your a dick) 95 doesnt judge by first impression... 96 wants to get to know you 97 likes questions 98 loves comments 99 not insultive 100 doesnt make things worse


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these are all really good songs... some other good ones are:

She's The Blade

Counting Stars

Back to California

Hate Every Beautiful Day

and
How does It Feel

wow! the infamous question. lol someone could write a book about this and make millions. Anyways! here are some of my ideas:

- I've never...- everyone sits in a circle, pick someone to start and they say an i've never statment. (ie: i've never ridden a bike. I've never made out. I've never had my underwear flown on a flag pole. etc.) it doesn't matter if they have done it before or not. if the statement is true for you (you've never done it) raise your hand. Then another person says an i've never satement. and on and on. play until you guys get bored. for another alternative you give everybody a certain number of pieces of candy. if they don't raise their hands they have to eat a piece of candy.. the one with the most candy at the end wins. (you can try other alterations too).

-little kid games- or bored games can always be fun now that you're older. Twister, Uno, limbo, etc.

-TV Trivial Pursuit- using a vcr and your t.v. tape record 20 seconds of different t.v. shows. (space each show out on the tape) see who can guess what show it is from. To make it more challeging use shows that most kids your age dont watch.

(Kissing Game) -Rock, Paper, Kiss- Play this game just like a normal game of Rock Paper Scissors. There should be a boys team and a girls team. All the boys play rock paper scissors against each other until there's the "champion" The girls do the same. Once you have both champions they kiss/make-out

hey i know this isnt much, but i have to go to bed! lol anyways if you need more, i'll try to come up with something, just ask!

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Hope this helps you!!

This website will tell you all about BMI (body mass indicators) and about how much you should weigh based on height and age. It also has lots of other useful information about related topics.

http://www.am-i-fat.com/ (on the green left sidebar click "ideal body weights")


P.S. (i think your weight is just fine...)

I dont know about at your school, but at mine most people will sign any one's year book that asks them to. I'd just go up when he isn't in the middle of anything and ask him to sign it for you. if you still cant get up the courage, ask a friend to go with you. If you are still super nervous as your friend to ask him to "sign [your name]'s yearbook" most people are pretty friendly abotu yearbook signatures. Remember, this guy is just a person!! lol no need to be nervous around him. Also, if he has a yearbook too you could always ask to sign his, and most likely he will ask to sign yours!! hope this will help you, and good luck!!

That song is AWESOME!! lol great choice. Nine Days sings it, and it is called "Story of a Girl" lol. If you want all the lyrics, you can find them at http://www.lyricsondemand.com/onehitwonders/storyofagirllyrics.html

Hope this will help!!

Well I've never actually kissed anyone with braces, but since no one has answered your question, i'll answer with what i know, until someone with more experience comes along. I've heard from friends and such, that kissing with braces is no different than without. You are more prone to cut your (or his) mouth but that is it. Once my friend (with braces) made out with a guy for 20minutes and it was fine. hope this helps ya! and good luck with your first kiss!!

It's all based on personal opinion really, guys can date younger girls, girls can date older guys, guys can date older girls, and girls date older guys. Age shouldnt matter as much as maturity level, and attraction. While in your teenage years, it is best not to date someone more than 3 years older than you, becasue you are at a crucial age of development in your life, and spending time with someone that much older could hinder your personal growth. but do waht feels right to you. there is more important things in a relationship than age

If's it's SUPER fancy I wouldn't, but if it's kinda a casual/fancy affair, and people look like they are having a good time and not uptight i think it would be fine. Also watch what other people are doing. If there are others with their shoes off follow the leader!!! lol and it's your boyfriend's aunt so he should know how to handle it! ask him "will anyone care if i take my shoes off??" if you are uncomfortable taking your shoes off, buy some ballet flats to change into... they are comfortable and are in style right now!! Hope this helps you, and have a great time!

I use Firefox too!! lol! Try using Launch.com. Its got lots of awesome music, and the videos!! You'll need to use your internet explorer to use it tho. And you'll also need a yahoo account to sign in!! hope this works for ya!

Don't worry... trust the judgement of your friends, not of a lense. Cameras always seem add pounds to your body, and some people just arent photogenic. Also... try altering your smile. When i smile one way my face looks REALLY fat, but if i change it just a little, it looks fine. practice in a mirror!! Also, since you recently lost some weight it is likely that your head hasnt caught up to the rest of your body, and so it looks a little out of porportion. it should probably even out, so i wouldnt worry about it too much!! hope i helped!

Well, let me share my experience with you. My mom wouldnt let me use tampons until I had my period for a year. She finally let me when i was 13 (my bday party was at a lake... lol) before that i had tryed to use an adult tampon at my friend's house... and i didnt like it at all. The teen ones are much more comfortable. i've noticed that the 1st few periods aren't as i dunno "periodish" as later ones. I would wait for maybe 6 months to approach you mom again. be very mature and tell her that you would like to be allowed to use tampons. let her know that you know how to insert them (if she asks you how... BOOKS! lol) and you know the risks involved. You will never wear them more than 6 hours, because after 8 hours you run the risk of developing toxic shock syndrome. See what other info you can find on health sites and just let her know how educated you are about it. If you dont think this will convince your mom... call your doctor and ask him/her what an appropriate age to use tampons is, and what info they can give you about it. it may be a little embarssing... but doctors are used to that kind of thing!! i hope i helped you, and if you need anything else, or more sugggestions just let me know my sending me a question, or AIMing me @ squeakyshoes567

Wow. Well this may seem like a very difficult decision, and I'm sure it is, you really just need to focus on what is important to you. Is being with a guy who things might not work out with more important, or is it more important to go to school and do what you what to do... something that will affect you for the rest of your life. The fact is things with your boyfriend could end at any minute.. but the decision to change majors will affect you for your entire working life. A boyfriend who has already made his decision to break up with you if you go far away seems a little iffy to me. If he really loved you he would at least be willing to see how the relationship works out at a long distance. if it doesn't, it happens, but he shouldnt already throw something away that might work. I definately think you should go into the major that you want... and just tell your BF to try and see how things work out. If he isn't willing to try for you, and allow you to do what you really want, then he isnt good enough for you!! Hope i could help!! let me know what you decide to do, and how he reacts!! if you need anything else ask me a question, or AIM me Squeakyshoes567

Actually this happened to me somewhat too. my friend and I went out for i think 2 days... and it was distarous. we were avoiding each other then one day he just goes "hi" to me, and from there i knew it was ok.. and it has been since then. Your situation doesnt seem so simple. You too are probably not acting like friends anymore becasue you are both afraid you like the other person still (or that they like you, or don't like you). My suggestion would be to just talk to him, and say "i know things havent really been the same since we broke up. I just want us to be friends like we used to be, and also just able to talk to one another. If there's anything you want to tell me, get off of your chest please do" if he does have sumthing to say listen and remain calm, whatever it is. if he doesnt.. then just go on acting like you normally would to him.. eventually he'll follow and things will be back to normal.! Hope i could help! let me know how this works out, and if you need anything else, ask me a question or AIM me at SqueakyShoes567

Well this is definately a tricky situation. After reading your question it's obvious that you are disgusted by how OVERLY affectionate Cat is to Anne. From the way you describe it, it doesnt seem like it, but it is a possibilty that Cat just thinks Anne is a super amazing person and thinks she's really great in a friend sorta way and just wants Anne to know how much she likes her. It is of course possible that Cat just can't hide her true feelings about Anne. My best suggestion would be to try to talk to Cat. Kinda hint(not too obviously) in regular conversation that you have nothing against bi people, and that if one of your friends was bi you wouldn't care, but you would want to know. in a few weeks when you and her are both on good terms and in good moods, get her to talk to you alone, and just nicely calmly say to her something like "hey Cat, i'm not accusing you or anything, but I've noticed you've been acting very affeciationly toward Cat... It doesn't bother me if you are, but i just need to know. if you are, i'll be here for you and keep it a secrect if you want me too, but are you bi??" remain very calm and let her know it is ok if she is bi, and you will still be her friend. If she says no... ask her why she is all lovey dovey to Anne. If she isn't bi, at least you'll get an explaination for her behavior. Just know nothing will get better if you don't talk to her!! I hope this advice can help you, but if you need anything else, or more suggestions feel free to ask me another question or AIM me at SqueakyShoes567

I wouldn't be too worried about it. Chances are you "popped your cherry" or rather ripped your hymen... which is just a little layer of skin in your vagina... most people think you can't rip it until you have sexual intercourse, but you can rip it by using tampons or excersicing. It's supposed to bleed a little when you rip it! don't worry

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