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im 13/f and whenever i go swimmin i get a little darker and i like my skin tone the way it is how do i go swimmin and still not get a tan?

two words
SUN BLOCK

and a couple more
SPF 50

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My dad is watching porn right now. He does every night because we have lots of channels and at night theres porn. I know for SURE because Ive walked in on him before. And I can see from here. He thinks hes hiding it but hes not. Should I tell my mom my dad watches porn?! what do i do. Ive never told anyone, because its awkward and i dont want my friends to not want to come over my house because they feel weird around my dad. hes a really nice dad/man! I WONT confront him about it, so if you say do that Ill give you a 1..sorry.

Personally,
you shouldn't tell on him
Porn is natural
I mean, they make it for guys
Just let him be, besides
I bet your mom already knows and if she doesn't
it's not that big of a deal.

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How do you get eyeliner to go on your top eyelid? I've tried a million times and it always messes up.

easy.

shut your eye,and kind of press down on it at the end and pull it so it's...flatter
and then
eyeliner away

-socialsuicide

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How do you get over it besides popping the pills?

vodka has a nice effect.
just kidding.
kind of.

-photography
-poetry
-'friends'
-journaling
-self reliance
-hobbies

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is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old?

Nope.
not at all.

infact that wont even matter when you're 20
if that's to any avail

-maddy

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There's this guy I get to see once a week, and I don't talk to him or anything. (we talked once on the phone) During the week, when my mind wanders wherever I think about him. Actually, I think about him A LOT. Like in that one period of time that I get to see him, we both look at each other, kinda like flirting...well, you get what I mean. I have a total obsession with him, but I have to wait till I'm older to go out with him. I love seeing him, but when I don't see him, it drives me absolutely crazy. What can I do about this obsession???

ugh I know what you mean.
it's horrible

take up a hobbie?
err get his number
fa'sho'

--social_suicide

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what is the whitish gooey stuff that comes out of your is it normal? and what is it called what does it do? why is it there ah someone please help.i rate high

my assumption is that you are a girl.
it's discharge.

--reload___BANG

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I need some new bands to get into, because my musical band "vocabulary" is not very large.

I love bands like U2, The Rolling Stones, Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Aerosmith, Coldplay, Bruce Springteen, and Crosby., Stills & Nash.

Any suggestions of other bands I might like? I would really appreciate it.

Thanks.

I'm just going to throw some good music out there

sublime
The stills
Le Tigre
Spitafeild
2 1/2 ninjas


A good thing to do is go to purevolume.com and it'll give you a long list of genres, and what ever you're into click and it'll give you a random band.

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I am getting like pimple looking things on my hairline on my forehead. They look like acne but like its not on my forehead its for like where my hair grows/hairline. Is this zits or is it something else like lice bites or something like it.

ill rate high.

betcha 1 doller it's acne

what the fuck!?
I gave you decent advice and you feel the need to rate me a 2?
I don't care
it's just the fact that that is immature and childish and has no purpose.
The word fuck has lost all of its meaning due to people like you.

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I have a problem where i eat WAY TOO much! but i hate the way I feel afterwards and last spring I stopped eating completely and I loved the way I felt and looked but when i went to camp i just started eating again.... All I can ever think about is food! I'm not fat! (I was actually voted hottest younger sister by my older sister's guy friends!!!) But I'm just uncomfortable with the way I look. I'm on the shorter side with huge boobs that make me look thinner then i am but still... I want to feel thin! HELP ME!!!!

being annorexic isn't pretty.
and it gives you weird body/facial hair

you need some help. from a professional.
that's not right.

--mg

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we all know that air force ones (aka uptowns) eventually get a crease across the front of the shoe. i wanna know A. how to slow down this action and B. know which type of uptown this affecits more, mid tops or low tops

fuck that.
get chuck taylors.

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Can anyone tell me how or show me a website or something that shows you how? Anything will help, thanks.

I can do it
who's a good kisser!?

basically you just use your teeth to hold it down and use your tongue.
navigational skilzz

but I don't think that there's a website known to man that explains that.

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Alright when you go to a show is dorky/weird to wear a shirt of the band you are going to go see? I would think wearing another band's shirt would be rude yet I see other people do it all the time. Is it ok to do either?
Thanks

well, it depends on what show you're going to
I went to Slipknot and saw 574381290195278935789 kids wearing their Slipknot-wear

but yeah it is kind of lame to wear the band you're seeing.

forever opinionated
--mg

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I'm doing an art project on time structures and for a section of it I'm going to be taking action sequences on my camera. That's like a photo every hafl second or something to capture movement.
I need suggestions of what actions I could take the photos of - ideas I already have include someone dancing, a fight, a skate stunt, someone jumping off a wall.
All good suggestions appreciated!

A boy/girl kissing, rain, puddle jumping, someone drinking, cart-wheels

hotdamn.

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Does anybody know the meaning of the song Soul Meets Body? I understand bits and pieces of it, but overall I'm pretty confused of the true meaning.

I'm going to try my hardest to put this into words
I know it, just mentally

basically he's trying to say that he wants to get away from all of the media where it's peaceful and he can love and be loved

err

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15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks

this is going to make me sound racist
but only black-kids say that.

Stay white and you wont have to deal with that frigging lingo.

I get this all the time walking through the 'hood', basically that it means that they would like to converse/talk to you or just kind of look at you and try to get in your pantalones.

--MD20/20

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okay, my hair is very very curly and frizzy and thick its nasty!! i sometimes put hair gel in it and it looks fine and then other times i stirghten it but it still gets frizzy easily. I use hair serum and this one spray to control the frizz but hey im always lookin' for something better can you guys suggest anything?

Yeah my hair is kind of like that
but i tame it

start out by thinning it, you can buy thinning shears to help with this
and use moisterizing shampoos, and I very very much so highly recomend "Aussie 3-minute-miracle Conditioner" It really helps keep your hair less-frizzy and really moist
and if you're going to blow dry your hair, but a product that helps your hair take the heat
there's an aussit product called "Take the heat!"
and when I feel like wearing my curls,
i put in a leave-in-conditioner

--MD20/20

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Please do not delete Im honestly 100% want to know this.
Do you believe in Aliens?
Life on other planets, Aliens.
Thank you.

haha this is going to make me sound so pessemistic
but no I don't.

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Does cocoa butter really help fade stretch marks?

yes indeedy.

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My power is out and Im SO bored!
I NEED something to do.
the way im doing this is on my lap top but I cant plug it in because there isnt power and it only has a little power left! So I cant use it for much longer.
Theres NO lights, fridge, TV, or anything.
Its also cloudy so its dark and theres not a lot of light to see.
Im home alone.
Please give me some ideas of what to do!!

There's a lot of things to do.
Boredom means you have no creativity

Boardgames, writing, reading, uhh sing+dance, invite people over. Human connection doesn't hurt, usually.

If all else fails, you can play "lets set billy on fire!"

--Social suicide

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