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*Name: Shannon Knack
*Age: 15
*Height: 5'7?
*Hair: brownish blonde
*Eyes: blue
*Location: MinnesOta!
*Stats: Single
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But they will always remember how you made them feel ..
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i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho. (link)
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Go for the older guys (they tend to be more mature but .. want more if u catch my drift) and just be yourself .. a guy will come around sooner or later. But you don't need one in your life riiiight now. They don't make you happy trust me. But just be yourself and don't over do it because then they will get to know *you*
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I am a 15 year old girl and i have never had a SERIOUS b/f. I mean its not that im ugly or anything..but i am pretty shy and im not exactly SKINNY. Do you have any tips on how i could get guys to notice me a little bit more? (link)
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The only thing you can really do is just be yourself around them. It's not all about the looks. They should like you for your personality and not just for what you got. You'll find someone that will make you happy and you'll make them happy too! so just be yourself.. and smile .. :-)
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Hey, Ya'll! if a boy ignores you but sometimes look down -n- when you catch him looking at you does that mean he doesn't like you?How can you tell if a guy likes you??
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You can never be sure when a guy likes you! Because they are always so flirty and horny! lol .. But if you always get like a glimpse of a guy lookin at you, he may think your cute;-) hehe and that's a good sign. But usually, guys are really hard to read. The best thing to do, is just ask em!
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- - ok, me and my best guy friend Mike keep getting in fights over shtuff. Like EVERY SINGLE time i talk to him, he has to bring up his girlfriend, who is like one of my friends and he KNOWS I HAVE THIS MAJOR CRUSH ON HIM!! and we always get in a fight over it, cuz how would you feel if you asked your best guy friend out *not the brightest thing to do i guess* and he said no he isn't "ReadY" and then went and asked out your friend..? My god!! and now i dunno what to do, cuz i'm sick of fighting with him......
what do i do?
Signed..
- Stupid Best girl friend (link)
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You're right. That is kind of prickish of him to bring up his girlfriend when he knows you like him. Just, dont let it get to you. I'm assuming that you can do way better than this guy anyway. I mean, when he brings up his g/f .. that's totally a prick move. Just don't worry about it too much. You guys are just friends, and that's all he wants to be right now. As for the fighting, maybe you guys just need a break from eachother for a while. so then you guys don't fight, and you dont have to feel bad everytime he talks about his girlfriend. Then later on when you're both chilled out .. start talkin up again!
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There is this girl that I kind of like. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, but I think she does; the only problem is that I like another girl too. Is it okay to go out with this girl, even though I like somebody else? Thanks, Love Ya (link)
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Well, it'd be fine but it wouldn't be fair to your girlfriend that you like someone else. I mean, everyone has there little crushes on people when they have girlfriends/boyfriends .. but I would just try to stick with one girl. Your g/f might find out somehow .. and that wouldn't be good
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hi shannon this is jay schintz and i was wonderin do you think that i will get a good looking g-f or am i to fat? i need to know this shannon please tell me! :(
-j- (link)
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Sometime in your life, you'll get a good looking girl. You're not too fat at all! just keep on being you and soon you'll find someone that makes you feel good about yourself:-)
xOxO * Shannon
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im 15 and i like this girl alot and she doesnt like me at all so what should i do? (link)
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.. hmm .. maybe talk to her about it or something .. see why she doesn't really like you. Or just move on. Try to forget about her because if she doesn't like you .. then, maybe she's not meant for you.
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im really shy when im around people i dont know that well, its always been a problem for me, i always feel like im gonna make a fool of myself is there any way for me to get over this? (link)
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Just be yourself! and if they don't like it, then screw them!:-)
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I know this isnt exactly a 'friendship' question but my friend is in real trouble. *
Hes 16, his dad is a drunk, hes got a step mom, and brothers and sisters. Hes my ex boyfriend. He doesnt live in the same state as me but his dad beats him. He pukes all the time from it. Its horrible. He cant do anything about it bc everytime he tells someone his dad denys it and says he plays all these sports and he skateboards so he could have gotten them from somewhere else. His dad only beats on him and none of his other brothers and sisters. i dont know what to do but i mean i really want to help him and i really need to help him. he needs to get out of there fast. ive tried havin him go to the cops but his dad uses the same story. nothings. working. someone please help me! i really want to help him out but i dont know how :// im scared for his life. (link)
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It's just like that book. A child called it. Have him go to the police again, or at least have someone else go to the cops for him. Get some evidence.. hide a camera or something somewhere .. and have it on tape ..then send it to the cops .. I hope he's alright.. but u gotta get him safe before his dad outrages .. majorly!:-(
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I'm 14 goin on 15 here soon and the same with this guy I like. We've been best friends ever since I've moved to Texas which is about a year. Our relationship didn't really take off until spring break of 2004. He was the first guy I met in Texas that I had a crush on him and he told me the first time he saw me he wanted me. So we finally told each other this spring break. Since, spring break we've been keep the fire goin, but we haven't kissed or anything like that. The most we've done is flirt big time and hug tons. What should I do to really get this relationship off?? (link)
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Make the first move! maybe he's scared but you don't have to be.:-)
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ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social... (link)
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Not at all! everyone needs a break from everything sometimes. It's always good to get away from the things you are being bothered with. But once you get back, you'll have the same problems again. But it is good to get away for a while. Just relax and don't think about anything that's bothering you!
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My moms over protective what should i do? (link)
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Theres not much to do .. Maybe she just doesn't trust you. Do some things that can really make her trust you!
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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance* (link)
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Call him up, and ask him what's been going through his head .. tell him how you are feeling about the whole situation. Maybe he just doesn't want you to be the center of his world. Not to be harsh, but he might not be the kind of guy that drops everything just to be with his girlfriend. But i'd for sure talk to him about it.
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shannon this is kyle.....i just want you to kno that i dont feel bad about the senior thing anymore.....cause im gay....i dont need you in my life anymore...its all sausage now baby me and some french dude with a huge fucking cock ramming it straight into my gaping asshole
good luck with the older dick,
kyle (link)
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this is not kyle .. the senior thing was like .. 2 months ago .. i'm over that too .. so this isn't kyle for he would actually know the truth
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Okay.. first of all.. I like this guy and when I was sucking on his dick I realized he only had one testicle! okay i don't want a boyfriend with only one testicle. WHAT DO I DO! should i just pretend it never happend? I love you shannon (link)
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lol . that's kinda disturbing .. but do what u want i guess .. tell him it bothers you
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should guys shave their pubes?
love u shannon thanks
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it doesn't really matter much with guys .. don't shave it .. but maybe trim a bit to keep it down
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hollly shit no fucking joke........my nutz...are soooooo fucking uneven is this normal? im not joking shannon my left testicle is hairy and is the size of a orange and my other testicle is bare and its about the size of a quarter ....is this normal...thank you shannon (link)
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well .. testicles are different sizes because more sperm is held in one than the other .. but maybe you should call the doctor or something ..
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I have a boil on my ass the size of a fucking wallnut and i cant get it off. i think it looks hot but my bf said its hideous and dumped me on the spot....so now all i have left is this gaping vagina and a louzy boil on my fucking ass...wut do you suggest i do??
thank you shannon (link)
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go to the doctor and get medication for it .. it'll go away.
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ummm this girl had a hairy bush and she wanted me to eat her out and she will probably want me to do it again cuz i said no the first time - what should i do? how should i move my tongue? please answer back shannon i love u! (link)
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tell her to shave!! ... There are a few basic patterns to use with your mouth and tongue, and a couple simple things to know. First, tease her clitoris and upper labia where they meet her clit with your tongue. Some like this side to side or from beneath the inner labia and clitoris. Some like an all over randomly walking tongue to stroke them in every direction to start with, and don't exert much pressure unless you feel her pulling your head tighter against her, and she may pull QUITE HARD as she discovers her pleasure and then encourage her to tell you at each stage, as it does change from non-arousal to arousal to orgasm, where to be and what to do! Commonly women often express that men seem not to lick under the clit and inner labia enough and spend to much time directly on the two sides of the helmet of the clitoris, and this simply makes them feel numb after a while. So both vary your pressure and your direction of approach with strokes of your tongue. Also, many women complain that men use a pointed tongue across back and forth, when they would like the tongue to be broad and softened and flattened and brought up from beneath. Some women like to have the clitoris and surrounding labia and clitoral hood to be sucked gently and licked while being sucked and they will readily come to orgasm. Others with more spread out genital features may find that too much, and they will need less pressure, not much sucking at all till the end, and the flatter tongue licking up their clitoris from beneath it. In all respects take their word for it, or you may be there all day.
Hope I helped!! lol .. yesssss
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The other night I was with a few friends and I met this guy that I really started to like.. he seemed like a totally awesome guy and I wanted to get to know him better.. and I guess I kinda did :-\ we did alot of stuff that I now regret ALOT .. he wants to hang out again soon.. and probably go even farther.. I really thought I liked him but now he makes me feel really uncomfortable.. I don't know what to do!!
.. Meghann 8) (link)
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First off, don't regret anything because it happened for a reason. It was a mistake and you can learn from your mistakes. If i were you, I would tell him straight out that you don't wanna do anything with him anymore because it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he doesn't understand then tell him you need time to decide if you like him or not. It's all up to you and I think u can make the right choice and decide for yourself how you wanna handle it! Good lucko!
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