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Howdy my name is Shelby, and I am seventeen years old. Im blonde blue eyed and really short. I am great at giving advice, because I have had to take so much of it. I will answer ANY questions you need me to answer. I can give teens better advice than anybody. So come on ask me for some advice, Ill help you! =]]]]
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 17
Member Since: March 19, 2009
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Last Update: March 22, 2009
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i did that already i was nice about it he said that i would alwaYs be a hoe in his eyes because i use to go with him (link)
Hahaha. Well here's my opinion, this guy is a complete retard. Im sure you're a great girl, not a hoe. Since you've done that already, now every time you hear something negative come out of his mouth, just say something like "Dang you're such a loser, seeing as how all you ever want to do is mess with a hoe's life." That should get to him. You know that he still cares for you otherwise he wouldn't mess with you. If your guy breaks it off with you because this loser guy then don't sweat it and find yourself like some Hollister model. LOL!

You'll get through it. You've gotta friend in me anytime you need some help, I got you.




I have this really embarrassing problem..I'm a female in my early 20's and I have a flatulence problem. I don't know why or what is wrong. I pass gas about 5 times more than the average person. (lol) Ugh, put it this way I must pass gas about 70 times a day. I can control it and everything but if I hold it in I feel like .. I'm going to blow up (haha..) but anyway I really need some advice I don't know what to do. Is it a medical problem? Should I see a doctor? :/


Thanks (link)
It's actually okay, you're prolly just eating the wrong foods.


whenever i use a certain type of shampoo such as aussie or garder frutus, my roots get super greasy..can someone tell me why? (link)
It's probably because you aren't washing all of the shampoo out or if you use a straightener the steam causes your scalp to sweat so that could be it. Or maybe just try using a different shampoo like Pantene.


When i turn 17 i want to move in with my boyfriend whose 18 . Would that be legal? (link)
Yes.


15/f
well, about a week ago i got two pinkish blotches on my right boob and i have a bump connected to my nip, and a scab on the skin around my nip. i havent had sex in two months, so its nothin from that. i go to the beach a lot and thats about all i could think it could be from. its startin to freak me out though, some one help! (link)
It's probably just a rash, if it gets outta control see your doctor.


okey so theres this guys at my sschool and i liked him for a long time. & i told my friend who then told him but then i told the kid that i didnt like him. then i started to not like him, i dont know why. but i stopped. now that i stopped and he knows i dont like him anymore, he is talking to me more & like today he like stepped in front of me quickly to scare me. & im really confused b/c i thought he didnt like me. but at the beginning of the year he liked me i think b/c he flirted w/ me..... or at least it seemed like it so maybe he didnt like me. but my question is, i want him to like me. so how can i do it? i cant text him b/c when i do, he barely texts back in a way i can reply. bad texter i think. what flirty things can i do that send him a flirty message but dont straight out say "i like you!"? thanks.
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Smile at him A LOT!!! Send him notes, etc. If that doesn't work, just get the courage to tell him you like him.



Ok, I haven't told anybody this...
It's hard to even write on the net, even though I
don't know any of you.

Here gos.
When I was 7, my uncle molested me.
I didn't tell anybody because I was ashamed, scared,
embarrassed, the list gos on!

I want something to be done about it.
Now that I'm older, and I could take it if he beat
me up, I've had my share of fights...
Actually, many people's share of fights.
But that's beside that point...

I want him to go to jail or something.
How do I know he isn't out there fuckin' molesting
some other poor soul. I don't want anybody else
to go through what I did.

So, if I told somebody, would they do something
about it, even though it's been years since it
happened??

I need to know, because if it's too late, I don't
want to go to the cops and tell them if they can't
do anything about it.

Advice? (link)
Its definitly not too late. Get your but to the police and tell them!


Recently got an ipod touch for my birthday and it is amazing. it's like a mini computer...with everything possible i need/want.

Unfortunately wifi isn't available everywhere, but i'll get over that soon.

I know i can listen to music, videos and surf the web, etc on it. But what else can i do?

Right now itunes isn't available where i live (yes i know boo-hoo)...so i can't download apps and such.

can i download boooks from scribd.com onto it? I saw you could but i didn't want to risk it.

Also where can i download tv shows (for free) to put on it?
Anything else fun to do with it? (link)
Go to the web on your ipod and type in itunes and download it to your ipod


My room is Tan with darker tan trim i have lions and other african animals around my room but i want to change it up a bit without having to paint it againsince i only have a year and a half in here until i move out. im 17 && female
I want it to still be pretty much africa theme but i want like photography somehow mixed into it if you could find like pictures or a site to help me out with decorating...im also trying to decide if i should like paint a lion or something on my wall above my bed. Not the body but just a big lion head. what do you think?

help
any ideas would be helpful (link)
Howdy girl! I recently redid my room maybe 4 days ago, I am also 17 years old so I know how bad you want the room of your dreams before you grow up! So here are a few ideas.

Pepto Bismol pink walls with a Zebra ceiling,
Or the color of your choice with a leopard ceiling.
Here are some pics of my room:
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=31333115&albumId=2749482
Just go to this link to my Myspace and take a look!

Then theres another theme get 3 quarts of 3 different colors of paint, lime green, pink, and blue.
Then have the wall above your bed zebra so its kinda girly but exotic!

Have fun girl!
I am studying to be an interior decorator so if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.

Shelby


Ok I really need to redo my room but the problem is I don't know what I want the theme or color to be. I was thinking about a zebra print theme or peace theme or love theme or nature theme or maybe not a theme at all. I really need some ideas.I want my room to be really cool and be MY room.I was thinking of getting a painting or something in my room to base the colors and theme off of that. i am 15 years old female.Is there a website I can go to to see cool ideas and order things from? (link)
Hey girl! I am 17 years old and I just did my room like 4 days ago. I did the pink zebra thing, and I absolutely LOVE it! I did my walls like a pepto bismol pink and the ceiling zebra here girl ill send you some pictures to give you and idea!

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=31333115&albumId=2749482

Just go here to my Myspace and you can see it!

GOODLUCK!

Shelby


16/f

I've been friends with this boy for almost 4 months. Its got complictated to the point where he tells me he loves me and we talked all the time on the phone and through texts and everything and we were both really close. Suddenly, about a month ago he says he wanted a break, not just from me, but from everyone he said. I told him that he could cause i just wanted everything to be back to normal but he ended up not taking the break because he said that "he couldnt not talk to me", upon hearing this i got extremly happy. But, ever since this time things have not been the same. I havent talked to him on the phone like we used to and he doesnt really text me at all...I usually text him in the morning to say good morning and we will talk a little before school and usually he would text me after he was done school because his school got out later than me. He stopped doing that so i just text him before bed to say goodnight and he will say goodnight i love you.
My brother just left for afghanistan during the midst of all this and he knows ive been upset and he would usually call me and make it better but he stopped doing that and ive tried to ask him if something was wrong but he always says that nothing has changed between us when obvisously something has.
My question now is should i try to keep talking to him about it or is this the point at which i say its over?
Help please, I'm really confused. I dont want to lose him but its really making me upset

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I think you should end it and find a new guy.
There are many guys out there, he may be talking to other girls.

Shelby


So theres this guy I recently met from my biblestudy group.
When I first met him he was really cute and was always looking at me,
But whenever I catch him he looks away.
When the group was over, He started talking to me, and asked me for my number, so I gave it to him and he texted me that very night.
I texted him back and we talked for a bit, he asked me if I was going to group next week and I told him I was, and he said great.
So I saw him yesterday at the group, and again he was always smiling at me, and when we went around to pray (pray circle)he stod right behind me, tapped my shoulder and kept trying to make me laugh. which he did. He gave me playful pushes and when we were outside, talked to me quiet a bit. after it ended he texted me somtime after, then told me he had to tell me somthing, and I asked what, he said He thought I was 'really' cute. (whats up with the lines? 'really'?)
and that he really wanted to tell me that. he gets irritated if I dont text him back right away and is like, fine iggnore me :(
and I'm like.. I just texted you back.
and he's like no i was just kidding..
I told him he must attract all the other girls and he said no he doesnt,
(but he could be lying.) but he said I must, and That I would have got his attention.. I dont know, Maybe hes just a player.
I dont know if he just started talking to me beacuse I was paying attention to this other guy whenever we go and he's always trying to get my attention.. is it beacuse he likes me, or do players do this all the time? PLEAASEE HELP ! (link)
He's no player, it just seems he might be obsessed. Just watch for it girl, if you keep me posted on how he acts towards you I will be able to help you with this more and more

Shelby


I had surgery and the gave me vicaden (or however you spell it)
I know its for pain relief but why is it such a popular drug everyone wants even if they have no pain? (link)
It helps for sleep.
Bad pain
and a high.


so my boyfriend of almsot two years and i just broke up last week. i was insanely hurt, still kinda am, but im making it. i want to put a line from a song on my myspace status, but i cant think of any specific ones. obviously it cant be very long, but i basically want it to state that, yeah im hurt and it sucks, but im living my life and getting through the days just fine. or something to make him regret giving me up. haha i know that's bad but it helps.

can anyone think of any specific lines or songs that i could choose from?
i mainly listen to rock and country. (link)
If you really want to make it seem like you don't care, use this one.

"I ain't your swinging door" by Catherine Britt.
It's a good song you should find it on Myspace and listen to it before using it though.

Or....

Use Dierks Bentleys "How am I doin'?"
It's also good! =]

Goodluck,
Shelby


now i was dating this guy it dident work out so i talk to his brother is that a hoe so me and the brother has a good relationshop he wants to have a baby but the brothr i use to talk to is telling him lies and he's believing it and when i call he tells him im some one else and when he tells him this he believes now this is hearting me please tell me what to do im 17 years old and female airiel (link)
Girl you are way too young to be having kids.
I recomend getting out of the relationship, FAST! Believe me, Im 17 years old too and ive got my whole life ahead of me to have kids. So forget this loser family (brothers) and move on to someone else.


okay, i'm a 15 year old female. i'm still in school and i need help on finding out what i wish to be. i really really love english and writing (and money (lol), so i think i want to go into that feild. i dont want to be a teacher, and im not really into the whole write for the newspaper as a job. i also love to read by the way. i would love for someone to give me some help or give me a couple choices on jobs including english/listerature. I am going to go to college for this. (link)
Magazines? Write a book and try to get it published.


I am going to try using tampons for the first time. Is it ok to practice putting one in when you dont have your period? (link)
No! It may involve Toxic Shock Syndrome.


So my best friend is turning 15 in a few days. I need some ideas on what to get her or do for her. I'm only 14 so I can't go expensive since I'm not very rich. I wanted to make her something. We've been best friends for like 7 years so I wanted to do something special for her. I'm thinking of trying to make a slideshow and have some pics on there but I don't really know how I can do it. I have pics from when we were younger and pics from now. So I could use both but how should I? If there are any other ideas you have please let me know. Thanks! (link)
Hey girl! Instead of a slide show, go to a local superstore like Wal-Mart and get a her a photobook or scrapbook and decorate it!


Theres dis guy he said he loved me we was hangin out everyday for like a month then he stoped talkin to me he called me like 3 days ago which was the first time in like 3 months he did dis stuff b4 we would get close then he would stop talkin to me then he would get a gf then when he broke up wit her he would call me im in love wit him should i keep talkin to him it hurts every time he does it makes me cry wat should i do Thanks 4 any advice (link)
Im so sorry to say this but, he doesn't really love you. Like most guys if he's not interested in being with you more like getting with you, he's just looking to you to be his booty call. I would advise you to stop talking to him all together and find yourself a guy that will, care for you not your looks or your hook ups. You'll find a new guy, just give it time.


I have a competition in may and part of the competition is singing. I want to pick a song that will BLOW the agents and the audiance out of the water. It has to be something Some what unique that they havent hurrrd too often.

Types of artists i can smostly sing
Toni braxton
Christina aguilera
Mariah carey
Norah jones
Mandy moore

things like that!

PLEASE HELP ILL RATE HIGH! (link)
I recomend Bonnie Raitt. She's got some awesome songs!




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