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before my current boyfriend, i had slept with two guys.
one guy twice, and one guy once, so only 3 times.
my boyfriends good in bed, but even though its feels good,
i never orgasm from him.
i've actually never orgasmed during sex...
am i doing something wrong or what?
i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want him to think he's doing a bad job.

any help would be much appreciated. (link)
No your not doing anything wrong you just are unable to truly let your self go and trust them


ok im 14/f and i have known this guy that since 6th grade. 7th grade we had this fling. we would hang out after school and do intiment stuff then he told me if i gave him a few days to think he might ask me out. but then he wound up going out with this girl who was supose to be my friend. but 8th grade came along and they were together for the entire year. they were almost to their 2year aniverery but they broke up. and now he wants to do a fling again and im all for it. but im afraid hes going to break my heart again. any advice? (link)
He is an ass stay away from him u are 14 thier are tons of guys that are better that you can be with forget him


so say that ur parent wanted youto get checked out to see if you had sex. i hear that they cant tell and such. but i want to know if they really could or not i havnt had sex but, if i have masturbated with my fingers wouldnt tht still break stuff w.e or not and wit tampons like i tryed using them a couple of times. and say that you tried having sex but just the tip of the penis went inside you could they still see that??? (link)
No they can not tell because sometimes the cherry is accidently poped from like splits or tampon or something like that and no if you masterbate it does not pop you cherry i did it before i had sex and when i had sex the guys penis popped my cherry so no it doesnt but you might actually want to pop your cherry before you have sex because if you don't when the guy does it it can make the sex extremly painful mine was


how do girls cum??
or nutt?? (link)
Girls cum when they have an orgasm


so, i had sex for the first time about a week ago. it was really weird and sudden. and it was with someone who ive been friends for almost two years. he means a lot to me, and im sure i mean a lot to him. but its not like we go out, or even really planned on it. i mean, i always wanted to date him and we talked about it, but you'd think we'd be going out by now. we have that thing for eachother, i dont wanna call it friends with benefits, because its friends who hookup, with feelings. awkward, i know. but i kinda feel really stupid now and bad i let him take it. he's been wanting to since we started talking. and i dont know if i just gave in or i wanted to. i mean i wanted to, but now im so stressed. i feel like he's always used me just for ass... what do i do?! (link)
O man this sounds so similur to my story ok so to give you advice im ganna tell you mine ok this guy who is two years older than me used to flirt with me every day for like 2 years and i thought he was cute but i never thought i would date him i got a cell phone and then he asked me for my number and totally like me we wear friends with fellings who made out and kissed and acted like bf and gf he took my virginity come to find out he had other girls and he never asked me out once and we ended up having sex agian and he made fun of me behind my back and told everyone at school about us and lied about stuff i did he is an ass and i never talk to him anymore i'm sorry but most likely this isn't going to end well it sucks and it sounds like he fucked you over my suggestion is try to get him to be in a relationship with you if he doesn't want to be then don't give him the time of day because if he refuses then he was just after your virginity and ya it sucks but it is wut it is and all you can do is move on and show him your better than him


For the last few months, I've had this ricidulous urge to become pregnant (I'm only 16). At first I thought it was a phase but lately all I think about is how wonderful it would be to have a child. I understand how insane this is; I don't have a job, I haven't even finished high school yet and I'm certainly not ready for a baby.
I started birth control 3 months ago and take it religiously but one night I had sex with my boyfriend and for some reason he was freaked out that I would get pregnant. All I could think about was how happy I would be if I was.
I've also had a few dreams about being pregnant and having miscarriages (over the past 6 months-not consistently)
This doesn't seem normal to me and I want these thoughts to stop. I would never do anything intentional to get pregnant so thats not the issue, trying to find a way to stop this crazy idea is what's bothering me. I don't want to be pregnant because of Jamie Lynn Spears or because I'm trying keep my boyfriend around (we have a healthy relationship). Is it a possibility that it could just be hormones and I will get out of this phase? :/ Thanks. (link)
Its cool its fine i was like that and still kind of am lots of people at my high school has been pregnant and i wanted to be pregnant i thought it would be a fun expierence and i love kids i have 4 nephews so i was a bit jelous of even my sisters i used condoms when i had sex with my guy but sometimes i would wish i would get pregnant also to have a better connection with my guy but ya it will stop and you will realize being pregnant so young is a bad idea im 17 by the way so ya i was in the same boat


what are some things you girls say to make your man want you. now i'm not going to be saying this to a boyfriend because i dont have one but i AM going to take your advice on a situation. i'm just in need of some "comments" to say that lets a guy know you want to become sexual with him without it being totally random. maybe in a text, maybe in person? we're both attracted to each other obviously but i just dont know how to bring it up in a hot kind of way that will make him think "wowwww, that turns me on" haha anything will help!

18/f by the way (link)
Just be honest tell him he turns you on and you love it when he touches you and kisses you and tell him how hot he makes you feel and it will turn him on a lot


heyaaa female 17!

thanks for reading :D

i had unprotected sex , i no its wrong but its done now, and he told he didnt cum but i think he did coz he stopped after he said he didnt , 3 days after im starting too feel ill, icould just be me thinking about it , could i be pregant or watever sti? (link)
Ok you can't show signs of being pregnant 3 days later it is all in your head and my suggestion to you is not to worry about it because most likely it was just you and everything will be fine if you still feel this way in about a month take a pregnancy test but for now just let it go


I get how there is a difference between being on top and being on bottom during sex but like does there really make a difference. What would you say most girls prefer and why? and guys, what do you prefer and why? Also, what would you suggest [top or bottom] for your first time. (link)
Ok i'm a girl and on my first time we did guy on top because its the first time and it does kind of make it more special but after your first time i recomend mixing it up doing differn't positions but it depends on the girl weather they like girl on top i myself am not a big fan of it i feel kind of self causous and i like it better when my man has power over me so i like man on top better and for your girl for your first time i suggest you be on top




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