I am a legal expert during the day and a philosopher at night, but I'm also a friend and counselor to many, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
My name is Shawn, I am 22 years old, and I am from Chicago, Illinois. I work at a law firm as a paralegal and legal specialist, while in the evening, I am currently studying at a law school.
Gender: Male
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Occupation: Paralegal
Age: 22
Member Since: February 18, 2009
Answers: 32
Last Update: February 19, 2009
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I am 15f, my boyfriend is 16m.
Whenever i give him a blowjob/handjob.. i sometimes feel like when i am using my hand that he isn't staying hard ... but when i suck he does. Any reason for this...
Yesterday when we were doing this , i was using my hand and he all of a sudden pulled away and put his dick back into his pants... and started making out with me.. i think he like lost hardness... i dont know what it is. i am just curious. we havent had sex so i do not know how it is with that.... i am a virgin he is not. (link)
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Either he doesn't like it, or doesn't like
how you're doing it.
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I'm an 18 year old male.
I am overweight, but I would really like to lose weight. What are some way I could do this without using pills? (link)
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Well, buddy. The best way to do it, is the
good old-fashioned way. Nutritional, diet,
and exercise.
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im 16 & im a size 32A bra. im not by no means flat, but im not exactly a B. im pretty self conscious about it .. but do the majority of guys not like small boobs? (link)
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Actually, some of us like them.
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do guys think its weird that girls have periods? like do they laugh about it?
ik its a dumb question, but ive always just wanted to know! haha (link)
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Not at all. We just get nervous when they
happen...
Just kidding.
In my mind, it's normal. I don't think about
it at all, really.
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there is this girl who cant wear jeans because of her religion. what is this religion called? (link)
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United Pentacostal Church, International.
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hiya, im 20 i have a boyfriend of 2yrs, we are not that close anymore, we keep arguing etc and i try to leave him but i cant. anyway, i know this guy whoa 29, married with 2 children. his mum has just passed away after having cancer [she was a close family friend] i see him often and we are really close and have loads in common. we both want each other and are always flirting & touching. we always text each other and he has told me he is having the 7 yr itch with his wife [they dont really get on, she is a bitch] anyway last night we got carried away and he has his hands down my bra and we kissed. it was so amazing, never felt anything like it before with my bf. we both want each other so much, its being going on for about 3/4 months but this is the first time i havent hidden my feelings and kissed him. i dont regret it at all but im so confused. he is just using me to try and get some sex or does he genuinly like me? he always says we have loads in common and he worries about me when i go out drinking etc.
i think i might be falling for him and have no idea what to do!!
emma xx [uk] (link)
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Well Emma, it sounds like he's using you to make
up for what he's not getting out of his marriage.
My advice is that you don't allow yourself to become
an object. You can become emotionally hurt by the
catastrophic results that situations like these
always seem to bring about.
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Ok im a girl and i have mastrobated and popped my cherry, am i still a virgin? Also can a guy tell if you are a virgin or not. I want to know because when i decide to have sex i don't know how to explain that i mastrobate. (link)
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I feel that when you're ready to become physical,
the topic as to whether you perform the other act
or not will be irrelevant due your emotional
maturity that both you and your partner will have
at the time you've made said choice.
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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about three years and she is the one who first brought up the idea of a three some so how do i get her to follow through (link)
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I must advise against you both pursuing this,
unless the relationship at hand is only for
purposes similar to what's mentioned in your
question.
It can do bad damage to your bond with one
another.
Think with your mind, not with your wishes.
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what are some online sites that pay you for taking surveys?
like good amount of money too.
thanksss ! (link)
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Be careful with those. The majority of those
are scams, and could actually cause you to
endure financial harm instead of benefit.
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Okay , So i am pregnant at 14!!! I am a christan and i no i was not suppoed to do this but i was broght into temptation.. and i am not sure how to tell my parents or my church family? Will i have to move to a different church? (link)
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At how young you are, it is highly recommended
that you look into getting an abortion. The sooner
you let your family and a counselor know about
what's going on, the easier the transition for
everything will be to you.
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I lost my virginity over the weekend. I'm not sure if he broke my hymen or not, it did hurt some but it was very very short.
It's been two days. It hurt a lot "down there" and for the last two days, it burns when I pee and sometimes just randomly. Is this normal? (link)
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The burning sensation could be a symptom of
some bad news. I suggest that you set up
a doctor's appointment soon.
Best Wishes.
-Shawn-
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How can i add a buddy on my buddy list on iloveim.com? i dont know how it doesnt tell me where to go.THANK YOU!! (link)
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I have no clue, but if you're looking for a
good web-based aim service provider try meebo.com
It makes adding buddies so much easier.
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