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Q: When we make out, my boyfriend starts to move his hands up my shirt and/or down my pants. weve onlu been going out for a month. is this too early?

I dont think so. If you dont mind, it shouldn't be.

Q: Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!

You've heard this abillion times, but you need to tell someone. or else, wait for him to find someone else his own age. untill then, wear pants, ignore him, etc. just stay away from him.

Q: Okay, stupid question: what is french kissing?

It's when you put your tounge in the other person's mouth.

Q: My bf's been hinting that he wants me to give him a blow job, but im not sure. i want to, but im not sure . we've been going out for 3 months. thnx

If you want to, then you should. see how easy that was? It's fun for the both of you ;)

Q: does any one know how to lose like 10 pounds in like a week...i have a party comming up and i want to look a little "less" in my dress...thanks..
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There's a scientific way to do it (I know, me and scientific?) you need to go to one of those website that can tell you how many calories you need a day to stay the same weight, and then eat less and exercise more so that the total for one day is 500 less than normal. for each 500 calories less it is, you loose one pound. it's something like that anyway. but dont try to loose it all in like 2 days, or become anorexic or anything. Have fun at your party!

Q: My bf and i have only been going out for a month, and we're already kissing. Sometimes, when we kiss, he'll run his hand up my shirt and stuff. Like, the other day, we were alone at his house, and we were making out, and he started to stick his hand down my pants. I don't think we're going tooooo fast, but would me thinking that make me a slut?

If you dont think it's too fast, then its not. all that matters is what u think anyway. and you are only a slut if you sleep around. if u think it's fine, and that's what matters, as long as you dont go telling everyone.

Q: My boyfriend wants me to sleep with him, but i dont know if i should. i love him, and i know he feels the same way about me, but im not sure. we're both 16, btw.

Then sleep with him, but dont have sex with him. It's that easy! But make sure he's not just saying he loves you, and isn't a loser like that, u know what i mean?

Q: Ok, well my parents dont really approve of my boyfriend, just because he's 3 years older than me, but he's really nice, but they wont even let me see him. i know how to tell them he's not like that. i love him, and he loves me. what can i do?

The perfect answer: be sneaky. have him over when they're not around, or sneak out to see him if you get home before them and he lives nearby. or, if possible, sneak around at school. Tip: lunch time is a good time.

Q: ok so i have this friend... we were best friends last year and the year before but when school started this year she ditched me for this new girl even though i did nothing! and so now- shes moving in march! and she called me and im the only person that knows and she hasnt even told her new best friend and she told me im still her best friend forever and she just was hanging out with that girl because we are on different teams and she is all alone! and so yeah but then we got back to school and she started ditching me again so i am thinking about just telling her wtf we are not best friends but i dont know wahat to do!

Either she didn't mean to really ditch you, or it's her nice way of saying she's moved on. U need to find some new friends either way, because she's moving anyway, and then you still wont have her around. If you need to know what it is, just sit down and talk to her for a while and find out whats on her mind. remember the truth hurts, so u dont always wanna hear it.

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