Hey. I'm Seshlover.
I'm a completely dreamy/doesn't-know-what's-going-on girl who lives in her own head.
My life is way too busy, but I think I like it that way.
Nothing ever remains constant so I don't really know what to type here. I guess I will just tell you what I thought to seconds ago, lol: The only thing that has remained constant thru my life until today is that I am straight (but definitely NOT homophobic, I LOVE ANYTHING YAOI!!)..... And so utterly straight that if I were a guy, I would be gay!
I fell in love with this guy when I was 13 and am still in love, now this may have been 2 months ago or 7 years ago, or actually anywhere in the between, lol~ I don't know if I will ever get over him.
I write Romance stories and I am a part time Autuor under pseudonym
I am here to help anyone and everyone so please do not hesitate to ask me anything!
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I've been at college for a about 5 weeks and i was just getting over being homesick when parents weekend came. Well my parents just left and now i'm super homesick again. I go home for break in like 2 weeks so thats good but how can i stop being so homesick. it doesn't help that i haven't really adjusted yet and i'm having trouble making friends- which i also don't know what to do about. yes i've made some friends but not a lot.
please help! thanks! (link)
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Jump into work. I felt that that really helped. Make yourself busy so that you don't have time to think about being homesick.
Although i'm sure you don't need to think of things to do, college is no easy feat.
Seshlover.
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Hi, I was just wondering are there any remedies to make my hair grow faster. Maybe some vitamins or shampoos. Anything that worked for you, I am open to new ideas.
Thanks a lot. GOD Bless!!1 (link)
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Oil, Oil, Oil.
I know some people are opposed to using oil in their hair. But if you want it long this is really it...All the vitamins your hair needs are contained in that small bottle of olive oil. You can use coconut oil as well, works even better i think.
Just wash your hair at night and apply it. and wash it of in the morning.(a thorough wash)
Do it about twice a week, maximum thrice.
And comb your hair alot, gently and alot,
I don't know if the combing hair thing works but rumor has it that it does...
Good luck!!!
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I recently straightened my hair permanently. And now, I am getting hair loss and my hair is thinning! what should i do??? please dont say "go to a doctor" because i am not going to go to a doctor. any other advices?? (link)
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Change your shampoo.
Once you've permanently done something, it changes the way your hair reacts to the substances and chemicals in the shampoo. Talk to an attendant at the mall, or center where you buy at, maybe they'll know something about brands and types.
Maybe Head and shoulders - Hair loss
Also I would apply oil, just to be on the safe side. Put it on before you go to sleep and (put a towel on your pillow)wash it off the next morning.
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So October 12 is going to be the one month anniversary for me and my boyfriend :) I'm excited, but I was wondering if anyone could give me some ideas as to what I should give or make him to celebrate? Any ideas for how to spend the day together, like what to do?
We live next door which means we get to see each other a fair amount of time, so we haven't exactly been on an official "date" because we just hang out at each other's houses. But I'd like to do something a little special. Thanks! (link)
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A nice home-made dinner and a pretty hand-made card.
Make everything because it shows that you care enough to spend the time rather than go spend a $ or 2 on it.
Also if you want to present him with something, don't make it to big, leave that for his birthday. Maybe if he like books, give him the latest good one on the market... Like maybe The lost Symbol, by Dan Brown...Unless he's already read it...
Have fun and good luck!
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OK. His name is Robert, but I call him Rabbit. We've known each other for a year and a half now. We've never met in person, but we've somehow fallin in love over all this time. He is my dream guy. Looks & Attitude. I adore him and he adores me too. We are always talking on the phone and being retarded together on txt messages. We've already promised each other we'll get married after high school, but during the time we can date other people. Our relationship is really complicated. I can't see myself with anyone else and yet everytime he says we're finally going to meet something comes up. I don't know what to do. He told me to move on and forget about him, but I love him so much and he's just everything i've ever wanted in a guy. We're both really jealous people and we talk about everything. Including other relationships. I just know that he'll do anything for me. I really wish me and him can be together forreal, but every single time we try to meet something comes up to where we can't meet. I've waited this long for him and I just don't know what to do. I've been through hell and back with him and all the other guys i've dated just don't seem to even get as close as he is to treating me right. I know he's worth the wait, but everytime I get with another guy they do something stupid to where all I can think about is being with him. What should I do? I don't want anybody else besides him, but at the same time i'm tired of waiting. Somebody please tell me what to do. :( (link)
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It's hard, I know. I actually had the same problem a little while ago, except we didn't get our happy ever after. My parents didn't approve and he had a few complications as well.
But I'm sure you'll be able to do this!
Don't let him shut you out of his life, Tell him you WILL NOT forget about him, that you love him!
Remind him that he promised you, he gave you his word!
It'll get easier after the first time you guys see each other.
It's kinda the last piece of the puzzle.
Insist and insist on seeing him and don't stop until you do! don't let anything stopping you come in your way. This is important to you!
This guy is worth it in your eyes right??
So girl what r u waiting for??
Go and get your happily ever after!!!
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Alright so there's this kid in two of my classes who's wicked cute, and I wanted to get to know him better. From what i've heard though:he'll flirt with any girl. But i have a feeling he's just one of those "wanna be" players, like he's the kind of guy that trys to act all cool at first when in reality he has no idea what he's doing :P. So i know when guys are flirts, they usually like girls that play hard to get or tease them. I've been doing that, but i want him to fall for me, not just think i'm a game. He gave me his number and told me to text him, so i did. He told me he thought i was gorgeous,which made me obviously in a good mood XD. But i'm afraid that to this guy, i'm just another cute girl, as the many others he talks to.I was talking to him and he was like " i could beat you up!" (jokingly) and i was like "Psh, i'd dominate your a$$" and then he said "In bed" ,causing me to say "Well thats a given" -- But i was joking, obviously,haha! i don't just want a hookup with him :( So! Question is! How in the WORLD do i get this guy to focus on me and only me!? He seems like he's actually kind of a sensitive guy underneath it all :P How can i tell if he just wants a hookup? How can i make him NOT just want a hookup with me? Should i even bother with him? Please help ! haha :P! (link)
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Yes you should bother! Sounds like you have a pretty good relationship going....now make it seem that you are the only girl for him.
Make it so that he doesn't go through a day without thinking of you..... whether it be of friendship first...
If he just wants to hookup, you'll be able to tell in the casual way of his manner not as serious or caring. It's in a girls instinct, you'll be able to tell.... This'll be easier since you want this(right?)
Any guy who's cute will flirt don't worry about that.
And him giving you his number is a good thing...unless he gives it to all girls??
I want to believe that every guy is a sensitive guy underneath...and it's true for many of them, you just need to find a way to make him think of you that way...
Just show that you care for him. That if he's at the end of the world you'll be there for him.
Once you're his girl, he'll stay away from the other girls becuase he'll know you're the only one for him!
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I just asked WHERE I can get a good halloween costume but this one is different because I want ideas on WHAT I should dress up as! I thought about like an angel but I'm not sure if that is good enough. I want something a little unique but hott so I can get everybody's attention at the halloween party. Does anyone have really good Halloween costume ideas? (link)
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I think you should be a gypsy!
Wear a tropical printed or maybe full pleated skirt and a scarf in your hair as a hairband.
Maybe a few briads and some strands behind yor ears.
Long beaded necklaces and loads of bangles!
Tie a scarf or 2 around you waist as well (colorful ones!)
Huge ring earrings to finish it of....
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So, apparently I caught the H1N1 swine flu last week (verified by my doctor; yes, he ran some tests for it). It was pretty awful but aren't all flus? Anyway, do I still need the H1N1 swine flu vaccine? I mean, if I already overcame it, it means I'm immune for this year, right? I'm still getting a seasonal flu shot, but do I actually need the specific H1N1 vaccination? (link)
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Once your body has developed the anti-body for the flu or infection, it should never bother you again, example. chicken pox...or scarlet fever.....
Vacine's are just after all a weakened form of the diease so that your body can create an anti-body for it, so technically youre completley safe!! But it might combine with another diease.
So you're immune to H1NI, but JUST H1N1.
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There's this guy in my school and I didn't know much about him until the Winter Formal dance and he danced with me twice! well, i didn't think much of it cuz that happens all th time but then he came to my play and said i did really good and laughed at my lame jokes. This is where it gets weird that night I dreamed about him that I was going out with him. I had that same dream 3 nights in a row. I really want to talk to him before school gets out, but he's not in any of my classes, and my friends nor I hang out with him, I just want to know more about him, but im WAY tooo afraid to just walk up to him!!! Please help me!!! (link)
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Ask around, you must know people that you don't hang out with. Anyone will do, just to find out the basic information, or maybe you can add him on facebook...provided you both have it.... Then talk there and maybe you can comment on whatever he said, in person as a conversation starter, and then maybe ask him out... casually to a movie or something or a hang out with a bunch of friends then get him to like you properly enough to ask you out formally. Fall in love. Live happily ever after. I hope ^_^
Good luck!
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i am recently thinking about buying a laptop but i cant decide because im a first time buyer though i know quite a bit about laptops but still i would like some help. so any suggestions. i really dont want a mac. and im really looking for a lot of harddrive and all that because i download ALOT of music and i edit pictures and i would put a lot of pictures on the computer. plus sometimes i play games. so yeah. any suggestions? (link)
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Well first think about the brand, that's the part that matters. You should probably buy from Toshiba or HP or one of the well known brands but be careful becuase although Dell is well known, it doesn't produce their own laptops.
About 2GB of RAM is important if you're purchasing a Vista computer...Which you probably are, I don't think many XP'S are in the market.
You should look for 160 GB minimum, or probably higher for your Harddisk storage.
Ask about the wireless connections, and get a size of screen most suitable to you. you don't wanna buy a 15 inch screen and then get a back-ache from lugging it about town.
Smaller laptops are far more efficient and the battery lasts longer.
Check the touchpad, and buy and extra laptop mouse. This part of the computer is the thing that would probably die first (sorry i don't know how else to phrase it). Laptops usually have a long lasting life, longer than your taste for that laptop anyway, and the mouse is gonna end before that.
Notice all the diskdrives and usb insertions...The network card entrance... wire internet connection is all included.
I think i've written everything I could think of. Sorry if this is not what you wanted!
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so me and my gf plan on moving in together. She babysits for her roomate who really doesnt deserve kids because she is always working and when she gets home she goes to bed she puts them to bed also. So my gf is stuck watching them most of the time. When we move out she said she will prolly have to still do it because of a program (long story but yeah) and I wanna move out and start our own family is she gona be stuck with the kids all the time and the little one shes kinda attached to she said he would stay atleast one night a week and sleep in our bed and the way we would sleep is he would be on her side and shed be cuddling up next to him and I would be pretty much sleeping alone on my side of the bed. If she still has to babysit him do you think we wont stay? I am not jealous of the kids but I thought us moving out things would change which she said. And sometimes her roomate gets mad and says she wont be watching the kids so what do I do?? I wanna talk to her but how can I not make her mad? (link)
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You talk to her. Explain how you feel first and then tell her that moving in together and starting a family is a huge deal. Her roommate should manage for her own kids... you need her more then them right now...Let the sleeping with the kid pass for this time, there's nothing you can do, but try tell her that it makes you uncomfortable. Explain clearly that you are not jealous, that's very important.
If you don't want to make her mad, you should probably practice the speech a few times and write it in the way it would appeal to her, she's your girlfriend, you should know...
Tell her that you just want an equal part of her time and you appreciate what she's doing for her roommate.....
I hope it works, She loves you, She'll understand! Good luck!
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if a boy ejaculated, say, on your lower stomach (like above pubic hair line) is it likely to get pregnant? also, say i had semen on my hand before but it dried out and then i quickly touched down there for like a second, should i be worried? i am wondering whether sperm can like swim towards the vagina when it lands somewhere like the stomach of thigh. (link)
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A 0.0001 percent...good luck...
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now 9 on October 14th. He's 18 and I'm 16, we clicked the instant we met, only thing was he was a bit of a flirt. I've know him for about two years now, we'd flirt around and what not but I never took him seriously because of all the other females that were after him. He said he'd give up his flirtatious ways if I agreed to be his girlfriend. So I did, I liked him a great deal.
We "fell in love," or I did atleast. Everything was going well, we ended up having sex 5 months after we started going out, I sortah regret it he was my first.
Anyways, we've been having small problems. Well I think he thinks everything's ok, but he doesn't call me much. I'm always the one to call, usually.
At night, after 9 when he has free minutes. :/
Anyways, sometimes he acts as if I bore him, or he doesn't like me or love me...he gets annoyed and irritated with me for no apparent reason.
I want to know, does anyone think he's with me just 'cause of sex?
I mean he lives in chicago and I live in Aurora, he sees me once a week or so, we talk every night usually.
When we're together he seems to push onto sex fairly quickly.
I don't know what to do most of the time, I want to make him happy so I go through with it most of the time, we use protection of course.
But afterward I sortah feel sad, I feel kindda upset with myself, not sure why. Has this happened to anyone else?
I kinda get the feeling that's all he wants, but I do think he loves me, or did atleast at one point, but lately I been feeling as if he only likes the sex.
What should I do?
Am I wasting my time?
I love him alot, but (is this wrong?) love me more, and I've been hurt many times before and don't want to get hurt in the end.
He began to change since he recently started college...I don't know, could he be stressed?
Any help would be useful thanks. :T (link)
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I think this all depends on the intensity that YOU love him, how much you want to go thru to make this right...
Well not putting this lightly but a girls instinct, you know gut-feeling is usually right, If you feel it's just the sex, and based on the info you've given, maybe you're right.
Or maybe it's a completely different situation altogether and he's having trouble with school or at home and sex is the distraction? (was he a virgin when you guys....??)
In any case the only way you're gonna get an answer is to talk with him. Positive or negetive, you're going to feel relieved whether you find a guy who loves you more than the world itself, or he's that guy.
No one wants to get hurt but if it's not right for you then maybe it's the best thing.
If he's stressed,Try to make him laugh. Make yourself the center of his world, that he feels nothing could ruin the relationship you guys have.
Help him as much as you can, be the supportive girlfriend....
If he's just being a jerk, I hate to say this but dump him. You deserve better than that!
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