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OK, im 13 and i like this 16 year old guy. i dont get to c him very often but when i do i just light up and i'm so incredably happy.
he and i flirt back and forth. (he will tickle me all the time, play pranks on me, stare me into the eyes for a really long time...) its wonderful..but u c he has a 18 yr old g/f who knows about me. they have been going out for 2 months and she is going off to collage this year. the guy i like has a sister who says i have a good chance with her brother, which is good n all but my folks said no dating him. thats only bc he has gone all the way and smokes. recently this guy told me that he cant talk to me anymore bc he thinks he isnt allowed to talk with me since he is 3 yrs older..so gay i know..anywho i just dont know what to do. i want to be friends with him but then again i want to be more than friends. ~H-E-L-P~

He sounds like hes kinda nasty.. smoking and goes all the way.. i mean cmon hes friggen 16 years old! I think that u should stick with your own age group and find someone respectable to u! Ure 13 and u shouldn't have to get urself involved with smoking and sex its not right for u.. and u shouldn't have to go thru it! Trust me dont get urself with him and stick to people ur age im helping u for the long run! TRUST ME!
-stick in there-
good luck!

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ok my boyfriend and i went to a party the other day at my best friends house and all my friends were there and we all started to watch a scary movie and i looked at him and he kissed me and i felt werid cuz we were the only couple there and i felt like i was showing off or something and so i pulled away. i don't kno what i should do cuz me and him never hardly see eachother sooo i kinda wanna make the best of it while we do see eachother but yet i also don't wanna not include my friend, what do you think i should do, i feel like i have to pick my friends or my boyfriend but yet i love both of them with all my heart

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Okay well what u have to do is just go seperate places with each of them instead of bringing both along cause trust me i've gone thru the same exact things my boyfriend and my bestfriend hate eachother and wont go anywhere with eachother so it was really hard for me.. so i just didn't go places and bring both of them! Just do that it works a whole lot better cause then u can be intamite with ur boyfriend whenever and kiss him and stuff and then ur friend wont get pissed..
-GOOD LUCK!

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theres this grl and i really hate her she flirts with all of the guys and claims they r just friends, but shes really ugly and no1 likes her. we used 2 be friends and all but now she just irratates me. at a party i called her a whore. and then online i called her a bitch and she claims that her older sis and mom read it (but i cant trust her)well the guilt built ^ on me and i told my mom i called her a bitch. and her mom is the coach of the volleyball team and it mite effect my playing time 2(thats a diff story). well i just found out that she is in my homeroom 4 skewl and her older sis told me that if i ever said sumtin 2 her sis again that when i went in2 high skewl (she wuld b a senior) that there wuld be trouble. idk wat 2 do i tried saying srry but she wuldnt take it. i really cant stand this grl tho.
WAT DO I DO!!

What you really need to do is not mess with her.. but u started off on the wrong track by calling her a whore and a bitch and imn sorry to say but it was kinda mean, so they thought that you deserve everything that they give to you! But trust me what u need to do is just be nice and dont start anything.. if this chick wants to say something rude to u then im giving u permission to be as mean as u want but try not to start anything with her.. please?
-good luck hun!

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Ok, this guy im going out with u kno pretty well...so i need some help. This isnt the first time i have been with him. and well the last time he cheated on me with his Ex while i was on a mission trip. And there is something about him that just wants me to be with him so I am. and everyone is getting kinda mad at me, bcuz he has already cheated on me before and...im going out with him again.Everyone is telling me he is going to cheat on me again and hurt me again but i just dont want to believe them. Since he has cheated on me once should i be with him, now? do u think he will actually keep his promise to me and not cheat on me? ok well i have another problem with him...my parents hate him so im not allowed to go anywhere with him outside of school! so wut should i do? should i dump him? or take the chance of him cheating on me?
::Scared and Confused::

What you really need to do is confront him and see if he really wants to take action in a serious relationship or if hes just messing around with ur heart..

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i really need ur advice, ok i have a boyfriend and he's soooo amazing sweet and i love him with all my heart but the thing is, is that my family doesn't like his family and soo that makes it really hard cuz they think he's like his family when he's not, and soo i can't ever go anywhere with him and we're never alone! which sux soo what i did is i told my family that we broke up, which we did for like a week but now we;re back together again and i don't wanna tell my family cuz i kno that they won't ever let me c when cuz when they think we;re just friends they let me go more places, but i feel really bad for lieing, i mean i've lied to sooo many people and i hate it! i just wanna tell everyone the truth, i don't kno if i can. please help, please please
love ya always
bye...

I'm thinking that u need to tell everyone the truth and if they don't except that u love this guy and that u wanna be with him... well all u can do from there is do what ur heart desires! Trust me you will feel so much better after you tell everyone and that stress is off ur shoulder! And plus u dont want to lie to anyone anymore do u?
-Good Luck!

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OOoOkAy.. GeT rEdDy.. i REALLY loved this guy and we went out 6 timez then he dumped me for the stupidest reason.. it was cuz i signed this guys guest book JOKING AROUND acting like i liked this dude..but then i put j/k..and to wrap it all up it was a YEAR AGO when i signed that guest book. and then my BFF knew how much i loved him and then she went and ASKED him out!!! i mean, come on! and then they went out. the next day he broke up with her because i was soo sad about it and then that night he was tellin me he loved me and stuff on the phone. it was as if we still went out. but we didnt. but my bff and i made up and found out that hes tellin us lies. its like he tells her that he likes her and not me. but he tells me he likes me and not her. and he's lying to both of us. but one day. he payed his dad to let him go to hang out with her for the night. and they were going to hide it from me. but my bff told me about it..n he still continues to try and hide it from me..hes lied to me about alot, yet hes lied to her too. i dont know wat to? ive tried liking other people. but thats imposible. he tells everyone the perfect story for THEIR ears to hear.. but i just want him to tell EVERYONE the SAME story. i want the truth.. i LOVE him for REAL! PLEASE HELP!!!!! I REALLY NEED ADVIcE! asap!! THNKZ BUNCHEZ BABE!

okay well i kinda went thru the same thing.. u or ur friend both need to get over him! No offense but hes a big time player, he has lied to the both of u to get ur hopes up and to lead the both of u on. U may not be able to get over him but trust me its for the best for the both of u. When he says he loves u dont tell him u love him hes just lying about it! Dont let it bother u.. just try going out with other guys who will treat u n ur friend the right way! But it wasn't right of ur friend to try hiding things from u!
Stick in there

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im redoing my room and idk wat to do with it. can u give me some ideas plz!!
from: idealess

I usually dont give advice on rooms but heres what'd be cool.. I mean i'd do like a light pink and maybe some reds i think it'd look really cute with fluffy red pillows and also if u painted ur room pink.. but thats what i'd think look really cute.. but if ur not into the whole girly girl look then i'd go towards.. like blue greens n purples.. but u dont have to go with ethier of those.. just make ur room represent u and ur taste of style!
-good luck!

oo and if ur a guy maybe go with something sporty.. or just look online for ideas [[ sorry im not a guy so idk what a guy would want his room to be]] im sorry!
-good luck

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I followed ur advice u gave me and asked out that guy and he said no. our families are friends so i will c him all of the time. i think this is really awkward because i asked him out and he said no. im depressed and confused wat shuld i do??
12/f
:..*..:Brittany:..*..:

Just talk to him and become really close friends if thats all u can be right now.. and he prolly feels the same exact way! He knows what ur going thru so just talk to him about it and im thinking talking to him over the internet will be best right now! Or if u have enough courage talk to him to his face.. u never kno what the outcome is going to be... and im sorry my advise didn't work for u before! But im always here for u!
-Good luck!

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Hey! Im a 14 year old girl, and I have been having relationship problems...I have had many boyfriends in the past, but, none of them were 'real' boyfriends, and the relationships never last. I want a good honest, long-trem, in love relationship, and I cant seem to get one, how can I get a relationship, and make it last? PLEASE HELP ME!!

-Hannah-

OKay hannah just be yourself u'll find someone who will completely blow ur mind and if u go out wit someone and want an honest relationship then im thinking u should start off honest with whoever it may be! Just dont go off for the looks i mean thats one quality but the nice guys are always good people to maybe u should give them a chance? I mean u never know u might find a good relationship among those types of guys... u never know! And plus it'll take some relationships before u find a great guy..
Stick in there!
-Good luck hun!

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I'm not the most attractive girl in the world but my personality is probably the best anyone could find! I'm fun to be around and once you get to know me you will never want to leave my side. I want a boyfriend sooo bad, someone to hold my hand, to lean on in times of need, to cuddle with you know! but i cant ever get a guy cause they go for the really "hot" girls, how can i get guys to look deeper then looks, i mean its the personality that counts! Am i wishing for a miricle here! Im 14 female
signed: totally totally in LUV

Sounds 2 me like u need advice.. okay well thats so awesome that u have a great personality .. and just to tell u not all guys go for the personality and i know ur searching for that one guy that will blow ur mind completely but stop looking and just have fun with life! And when that guy comes around he'll come looking for you and im sure it'll be breathe taking like u want it to be! Trust me just live life up.. have fun go party lOl!
-Good luck babe!

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Hi, i'm 15 and there's this guy that i like a lot and he likes me too but he won't believe that i like him. He doesn't believe any of his friends or anything. The only way that i can think of to prove it to him is to go up and kiss him, but i can't ever get him alone and i'm too afraid to do it infront of all his friends and i have family living right next door. i don't know wat to do, can u please give me some ideas on wat i should do, i have a few myself but i want someone else's opinion, if u could that would be great. Thnx =)

Okay ive kissed before and u need to make it worthwhile.. so .. take him someplace away from ur house n his so u guys can be allow to talk and u'll kno when the right time cause and just lean in and kiss him.. since he already likes you thats like a gurantee that he will want to kiss u also.. who knows maybe that kiss will lead to a relationship?
-Good Luck!

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hey, theres this guy I really like. We went out 3 years ago for a little bit and when we broke up I liked him ever since. He wasnt really interested in me but we were just really good friends. Now this year we've become even closer friends. And I like him more and more all the time. He knows that I like him, and I'm sure he likes me. We talked about going out. But he said he wont go out with a girl. Unless he really likes them. So how do I get him to pay attention to me and to start liking me? Help me out please. Thanx
x0 k-cii

just be yourself and he'll gain attraction on ur personality..n plus u said u were really good friends, n that he liked u so why wouldn't he wanna go out? Well u just need to talk to him n see who he likes and what he plans of doing..
-Good Luck!

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hey im 16 female. my x bf (whom i dated for 3 months) is dating this girl now. i am totally in love with him and i would really like a second chance but he wont let me have it. i found out from his brother that his girl friend is moving to texas (i dont know when). but i just dont know what to do. should i just let it go? cuz i have talked to him about second chances but he didnt really say anything. also anytime we hang out hes ALWAYS all over Me! so i get the feeling he likes me .. but maybe hes just playing ahhh! i dont know please help me! thanks- =)

i think u need to let him go.. or u should wait until his girlfriend moves.. it might be hard on u but take the time n just mess around wit him if hes playing wit u then play wit him back.. its all just fun! Find someone better who u wont have to wait for! Stick in there
-Good Luck!

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i have a friend who is goin out with a guy i think is a jackass(u no who),and i think hes gonna hurt her somehow emotionally or physicaly.hes hurt her many times emotionally.but yet she still cant get over him even though she wants 2. what should i do????

well... she takes the pain because she likes him so much... and u just need to be there for her even when the going gets tough! Stick in there hun!
-Good Luck!

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hi and thanx for look at my troubles! well the thing is im in a relationship of 5 months. i really do love the guy im with. the thing is hes going to a different school than me this year. i dont want to let him go its to hard but yet i dont see it working. im scared that i will go somewhere and see him wit another gurl. what should do?

Sit down and talk to him about it! He should understand because he probably feels the same exact way... i've gone thru things like that and not all the time will it turn out for the best.. just keep ur head held high and talk to him!
-Good luck!

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I like this guy (nick) and he told my brother that he liked me and he told his X g/f that he liked me. But then my best friend asked him and he said im afraid brittany (me) is gonna ask me out and im gonna have to say no. well i just asked him out and he said no but then i found out it was his brother that was on and im not sure if nick likes me. Wat shuld i do??
im 12/f

you need to ask him to his face that way u'll know its him and u could tell if hes lying or not.. im thinking that he does like u just stick in there hun it'll all work out for the best!
-Good Luck!

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hey i am to marry my fienca next august and the problem is his family does not like me and they have put me down behind my back and recently one member of his fam actually told me i should leave him b.c i am coming in between him and his fam but he told them that is not true that he does not want to be around them b.c they havent been good to him for a long time(he has had a lot of issues wth his fam) but they still do not like me and i feel l very uncomfortable what should i do 2 be comfortable around them i mean i love him to death but it is hard being around his fam.

well u need to talk to his family n figure out why they dont like u..cause they'd have to have some sort of reason to not like you. I think the only thing you could do is just sit down with them and discuss it.. its may become difficult but you need to talk to them and figure out whats going on! In the mean time stay with your fiance and just have fun..
-Good Luck!

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my sister is pregnant at age 17 and idk how to help her wth the pressure from my parents! my parents want her to get an asbortion bc they say its gonna ruin all our lives finacially and spiritually! my sis said no but still they wont let her just be happy bc she is keepion the baby! me and my older sister r both gonna help my sis wit the baby im gonna get a job to help pay for it and babysit for free! and my older sis is gonna home school my sister next yr so she dosnt get made fun of anf shes gonna get a good job to help pay for it! idk wut else to do to help my sister except just let everything happen! but alsop im scared of the future! plz help me and my sis!

Thats a really hard situation.. and like its gunna be hard that ur parents dont except the fact that ur sisters keeping the baby! It'll also be really hard on ur sister and also on u n ur older sister! I think ur doing the best u can with what ur trying to do [[ babysitting for free and getting a job]] i think that maybe u should also be looking around for things that u can afford with the money u have! Sit down with ur parents n ur sisters and help them talk to your parents about why your sister wants to keep the baby..
i think ur parents dont want ur sister keeping the baby because they dont think shes responsible enough or maybe because shes only 17!
All i can tell u is stick with ur plans and dont back out on them and try talking to your parents about it.. they need to agree with ur 17 year old sister keeping the baby and maybe once u get them to agree they will help pay for some of its essentials like [[ clothes, food, etc etc]] stick in there hun!
-Good Luck

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Hey, i need help with sumthin. i asked my old gf out and she said not right now cuz it would make this other guy pissed, and then while i was waiting she fell in love with her x again. i still reely love her and i miss her so much. What Should i do?

ooo.. sounds like u have it bad.. okay so listen up i'd just start to be really good friends wit her.. u kno try helping her wit guy problems and when that day comes that they break up u'll be there for her and she will come to you to help her.. and if you guys are really good friends it usually ends up with her liking u.. dont worry your chance will come around! And maybe when she told u this other guy would get pissed.. maybe she wasn't ready to fall in love again or maybe that other guy was her x? who knows! But stick in there..
-Good Luck!

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I have this friend n she doesnt like my boyfriend at all.. shes awesome tho and shes my best friends but i also love my boyfriend how do i deal with this?

Im going thru the exact same thing.. and its really hard to deal with you ethier need to show you best friend why you like him so much!i'd just try to help them get along and it will work out for the best.. i think your friend doesn't know what its like to love someone or maybe shes jealous who knows..
-Good Luck!

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