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Please ask me questions i can answer and i'd like to point out that if you really need advice on relationships thats my specialty! Oh yea and please dont give nasty feedback- i would NEVER "make fun" of a question or person and i would never be nasty to them. i give my honest opiinion and i nor any other columnist deserves bad feedback when they are here trying to help you. if your nice- im nice but if you give me bad feedback when i didnt do anything to you- thats mean so please.
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well..i guess i should start from the begining to give a good backround for ya'll to work on. well it all started back in 7th grade when this boy started bugging me. he was a new student so i tried to be nice but he was kind of annyoing and he would keep bothering me about stupid things so i ignored him most of the time. so in 8th grade, me and him actually became really close after a dance that we had at school. a lot of people thought we were actualy going out, we were that close. anyways 9th grade comes around and at we were still pretty close but not as much as we were before. now it's 10th grade and i don't really talk to him at all. now i don't know if ya'll get this but i really really like him more than just a friend and i have since 8th grade. me and him have the same lunch EVERY DAY but he sits at a different table and its weird because everytime i look over at him, he's always starring back at me with his gorgeous smile. i probably haven't talked to him in a few months. but i really want to change that. and every single day..i tell myself that i'm gonna go up to him at lunch and just sit down with him and just be there with him but i get wicked nervous and i chicken out. the same with calling him too. i just chicken out. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get my best friend back?? thank you soo much
p.s. i rate 5's for good advice =]
Heyy
well i thought of a few ways for you to start talking to this boy because im sure you can take it from there:
you can have a friend bring you over with her to join him at lunch or in a conversation
you can write him a note
pass his locker and start up a convo
catch him when hes by himself and start talking
well good luck
and i hope i can help
I'm turning 14 and for my birthday I'm having a dance. I've been going out with guy for a while now but we don't go to the same school so we haven't had any dances together. What are some good love songs that would be good for a first dance. I need as many as you can give me. This would mean a lot to me. This dance is really important. Thank you so much! I'LL RATE YOU!!!♥
heyyy i have a few really cute suggestions.
some are:
Pussycat Dolls- Stick Wit you
Yellowcard-Only one
Startingline (thats like the best band ever some of their songs are: ) Best of me, Nothings gonna stop us,This Ride
Mariah Carey- Always be my baby
Jojo-baby its you
Ryan Cabrera- On the way down
Frankie J-obsession(no es amor)
Story Of the Year-until the day i die
hope i can help
good luck! xox
oh yea another great starting line song is The Drama Summer! Collide by howie day, you and me by lifehouse, and beautiful soul by jesse mccartney are good songs too!
I wanna get the side-swept bangs hair cut and I was wondering something..
Do you personally think it's better to have the bangs on the right or left side? Like, which do you think looks better?
It'd also be nice if anyone had good pictures of the haircut (of yourself or famous person or anyone) cause I wanna see some :)
Thanks!
heyy
well first thing- i dont have a picture but i do have the bangs. My older sister cuts my hair. But anyway i've had them both ways and personally i like them better to the left side of my face. Right now they are in like 2 layers- the first one being just below my eye and the second layer ending where the middle of my ear is. To me i think its the perfect size- and people complement me on them (sorry- not sounding conceited) but anyway i hope i helped and best of luck!
xoxo
I am 5ft. 3in and weigh 140lbs! I have tried to los weight but I just can't. I am like one of the biggest girls in my school and at my dance studio. I hate it, especially when this one girl kept making fun of my size. My doctor even told me I need to lose weight. What should I do? I have tried dieting and excersicing but nothing works! Why me?
heyy
well I know you may have heard this but self image affects how other people look at you. Also you could try to just cut out small things (such as stop drinking soda) and try to only drink water- that helps alot. You could also ask the doctor for a pamphlet. I don't know how old you are but if you take health then you could learn from your textbook. It's great that you dance because it's a good workout.good luck
hope i can help!
Alright. I thought since my best friend is such a good friend id make a list of 100 reasons why your my best friend. Can someone give like 25? (its a girl) Thanks I RATE 5!
heyy!
well here it goes and sorry if they're weird but they are like what i would say to my friend!
p.s. cute idea! mind if i steal it?
1)Your not my friend- your my sister
2)I know your life story
3)I know everything about you
4)Our secrets are safe
5)We are like attached at the hip
6)We are awesome- what else can i say?
7)All those memories- too many to count
8)Remember that time...
9)I'll be with you forever
10) I'd do anything for you
11)If we fight, it brings us closer together
12)We talk ALL the time
13) we can be completely honest with eachother
14)So many jokes!
15)We are like twins
16) Who says we spend too much time together!?
17) We practically live at eachothers houses
18) One day, i'll adopt you
19)We can do the weirdest stuff and we think its awesome
20)We go everywhere with eachother
21) I love you brothers and sisters like they're my own!!
22) We have so many inside jokes people dont understand it at all and it would take forever to explain
23)Here is an acronym for you:
24)F is for the fun we have
25)R is for Really crazy (thats us)
26)I is for how we are inseperable
27)E- we share Everything
28)N is for No one is better than us!
29)D is forr how Dand close we have gotten
30)and S is for our Sisterhood!!!
31)We share our clothes!
32)I couldnt find better friends!!!
hope that helps i tried to do as many as i could just incase some dont pertain to you guys but good luck and may i suggest renting Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants? l i LOVE that movie
xoxo
I have exams coming up .. i have C's in biology and geometry, and im sooooo nervous. Like in both subjects i study wicked hard, understand everything, but then when i take the test, i do bad. It's hard to relax cus i needa bring both these grades up to at least a B-. Theres sooo much pressure, how can i just learn to relax and chill out?
heyy
Well one thing i try to do with big exams is forget about the pressure and what your risking. i know its really hard but try to think about it as just a quiz or something. I have(over the years) BEEN TRYING TO SET UP A STUDYING (oops sorry about CAPS ) system for myself and what works for me is writing down my own study sheet with what i think is most important and what that teacher will put on the exam. then, like 2/3 nights before the exam, study just from the sheet(and study in the morning too) well thats what has helped me with big exams, soo BEST OF LUCK!! xo
oh yea p.s
sorry i just reread the question and i guess i didnt answer really direct but i just thought of something, try to work the material into your daily routine. Example- if you were in like nursery school and were learning 2 plus 2 maybe you would take four m&m s and count. and make sure to sleep well the night before and eat a good breakfast with vitamins!
sorry if i didnt help but thats what works for me and hopefully you too!
Please help me out. I have a huge problem. My best friend and I both like the same guy. Well him and i are not THAT close, but usually he talks to me and I talk to him most days. Well today and yesterday he is acting like he likes my friend. You know, the going up and talking to her more than usual... stuff like that. He's been doing that for two days now and.. he hasn't really talked to me anymore. I'll say something to him... and he'll ignore me or just not give me a considering answer like he'll say "I dunno" or "Sure". So why isn't he talkign to me, and what do i do? I'm going to be crushed if he likes her... Please help me out.
heyy sweetheart!
To me this sounds like he could be confused himself. Personally I'd be one to say mixed signals from guys stink and if it were me I'd back off for a little while (a day or two) and see if he comes onto you. Maybe he is in the middle of thinking about a family problem when he indirectly answers or maybe he doesnt want to lead you on. This doesnt mean he likes your friend but if he does please dont be mad at your friend. Remember to keep your options open too so it wont seem that hes all your into .(and I like to play hard to get). When you do talk to him of course flirt but be concous
that your not all over him. Give it a little time and be sure to get back to me! I love follow-ups!!
hope i can help and please come back for any more advice!
xoxo PinkRainbow
Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that...
0o0h sweetie, no you shouldnt change yourself at all! Trust me one day the right guy will find you, if the other guys dont like you- it's too bad for them! Deffinately don't change because you want to be yourself and you don't wan people to like you for something your not. One day, you'll see, a nice boy will like you for you and you will be glad you didn't change.
I hope i helped! xoxo