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hi everyone! I am interested in fashion, music and sports. i really enjoy giving advice to people. i hope i can help you!!
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Is there any way to lose like 5-10 pounds in a week and a half? I already try to watch what I eat, so I'm thinking maybe exercises or something? Nothing where I have to go out and by something. So that leaves out Pilates and stuff like that cause i dont have the videos or whatever. ((anything for arms stomach legs i dont really care what)) Thanks I'll rate
Try crunches and sit ups, they are good for your stomach. its going to be pretty hard for you to lose that much in so little time. in fact, near impossible with food. so just eat healthy and exercize, you'll lose it in the healthiest way possible
Okay, so I've been hanging out with new people lately, and I like this guy but I don't know how to get him to notice me. He knows I like him, and yeah I guess that's brought us closer. But he's always by this other girl. I've asked many people what to do and they say that he thinks I'm hott, but he's always by her. Please help me get ways for him to come by me and hang out with me instead of her!
13/f
If he wont come to you, you've got to go to him! When he's not around that other girl (or even when he's with her, who cares!) go hang out with him, talk to him, get to know him. Be really nice, sweet and friendly. You've just got to win him over by showing him that you've got a great personality! Be confiddent with yourself, that's key. good luck
14/f
I am taking classes currently for babysitting, but I want to know more. I am going to start posting my number up for jobs, so what should I expect?? (from people calling all the way to what i should do with the younger children.)
people will just call you and ask you if you are availibl to babysit on a certain day. When you go the parents will probablt leave you with a bunch of emergancy number, if they dont you should probab;y ask for the number of one of their neighbors or close friends. the parents might leave right away or stay a little while, depending. and you just need to keep the kids busy and out of trouble. it is not as hard and scary as you might think, but it is a little frusterating when you get a bunch of crazykids, which does happen to me! So it you want some more specific info, just leave qustions in my inbox. oh and make sure you are really polite with the parents, be a good role model for the kids, and try your best to have fun with them!
Does anybody know the meaning of the song Soul Meets Body? I understand bits and pieces of it, but overall I'm pretty confused of the true meaning.
hey check songfacts.com
Alright when you go to a show is dorky/weird to wear a shirt of the band you are going to go see? I would think wearing another band's shirt would be rude yet I see other people do it all the time. Is it ok to do either?
Thanks
I think it's fine if you wear whatever you want! Either one.
what age should you start shaving 'down their'?
when ever you feel comfortable
The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on?
Oh my god he is horrible!! Dont even think twice about him!! Definetely move on. You cannot have a healthy relationship with a guy who is always critisizing you. And he shouldn't care about your weight, it's none of his buisness, and he should form an opinion about you by the type of person you are, not how much you weigh. You definetly have to move on!!
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Hey is saw these pair of shoes they are slip ond, like vans, and are blue with plaid. THEY ARE NOT vans though. Do you know which kinda.
Ill rate high!
hey i dont know them ... but check www.zappos.com they have a huge selection of shoes.
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hi i don't know if anyone nos what shoes i am talking about but here goes. they don't have them on the website anymore but they where from old navy. they are black a velvety type of matieral and have a pointy front. they also have a diamand band going across the two sides of the shoe. from left to right is like a diamond band that you can make the shoe smaller or biger. but my question is that i don't know if they are cute. i know that you can't tell me if they are cute unless you have seen them so if anyone thinks they no someone who has them or they do can you please tell me if they are cute pleaseeee... thank you so muchhhhh!!!
Hi. I am pretty sure i know the shoes you are talking about. They are very cute, casual, but at the same time not too casual! I love pointy shoes, i think that these would look adorable under jeans that are a darker wash, and not ripped or destroyed. You'd look cute and presentable, for school or whatever!! You could really wear any sort of top with it, id sugjest something a little bit more dressy like a button down shirt or a cute cami with a cropped sweater, but it's totally up to you!!
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GoSh im having really bad luck with guys lately. all of the people i think are sooo hott and stuff dont think im hot but ive started hangin out with this girl..i mean she is like one of my best friends and she is absolutely gorgeous!! all of the people i thought were hott saw my friend and they're all like oh my gosh she is soo hot! and im really jealous of my friend ..i admitt im jealous but i dont know what to do! and this other kid that i kinda like i mean i cant like him because i dont know him but he is just soo cute but he goes to a different school..so i dont even get to see him only once in a while..and i havent even talked to him yet! ahhh i dont know how to tho my cousin kind of talks to him but they switched quarters and now she doesnt know if he will be in any of hers..and then she says that she kinda likes him ..i mean i cant say i like him i just think he is the cutest thing ever and i would maybe like to hangout with him! please dont suggest aim..tried that..didnt work out very well..very confusing so i dont know what else! everytime i ask my cousin to ask him to go to a movie with us he is just like maybe i will try to make it! and he never comes..so that doesnt work! any ideas for all of this?! i just feel so ugly lately =[
thanks..
don't feel ugly. Think about it, in the long run, do you want a man who loves you because you look beautiful, or a man who loves you because you are a beautiful person internally. everyone will grow old and loose their looks, but love will last, it will outlive external beauty!! I know that looks are what is on everybody's mind-girls and guys-during this day and age, but i just hope you wont get to concerned with it. you'll meet the right guy, and maybe this guy is the one. well about this guy. ask your cousin about him, is he nice, smart, or is he a jerk. then you will know a little bit more about him. this is a really hard situation because your cousin is not being very helpful!! I would say that you should try to get to know him and some of his friends with out the help of your cousin. And finally about your gorgeous best friend. Dont worry about it, just be confident with the way you look, think about it this way, you could be in a MUCH worse situation!! i hope you feel better about yourself!
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At my school, we have this dance where the girls ask the guys (hence the backwards part). I have a few guy friends that I'm thinking of asking, but I don't know how to ask them. Girls, if you could share how you asked a guy out (or to a dance), and guys, if you could share how you'd like to be asked, that would be great. Also, none of these guys are romantically involved with me in any way. Also, if you can think of cute ways to do my hair or other dance tips/tricks (i've never been to a dance, really.) then I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much, and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. :)
Oh, and also, should I ask a freshman (I'm a freshman) or an upperclassman?
well, on who you are going to ask, it doesnt matter what class they are in, it is who ever you are most comfortable asking. my geuss is that if you ask a guy, youd probably be more comfortable with a freshman. if you go with a senior guy, a lot of girls will be quick to judge you by that (most likely they are jelous). Its your first dance, so just do what you're most comfortable with!! Second, on asking a guy, that's tough for most girls because their nerves get to them. Most likely f you ask a guy firned they'll accept!! Just say it straight out, do you want to go to the dance with me? dragging it out and making it complicated will just make it scarier!! Just ask him. Okay and third, buns, curls and half up/half downs are all really popular for dances, if you want something more specific, you can tell me your hair style and color and i can help you even more! Have Fun!!
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just to let you guys knwo im not using the real peoples names but still the situation that is going on.
ok at the beginning of the year i was really close with three other girls (Jessica, Lisa, and Natalie) we were all really close and kind of had a little clique thing. we told each other everythin but i was kind of closer to Lisa and Jessica and Natlaie were close together.
as the year went on it kind of split off into me and lisa and jessica and natalie.
we always had stupid fights which ALWAYS ended up being misunderstandings. like me and lisa thought they were ignoring us and they thought we were ignoring them. whatever. so these problems kept on happening
eventually me and lisa jsut sort of gradually stopped talking to Jessica and Natalie.
then the other day natalie let my friend see her phoen and my friend saw a text message that jessica sent to natalie saying "i hate samantha (me) and lindsay" this really through me off guard.
i mean i knew we had some problems but come on hate is a very strong word.
my question is i dont know if i should try to work it out with jessica and natalie i mean we were all really close or should i just stop being friends with them. i really dont know what to do please help!
dont take this offensively, but unless im misunderstanding you, natilie and jessica seem a little immature for saying those things about you and lindsay. Really, if i were you i would try to work it out, but if they continue to talk about you behind your back, i would definetly move on, they aren't worth your time. I hope all goes well
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Hmm .. I want to make a new CD but I really don't know any songs. If anyone can, will you please list some songs for me that are like band music liek Fall Out Boy and All American Rejects. Thanks
Hey! check out hot hot heat, the postal service, franz ferdinand and death cab for cutie. i think you'll like their songs!! my favorites are
the postal service:
such great heights
nothing better
death cab for cutie:
soul meets body
hothotheat:
middle of nowhere
jingle jangle
you owe me an IOU
franz ferdinand:
the fallen
fade together
dark of the matinee
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