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Well Im Katie.I do gymanstics,cheering,and do dance.I have a boyfriend Tyler.Im a very out going person,I love making new friends.I love helping people out as much as I can.I love going to the beach,like swimming,learning how to skateboard.I love learning new things like anything.I love tubing,hanging with friends,going to the movies,partying,going to dance clubs,shopping(my number one fav thing to do),on the fone with ppl,talking on aol and stuff like that.Yea and I have many people that come to me asking questions what they should do with boyfriend or girlfriends or its just friends problems.Im a very outgoing girl,easy going and a very good listener and helper.I love giving advice to ppl bcuz it works all the time and ppl always come to me for anything.So Ask Ah Question And Ill Help You:)The Best That I Can
-xOxO katie

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ok. i am 14 and i am a female. I really like this on kid. but there is a different kid that likes me alot. he is funny and everything u would want a boyfriend to be...well maybe. i mean i dont know if i should go out with him bc he isnt exactly the cutest guy in the world. actually he isnt cute at all. and the only thing that is keeping me from going out with him is the fact that he is ugly and that ppl will say stuff to me like"oh ur going out with him? he is so ugly!" i just dont want ppl to say that. i mean he is funny, nice and wont push u to do nethign like most guys would. his 2 best friends r going out with my 2 best friends and we r the ones left out. my question is i guess. should i go out with him even tho he is ugly?

I think that you should go out with him,I think that you shouldn't judge him by looks because he might be a reallie big sweetheart.You shouldnt reallie listen to what ppl say evening though he is ugly or not.Because I know I had a problem sorta of kind of like yours when I had to choose bewteen guys because if you choose the other kid and he says no then you might feel reallie bad for not choosing the funny/everything you want in a boyfriend type.Because I think that you should follow what you heart says,and everything will workout.GoodLuck Girl!
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hey i was just wondering do guys prefer straight hair or do they like curly/wavy hair? also which one do u think is "in".

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Well I think personally guys shouldnt judge girls but most guys judge girls by there looks.I think that you should go for the look that you like,evening if you dont get the hottest guy in school.But it might help you a little bit if you ask your friends advice and see what they think that might look good on you.So goodluck girl!
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i ned to mastrabte but i cant find anything that works for me can i have anytips?

Well if you need things for mastbation it would help if you told us ur sex and age but yea if your a boy uh...look at a porno magizine *shrugs* or if your a girl....I have no clue I dont do that kind of stuff but Im trying to help you out a little bit...but I hope it helps...look on the web maybe www.masterbation.com??
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i am gettin braces and i heard u heard em do they hurt

Well yes I have braces right now when you first get them on the very first day they are going to hurt so you have to eat stuff like yogurts,ice cream(just plain flavors) the second day it wont hurt that much but they will still hurt.For your braces you can take advil or pain killers that take the pain from your mouth.The third day your teeth will be fine but every month you have to go get them tighten thats the only part that hurts.So dont worry it wont hurt that much just prolly for the first two days.Hope I helped
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Hey,my situation is prolly a pretty common one,but i'll go into it anyway. I'm an 18 year old guy,who knows this really nice girl for over a year. The reason i never made my move on her was that she was always going out with one of my friends and still is. I am under the impression that i'm her friend and nothing more,b/c she tells me things prolly only her bf should know and i feel bad about this. I dont wanna wreck anybody's relationships,but it seems like she's more comfortable around me then him. What should i do?

Well what I think that you should do in my own words that you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about her instead of holding it back because you never know she might like you back.But evening though she is with one of your friends I think she should know how you feel.If she tells you stuff that her boyfriend doesnt know and she is comfortable with you then tell her how you feel and your not trying to ruin your relionship with her and her bf.And you will never know how she feels about you intill you tell her how you feel for her.Just make sure your calm with her and make sure you feel like its the right time because dont hold it back intill the last minute when she leaves because I did that before but with a guy.So tell her how you feel before its too late.Make sure your calm and you feel like its the right moment.Goodluck!
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I want to get to know this girl but i dont know how to start to talking to her. She is always with someone else and im too shy to go up to her and say hello. plus what if she thinks im a dork or something b/c she's like 17 and im only 14. What do i do to make her notice me??!

Well if your a girl I think that you should just go up to her and be like hey wassup.But dont be all weird around her thats is when she will be like what are you doing.Be nice to her and be calm when your around her.But when you talk to her make sure she isnt with any of her friends just be calm and talk to her.Goodluck!
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well i've decided to take the plung and kiss my bf! ahhhhh i'm scared! anyways, i need a plan. bearing in mind that i'll have to do it in school time (lunch or break) or on the way home from school. any ideas??? I WILL RATE U FOR THIS!

Well I think what you should do if your going to kiss your bf make sure first thing that you are calm.Plan it just the right time make sure his friends arent around because he might be a little embarssed,I think that you should do it when your walking home from school with him and then when you feel like its the right time go and kiss him.Make sure your calm,and not shy.Goodluck girl!
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hi my friend has been really mean to me, they are starting to beat me up when there in a mood help xx

You defitanly dont need that what I think you should do it sit and try to talk to her/him and tell them to stop because they are hurting you.If they was a true friend they wouldnt do that so I would try and talk to them and if they cont. to do that then I think you should not be friends with them because that is defitanly not a really good friend then.So just keep your head up high and if she/he keeps doing it tell someone also.Goodluck!
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I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression!

WOW HUNNY! I swear that was me ALL Through high school!!! I have a boyfriend who loves me unconditionally and taught me sooo much about myself.I Have been with him for five years. I have ONE best friend too! She has gotten me through alot! Ya i did hang out with all the popular people but i never really fit in all my years in high school. Not that they were rude or anything to me, it was just i felt as if i never belonged and that my morals were different. My advice is to be yourself! Meet new people! It makes you feel great inside when you can make someones day by just bein nice and saying Hi to a stranger! Im sure there are plenty of people out there that you will be GREAT friends with! You just need to look out for the right ones! ALl i can preach to you is stay true to yourself, because when you are not and all fall into bad things, its hard to find yourself again! good luck and if you need help you can always ask me ?'s!
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ok so i am a 15 y/o female.i am 5'2 1/2 and like 100lbs.my bra size is a 34A.i would like to go to like a small B.do u think i may grow anymore?i think im about done.is there anything i can drink or eat or anything to get a little bigger?lol!i am tiny so it may not matter.

Well when did you start period...thats a major factor cuz you grow at least two years after that...Plus i've heard your bra size grows till you are about 18, so i wouldnt have any worries yet! For now just get some nice push-ups bras if you are uncomfortable! They have some really nice ones at victoria secrets~! I hope i helped girl! Dont even stress about it k! Also this is random but you know those nu bras, they are like strapless bras, they add like a whole cup size so you can try those out for now too! but since you are just a TiNy girl, you might look really unpeportional if you have HUGE boobs haha I bet you are fine the way you are!~! GOOD LUCK! U can ask me n e ?s if ya got more!
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hey, im 13 and im really tall im like 5'5( i just turned 13) but i weigh like 100 pounds probally and people think im anorexic cause i have really muscular abs i have a 6 pack but you cant see it only feel it lol and u can see my ribs and stuff but not like really bad but i eat not a ton or anything but i eat and people are always like omg you are so skinny are u anorexic or sumthin and i get really mad cause its like NO!! i would never do that to myself but iv had teachers ask me if i was before 2 and i get really mad and not to sound snoty or anything but im probally one of the most popular girls in my grade theres one person whos more popular than me and im really pretty 2... not to sound conceited or anything i have medium blonde hair and big pretty eyes thats what people tell me atleast and people think im tryin to be like a super model just cause i look like that and they think that i dont eat and when i do eat they think i throw it up some people just think that im tryin to be like all the girls on tv and stuff and thats not it at all i would never do that to myself how do i get them to stop thinking this please help me and soon!!

First of all ...who cares what they say! You sound like a beautiful young girl, and who knows maybe one day you will be a model! You just need to tell them that you dont have a problem! As long as YOU know you are ok then who cares about the others! Your true friends will stick by yourside and defend you! Also, if you go to your doctor and tell him tha you dont like your weight, maybe he can give you some kind of like protien or something to take...i mean it wouldnt hurt, ya know! Well good luck girl and if you have ANY ?'s feel free to ask me k! I hope i helped ya a lil bit! JUST BE CONFIDENT WITH YOURSELF!
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There's this one guy that I'd do anything for. It's crazy, yes. But I love him so much...it hurts. And he never talks to me. Never pays any attention to me. But I can't tell him how I feel, he's too cool. He intimidates me. And I don't know what to do, because all I want to do...is be with him.

WOW WOW WOW girl....first thing first, if you like him so much you shouldnt be afraid of him! I know you probably get major butterflies in your stomach and all but here is what ya need to do.
First you need to approch him(possibly when he is alone), be it by yourself, or with your friends just to get a conversation started. you need to find out abuot him. I could be wrong but it seems as if you dont ReAlLy know him, so it seems as if you only like him by his looks or something, which is ok for now, but try and find out alot about him. He might not pay attention to you because he doesnt know you pay attention to him, if he knows though, and he is a nice guy he will acknowledge you when he sees you.... Dont be intimidated by him though! You got this, just try and talk to him.....it will make you feel great about yourself, and feel more confident! GOOD LUCK !I HOPE IT GOES GREAT~!
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Hey, im 5'6" and weigh about 119 lbs. Is that skinny, average, or what? I look more chubbier than people with the SAME height AND weight as me. Also -- ive tried eatting healthy, stop drinking soda, and running, but i cant seem to get rid of my love handles around my sides and lower back. Its so emabrassing AND obvious through my shirts..if you've gotten rid of yours, how did you do it? Thanks

LOVE HANDLES SUCK! TRUST ME, i got em too! haha Youve got a good start on being healthy by running and stuff though! Dont forget to do like sit ups and stuff. when i saw this ?, i did a search on love handles cuz i was intrested...it actaully said that sit ups and stuff dont really help, and neither do the ab machines. THe best way to lose them is a low-fat diet, combined with a cardio excercise! But OBVIOUSLY you dont need to be on a diet, so maybe just conciouslly think if you really need something if its very fattening, but otherwise just keep up with the running and good luck girl!
Here is the site that gives you all different info and sites about what to do!!!!!

http://ask.yahoo.com/ask/20020819.html

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ok, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 4 in a half months. Towards the end of the year we would like go off and just walk and talk whenever we could. Then i realized i was like ditching my friends and so was he. And next year we're going to be in high school. I know that we could just easily like hang out with each others friends but the only problem is that my friends aren't into the things he and his friends are. i get along with his friends and he does too but its kind of akward when he hangs out with them. WHAT DO I DO??

OK I hope this makes sence! haha Maybe like if you and your b/f go to a movie, meet up with either his or your friends and just spend a little time together. I think if you spend little amounts of time with eachothers friends at a time it will show that you care and you want to be able to have a b/f and friends! Trust me from experience it is HARD to have both! Thats kinda just how it goes! But if you work hard at it, you will all get along!!! And trust me i bet there are things that you all have in common, they more you talk the more you learn! Good luck! and you can ask me more questions if ya have any k!!!
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i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know it hurts because i have had a BUNCH of my best friends through the years move....and i know there is nothing you can do about it. I know though that IF you two are close enough and care about eachother it will work out! You will talk on line and on the phone and still visit eachother. Even if she is far far away, i bet you could see her like during spring or x-mas break! And also you hsould tell her how much your going to miss her, but dont make her feel bad about it ya know.Make her feel speacial to you! good luck!

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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?

YOU REALLY NEED TO WAIT! I think you are just trying to grow up to fast., even if you are in love, if you love yourself enough you would wait. You will miss out on EVERYTHING a teenager is supposed to do. PLus at 15 i dont think you are responsible enough to bring a child into the world. Wouldnt you want your kid to grow up having the best? and with two young parents that isnt very possible. This is a very serious step, and you need to look at the Whole situation. Maybe you should babysit kids or something if you want to be around them, but trust me sweetie you have your WHOLE life to have a kid, and i dont thjinkg now is the time...
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hey~
i'm 12 and weigh 155 i don't look fat AT ALL but i don't get a lot of boyfriends and i have a chubby face. at the end of my 6th grade year i weighed 160 but i started running and biking every day and lost 5 lbs. but i want to get down to at least 130i still have till august 17 any suggestions i need help i want to look HoT!!


I bet u look beautiful anyways! All i would say is stick to your excercise routine! Its so easy to give up, but if you stick with it it can only make you look better! Plus you should chage it up a little bit. like dont just run and bike...you should be lifting weights too! You could also get some of the excercise dvds, you can do anything from pilates to yoga of taebo to just the old fashion dancing/excercise ones! They all get your heart going! Plus just change your eating habits a little bit, like cut out the chips or the extra candy bars and stuff like that and u will notice a difference!!! GOOD LUCK GIRL!
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how do i start my own fashion club that isn't on the net and do you know of any good websites that have fashion tips please reply asap

OMG the besttttttttt site out there is www.luxuryfashion.com! Ok im totally into fashion too and im on this site all day!!!! its great! GO to the forums in there thats what im addicted too! GOOD LUCK!
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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends

Honsetly it will all work out! You meet sooo many new and amazing people in high school. All of my friends changed from middle school to high school! Like you meet people in all your classes and everything! You will find the people you are meant to hang out with trust me! But dont forget you have to make an effort to. Even though u say your anti-social try to talk to lots of people and you will have SO many friends! GOod luck!!!!!!
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this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap?

Its abviously how they are marketed ya know! When you see them on all the magazines and on Trl and just MTV in general, to them that means that they are SO COOL! Like im 17 and just adore people like Hilary duff and Britney Spears! I guess i fell into the marketing trap! I think its pretty much just you like it or ya dont! Most people come to there sences when they are older and learn to choose who they like for themselves not what the tv or magazines say~!

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