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Okay.. none of my friends were help on this. See if any of you are!

I've been with this guy for almost 2 months. He's in LOVE with me and totally obsessed. I hate clingy guys and I'm sick of him. He calls like .. 5 times a day.. AT LEAST .. and is Always wanting to hang out. I barely have time for my girls with him around!

I need a way to break up with him so he won't be too upset, and he will still be friends with me. I still like him, and i've already told him he's too obsessive, but it didn't help any! I need a way to let him down gently!

!mucho amor! (link)
Well you could say that your having alot of trouble at home and are too stressed out and your really dont thnk this is a good time for a BF.
Or say Like Im sorry You are very clingy and i need my sapce so i need to let you go and find some one that wants to be around lot as you would them.

GLBecka


hey all today i was skateboarding with my brother and his friend and my one friend made a ramp out of wood and i went to skateboard like go up the ramp and well i fell and the bad part is i landed on my arm i mean on my arm and when i got home my arm started shaking and my hand to and know it hurts alot i think i twisted it when i fell to so what should i do should go to the hopspital or go to get it x-rayed or should i just leave it alone. i will rate 5's for reasonable answers thanks kindly. (link)
You should go to the hospital and get it x rayed ..... even if you dont think its tooo bad you should still do it juuuuuuuuuuuust in case
-bekkii


f/13
well, my mom and dad are getting divorest and i have hear from a lot of people that it is not that bad. But for some reason i have been like really spazing out about this. Like some of my friends are getting really mad at me because they are saing i have changed and get mad at every little thing. I am afreed after a while they wont wont to be my friends any more, one of my friends is not my friend because of that so what should i do? (link)
WEll 1st of all ...... divorced is really not that bad trust me.... been there when i was 8 and im 13 noow too. But yeah at 1st its reallllly stresses you out and makes you "spaz".
but eventually you get used to it and the stress lays off. This may sound harsh but if they were really your friends then they would understand that your stressed and try to suppoprt you. But if they stop being your friend then try to talk to them let them know whats going on and that your just real stressed out. And eventually when you calm down theyll see that your normal and maybe things go back to normal.
i know exactly what your going thru


I'm a 16 yr old female. I've been trying my hardest to change my eating habits, but it's so hard! I've been trying to avoid junk food but it's really difficult, and I haven't been doing the best job. It's just so much easier to eat something bad for you. I buy all healthy food for myself but my family loves stuff thats bad for you, and I can't help but grab some junk food instead of an apple or soemthing. I need to start avoiding it but it's EVERYWHERE! Please give me some advice on how to ignore the temptation and become healthier! Thank you so much. I rate 5's! (link)
Turn somthing Heathy in to sweet. Like an apple.... but dip in ito your fav flavor yogurt (lowfat) or but alot of stuff sugur freee... fat free. low fat ... or reduced. Exercise a lot and it helps fight temps. GL
-bekkii


This lad at my school has been spreading rumours that my dad beats me we used to be best friend but i never told him that the only thing is that he did see my dad hit me once and its because i was being rude to him. but now everyone looks at me like im some freak ive talked to him and he just says im speaking the truth what should i do? (link)
Like I told some one else. Theres only 2 people who really need to know the truth. Thats you and The good Lord. If you 2 know the truth , nothing else matters. But if some one says somthing to you , dont be afraid to Stand up for your slef say "i dont know where you got that rumor from but its not true" h=give this time.... it will alll blow over.


15/f--i've been dating my boyfriend for nearly the entire school year and we're INCREDIBLY close. however...i'm not a big fan of kissing. Its great fun on the neck or ear...but just frenching or long kisses on the lips...its gross, and i feel like i'm drowning. i don't know if its just something i'm doing wrong, or if he's not a good kisser...or that's just how things are supposed to go and somehow i'm the only person in the world who finds this disgusting. :-/ please let me know what it might be, and anything i could do to help this situation! thanks (link)
Well im not quite sure but all i can say is that when you find the one you reallly love and care about.... kissing is going to be amazing. and you wont find it gross


My husband and I were born, raised and married in Italy. We moved to Houston, TX together in 1994 and had our daughter in 1996. She currently goes to a multi-cultural school where she has befriended many Bosnian girls. I never gave a second thought to the fact that the majority of her friends are Bosnian. Well, not until this morning. She came up to me and told me that she loves Bosnia and wishes she was Bosnian.

Now, don't get me wrong, I have nothing against the people, country, or culture. I adore being around her friends and their parents. I just fear that my child is losing her Italian background. How can I get her excited about the Italian culture again?

She is currently 9-years-old.
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IM italian and i didnt really apreaicate it until i was a lil older (like 11) because i learned about how hard it was when italians 1st moved here. So now i respect that. But if you want her to know her background, do things representing Italy. Make italian meals (we italians definatly got that down). And when she is old enough... give her a chain with an italian horn on it and explain it to her. My father gave me one and ive never taken it off. Do things to influence italian culture like italian opera, food, religions. ect. Well i hope i help
-High Hopes from the sicilian, Becky


were can i find music for free besides launch.com? (link)
www.netscape.com
www.myspace.com (if the music you are looking for has a site there.... searc and if your lucky they do)


my face is not the cleanest one and it has some pimples and i wanted to know what kind of face wash or any techniques i can do to make my face really smooth and even get rid of some pimples (link)
Well Make sure you wash your face EVERY DAY. i preferably use noxema. It seems to be best. and also when you bathe take awash clothe and dip it into the hot steamy water (wet but not soaked, like damp) and drape it over ur face. The steam will clear up some hidden dirt or oil. Dont use lostion soap or vasaline.... it will clog up pores more. And dont pop them. It will leave nasty scars and make dry spots.


When I was 9 my mom threw me and brother out on the streets. He was 16 at the time and he took care of me. I'm 15 now and he's 23. Well I usually don't tlak about my past because I really don't think that it's that bad. At least I had my brother and that's more than some people have. Well the school found out about what was going on so I had to go to the school counsellor and talk to him and he told me that it would be a good idea to find someone that I can really trust at school to talk to if I have a problem. I really don't have a best friend I have friends but I never really got close enough to anyone where I was comfortable talking to them about important stuff. Well anyway I finally got up the courage to talk a girl that I've been friends with for a long time. At first she was really nice about it she said she would be there for me and that she understood and that it's ok to talk about things. Then I heard her say that I'm a lier and that I make things up for attention. I finally talked to someone and they did this to me. She told everyone that I pretend to do drugs and that I act all tough but I really don't. I've never said that I've done drugs or even tried them. I don't believe that they are the answer to anything.
My question is what can I do about this? Should I say something to her or pretend like nothing happened? And should I trust someone else or should I just keep things to myself like I did before? Thank you in advance and I will rate high. (link)
Well for the most part I would say ...ignore it. I mean theres only 2 people who really need to now the truth and thats You and the Good Lord. You beleive your self and he does too. But if some one says this stff to your face dont be afraid to stand up for your self. Tell them "hey i dont know where u herd that but its not true!" i dont know what else to say so i hope ive helped in any way possible
-High Hopes, Becky




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