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Q: One of my best friends is EXREMLEY rude to me, she bosses me around so much and she doesn't do it to anyone else. It makes me upset because I feel like she doesn't like me. On her profile she listed her friends and i'm not even on there and im supposed to be her best friend. Then the other night she had our 2 other best friends over and didn't even invite me. Shes acting really weird and shes always making rude away messages about me. I don't like it at all because she was never like this before. Please help me!
*[ Hayley ]*
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it seems like shes not being such a good friend...i think you should just forget about her after treating you like that. if you really want to know whats going on, ask her and see what her reaction is. maybe you did something wrong and you didnt know about it? hope i helped
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Q: Okay, well I liked this boy who his parents are family friends and my dad and his dad go way back as kids. Well we were over his house one day and we ate there and all and we had a really good time.{it was back when we were in like 4th grade} Later he told his parents that he liked me for more than a friend and I didn't like him for more than a friend. Well, now we are in 6th grade and he still liked me and I started to like him more. He asked me to the first dance and all and then he asked to sit at my friends and I's table and we let him and he asked me out to all different dances at our school so we were kind of "boyfriend and girlfriend." Then I found out there is this other girl who likes him and she hates me because he doesn't like her. She called me names behind my back and stuff and he always said that she was annoying. Then he just stopped sitting with us at lunch for like three weeks. Then I found out he thought we broke up so he asked the other girl out. Now they have been going out for like three weeks. i still like him but he is taken. Should I wait for him to come around or just forget about it?
~Fellow Advincinator
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why would he think u guys broke up? i might be wrong, but maybe he's just using that as an excuse for why he went to the other girl. that seems kind of a mean thing for him to do, and i think if he really liked u he would at least make sure if it was over before moving to someone else...maybe you should just forget about him... hope i helped!
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Q: i'm in 8th grade and we have a field trip to islands of adventure (universal) we have the money to go but my parents dont think it will be safe.my teacher who planned it is one of the most responsible people i know and she called to convince my dad but he just simply told her 'no' and wouldnt let her explain.i cant get them to listen to me!what should i say so they'll let me go?!
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sit down with them and have a long talk..if you have to, tell them every single detail and give them a schedule and a list of phone numbers of where you'll be. tell them you'll call them when you get there and when you're about to leave, and tell them you've been looking forward to this for a long time and it would mean a lot if you could go. hope i helped!!
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Q: my fingernails are pretty long...but VERY thin! everytime i go to do something they either break or bend easy! i want hard findernails and not for them to bend as easy anymore...does anyone know how i can do this?
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well you could buy a strengther at the store...and this might sound weird but eating jello makes your nails stronger too...hope i helped!
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Q: I am in middle school, 13 years old, and there are some pretty cute boys there. Some boys only have one class with me and each class is about an hour long. Also I can't talk to them between classes (weird issues won't get into it). How do I attract their attention or flirt with them without getting in trouble? Just so you know I am a shy girl so try to answer with something that I might be willing to do.
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just break the ice by asking a question like what the homework is or something. or if you dont get one of the lessons you're learning and he's really smart, ask if maybe you can call him for help. just make it casual. good luck!!
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Q: ok when ever someone asks me to do something i almost instantly forget it and they get get mad...what am i supposed to do?
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bring something around that you can write things in..like an agenda or calendar. that way you can just write everything in there that you need to remember. Hope i helped!!!
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Q: i'm 13, 5'1 and i weigh 110 pounds. i have a big stomache that bulges and also huge thighs. please give me some advice on how i can lose this extra fat quickly. because of my enormous thighs i can't wear certain pants without looking fat in them and because of my stomach i can't wear clothes that aren't baggy without my stomach sticking out. so please, if you have any good advice to give, please tell me ways i can lose the fat in my legs, and my stomach before february 9th. thank you so much!
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well i dont know if you can do it as fast as february 9th, but cut back on sugars and fats. dont eat unless you're hungry, and dont eat because you're bored. do some kind of excersise, like a tredmill or ride a bike or something. Good luck!!!
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Q: 13-m What clothes should be worn on a regular day when ur trying to impress people.(im on a budget so no p diddy stuff.)
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jeans and tshirts from places like abercrombie and american eagle, and if you can't afford that aeropostale or old navy are usually cheaper. short, gelled hair is cool...if not that than like a sort of long surfer look
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Q: i have problems. LIKE I AM A VERY NICE EASYGOING FUNNY PERSON BUT I DONT HAVE any friends.(sry cap locks was on!!) like there are people that are nice and i eat lunch with them. but i want a friend thAt i can tell stuff to hang out on the weekends stuff like that. i call people but there always "busy" when i call. since i dont have any friends and im lonely and have alot on my mind my grades are dropping.and since my grades are dropping my parents are getting mad at me. and i am always screaming at them and there always screaming at me. i cant talk to them they would like eat my alive. i cant tell my problems to my friens because i dont have any. i cry so much. i cry myself to sleep. i sometimes think about sucide. i have no one to talk to. i need some love! what do i do?
~unloved and unwanted
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why dont you try joining a club or something? or just start talking to random ppl about something you have in common, and try to get to know them. or ask a lot of ppl for sns and talk to them that way. if you really need to talk to someone, dont commit suicide!! just talk to your guidance counselor or your local hotline.
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Q: ok latley i havent been able to talk to guys oh im a 13 yr old female- i just need some icebreakers see once the ball gets rolling i can talk to them fine even flirt if i wanna i just can never think of anything to say when i approch the guy which is weird cuz normaly i can so if you all could just give me some icebreakers that would be great please and thanyou
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umm just talk about anything! even something even stupid like the weather if you're desperate lol. ask him some questions to seem like you're interested, talk about a movie you saw, a teacher you both have, a test, anything random like that.
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Q: Okay i like this girl in my school....I dont think she likes me.But she dont know I like her like that too....We met this year but we are really close.....What should i do!
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you should drop her hints or something. i know too many ppl who both like each other, but never find out cuz they're too shy. try taking a chance, who knows what will happen! Hope i helped!!!
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Q: I have liked this guy forever. I dont really talk to him in person, but I do on AIM all the time, and we fight constantly. The wierd thing is tho, at school, he stares at me all the time. We just got back from a retreat type thing, and there he always sat pretty close to me, like right in front of me. Yesterday, he IMd me saying "Ive changed, im sorry for being mean to you". But then a lil while after that he asked me if i had done this assignment so he could get the answers. Do u think this guy likes me, or just wants to use me for school related stuff?
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well the guy might like you, but he doesn't seem like a good bf. if he was mean before, theres a good chance he's gonna be mean again. make sure that he doesn't take advantage of you! maybe you should just stay friends awhile and see what happens. Good luck!!
***MysteryGirl
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Q: I hav 2 bessies Emily and Fi but i really dont like emily. we've been friends for years but i cant stand her. I dont want to make fi choose because we're really close but i know i cant go on like this. I often snap at emily and we say horrible things to each other and i feel really bad afterwards but i'm in a really sticky situation and my heads all messed up. Can u giv me sum advice on wt i shud do?
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maybe you should just be honest with emily. say you've been really close for awhile and you've really enjoyed it, but you think you guys are growing apart and you need space. tell fi that you don't want her to choose between two friends, but you've tried to get along with emily and it just isnt working. Good luck!!
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Q: Ok.... I went to my best friends b-day party and my g/f was there and we were watching a movie and we started making out for like 15 seconds. Now i can't wait to see her again because i really feel different becasue we made out. Is this normal?
Please Help
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yea, that's totally normal. you guys have brought up ur relationship to a new level, ur probably excited. Hope i helped!
~~MysteryGirl
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Q: Me and this guy are friends right now and I feel we have a close connection since he always seems to want to talk to me. But he has a girlfriend....so tell me please, how do I get him to like me as more than just a friend OR ask me out? Please help it would be greatly appreciated.
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well i know someone who has like the exact same prob....you should probably tell him how you feel, so even if he doesnt like you you can know for sure and move on...or you could just wait until he and his girlfriend break up to make your move.
Good Luck!!
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Q: Ok, this is a pretty basic question, but does anyone have any really good organizational tips for school and also study tips along with that...they kinda go hand in hand! I RATE VERY WELL:)
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well, if you don't already have one, an assignment pad really helps. You can get one at a bookstore or a place like walmart or taget, and you can write your homework in there. when you get home from school, set a schedule, like do your homework right away, eat dinner, go on the computer for an hour, then study and take your time. then whatever time u have left you can do whatever you what.
I hope this helped!!
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Q: ok.....i like this guy. lets call him bob. and i've liked bob for a couple months now. and we've become good friends. and i had a friend ask how he felt about me, and he said that he just liked me as a friend. but...lately, there had been some stuff goin' on.....rumors if you will, about him likin' me. and i mean A LOT of rumors. i heard it in a lot of different places. someone even told me that bob had been tellin' people on his bus that him and i were goin' out. and then i got this news about him likin' me as just a friend. BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE! I'M SO CONFUSED! please help!
sry for the length and thx in advance (:
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confused,
Maybe you should confront "bob" about these rumors. you totally have a reason to, because you just want to know what he thinks about you. if he says no, he doesn't like u, then you could just say u don't like him anymore either and then you'll be done with it.
Good luck!
*MysteryGirl*
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Q: okay..everyone at my school says im annoying! its really started to bother me..i dont know who to be friends with b/c everyone talks bad about me! what should i do?
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if they think you're annoying, maybe you should tone it down a notch. whatever bad things they say about you, use that critisism and try to improve those things about yourself.
MYSTERY_GIRL
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Q: OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m
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you can't blame her for being worried, she probably just doesn't want to lose you. you should definately talk to her so that she knows how much you love her, and that shes the only girl you care about. long distance relationships are really hard to handle, it will really test how much you guys care about each other.
Good luck!!!
MySTeRy GiRL
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Q: Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?
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NO WAY!! you wouldn't just not like someone because they aren't the most good looking person in the world....i mean, u can't expect prince charming to always look like a prince...besides, some of the best guys i know aren't the cutest, but turn out to be the coolest.
I hope this helped!
~*~MysteryGirl~*~
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hey, leave me any q's and i'll try to answer them...
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Info
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Member Since: December 9, 2004 Answers: 55 Last Update: October 10, 2006 Visitors: 4468
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