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everyone i know has a different interpretation of what the "bases" are. i always feel stupid when what i finally decide is right..isn't according to someone else? what are they?
I would say bases are the things that the players run over after they hit the ball. You know like 1st base 2 base and third base. As long as you are talking about *baseball* then ya - I hope Ive help ;) xoxox-Melissa
hay is this melisa from sperring?Well its ERNAR if u remember me LOL um well ye i just wanted to know
umm No Im another melissa but we can be friends =) xoxo-melissa
I have recently been dating this guy named Nick and I feel he doesn't love me as much as he says he does. But I don't really care for him...I guess I'm dating him cuz I'm desperate...But then this guys brother comes over to my house b-cuz hes friends with my sister and says his brother who i've had a crush on for sooo long!, says his brother wants to go out with me!! and i swear this guy is sooooooo great! i actually went to his house once and he is soooooo awesome!! im super shy...how could I get together with that guy? and how could i tell the other one i dont want to date him anymore?
please help!!
*female* lol..i just wanted to let you kno..lol :P
ok hun first you'll want ot get to know this guy way better by talking to him on the computer, hanging out, or try calling him just ot say hi. :) Telling a guy you dont want to go out anymore can be pretty hard to do so in a nice way say to him "I like you but I just would like to be your friend for now" or you can say "I think we should go our separte ways".I hope I helped !
hey! well there is this guy who lives about an hour away from my house n' we r really close friends. but i really like him MORE than a friend! i get to see him on some weekends when my mom drived me up there and we get to hang out. his dad told me that he liked me n' i think he does to, just the way he acts around me. i just think that he is to shy to say what he really feels...but then so am i. like...to my friends, i call him my boyfriend, and to his friends (that i've heard from them) that he has called me his girlfriend b4. he even stayed tha night at my house! (nuthin happen tho) lol! but yeah...how can i make it so that he askes me out n' he can REALLY be my boyfriend?!?! thanx! 13/f
ok well its hard being shy and I know because I am very* so I think when you two are alone -even if its hard for you to talk to him to his face then grab a note and write down how you feel or ask him if he likes you,then hand it to him Another way is to maybe ask him on the computer. Sometimes if you keep telling yourslef you can do it and just go up to him and talk to him. :) I hope I helped !! xoxo-Melissa
I like your hair so I wanted to know do u go to da salon or like is it natural or do you have some kind of hair product u use?...I rate
Thanks ! =) I dye my hair and staighten it
xoxo-melissa
this girl she just doesnt suck my dick very good and she never makes me cum on her face. would should i do?
well just dont let her do it to you or have your tried talking ot her about it ? I think that could help -I hope Ive helped ya xoxox-Melissa
Wow okay im going out with this guy who says he's in love with me and promises it, but i know he talks to other girls.He insists that he loves me though.I say i love him back, when rele I dont.HELP!what should i do?
If you dont really love someone, than you shouldnt be with them and if hes talking about other girls then, thats the first sign he is not the trustful type :/ Remeber to pick by his personality first* and hi looks second, and then you should be fine.:) I hope I've helped ! xoxox-Melissa
Whats the best way to get a guy? Please answer!!
The best way to get a guy is to be honest yourself,confident and loving .You have to love him for who he is too and respect him. I think you should be yourself because its not about looking like a barbie doll or acting like one. If thats all that a guy wants to see in you, he's not respecting himself and wont respect you. That tells you from the start your too good for him . I hope I've helped xoxo-Melissa
Well I like this guy and we're in drama together, band, and student council I catch him sometimes starin at me...so does my friend.....It's like out of the corner of the eye like hey. Srry i couldnt think of nething to describe it. He offered to open the door for me one time!!! (I know it may not be a lot to some people but it means a lot to me). I was the only person (Me and my friend) that he offered to open the door for! Could you PLEASE respond asap?? Before school ends? 5/22/05 because that's when he graduates, (he's in 8th I'm in 6th) my friends keep telling me that he like me but I think they're only doin that to make me feel good. If you want to know more E~Mail me for more info. Thanks I reallly appreciate your help! Thanks sooooooooooooo much!!! I kinda get jealous when he's talkin to another girl (I cant help it!) And he's kinda populaur...we're like the same type I think. Well, my friend opened her big mouth and blabbed now he knows and she said it seemed like he was tryin to hide it from me.... Thanks again! ~*In NEed Of Desperate Help*~ P.S. We're doin' a scene together and stuff in dramaY
Well if you think he likes you then try to be open with him about it like say to him alone, do I feel like more than a friend to you ?.. or ask him on the computer about that if you can .I hope Ive helped somehow =) xoxo-Melissa-
I have acne on my face that I hate.
I have an apointment for the dermatologist in May. But does anyone know some good over the counter stuff that I can use till then?
Ok well I have oil free acne wash by neutrogena and it works for my oily skin real good !you can get it at walmart too for like 3$ about. and another tip* is to not touch your face alot or your transfering dirt to your pores.I hope Ive helped xoxox-Melissa
Yesterday my friend pierced my ears. I was wondering how long I have to leave them in before I can change them? Thanks!
6-8 weeks hun, and dont forget to clean your ears nd earings with rubbing acohol 2 times every day. Then you should be fine =) I hope Ive helped xoxo-Melissa
i have this friend tim and he is my best guy friend and we hang out all the time and we flirt alot and i really like him but he is my ex. And i thought he like me back until i find out he likes someone else but he didnt tell me i found out from his sister and i tryed to talk to him about it but i changed the subject what do i do to get him to like me like i like him because im still in love with him ever since the day we broke up! Help!
Well I was in your situation once kinda like that. Its very confusing and hard. My best thought on this would be to say I think you should try to talk to him and tell him that your feeling differently about him now and wanted to tell him that . I think you should say whatever your heart feels. You never know he could reallly actually feel the same way . Noys can be shy at times but dont want you to know something, so try to open up to him !
hey! well , ok theres this dude i have a crush on, but he seems SO SHY.. its kind of irritating.. but yea.. lol... and like i think he's cute, but i've never actually talked to him before becuz of the fact that he is shy,, and he looks at me all the time but never says a word. wut do u think i should do?
Well I think you should try to find an exciting moment to try to get to talk to him even if its just on the computer or even hang out like that . I hope Ive help ! xoxo-Melissa-
i really like my x boyfriend still ... we have been broken up for a long time but when i went out with somone else he liked me again and so of course i cheated on my boyfriend to go back with him ( ya i know dumb but i was in love with him still)and then after i broke up with my boyfriend after cheating on him my ex just went out with some other girl ... i still like him
Wow :0 that can get confusing , my best advice on this would be to just try to focus on whose the nicest guy by meaning his,personality,thoughtfullness and trust and then his good looks.Dont ever judge a book by its cover ;) I hope I helped xoxox-Melissa_
Hey, I just wanted to say, nice pic! Plus I have dandruff, and I use head and shoulders, but I want something that helps FAST! Can you recomend anything? Thanks.
AAww, well thank you !*:)umm well you kinda stumped me on this one cuz thats the only thing I would use is head and shoulders, or you could try asking at a hair salon or local drugstore . sorry if its not the best advice... I hope I helped xoxoxo-Melissa-
I really wanna get this guy to like me but i dont no how to get him to notice me ... plus i dont think he likes me even as a friend so i dont no how this is possible ... ?
Well I would say dress cute but dont go slutty because if as guy likes you for that he doesnt really like you he just wants down your pants. Be a little flirtly and wink your eye, write him a note or just be nice because if you act liek yourself your really doing the right thing, compared to the snobby girl who throws herself at guys,.You dont want ot be like that. I would say just be you ! :) ;) BE SWEET and caring too* I hope I helped ;) xoxoxo -Melissa-
Your pretty do you use eyeliner?
if so do what kind do you use cuz Im looking for a good brand of eyeliner to buy , -Daniel
Aww, thats so nice of you thanx. Yes i do use eyeliner :) its like my life ,lol .. The kind I use is Revlon, brand name it works really good!, it stays on for a long time and hardly smears.I get it at walmart or others store like that. I hope I helped * xoxox-Melissa-
my friend and i had a fight becasue i was kidding with his g/f and she knows i was kidding i said show me ur bra lol j/k and she no in the funny way kidding way then she showed me her thong but i wasent paying attenion now her friend was there and told him and said i wanted to see her naked when i didnt then later on the computer me and my friend got into a big fight becasue he belived that girl that i wasent kidding that i really wanted to so please help me or i can lose a friend or we can get into a fist fight and i really dont want to hurt him- please help
Well my best Advice on this would be to just say to your friend , "look you can believe me or not but your pretty sick for even thinking that way, and I would also say you arent me and you werent there, if this person is suppose to be your friend, then why dont they believe you ?,,
Dont worry about it too much because it will eventually stop and just blow over . I would say just be confident in yourself and keep telling yourself that it doesnt matter to you what they think. It sounds to me like some peopl need to grow up... :/ You'll survive , I hope I helped* :) ~Ask Anytime~
xoxoxo -Melissa-
u look really hot will u have sex with me or cyber
Umm ... Thanx but no sorry,you could try it with yourself though,.. xoxox-Melissa-
i have a boyfriend and i love him alot but theres this other guy at school and he is soooooooooooooooooooo sexy and cute and he wants 2 go out wit me but itz so hard cause they are both so sexy. What do i do?????????
My best Advice on this that I tell everyone else is when looking for a guy it is Not all about his looks, you have to look into the guy's personality and see if he will be , Trustworthy, honest, sweet, kind and give you some space and think about you too. yes of course your going to want a guy who looks good ! ;, who doesnt, but I say just try that. I hope I helped *
xoxo-Melissa-