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ok i like this boy in my class. weve known each other since like.. 7th gradE? and we were just friends then but now we hang out more and flirt and stuff and im scared to tell him i like himmm.. i mean how do i do it! thanks (link)
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wELL. In my opinion...dont anounce LOVE...unless ur like 50% sure he likes you...i mean you dont want to scare the man off do ya? Well....invite hime somewhere. Ice skating? Movies? Just give him the messege you wanna hang out and TALK.
Afterwards... take it slow. Start out by flirting. Tell him old stories from the 7th gade??
Then say "Ive known you for a while...and i really like you.." then say somethingg like "ill totally understand if you dont see me that way.." Just so he knows that your still his friend no matter what.
Dont know wut else to say but GOOD LUCK! also...i hope that helped!!
always here for you MaRii
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Ok this guy was new in school and we clicked from the start. he liked me. i liked him. so we flirted. i lead him on. but the second time we spoke i make it clear i dont date. after that we continued flirting talkin getin to know each other. towards recent we were both like OMG she knows me to well and i was like wow he responds to me like no other. On 14th feb he gave me a gift. and i returned it back to him. i felt like i had to stop leading him on cause i dont date *if i dont have a future with him why should i? and i know i dont. this wont last. he is a suni muslim and i a shia. so whats the point? i wont marry him so why should i date* so i returned the gift and now he is really upset and mad at me. i can udnerstand but i dont want to lose him. I still really like him. and i wish he owuld give me a chnace to explain. he isnt. and in front of ppl he acts like we are ok behind we arent. and i dont know what to do. i really like him but whats the point? im so confused. please help!
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I have no idea what suni muslim or shia is...but im sure it means you cant be together. I say screw the rules. If you love the guy and really dont wanna loose him...you'll be together no matter what anyone says. That is love. Afterall....'love is the closest thing we got to magic." So if anyone...says its wrong to be with him (example: parents, friends..ex.) Tell them to not WORRY ABOUT IT!! Because if you are ment to be together. Its obvious!! You two "click!" so tell him you love him. Invite him somewhere. Somewhere where you to can be alone. Tell him the problems. Explain to him that love is somethingg that cant be avoided. Make it WORK!! Use your brain!!
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Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
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Well. My advice is to go to Margaret's 16 first. Let her know your there. Let her know that you chose her over anyone else. After all she is your best friend. How would you feel if you got blown off by her? If it turns out to be a kickass time...stay. But later you can catch up with the tennis people. And party at the hotel. Oh and by the way...If you do turn out going to Lucy's partie afterwards...DONT kill it by telling Margaret your going to ditch....Tell her you have things to do..that your tired or make up somethingg....Of coarse....its not my brightist idea....because if margaret finds out wut u did she might be crushed ...but look on the bright side....you went to hers party "FIRST" that has to count for somethingg!!!
Have fun..!
always...
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why is it bad to wear make up at a young age (kids)? Is it something with their skin? What age can you wear make-up?
When you wax does like (un-noticely) some of your skin is damaged or ripped so it's better off shaving? (link)
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OKay..all i have to say is...Let your skin breath!! yes it alright to wear make-up..but make sure u wash your face often. Wearing make will only clogg up pores..and piples...causing more piples to be born. And spread. I personally dont wear make up at all...and my skin is pretty much clear. Sure...when theres a big event or ...a special occasion. Look pretty ...wear make up...give yourself that sexci look. Not too much though.
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hey. i'm wondering about specific things boys do when they like a girl, more than as a friend. it's so hard to distinguish between a guy who talks to you for the sake of being nice, because he's bored, because he talks to everyone, or who talks to you because he really is genuinely interested in you.
so here's info about my situation. there's a boy. i'm in physics with him. first day of school i told him and his friend a funny story about me. second day of school, boy says "hey", i say "hey" back. 3rd day, he mentions the story i told him and teases me about it and tells all the guys around him what i did. from that point on, every single day he mentions my story and teases me. he writes dumb stuff on my papers before passing them down to me. he tries to get my attention a lot to tell me really stupid stuff. like, "hey. hey. hey. can you wiggle your fingers?" and most of the time i try to ignore him and watch the teacher. so then to the guy next to me he says,"hey. get her attention." and he does the whole act-like-i'm-handing-you-you're-paper-then-pull-it-away-so-you-reach-for-it thing. he was doing that last week and the teacher was like, "Michael, stop flirting with the pretty girl and get your work done." then he gave me goofy, smiley looks.
BUT here's the thing. he has a girlfriend. they've been together about a month. and he talks to me all the time in class, but never just alone. i was so excited because we both had to stay after school to finish a test, and the teacher left the room, so it was just me and him by ourselves. but he didn't say anything to me then. so i'm seriously confused. advice please?
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Theres certain things guys do to give the messege they like you. I belive that if a guy is constanly tryna get your attention. He wants you to notice him. Flirt with him. During class next time. Look at him. Does he look you in that special way? Does he look at you at all? Trust me...you'll when he looks at you in that special way...try to check if he looks at you. If he does that may mean he likes you...but cant do anythingg because hes already a realationship. Try checking if he 'loves' his girlfriend. If you notice...that he really into her. Just stay away. because youll only get dragged down into a situaton...that wont happen. Find another cute boy...that single..and is flirting worthy. After that if this boy shows 'jeolosy simptoms' He'll do somethingg to be with you. HINT HINT : break up with his girlfriend.
Overall my advice is to stay close but not close...flirt. Because its obvious he wants ur attention. But dont get to INTO it ...cuz he has a girlfrined.
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