Welcome all who needs advice. i kno u may not want to open and tell but my advice always works. sometimes you need advice so u can see if wat u think is right wrong and u should ask more den one person. Im very generous and open minded. i dont have much but my advice helps all.
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I got a porn pop up and now I got a virus!! I rebooted my computer a while ago and I really don't want to do it again.
My question is does anyone know any free virus things that will delete it?
Thanks so much. (link)
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VirusScan or the McAfree Firewall
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I live in a really small apartment with my mom and sister. Its not even a nice one either. The floors are a different color in each room, the walls are different, the tiles are coming off in the bathroom. Its a really clean apartment but just very ugly and i get embarressed to bring people over. I havnt had a boyfriend in a really long time becasue im afraid he will have to come over sometime and see what i live in.. a dumpster! I dont know what to do im reallu nervous about having one and then letting them see this place. (link)
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It shouldn't matter. Your house doesn't kae the person you are and if a boy cant appreciate that then there's something wrong. Be proud of where you live and everything should fall into place.
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umm...doesn anybody know like..andy good cheers that i could use for my swim team??? we are the southwestern trojans...ill rate high for good ones
♥ rrenef ♥ (link)
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http://www.cocojams.com/fraternity_and_sorority_chants.htm go to that it has great chants that you can switich around.
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i wanna earn some money.. problem is, im only 13 is there ANYTHING i can do to get some money? (link)
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You could try snagajob.com and see if they have any jobs for 13 year olds. or you could go around your neighborhhod see if anyone needs babysitting. If you do hair start a hair business or help clean up.
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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.
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You could shave to if want to but it wouldn't matter because it grows back. Shaving is the better thing because its simple as long as you have shaving cream. If you dont use water. Nair doesn't work on your vagina area.( i tried) Trimming just makes it grows back. When you shave you cut it down at the root. Some boys like shved vagina's others could careless
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Ok. If ANY of you guys have been paying attention you might have ehrd a similar question. But I am asking this again because I didn't get alot of responces. Ok...
Ok I still LOVE my ex boyfriend. Yeah he is single and I 'sorta' think he likes me. Here is why.. When we talk he jokes with me, he will make stupid remarks to make me laugh, when I was at the ball game the other night (he plays basketball) he kept starin at me and showing off. And when It was over he came up to me and Sais "are you cold?" and I was like "yeah" and he smiled and left. soooo..... (link)
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Well this one can work to ways. One, he thinks of you as a close friend cause you know him better then anybody else cause you spent moretime with him.Or two, he still has feelings for you to. These are both good because you could still work and get to the place that you wanna be. Just keep doing what you do and keep on remincising on the fun times you guys had. Sooner or later he's gonna wanna come back to you.
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I guess you could say that i am prude...but I have made out with a guy and he has felt me up, but I am really scared to be in a situation where he wants to finger me or he wants me to give him a handjob,or do anything else for that matter.(he is my boyfriend) I just think it would be awkward and i dont know what im doing when it comes to sexual stuff. can u jus give me advice on what to do if the times comes? Sorry so long...i rate high (link)
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First of you need to tell him that your scared. That way it wont seem like your playing the i know everything game. Second, you shouldn't let anybody tell you how to give hi a blow job. You should ask him cause there may be a certain way he would like you to do it. Then once you get the hang of it add your own flava to it. And fingering is all him. All you do is the screaming cause trust me it hurts.
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Sperm live for 24 hours once outside the penis and in the vagina, if on the hands.. sperm can live for a couple hours still.. (link)
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Thats true, however if it happens after you had a cycle then for 15 day your not able to produce babies.
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whenever i try to listen to a song, there is this popup from wmp that says "The source filter for this file could not be loaded." what should i do to fix this so i can listen to songs? 5's if the answer is helpful (link)
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If you have a VirusScan turn the filter off. Its the little thin next to the time that has a V. Or you can listen to music at launch.yahoo.com. Not only can here you here the music you could watch the video.
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About two weeks ago my boy friend and i were fooling around and he starting fingering me..before that he had fingered me he had been handeling his dick very briefly, is it possible that there was enough cum on his hand to get me pregnant? Thanks. *i'm almost positive that he didn't have any on his hands though, but just in case* (link)
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Your not pregnant. The sperm can only live outside for a short period of time. Next time you should be careful and make sure he washes hands or something.
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I need a website where i dont need to download a program to take a quiz on a book. I am in junior high so thats the level of quiz i need to take. I tried googling so dont say that.I rate high for good answers! (link)
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Go to sparknotes.com that has everything
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I always go on this chat room and i can't stop going. I want to block it for myself but I don't know how and I know I'll get mad when I want to go on it and I can't. What should I do to try and stop going on it? (link)
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Find another shat room thats better. You shpould try pogo.com not only is it a chat room but you can lpay games while you chat. Or you can blacok the chat room and just play the games. Find something else that can occupy your time.
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ok well about a month ago i found out that this guy likes me and that he'd been talking about me to his friends. then he started to hang around me a lot, walked with me to class and even referred to me as his gf to his friends. anywhoz as i got to know him, i began to get feelings for him too, but he didn't believe his friends when they said that i liked him back. well one day we were talking and i just flat out told him that i liked him, but he didn't really answer back..it was just awkward. i just blew it off and pretended that nothing happened. well that weekend we went out on a "date" and had an awesome time and we kept talking alot after that, but the last few days, it seems like he doesn't talk to me as much anymore and when we do he doesn't have much to say...has he totally lost all interest in me and is moving on or just being shy because he hasn't had a REAL gf in a while?? help me please! (link)
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He didnt lose interest, his just spoking out of words. He thought his friends were playing and he dindt think you were serious. Now its like he doens't know what to do. He wants to try to please you the best way he can without looking like a punk. Just helping out a bet. I mean you said it urself. He hasn't had a REAL gf in a long time?
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well...there is this guy...named mike...and like i went out with him overthe summer and we didnt last long atall... liek a week...well when me n my x-bf broke up i started to like him again...a lot but like my best friend likes him and like she will not stop talking about him she likes him so much...well i started goin out w/him last night and like idk if shes gonna be mad...like should i tell her right away? or should i wait to see what shee thinks? im just like realy confuzed on what to do like...idk and also...i still have MAJOR feelings for my ex who was my first love and i cant get over him...=( (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. You need to tell your friend right away. You dont wanna lose her friendship. You gotta tell her that you just can't let him go. I mean if she's your best friend she should just understand. and i mean you could tell her that it was just two old friends hanging out but you really dont wanna hurt your friendship with her or him.
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okay so theres this guy. him and my really good friend were going out but then she dumped him like a month or two ago. ever since then ive had feelings for him. while we were talking online once i asked him who he liked. he didnt want to tell me, because he didnt think she likes him back. im really starting to like him, but i dont know if we could ever go out because of my friend. so what do yall think i should do? (link)
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In my eyes it seems that he is still hungover his ex girlfriend and its gonna take him awhile to get over it. THis all depends on how bad you want him. If you dont think that you really want him that bad, then just stay as a friend and move on to a better guy; however, if it's killing you then here's what you should do: Step 1 ask you friend if she still likes him in any way shape or form. Also ask how would she feel ifagurl wen otu with one of her friends ex's. If she cool about it then go to step 2 if not then stop because you dont wanna lose your friends no matter what. Step 2 Try to male your feelings none to him unsuspectdly. Make it seem like your caring for his feelings and saying that your liking him at the same time. Example, "I kno how you feel and im sorry what happen i wish there was something i could do to make you feel better." The more sincere you are then you and him would grow to close friends best friends he boy and girl friend. If you wanna take it that far. Hope i was helpful.
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i am 13/f and i love acting and singing and i really want a career in it! that's like all i want to do... i want to act, sing, model, dance, be a performer! this may sound really stupid... but does anyone know a way to get discovered? this is what i really want to do... and soon! thank you very much!!! (link)
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Well im not sure where you live but where i live we have people from collegexs and little companies that come to our school to find models dancers etc. Or you can loook on the internet for any shows that produce kids talents like star search. If your in high school or when you go to high school take dance classes drama classes etc. its a great stepping stone to start your career.
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HELP PLEASE..WILL RATE HIGH
here's the background information:::
last night..i went to the homecomming game with my friends. i hung out with a group of my really close guy friends for a while. i recientally broke up with my boyfriend..and my close friend (( im just going to use letters )) D asked me to take a walk with him. so i said alright, and we talked about y i broke up with my bf E. after a few min..he held my hand and he told me that he respectes my decision about what i did. also that night..i hung out with my friend C..we were fooling around..he said something random or stupid, and i'd kick him cause it was so annoying..but thats the way we are...anyways...today, my friend D imed me and told me that i shuld go out with C...i found this totally random and asked him y he thought i should. he told me that me and C look good together...which..i dont really kno for sure.....my other friend ( a guy ) told me that he thinks D likes me and tried using the whole " C && me makes a good couple" to distract me....
my question is....is it ture that he could be saying that i look good with someone else to hide his feelings for me? (link)
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Of course. He likes you alot and i mean alot. You should of notice the first sign when ya'll started holding hands. He is trying to cover up his feelings by sayin someone else likes hoping that you would say that your not in to him like that. Then he would prolly ask if you like him. Now thats the question do you?
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what does it mean when someone says dont break they guy? (as in when dancin with him) (link)
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that means when a girl is dancin with a guy they mean don't dance with a guy so hard that he can't handle it or that you hurt him.
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There's this boy that I've known ever since 5th grade (we are in 9th grade) we are very close besides the fact that I NEVER SPENT TIME WITH HIM BESIDES SCHOOL!!! Yea we would talk on the phone, text and stuff but, I would LOVE to go somewhere with him one day but there are 2 problems:
1.) I am afraid that if I am alone with him, he might put the moves on me and we might have sex! (Only a kiss will do)
2.) I am afraid that if I go to the movies with him or something, that he might try and play me by taking me somewhere far, leaving me alone or embarrassing me.
What can I do to overcome my shyness and how do I explain to him that I am shy?
P.S. I gave him some excuses! I don't want to seem like a liar or that I don't want to be with him because I DO! it would be like a DATE or something.. My FIRST date! (link)
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Date- when two couples go out. If yall are friends it would considered chillin together but if yall are a couple then its a date. Now if a kiss is the only thing it takes before he gets in them pants then something wrong. You need to learn how to control your hormones andbody but thats of topic. Now if he tells you that he is not going to do anything you gonna have to trust him. Just tell him that your a shy girl and that you dont wanna think nuttin more but friends going to the movies. Then if he tries to kiss you just tell him no. and keep doing that If you can control yourself and if you know your boundaries everything should be ok.
Hoped i helped atleast alittle.
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Ok~~ im 13 years old and im a girl lol~~well anyways have a boyfriend~ we've been going out for almost a month now~~ but he's a year younger than me and next year ill be in high school and he will be in middle school still~~ and i dont know wut to do because now football is almost over and that is the only time i see him~~ plus i sorta like another guy~ but i still love him help me i dont know wut to do~ please-- Jada (link)
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well i dont know how to tell you this but yall should just cut it off till he gets to high school. yall can be close friends but its not gonna work. See your going into a bigger community of boys and girls. YOu may grow to like someone else adn he the same. I think yall should end it or a short period of time. This can also be a test to see if its really meant to be.
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