about

Ookay, so let's start. The name's Lydia. I'm 14 but a lot of people think that I'm a whole lot older? I'm a freshman in highschool. I loove giving advice and the idea of helping people. So, feel free to ask me absolutely any questions you may have, I can probably answer most of them.



I don't get embarresed easily and I really don't care what you think about me. So feel free to say whatever you want to me. I won't care at all.



Music, my friends, my family, and photography make up my life. End of story.


I hatehatehate labels. I think that they're just a cheap, stupid way of giving bitchy, annoying people a reason not to talk to a person and get to know someone. I will NEVER label anyone.



Feel free to IM me anyytime. My screen name is lydiadance09, yeahh i know it's wicked gay. I'm usually on. But I would prefer if you ask me there, just because I usually have a lot of conversations going and it gets a little chaotic.



ask away, loves. ♥

advice

how long can sperm stay fertile afer ejaculation

inside the body, up to three days.
outside the body, the sperm dies almost instantly when it touches air or water.

♥ Lydia

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ive known this boy for 7 months... we were going out since i met him and we broke up like 3 weeks ago. we argue when we go out and when we arent going out. hes in love with me but everytime i get mad at him it makes me just want to be his friend more and more. he doesnt understand. he always hides stuff from me when he finds stuff out. hes really sneeky too. he found out my password to get on my computer, to get on my email, to get on here, and to get on my buddypic [ x0xkayla ] check me out.. lol ! well since weve been brokin up weve still be hanging out and doing stuff like we would normally do when we are going out. but on my buddypic it said that i was single and i was looking for a boyfriend and blah..blah.. blah . and he was being nosy and saw it and started flipping out. hes not the tyoe of boy i want to be with but unfortually i fell in love with him. im trying to get him to forget about me but we were planning on going to cali on may 23rd and now its canceled because me and him are in a big argument. is there any way i can just get him to be friends with me or to get him to change his ways? i want to be with him but i want him to be a good person not always arguing with me and being nosy

-kay
i rate 5's

You should deffinetly sit down and talk to eachother. Thats always the best way to resolve ANY problem. But, changing a person is not as easy as it seems. In order for a person to change, they need to recognize their own problems and then WANT to change. I know its hard for you to be in love and be hurt like this. So just tell him that you love him but you also need your privacy and that he hurts you when he does things like that.

♥ Lydia

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theres this guy i really like. but the thing is..me and my friends can seem to figure him out. i know he had a girlfriend we'll call alex and she was taken out of his pro one day...and then a week later..every so often he puts her name in his away message with hearts.


what also is a toughie..my question is if you can figure this out...in the halls.if we pass eachtoer, i can see him looking at me from the corner of my eye. or if im by my locker and he's by his, he'll look over and then look away..or keep looking at me. we are friends, and i just grew to like him. but he looks at other girls too..but me more than other..but i cant tell if he still has a gf since she goes to a dif school. this is all so confussing and i really donno what to think of it...help?

sry if i wrote it awakardly.

Hmm...from what i can make of your situation i would guess that he is attracted to you. but this doesnt mean that he wants a serious relationship. You should talk to him and just drop the topic into your conversation-"so how's your girlfriend doing?". just be sure to ask in a friendly tone. hope that helps!

♥ Lydia

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