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uhh..in a bit on wonder...i guess
theres this guy i really like. but the thing is..me and my friends can seem to figure him out. i know he had a girlfriend we'll call alex and she was taken out of his pro one day...and then a week later..every so often he puts her name in his away message with hearts.
what also is a toughie..my question is if you can figure this out...in the halls.if we pass eachtoer, i can see him looking at me from the corner of my eye. or if im by my locker and he's by his, he'll look over and then look away..or keep looking at me. we are friends, and i just grew to like him. but he looks at other girls too..but me more than other..but i cant tell if he still has a gf since she goes to a dif school. this is all so confussing and i really donno what to think of it...help?
sry if i wrote it awakardly.
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Hmm...from what i can make of your situation i would guess that he is attracted to you. but this doesnt mean that he wants a serious relationship. You should talk to him and just drop the topic into your conversation-"so how's your girlfriend doing?". just be sure to ask in a friendly tone. hope that helps!
♥ Lydia
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My guess is that he thinks you're pretty, that's why he looks at you. That doesn't mean that he wants a relationship. I mean, in all likelihood, he's still going out with Alex. Most people wouldn't put someone's name with hearts in an away message just a week after breaking up with them. Ask him how he and Alex are doing. You said you were his friend, so it wouldn't be weird or anything to show some interest in his life. Do it with a friend or two in tow. If he gets all defensive or weirded out say something to the effect of "well you don't talk about her much and I was just interested...I like to keep up with the latest gossip haha...we all want to know I'm just the one that asked". Make it seem like just an innocent curiosity. Using "I" instead of "we" for most of what you decide to say puts the attention on you and makes you out to be very confident, which is what you want if you're trying to reel him in. If they are doing well, it would be best not to pursue anything more than friendship with him. If you do, It'll result in a lot of heartache for everyone and way more drama than you need. If he and Alex aren't doing well and you decide to go after him, be very careful. He may not be as into you as you want him to be. When you like someone it's easy to misinterpret their actions and make everything they do into some sort of sign that they like you too. Good luck!
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