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My so called friend only wants to hang out with me when she wants to. She is two-faced and treats me like poo. Her ex boyfriend is taking me to prom and we eventually might be going out. Would that be wrong?

I think that you should talk to your friend about it first, just so there is not some major fighting.

Even if she doesn't like the idea, then you should just go ahead with it if it is what you want.

But you should deffinately talk to her about it first.

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We had a dog who would always use its paws to try to move the blankets ( rake ) and he did it for no reason, and kept moving it, he did it everytime we went to bed.
Then he died, and we got a new dog, who is a girl, and she does the same thing.. and I am just wondering why she does that?

They just do it to make the area more comfortable. My dog does the same thing.

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is it weird or odd that during sex a girl doesnt have an orgasm.. what if she feels the pleasure, but just keeps it in

It is pretty normal... A lot of girls do not have orgasms when they have sex..

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Hey is it normal for a girl to miss a period? i know that im NOT pregnate or anything and ive had my period for 2 years....is there something wrong with me? im 13 by the way... thanks in advance!

That is actually pretty normal. Teenage girls do not always have the most regular period.

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Ok so I have been seeing this guys *Jim* for a little over a year and I really love him. We makeout all the time, he's gotten up my shirt and just today he fingered me many times and I gave him a blowjob. Now I know this may not seem like alot to you but for me it is and that might be just because I`m 13. Now I have a question would you consider me a slut? How much do you think he likes me. (I am his first girlfriend, first kiss, first everything)? please answer this i am so nervous and scared.

To me a "slut" would be a girl who does things like that with numerous guys, and since you are only doing it with one I would not consider you a slut...

But, you should really think about what you are doing, because all of that stuff leads to sex. I know you might think that you won't let it, I thought the same thing, but it did end up with sex. And, I was 13 when I started doing that kind of stuff with my boyfriend, I am 15 now and I regret all of it,becasue I am not even with the boy any more, and I feel bad for my boyfiend now... So just think about athat...sorry didn't mean to lecture, just giving some advice...

I cannot tell you how much he likes you because I do not know him. But, you just needs to make sure that he respects you and treats you well and doesn't force you to do things you don't want him to.

But, considering that you are his first everything, then of course there is going to be a lot of special feeling just because of that fact, so I am sure he likes you a lot.

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hey i'm having a problem withmy friend. and like he has a girlfriend and me and him are really close! and we kinda love eachother. and he even admitted it to me! but i don't really think it's fair that we love eachother and he has a girlfriend! and like everytime we chat, he says i make him forget his girlfriend even more! i know it's not right but i really like this guy and he really likes me! what should i do? tell him that i can't like him anymore while he has a girlfriend? or should i just stop talking to him? i really want to know! it's so confusing! and i hate it!

Hey,
To me it sounds like you guys really like eachother, and have the potential to make a really good relationship out of it.

So I would deffinately sit him down and talk to him about it. And say that you don't think it is fair he has a girlfriend, and he says how much he loves you.

So deffinately confront him about it. But, I don't think you should stop talking to him altogether, I think you guys should deffinately continue your friendship.

Well, I hope everything works out for you!

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What is the difference between a walmart brand skateboard and a pro skateboard?

Wal Mart boards are cheaply made, do not last long,and cannot really do much. The only reason you would want to get a Wal Mart board would be to maybe just get the hang of being on a board.

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So my boobs have been itchy lately and I messed around with this guy that I just met but we don't have sex we just dry hump and the last night we messed around we dry humped with his boxers off and my under wear on?? So I didn't know if that was okay as long as he didnt stick it in me or he didnt blow.. I'm a really paranoid person so I am glad I found advicenators.com instead of asking my friends sometimes because most of them are sexually active and look at me funny.

You didn't say what you are worried about, but hun, you have nothing to worry about.

If he did not stick his penis in your vagina than there is nothing that is going to happen.

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how to ask her

I'm sorry, I do not understand your question.

If you asked me a question before, and this is just a continuation, send me the link and I will help you.

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Okay so I used to cut myself, but I've gotten somewhat better now. I have gym tomorrow and the uniform is a t-shirt. I don't want anyone to see the scars/scabs on my arms and make a big deal. Can anyone tell me how to cover my arms in gym, without being really obvious? Please don't tell me to get help for cutting myself, I am in the process of doing so. Thanks so much, I'll rate high.

Hey,

I used to cut too, I have just recently stopped completely.

I have very noticable scars all over my body, and I know how you feel about not wanting everyone to see them.

I would recommend either just baring it and telling everyone that you are getting help, or like the other person said wearing a long sleeved shirt underneath.

What I did was I just let them show, and a lot of people just stared and didn't say anything, and the still treated me the same.

I don't know if you feel different from me, but I see my scars as more of a story, and a reminder of what I have been through. So that is what got me to just go through it, and not care if people saw my scars or not.

Well I hope I helped.
If you need anything just drop it in my inbox.

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks. he wanted me to help him with his myspace so he gave me the password and everything and i read his messages and he sent them to this girl jessica. and the other day we were having sex and he was like.. "i should call jessica and say, 'im having sex with kendall'" so now i think he was thinking about her the whole time. and i dont know what to do!
does this mean he wants to be with other girls?

Well, I don't think that it necessarily means he likes the girl.

But, the part about him saying that while you were having sex is very strange.

I think you should bring this up with him, and just talk to him about it.

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ok so im going to be 18 in about 9 weeks time and im thinking all my friends well apart from a few have all had sex even ones who are younger than me am i getting to old and whats the right age to have sex?? I would have had sex but my bf says he loves me but i do not trust him its like when we are away from each other he never contacts me or cares about me my question is shall i wait until the right one comes along to lose my virginity? thank you in advance.x

The right time to have sex is when YOU are ready, not when your boyfriend wants to, and not when your friends are, but when YOU are ready.

When I say ready I mean that you feel the time is right, not when someone tells you they want to so you do.

I think you should realy just wait for the right time to come.

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13/F

Ok so my cousin who by the way is 2years younger than me said he liked me. He is on my step-dad's side so he isn't blood related or anything but do you think it gay? I don't like him he's just my fave cousin.

First of all do not refer to things as "gay".

And no, this is not gay, because gay is when someone is attracted to the same sex.

So I think it is just a kid thin, I mean you are probably his favorite cousin, so he will grow out of it.

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ok so i sound like an idiot but i really look up to my science teacher not in some perverted way but shes always there for anyone and shes a great teacher. ok so ive been having a lot of problems with some of my ex best friends and their friends with threats and stuff... ive also been getting blocked calls and texts threating to spread rumors and that stuff do you think its a good idea to ask her advice on this? my friends think its a really good idea and theyre worried about it, they said that if i dont do it then they will because its really scary. but i dont want to sound like a loser and i dont know how to ask. please help!

You do not sound like an idiot, or a loser.

I happen to know that a lot of teachers, really care about their students, and in a way expect students to come to them with problems.

I have gone to teachers before and asked advice, and they were really willing to talk to me about it.

So, I think it is a good idea to tell her, you will probably get some good advice, and she will tell you what you can do.

Well Good Luck.

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Okay, Well I need an anwer ASAP. Well, I will try to describe this as well as I can but yeaa Its not that easy. This is long but It has to be so you can understand exactly what happened so I can figure out what to do. Anways,My Boyfrind&& I were out back playin bbal one on one last night around 7ish. I wasnt even running or jumpin i was just movin around, and i was standing there dribbling and my knee just pops out of place and back in.So i colasp on the middle of the ally, it hurt extreemly bad and i have never been in that much pain my intire life. Like I couldnt get up for 5 minutes.Then finaly I decide I have to get up off the ally and of course I wont let him carry me and I couldnt put any pressure on it so he had to get beside me and help me becuase it hurt soo bad. Then i sorda crawled up the staires and into the house.Then I got my brace (i have knee problems, not bad, like if I run a lot or after a gam if i dont wear my brace my kene hurts and give out maybe once but gives out, not pops out and it has never hurt that bad, mo says it runs in the family).Then about 2 hours later, if not less, it did it again but not as bad. And ever since the first one screwed up my knee has hurt so bad.. its killin me!, yea its my bad one too. Omg! I have never been in so much pain my entire life!!! Ack! I guess I should start making it a usal thing to wear my brace because if that would happen while i was on the stairs or at school or alone or in the shower it wouldnt be good. It sucks..So The things i want ot kno is a>What happened b> When will the pain go away? c> Should I get medical attention?

14/F

-Meg-

Yes, I think you should really get medical attention, as soon as you can. Because the pain will probably last for a while, and I am sure you don't want that.

So try to go to the doctor's or wherever else you go.

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i'm a guy, and is it wrong to just want sex? honestly now, its what everyone wants

You are a stereotypical guy...I agree with the person who said that all guys are "horney", because they are.

Especially if you are a teenager, you have a penis so all you want is sex. But I don't necessarily think you want sex, probably just some good prono? Because sex is a pretty big commitment.

But, it isn't wrong, because I know that guys are just sexual by nature...which sucks for us girls, but for you, I am sure it is fine.

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ok i have seen the cursor where its the hand and the pointer is the middle finger on someones sight and i want to put it on my site but i cant remember where i saw it to ask them where they got it...does anyone know a site that may have it i already tried that one starlight site if anyones know where it is please tell me if u help me find it ill rate high!
Signed:Ithought it was a cool cursor.

http://menga.net/archives/000861.html

http://www.pcworld.com/downloads/file_description/0,fid,7584,00.asp

http://www.anicursor.com/diercur.html
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I hope those help.

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i was wondering if anyone knew of any good over-the-counter skin cleansers that work really well? i have lots of blackheads on my nose (blahblah, gross, i know) and i get a lot of break outs on my nose. nose the skin right where my nose attaches is dry and itchy, but the rest is greasy and gross. suggestions?

thanks.

and by the way, i wasn't sure which category to put this in... and i know it's the wrong one. but i was thinking that if somebody was lookign for people asking questions based on people's skin because of their eating habits they might stumble across this one? i'm sorry though.

I use Biore products they are pretty good.

But, if you really want to get rid of your acne I would recommend getting Proactive. It is a little expensive, but it really does work.

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14/male

So, it's me again with another question about B, the girl I love. So, as you might know, I like her, but she's got a boyfriend. I gave B, like, three letters from "Your Secret Admirer." But here's the problem. Her boyfriend smokes, but kinda in secret, but he always wears this No Smoking sweatshirt. I think she knows that he smokes, but should I mention something to her boyfriend about how he's got an ironic sweatshirt? Or should mention something to B about it?

Thanks,

-Fyce

Hey,

I think that if you say anything to B then she might just be pissed that you were getting into her relationship.

I think it is best to just not say anything to either of them.


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hi
im sam and i have a freind lauren that she thinks that she is better than me and she did this web pade and it has all the stuff that she want to be but a web is a meant to be what about you and stuff like that any way i signed into her guest book and i said some thing like, a web should be about you not what you want to be, and the she changed it to like i wish i was kooler that u and suff like that and it is so gay and i am so angry i just want to kill her and i think that she is a B**** ! ! ! !
what do i do????

rockin_samsam
rocking out

Hey,

I don't think you should have posted anything in her guestbook, you should have just let it be. I am sure other people would have felt the same way as you did.

But, she also sound pretty conceited for saying that she wished she was cooler than you. So, my advice to you, is to maybe take a break from your friendship with you. It sounds like you don't even want to be her friend anymore. So, really I think the only solution is to just hang out with other people.

Well, I hope everything goes well..
If you need anything drop it in my inbox.

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