Hey everyone.
My name is Chrissy, I'm 22 years old.
I'm married and am expecting a baby girl!
I recently started using this website again.
I had forgotten why I loved it so much. There is a feeling of accomplishment that I get when I give others advice to the best of my ability. It makes me feel as though I matter. And I hope it makes others feel the same way.
I work at as a 911 dispatcher so my profession is to help people. If you need any advice just let me know, I will definitely try my best to help you out. I have been through some pretty rough stuff ranging from relationship problems, to self esteem issues, to family violence.
So there is quite a range of things that I can give advice about due to my own experiences.
Ask me anything. (:
Website: Chrissy's Advice
E-mail: princess_all_4_me@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: 911 Dispatcher
Age: 21
Yahoo: princess_all_4_me
Member Since: June 12, 2005
Answers: 37
Last Update: July 23, 2013
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I really think my life is worthless. I'm nothing special and i feel like such a waste. The only person who i can talk to, who keeps me going, who i have spent 3 years of my life being dedicated to, and loving .. could care less about me. I
f i can't have him i don't want any body else. I feel no point in living. I truely love him and he's the only reason i get up in the morning. I feel like just ending my life now, but i could no way do it, and i would never. This sounds immature and child-ish. But it's not. My feelings will never change.
What can i do to make everything better? (link)
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Hey it may seem like the end of the world, but just remember that you have God! Pray and ask him to help you, he will ALWAYS be there for you! That guy is missing out on a GREAT girl!!!! I hope ya believe in God 'cause last time I gave someone advice I mentioned God and they got mad, lol. Well just remember that Jesus loves you!!
I hope I helped!!!
~KiSsY~fUrR~
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there is this girl i really like and i have for a long time .... i want to ask her out but im afraid if i do she wont be my friend anymore and i doubt she would say yes .. im confused.... wtf should i do????
sincerely and thanx fo da help,
- - Confused in Kansas city --
(lol sry about tha dear abby thingy^) (link)
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Dear Confused in Kansas City, If you are sure that you like her than ask her out. She might say yes, you never now. But if she says no, think of it as a good thing, because everything happens for a reason. There are plenty of fish in the sea, trust me!! I don't think it would ruin your friendship, and if it does shame on her! lol!! Well I don't give the best advice in the world, but I try anyway. I hope I helped!! Just do what u think is right!
~KiSsY~FuRr~
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What is a PAP test? I know you have to get it when you get our period but what is it? (link)
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All's I know is that you dont get it when you start your period you get it when you have sex!!! My mom is a paramedic, (she told me!) Hoped I helped at least a little!!
~KiSsYfUrR#2~
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hmmmmmmm.......Well my mom told me some stuff about me that happened in the past, like when I was five. After my mom and dad split. And it scared me. I haven't told anyone but I feel like I need to tell someone. Since my mom knows this and I want to tell like one of my friends (you should know who they are) who should I tell??? I REALLY REALLY want to tell someone!! Please hurry!!! (link)
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Well you know you can trust me with anything right? I would really like to help you.You can tell me if you would like to!!!
~ChRiSsY~
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There is this guy I like but he dosen't even know I'm alive, how should I get him to notice
me?? (link)
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Hey, walk right up to him and tell him you like him, get to know him more and tell him more about yourself! I hope it works out!
~ChRiSsY~
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ok my sister's friend she had a fling with an older guy, but now she is going out with an awesome guy but he calls and tells her he misses her, and she is really confused and she wants my opinion what should I tell her??????
~*Brianna*~ (link)
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give her the
great advice that you gave her earlier, lol
~ChRiSsY~
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Hi, we are 13 and we need a job, so we can get money so we can buy our own clothes because our parents make us pay for our clothes because they think that we are mature enough to earn our own money, but in reality, we dont know how to get money. Please give us ideas for jobs. Please dont tell us to talk to our parents because thats dumb and if you havent thought about it yet, we have tried that so dont be stupid. PLEASE HELP!! WE RATE HIGH!! (link)
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Get a babysitting job or mow peoples lawn's for money, those are some ways of getting money. Or you could just do what I do and work around the house for money from your mom.I hoped my advice helped you!!!
~ChRiSsY~
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how do i scrunch my hair? (link)
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hey, after your hair is wet you can (A.) put moose in it and flip your hair over your head and just scrunch it or you can(b.)use gel and do the same thing. I like to put hair spray in my hair so that it will stay scrunched.
Hoped i helped ya!!!
~ChRiSsY~
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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks (link)
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What I do is let it air dry! hope I helped!!!
~ChRiSsY~
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Hey uhm im 13..and im not the u kno most preppiest girl out there. I have black hair and brown eyes..I want sumthing to do with my hair cuz im tired of being so tomboyish. Im not the skinniest girl so does ne1 have ne tips on how i can be a little more girly without being preppy? (link)
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hey, maybe you should try putting hylights in your hair or somthing, get a hair cut, and wear more girly clothes, as long as you know your not a prep then it doesn't matter what other people think, right? I hope I helped you! Good Luck!!!!!
~ChRiSsY~
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okay well i like this girl for a while and she liked me and we started going out like 2 weeks ago...wednesday we made out like 4 times in a hour and i never did that before in my life but she has....now after i did it i dont really feel the same way for her..like i dont know if i still like her..i just feel different about her and we have been best friends before we went out so i dont if i should break up with her but i really dont knnow if i like her anymore and tomorrow she is supossed to come to a family thing and i kinda feel unconfortible around her now and we already decided that if we break up we will still be friends but i dont know...please help please! (link)
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If it feels weird going out with her then maybe yall should just be friends, who knows maybe just being friends might actually make yalls friendship stronger! I hope I helped you!! Good Luck!!!!! ByE!!!!!
~ChRiSsY~
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I heard that you get more color when you're sun tanning while it's cloudy outside. I've searched all over the internet and can't find out if this is true or not. If anyone knows if this is true please tell me! I'll rate high. Thanks in advance!
P.S. Always use sunscreen! (link)
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Yes! because whenever your outside on a cloudy day you dont notice the heat, and the sun goes through the clouds and makes the rays stronger.
Hoped I helped because i need a 5, lol!! laterz!!
~ChRiSsY~
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I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =( (link)
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ok, I dont go swimming when I'm on my period, and i dont wear tampons I wait until I'm off my period to go swimming, because I know swimming is fun but if tampons are gonna hurt you then it's not worth it. If you ask me it's like giving your virginity away to a tampon, even though your not.I hope my advice helped you!!! if you have any other problem's feel free to ask me, kissyfurr.
~ChRiSsY~
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ok, so i'v had my period for a year and a half now and everyone says after you get your period your boobs are suppost to grow. Well, my boobs havent grown for a year!
I eat healthy and my mom has decent sized boobs. (link)
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hey,
I know this is hard, but be patient and in time they will grow, maybe mother nature is waiting to give you your bobbs,(boobs)lol!!!!
Trust me they will grow!!!! lol!!
LaTeRz!!!
~ChRiSsY~
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k, ummm...this guy iz my bff, and always has been, and we went out 4 a loooooooong time, and then he went out and danced and kissed this chic on the cheek, k, well i dumped him, and now we like hate each other, i mean we talk allllll the time, but we can't talk without gettin in2 a fight, about the stupidess stuff! idk, wut i should do, should i avoid him, or should, we try 2 b friends even though we've known each other since we were 3, and r seenin' other ppl, even though, we both want 2 be 2gether? (link)
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ok, this is kinda tuff........but I think that you should try and make yalls relationship work because you obviously like each other. Did you ask him about the kiss before you broke up with him, because maybe he had a reason for kissing her. I know that I would get mad if my boyfriend did that too, but I would ask him about it first, because I wouldn't want our relationship to end over SOMETHING that could be NOTHING, ya know what I mean?I hope I helped you in your problem! Good luck!!!ByE
~ChRiSsY~
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to the ladies, what are some ways in which a guy can approach you and just start a conversation or something without it bein really weird. in the movies for example. hwo could a guy best present himself and possible ask for a sn or phonenumber.
for the guys: same question except what are some stuff that yall have tried (link)
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First of off you need to introduce yourself and learn everything you can about her, tell her stuff about you. You need to keep the conversations going so that their isn't any of those oh so awkward silent moments.Just dont make yourself look desperate, like sometimes those cheesy pick-up-lines yall use work, but they dont really work on other girls. Tell her not only what she wants to here but what you actually think. like if you think she's pretty, by "golly gorge" tell her. If you think she's kool or fun, then "goodness gracious" tell her!!I hope my advise really helps you!
~ChRiSsY~
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Okay, my best friend in the whole wide world is moving. And I have no idea what to say to him. He's only going like 30 minutes away, but he's my best friend! And I don't know how to deal with this anymore. I'll miss him to much. How can I get over this? (link)
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Dont worry about it, one of my best friends moved away too, but I still talk to her. I may be bummed that she moved to a different state, but at least she's happy, she made some really good friends. Besides you will still be able to see him right? But I think your problem is that you like him as more then a friend, and if you do tell him before he moves so that you might feel better knowing that he knows how you really feel.I hope I helped you with your problem, I know it's hard, but you can make it threw!
~ChRiSsY~
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