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I don't know how to clean. Or budget but that's not the point. my room has gotten really dirty and I want to clean it so I can use it to practice for auditions, do homework, etc and not have to throw all my junk off my bed every night.
Does anyone have some cleaning tips, or something? Or can tell me how to clean? (link)
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Nope. my room's "messy". actually, its very clean, just not organized in a way that my parents recognize. But I know how--im just lazy :P
1)get a LOT of Trash Bags. throw away any trash/unusable items you find.
2)get some boxes (dont use trash bags, u might accidentally throw stuff away) to put stuff in to sell/give away
3)get more shelves/bins/bookshelves. I used to have bins, but they were taken out and now I have 2 bookshelves and not NEARLY enough room for my many books, much less for toys >:(
Anyways, thats about it. O, see if you can get good incentive. My dad's offering to renew my website hosting ($100 value) if I clean my room soon :)
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This probably sounds really dumb but oh well. I have dance lessons three times a week(and this is active dance with jumping, not just walking around and moving arms or swaying on the spot) and I have two soccer practices a week and a game. I also have gym class twice a week for an hour and I try my best unlike some people. I walk 3k per day to school and back and according to my friend's mom 'eat like a bird' which I don't think I do. I'm 13 and weigh 110 pounds. I have friends that are my height and weigh about 90 pounds. Their excercise is gym class. That's it. I know for a fact they don't diet and aren't anorexic or bulimic. They eat more than me.
I also know a girl in my dance class who does everything I do plus lacrosse and an extra conditioning practice with her team for soccer. She eats about the same amount as me but is obese. How the hell does that work? I don't really care but I'm just curious! (link)
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chill. there are many different body types and the 13-year range for fit people can max out at i think 130. It just depends on your body type.
actually, excercise makes no difference to your weight, just your strength/endurance.
It also has to do with genetics--the short answer for non-science people (shame on you):if most people in your family are fat, you'll probably be fat. if most people in your family are slightly underweight, you'll probably be underweight. If people in your family are insane, you'll probably be insane. if... you get the point.
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Ok this guy i like (i kinda already told ya about this) well he's going out with my best friend and he tells me that he loves her and i don't understand why he's telling me this and when i hang around a couple of friends (really close guys) and he gets really mad and when his girlfriend wants to hug him or somehting and he sees me by a close (guy) friend he pushes her away and goes storm out the door. so do you think he still likes me??
=^..^= ~Pamie~ (link)
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Uh...
I think he's overreacting a bit if he likes someone else and still acts possessive of you. Just be sure to not do that to any guys you may or have dump(ed). The thing is, its common for people to still feel possessive of someone theyre "not seeing anymore", so there's no way to tell.
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I have this friend...we'll call her laura. laura is really weird and she always corrects peoples spelling and shes kinda picky and um....strange. also, she keeps sending me all these emails telling me to go to sites,(spacefem, advicinators) and quiz results. WHAT DO I DO??? PLEASE GIVE ME GUIDENCE, O WIZE AND POWERFUL COLUMNIST! (link)
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that should be Lauren, wise, and guidance.
Chill out and mass delete. Mass deleting annoying emails is FUN!
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me and this kid really like eachother. we cant go out though because this other kid likes me and we dont wanna hurt him (we are all friends) i need this kid to get over me. he has liked me for 2 years and i have tried givin him a chance but it never worked out. HELP (link)
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urg. love triangles. make you wanna puke, neh?
Talk to the other kid and say "Hey, you dont mind too much right? Cuz I know you like me, but I have given you a chance and it didnt work out, and I realy like(insert name here)"
simpler to say than to do but its better than nothing.
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I don't know what it is but as soon as i get in the car with my brother, I'm ready for him to crash. He has this thing where he takes his hands of the wheel to get something or he starts looking at his cd and the car will start to slowly head for the shoulder or whatever else is at the side of the road, including other cars... he also drives fast but even other fast drives I'm fine with (i don't eve mnd taking a turn fast, unless I'm with him), just him. something about him makes me brace myself no matter what, even if he's got both hands on the wheel looking out to an empty road going the speed limit, i feel like were going to crash, and only with him... could this be like postdramatic stress thing since last year at about this time we got into a pretty nasty accident due to ice on a bridge, Is there anything i can do to relax! anything!!! i really need it, i only try and grab the wheel from him all the time when he takes his hands off it... Its horrable! HELP! (link)
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"... Its horrable!" so is your spelling
now, on to your actual question...
First off, tell him he needs to PAY ATTENTION TO THE ROAD!! What kind of MORON takes both hands off the wheel and doesnt look at the road when driving????
When stopped where he will be stopped for a while, FINE, but NOT WHILE DRIVING. I dont even have my license yet (I'm not 16 yet), but I do know that!! Tell him how dangerous it is--and if he doesnt buy it, tell him about the fine he could get for reckless driving. With some guys, only money matters :P
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I have to drink coffee every day to survive. I don't drink a ton of it, probably two cups a day in the morning. My friends and I used to have a day we'd call "detox thursday" where we wouldn't drink coffee all day, but I was starting to hate detox thursdays because I felt tired and grumpy all day so I quit doing it with them. Does this mean I'm addicted? Is coffee really that bad for me? It's way better than soda, right? (link)
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Soda and Coffee are about even
No, 2 cups in the morning is NOT bad, even though it is not necessarily bad. My mom has to have THREE large cups of it to wake up, and she's doing fine. Yeah, you are PROBABLY addicted, but thats like saying someone who eats Milky Ways everyday is addicted. Its not something particularly harmful. Just something you have made into a habit of doing.
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My best friend Joleen has been dating this guy Tom for a month now. Tom and my friends Allison and Grace go to the same school, but Joleen and I go to a different one.
Well, Tom, Allison, and Grace's school had a homecoming festival. Allison, Grace, and this other girl Mary were hanging around a fire pit, when Tom comes up and sits on Mary's lap. Then, he says "Oh, no. I'll crush you, you can sit on my lap." and Mary did. Apparently, that wasn't all that happend, either. They were flirting a LOT.
Should I tell Joleen what Tom did? Or should I keep it to myself? (link)
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tell her. Its her right to know, and she would probably find it out from you than from nasty rumors that might get started.
But DONT add any flair or anything--tell her exactly what happened.
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Hey advicegirl! I know this really cool girl at school named Lauren and she really likes my forensics piece (the one with mrs. gorf)...she's in my spanish class w/ a teacher who's never there, my english class (she sits behind a girl named Diana), she sits infront of me in Biology class, and behind me in algebra. She REALLY likes Pink Floyd!! Um...i was gonna ask you if you know her? i dunno if you two have met before or anything...ok g2g! THanks ADVICEGIRL!!! (link)
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Yes, I think I know her, maybe she's one of my personalities... Let's list them, shall we?
-Lauren--yep that'd be the one (actually all my personalities like Pink Floyd)
-Shinrinoneko
-Kira
-Salamander (dont ask)
-The Drunken Monkey (or Puchi Chikin/little chicken)
-POed Girl
that should do for today... :)
I was POed Girl today for the first time in about 5 months (its rare for me to get THAT ANGRY) :P
It was cuz they SCREWED AROUND WITH MY ****in LUNCH!!
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I'm an athiest, but i don't try to force people to believe what I believe. I don't challenge other people's beliefs. I've had this one guy bother me for 5 years about being an athiest. (I go to a PK-12 school distict). He's always asking me why I'm not religious, why I don't believe in God, etc, ect, and so on. i've done everything I can think of, including inflicting bodily harm on him (well - I dropped a book on his head. But I don't even think that hurt him) but he won't stop. how do I stop him? (link)
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I hate that stuff. Tell him that you arent bothering him and you arent trying to convert him, so STOP GOING ON A *****ing CRUSADE
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I am building a bridge out of toothpicks. Problem? The stupid glue won't dry! PLEASE help me! It's due tomorrow! (link)
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Put tape on it to hold it in place while the glue dries and then when its dry, remove it
We have a teacher workday tomorrow :) (10/21)
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my worst enemy kathryn is talking shit about me(well she always does) , what would be a nice way to tell her she is the essence of evil and i would perferably not talk to her eever again?
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First--ask her to stop spreading crap about you
Second--listen around for if she has stopped
Third--If she hasnt stopped, give her the silent treatment. You gave her a chance
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sometimes i feel like my weight is getting to high ...although everone tells me i am not fat i feel it and i dont want it! i cant go running i never am able to keep it up....i cant help my self to foodS! i crave easy how can i solve this without those traits! (link)
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Simple--eat when you're hungry, stop when you're full, and DONT WORRY ABOUT YOUR WEIGHT. A doctor will tell you at a check-up if you are over or under weight. Your body "knows" when you need food, and it tells you by making you hungry or full or even nauseated.
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ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do? (link)
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I guess you dont dance with him.
I dont see what the big deal is--if you're going to a dance, you should be allowed to dance with a guy; what would be the point of going (unless you're homosexual--and I'm assuming you're a girl)?
Ask your parents: why are they letting you go to a dance but not letting you dance?
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What is the punchi chikin? Why are u the punchi chikin and not me? Why does the punchi chikin have to have on a jacket to fly? Punchi chikins are cool, so why does not everyone like the punchi chikin? GO PUNCHI CHIKIN! :) (link)
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Thats PUCHI CHIKIN!!!
And yes, that is me, or you could call me polla pequena, or Little Chicken
Now will you PLEASE STOP FOLLOWING ME AROUND YELLING LITTLE CHICKEN/PUCHI CHIKIN!?!?!?!!?!?
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I'm a volleyball player - does anyone know good excercises to work on my jump? (link)
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Plie s. In ballet, its usually just a warm-up, and it helps work your leg muscles.
basically, stand up straight, in first position (heels together, toes pointed out), second position (same as first but feet are separated, about shoulder width apart), or fifth (toes still turned out, heel of one foot touching toe of other). Fourth and third are harder (fourth=fifth with front foot farther out, kind of like second)(third=fifth with heel of front foot at middle of other foot)
then bend your knees.
its easier to show than explain unfortunately
just make sure to switch feet.
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I have in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now, and we have both declared our love for each other. I believe that we have a pretty strong relationship. We have a had the highs and lows, we both survived each other's families and each other's quirky little habits. I love him.
I'm currently enrolled in a theater class which requires us to sometimes be pretty intimate with each other. One of my really good guy friends is also in this same class with me. We had to do one scene where we had to kiss. That wasn't a big deal, it was a pretty quick kiss and it didn't mean anything in my part, however, during the time that we presented the scene, when he kissed me, he held onto much MUCH longer than necessary. There I was, with my eyes closed, my heart thudding like a maniac, my mind racing not knowing whether to pull away and suffer a bad grade knowing full well that we were kissing in front of an entire audience. This guy friend and I have always been flirtatious and all, but that was about as much as it went. It's just really bad timing coz I'm in a relationship...
I felt really guilty about the kiss for some reason even though it wasnt my fault so I called Jeff(my boyfriend) and told him about it. He was cool with it, and said as long as it was just "acting" it's alright... what didn't tell him though is I really liked how my guy friend kissed me. REALLY LIKED IT.
Does every girl go through a phase like this? I love Jeff, but then how can I like kissing someone else and love him at the same time? Please help. (link)
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Im sure many people have that problem.
Remember, kisses and other "physical manifestations of love" are, for the most part, related to biology, not psychology. Therefore, since you love Jeff, and enjoyed kissing this other guy, you should stick with Jeff.
You know him better, You like him better, and if it turns out hes not who you really like, you can track down the guy freind.
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I always seem to have dark circles under my eyes,always. I wear glasses so they're not that noticeable but I'd still rather not have them.
I get about 9 1/2 on school nights and a little more on the weekends so it shouldn't be solely lack of sleep.
Does anyone have any ideas why I've got them or how I could get rid of them? (link)
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too much sleep can also make you tired; everyone has a set amount of sleep that is good for them.
try sleeping closer to 8 hours or even 7, also, until they go away on their own, try using concealer. Just make sure to get your skin tone, or it'll be REALLY noticable
I sleep about 4 hours and dont have dark circles. I did for a while, but I didnt use concealer because i dont like makeup.
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ok heres my quesion .......i get good grades in school i look somewhat good......and i have a great voice....but i feel like i need to be somewht popularr.....and plez dont answer " who cares wht other people think" wht do i do? (link)
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Easy--dress slutty and act like an idiot
But I wouldnt reccomend it. Hang out with the nerds and geeks. Theyre cool too--and if you really think about it, so are the loners and punks and any goths you might have at your school (our school is mostly loners preps/popular kids and nerds)
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I like to run around town in my favorite running shoes, not wearing socks. This is cool because it's relaxing, but not cool because my shoes smell like the living dead. I really, really don't want to wear socks, so besides that, what can I do to cure these things? (link)
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You can put baking soda in them overnite and then shake it out
but DONT DO THIS to leather shoes. it'll stick and then it'll be gooey and gross and the smell will stay the same.
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