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YOU GUYS THINK I MADE A GIRL KILL HERSELF CUZ OF THE ADVICE A GAVE HER? YOU GUYS ARE DUMB BITCHES !! MII ADVICE TO HER WAS TO NOT KILL HERSELF !! SO DON`T BLAME IT ON ME JUST LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE AND STFU

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ALRiGHTY WELL THERES THIS GiRL &&+ SHES LiKE MY BESTEST BESTEST BESTEST YEAH U GET IT..LOL &&+ THERES LIKE THIS GUY WHOS LIKE MY BESTEST BESTEST BESTEST GUY FRiEND.. &&+ HE LiKES HER &&+ SHE LiKES HIM THEY HAVE [[BANGED]] A COUPLE OF TiMES NOT A LOT JUST...8..9 NOT AS MUCH AS WE HAVE..&&+ SO BOTH OF THEM ARE LIKE DIEING FOR EACHOTHER BUT THEY CANT LIKE GET THE EFFIN NERVE TO ASK ONE ANOTHER OUT..DEAR GOD WHAT CAN I DO THEY HAVENT MEET EACHTOTHER PERSONALLY BUT THEY ACT LIKE THEY HAVE KNOWN EACHOTHER LIKE FOREVER.. BUT WHEN THEY DO MEET EITHER ONE WILL ASK EACHOTHER TO MARRY THEM YAPP JUST LIKE BAM OR BANG LIKE THESE TO HAWT AWESOME CHICKS LU && KIM DO LIKE NOT A LOT BUT MORE THAN HER && NICK.
HELP ME BABY! LOL
X3 LOVE. ASDFGHJKL

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that sounds oddly familiar.

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i LiKE THiS GUY AND HES MY EX WELL HE RECENTLY BROKE UP WiTH HiS GF BUT i KNO HES OVER HER BECAUSE YEAH HE TOLD ME THT HE HADNT LiKED HER FOR A WHiLE LiKE RiTE AFTER THEY BROKE UP WELL iVE HEARD SO MANY RUMORS THT HE LiKES ME BUT i CANT BELiEVE THEM. iT DOESNT MAKE NE SENSE TO ME.AND SOMETiMES WEN WER TALKiNG AND THE SUBJECT OF LiKE THE RUMORS AND WHO HE LiKES COMES UP HES LiKE RLE QUiCK TO DENY ALL THE RUMORS AND THT KiNDA MAKES ME WONDER?? i DONT KNO YEAH BTW HES MY NEiGHBOR HAHA SO iT GETS mORE JERRY SPRiNGER BY THE MiNUTE HAHA AND MY BEST FRiEND APAPRENTLY LiKES HiM BUT HE CANT STAND HER SO THT KiNDA MAKES ME FEEL BETTER HAHA WOW UMM YEAH i DONT KNO WHAT TO DOO i LOVE HiM AND i WANNA BE WiTH HiM SO BAD

Haha wow that's very jerry springer. Okay well honestly the only thing I can tell you...is forget about rumors. Just tell you like him. I'm just saying that is what I would do.

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Okay..so me and my friend..have been friends for awhile..except..she`s a grade older then me. and her xxx boyfriend who is in her grade likes me. and me and him went out once..but then we broke up. and we`re going out again and my friend is very jealous. idk wat to do because i really like the guy..and its a lot better between us this time..she gets over it but always comes back to lecturing me about it..and it gets very annoying..idk wat to do..let it go...or let my boyfriend go.

Let it go.

Real friends are supposed to support each other.
If she can't support what you & your boyfriend have, then she's not a real friend. She needs to understand that things just didn't work out between him & her. Your friend needs to get over it & find another guy.

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okay well me and this guy have been off and on for a while and im starting to like him again and i no its a bad thing because he always ends up hurting me and idk but i know for a fatc we are meant to be we have at least went out 20 times and everytime we broke up something bad happen now we r starting to talk and im lik falling for him but its bad and ealier today he reminded me what a bad person i am and then was nice to me i rele dont get this?/ wat do i do im in lov with this boy

He obviously loves you because he's always coming back to you! People make mistakes though, and he should learn from his. Tell him that you want to be with him but you don't want to get hurt. Maybe he will think about how badly he's hurt you & change! Hope I helped!

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so i like a girl and im pretty sure she knows i like her but she hasnt actually said she knows and im scared to tell her cuz we're friends and i'd rather just be friends with her than nuttin at all but i kinda want to be more than just friends and sometimes she'll give me signs that she kind of does like me as more than a friend like i'll smile at her when she not smiling and she'll smile bak but idk if i just think she likes me or if she really does so i have no clue wat to do.

Alright, well if you're not sure if she knows that you like her or not, just get the courage to tell her. If she smiles at you then I think she likes you. So you have nothing to be afraid of really! Just tell her how you feel & she might say she feels the same way!

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kay... me and my friends used to be this girl's friend ... none of our parents liked her and she was just weird and mean... So we wrote a letter saying we didnt want to be friends with her anymore. It was like in febuary and its worked but she always stares at us and like..ew. there's a rumor going around saying hses a lesbian and yeah. its starting to freak us out!

Haha well okay, she's probably just mad at you. Like I know that when girls are mad at each other, I think they just stare at each other to see if they are talking about each other if you know what I mean. My best advice right now is to ignore rumors & ignore her.

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yeahh well this guyy ive had a crush on scince he got here and well we flirt alllllllllllllllllll the time! but we went out once but now he has a girlfriend but i realllyyy like him! i have noooo idea what to do like should i keep trying or just move on? ahh...
*confused*

well if he still flir with him A LOT & really like him then ii say keep trying!! if it doesnt work after a while..move on & you will eventually find someone new that you will like!

Hope I helped!

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Okay..so my boyfriend just broke up with me 3 days ago..for who knows why..nobody does but anyways..we have been off and on a lot and i know he still likes me..but i don`t exactly wanna get hurt again..but..i like this other guy..and idk if he likes me too..because i mean he is always askin me who he should go out with..and he told me he liked this one girl..but is always flirting with me..and just..showin some signs i guess. What should i do to show him i like him..or to get him to like me more? or should i just tell him i like him. ahh i need help!! =(
-helpless-

Honestly, I think you should just tell him you like him! He just might admit that he likes you, too! And if he doesn't then it doesn't matter! There's many guys in the world & eventually you will find one that won't hurt you like the guy you've been on & off with.

Hope I helped!

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theres this guy..lets call him..Pete. i really like him but he has a girlfriend. and she goes to another school. he says he likes someone at our school but he won't tell me. we flirt alot and every chance we get we talk. i really like him. any advice?

i rate high for good answers.

Alright well I think that you should tell him you like him. Why? Because you guys flirt a lot and talk a lot so this obviously means that the girl he likes is YOU! If he knows that you like him, then he will probably admit that he likes you back. Then he might break up with his girlfriend to be with you! I've seen it happen before! So just remember, tell him you like him!

Hope I helped!

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mkay well theres this chick &&+ we usally get into fights but there usally intresting ones because we have a lot of things incommon just not the exact same &&+ if you were that be sorta like creppy scarry &&+ boring but i enjoii makn up b.c its s0o much fun yo! &&+ when we drink starbuckz it magical hah yeah well you might know her..we both have checkered vans. &&+ when i came over we were such camera wh0r3z x3 mkay well what do u call this? haha
-starbuck addictx3

Haha um..well the reason you & your friend get in so many fights is because not everyone can agree on the same thing all the time. If you really love your friend & want to be friends with her, you would put all arguements aside & try to get along. Forget about the arguing, try getting along, & your friendship will even be better.

Hope I helped!

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Okay..thank you soo much for everything..and im soo sorry for asking so many questions..i just..idk..ur helpin so far..so i was just hopin you could help again..well..me and Kyle are back together now..he asked me out this morning..but..now..how do i get him to stay with me..because we`ve been off and on..and he goes out with other girls and flirts with them..then misses me again and comes back. and i wanna get him to actually stay with me for awhile. ne tips? =/

Alright, don't call him to much, because he might get annoyed, don't question him about other girls because then he might think your over-protective, that will probably get him to stay with you. Also, listen to him, try not to argue with him, & tell him how much he means to you. Once he realizes how much you mean to him then it will be even harder for him to leave you.

Hope I helped!
& I don't mind you asking so many questions it makes me happy to know that I'm helping :]

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Thank you for answering my last question about Kyle..but..today my other x boyfriend Mike who was helping us get back together said that it was all a joke. & he was so mad saying how could i still lyk him..wen really idk..i just do. and im lyk all right thats so immature we`re not in middle school ne more! but i still really like Kyle, n we see each other frequently..ne tips of how i can get him to like me again so that he`ll maybe even to think about asking me out again? =/

-thank you

Tell him how you really feel. You may not be in middle school anymore, but that can't change your feelings for somebody. Explain that to him. I did that to one of my boyfriends and he actually understood. If you really like somebody, then you can't hide it. Let him know that you still like him and hope for a second chance. Chances are he will definitley understand and might reconsider.
Hope I helped!

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Well..my x boyfriend Kyle and i broke up 5 months ago..when he dumped me because he was mad that i wore my bestfriend`s hoddie when i was cold because he wouldnt let me wear his and this personw happened to be a boy..but..yeeahh. Well he was going to ask me out today but another guy who likes me told him i slit my wrists!! and he backed down!:'-( and now he sorta wont believe me that i didnt. but he says he does. and to all my friends who are guys. & he says im cute and hott n all..but he wants to wait. and he says he`s "90%" sure we will later. Wat can i do to make that speed up to a quicker time?

You need to tell the other guy that likes you, that he needs to stop lying. Also tell this Kyle guy that if he really likes you, then he will trust and believe you. Show him your wrists, give him evidence you don't cut. Tell him you really like him & want him to believe you in order for you guys to go out. If you don't have trust, then it's not a good relationship. Also tell him he needs to believe that you don't slit your wrists. Once he finally believes and trusts you he will probably most definatley ask you out sooner.

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so im a guy and i got lots of friends both guy and girl but i always got this feeling that im never gonna get a girlfriend and it really really sux i mean i no people are always like well you just have to meet the right girl but i dont think there is a girl who will ever like me-see what i mean my life kinda sux so if you can help with my problem please do.

Try to meet as many people as you can!
Get to know them better, and eventually you will find someone you like.
Find girls at the mall, or movies, and ask them if you can call them sometime to get to know them better.
Eventually, you will find someone you enjoy talking to & being with.
Once you find a girl you really like,
ask her out!
You won't get a girlfriend being shy; so meet as many girls as you can!
There's a ton in this world, you'll eventually find the right one. Trust me.

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alright so theres this boy brad.. i've liked him since like december & in janurary we started going out. like 2 days before v-day we broke up but still spent v-day together & had an amzing time. then next week we started going back out, then about a week & a half later we broke up again. its been off on by days since. we havent gone back out for like 4 weeks now i guess. but we still act like we're going out..like hold hands at school & do all the things we used to when we were together. but he flirts with so many girls & i admit jealousy has completely taken me over. now i like him so much & my friend mason told me he told him he liked me & wnated to go out with me again. but the thing with brad is i dont know if i even trust him & if we go back out, we're gonna break up & idk if i want that to happen again, yet i like him so much. more then i've ever liked anyone. hes the best thing that ever happened to me. now that we're not going out hes an amazing friend but he was a really amazing boyfriend to. if the question comes up to go back out..should i go for it? or just try to move on..?

I HAVE THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM!
i was on & off with this guy for a year
he dumped me every time
& me being stupid fell for him everytime
try getting over it because he's just going to hurt you again.
you need to find someone who actually wants to be with you & not dump you all the time
I realize that now, & things are better for me.

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1. Okay, i don't mean to brag or anything, but I guess I'm pretty popular. I like a guy who im pretty sure likes me back, but we're not going out. I just don't have the nerve to tell him.. what should I do? I eat at the table right next to him in lunch, but I don't really talk to him. He talks to me, and whenever guys I like or have liked in the past, my face turns TOTALLY red, even if I dont like them. I can absoutely talk to them, but not without my face turning red, and thinking i like them.

2. My friends. OMG I love them to death. One problem is.. I'm jealous because im still pretty close friends with this girl Jen* ,but we get in MAJOR fights, and kindof alot, about a few times a month, and so we're not as close anymore. I have many bffs, but my new best friend, Kate*, and I are SUPER-TIGHT.. we tell each other everything, from guys to anything random, like pencils =), but now they're starting to hang out [when they used to hate each other] and now I'm jealous.. what should I do?

Thanks in Advance.


* Names have been changed

1. Since you are a bit nervous around guys, maybe you should have one of your friends tell the guy you like him, and ask the guy if he likes you back so you don't have to talk to him yourself. After your friend lets him know that you like him, then he might say that he likes you back. Chances are he will ask you out. Once you guys start going out, you will start feeling more comfortable around him since he would be your boyfriend & then you won't turn red when you talk to him.

2. Since your two friends are hanging out what you should try to do is resolve conflicts with *Jen. Just say "We fight a lot, & we're still really good friends. We should just forget about all the fights we've had in the past, & try getting along better". I said that to one of my friends because I had the same problem & me & her are good friends again! After you solve problems with *Jen, then you can hang out with her & *Kate together. That way all 3 of you can be best friends & no one would be jealous.

Hope I helped :]

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okay so theres this guy and well he like my friend well of course he does there going out but the fact is theres being rumorz of him going out with her on a bet and by tues he should recieve $20 well its tuesday and i guess it wasnt a bet and he seems as if he really likes her and hes saying how much he likes her but whenever hes around me flirts with me me and even one of my best friends who walk around us notice as well as her and im starting to feel really confused.. and i dont know what i should i just hung out with him yesterday and now this girl shes like my best friend and i dont want her to get hurt but i really like him..but i wanna be like best friends with this kid but he its s0o hard not to flirt when hes flirting back advice plz.

-confused in many wayz

Well, what you think may be flirting may just be goofing around. Like, I liked this one guy once and he was doing things which I considered "flirting". Turns out, it was just messing around, and he only thought of me as a friend. This guy may just be messing around with you, it might not mean anything. But if you are really sure that it is for real flirting, and you really like this guy, there is nothing wrong with flirting back. Just let your friend know that you like him, but you're not going to & steal him from her. If the time ever comes when he ever breaks up w. ur best friend & decides to go out w. u, make sure it's ok before u say yes, so no one's feelings are hurt.

I hope I helped :]

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hi!well i have a this relle good friend,but shes more like a sister to me.now everytime smone comes to her face or says smthin mean to her,she just sits there nd says nothing back nd takes shit from anyone.i tell her to say smthin back but she always says that she does but i kno that she never does nd i dont want her to get hurt nd i relle want her to fight back nd say smthin than just sit there nd do nothing.shes relle scared to say nethin back but she always says how she always has shit goin on with her,nd that she wants it to stop.me nd her got in a huge fight about this nd didnt talk to eachother for a LOONG time!i dont want things to get worse for her.wut do i do?!plz help!

I really can't give advice on how to get your friend to talk back. But the truth is, your friend is actually doing something good. Whenever someone talks shit on you, you ignore it. You just let it go. If people don't like something about you that's their problem not yours. When people say stuff to me I just ignore them. & You know what they do? They leave me alone. So just let her know that when somebody says something to her, don't take it personally. Just shake it off, move on, and forget about it. If people don't like you then they will just have to deal with it. & If she did talk back, & talks shit to the person that insulted them, that's just doing the same thing. Just because someone says something bad to you doesn't mean that you need to say something bad back.

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I have this friend (we'll call her Bella) and i absoluetly love her to death. Like, we have been best friends FOREVER. No lie. So now we are 13, and like, guys are really starting to come into her life. She also seems to attract guys who are players and only want her for her ass. Then they will dump her after they get what they want, and she will hate them. Three weeks later, shes like all over them again. It makes me mad, because shes just like giving herself away. I know i should just let her handle it, but her sister turned out a total slut and troublemaker and she started how Bella is starting. I just dont want her to like go down the wrong path, because i like love her to death! We are fuhreaking like sisters.
Sorry its so long =/
Any suggestions on how I can get her to be a little more reserved and not as "easy"?

The best advice I can give you is to be the best friend to her that you say you are. When she starts to like a guy and plans on going out with him, you should probably check to see if that guy is a player, or if he wants something besides a relationship with "Bella". Don't let her go out with guys that you know will hurt her, just tell her that you care about her and are there for her. You want to protect her and that's the reason that you don't want her with all these players. Also ask her," Do you really want to end up like your sister?" That will get her thinking about what she's doing, and that will probably get her to start making better decisions. So basically, just make sure the guys she wants to go out with are OK so you can prevent her from getting hurt before she starts going out with them, and tell her how you really feel, let her know that you don't want her to end up a slut.

That's the best advice I can give you, I hope it helped. If it didn't I'm sorry.

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Well my friends my one friend whenver i had my boyfriend and i talked about him..shed be like oh be quite! and ignore me and now she has one she always!!!!!!! talks bout him and stuff and its okay! you prolly know who this is...lol oppssayy i dk i tryed talking to them once agian ignored.. ehh

Okay well just tell her that you're okay with her talking about her boyfriend, so she should be okay with you talking about yours. People are different and respond differently to things. So maybe she gets annoyed easier than you do, that's just her. You can't change that about her. But what you can do is get along and say "Hey, I listen to you when you talk about your boyfriend, so I think it's only fair that you listen to me when I talk about mine".

I hope I helped!
Much love

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