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hi!well i have a this relle good friend,but shes more like a sister to me.now everytime smone comes to her face or says smthin mean to her,she just sits there nd says nothing back nd takes shit from anyone.i tell her to say smthin back but she always says that she does but i kno that she never does nd i dont want her to get hurt nd i relle want her to fight back nd say smthin than just sit there nd do nothing.shes relle scared to say nethin back but she always says how she always has shit goin on with her,nd that she wants it to stop.me nd her got in a huge fight about this nd didnt talk to eachother for a LOONG time!i dont want things to get worse for her.wut do i do?!plz help!
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I really can't give advice on how to get your friend to talk back. But the truth is, your friend is actually doing something good. Whenever someone talks shit on you, you ignore it. You just let it go. If people don't like something about you that's their problem not yours. When people say stuff to me I just ignore them. & You know what they do? They leave me alone. So just let her know that when somebody says something to her, don't take it personally. Just shake it off, move on, and forget about it. If people don't like you then they will just have to deal with it. & If she did talk back, & talks shit to the person that insulted them, that's just doing the same thing. Just because someone says something bad to you doesn't mean that you need to say something bad back.
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