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Hey!! I'm Kristen, & I'm 18 yers old. I used ths site while ago, & haven't been on here since. But im happy to be back to help anyone out who needs it! :)



A bit more about me:


Im very happy and satisfied with my life. I'm with the most amazing guy, ever. He's honestly the best thing that has ever happened to me. :)
Im currently in highschool. I won't judge you. I will NOT laugh at any of your serious questions.
I will try to answer your questions as soon as I can, and I really hope that they will help you out:)




Thanks alot for coming to my site for advice!
Be Happy And Smiiile!! :)
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k well me and my mom are not close or anything but i feel awkward asking her somethings and watchign some shows with her i dont know why and i hate being around her !!! whatshould ido (link)
Well it's not fair that any kid shouold feel awkward around their own mom. Ask yourself..What exactly does you mom do to make you not feel comfortable around her? Does she fly off the edge quicky? Are you scared of her responses because she may overreact? Ask you mom if you two can have a talk sometime. Eplain to her why you feel this way...and i'm sure she will understand.


Goodluck, everything will get better with you & your mom!

♥Kristn


hey i shave below the belt but recently started to think i dont want to look like a 10 year old or something so should i leave a strip or hair or a triangle or what? what turns guys on most? thanks x (link)
Don't worry about looking like a 10 year old!
Many guys love completely shaved. It won't hurt if you use a good razor & a good shaving cream.
But it's basically all up to you. (:


Hope I helped.
♥Kristen


When guys finger me.. what am i suppose to do? i mean we make out while he does it so do i make noises? or what do i do with my hands? (link)
Just go with the flow, and have fun with it! haha
Of course you can make noises, guys love that. Just don't fake it..because he'll be able to tell if you are. And as far as your hands go, you could run them through his hair, or hold his face while your making out with him.

Honestly though, he won't be looking what your hands are doing, or where they're at. He'll be focusing on YOU! :] Just relax & have fun!


Hope I helped!

♥Kristen


I really want to make a Bible Study or club at my school; I am new but I know the school doesn't have one. I have been talking to some people and they said they would attend if I got made one. I feel like it's a way for me to bring people to God and Jesus. The only problem is I don'd know where to start. Do I talk to the principal first or do I get a small group together first? I am lost but determined. please give advice; it would be very appreciated. =) (link)
I did the same thing my junior year! You should talk to the priciple and let him know that people are willing to attend the club. You could even start a petition-like thing..where people who are also interested in club can sign it. This way your principal will see that it seems like a good idea, and many people will probably be involved.

It's so awesome to hear you want to bring people to God & Jesus. =) Goodluck!


♥Kristen



Ok I just started taking them yesterday..
I googled them and everything and they seemed like the pill I wanted but I wanted to know if there is any side effects or anythingg.
Like gaining weight or something like that?
Cuz I dont wanna gain weight so if I have to i'll start dieting again...
oh and if it helps im 15, 5'4, 115 pounds, and sexually active.. (link)
I'm also on Ortho Tri-Cylen Lo.
The side effects are pretty different for all girls. Several of my friends take this type of bc, too. Some gain weight-some lose weight.
I actually didn't gain or lose..but my boobs did get a bit bigger haha :o) Ohhh and i'm not sure if you've been told this yet or not..but if get on any kind of antibiotic while taking the pill..be EXTRA safe when you have sex. Meds can really screw the birth control up!


Hope this helped.

♥Kristen


is there like any websiites i can go to to get ideas fer a good hairstyle for my face shape and all tht crap. haha (link)
Mmmhmm. (:

http://beauty.about.com/od/hairbasics/a/flattering.htm

Hope this helps!

♥Kristen


15/f

schools gonna be starting in a few weeks and i want to try out some new hair styles. i don't really have good hair because i don't get the protein i need so my hair is dry and doesn't grow well and it's damaged. so until i can fix it i don't like wearing my hair down. so what are some cute up do hairstyles? maybe some website that show it?

my hair is like medium length like a little above my boob.

or if you could give me like some hairstyle that will like somehow mask my damaged hair.

thank you! (link)
I have the same problem with dry/damaged hair. You should really try hot oil treatments for your hair. You can buy them at like Walmart or any hair place, for really cheap, too! Hot oil treatments smooth out your hair & fix dry split ends. As for hairstyles, if your hair isn't already layered...you should definitely try that. Layers are super cute on medium lenght hair, and you won't able to see split ends as much! And for updo styles, just google "cute updos".


Goodluck & hope I helped! (:

♥kristen


i have two white zip-up sweatshirts that i want to tie-dye. i have the dyeing kit(bottles not dye baths), the instructions for the different parrters are just really bad lol. for this first one i want to do something like this, http://bamfbackgrounds.com/upload/g0745fji-TieDye.JPG, all over the sweatshirt.
then for the second one, i want a heart like this, http://www.tiedyesbyrainbow.com/img/catalog_imgs/large_imgs/tiedye_shirt_heart_a2.jpg, in the middle of the back of the sweatshirt and a crinkle pattern on the rest of the sweatshirt. how do i do the heart and the crinkle pattern without the colors mixing and getting all muddy?
thanks so much! (link)
http://blog.craftzine.com/archive/2008/05/how_to_tie_dye_a_heart_tshirt.html

That should help with both questions! (:

xoKristen


how can i have a FLAT stomach?

especially the bottom part of the stomach/abs (link)
Lots & LOTS of crunches! Everyday!
And of course you cannot pig out on
junk food all of the time.Drink plenty of water, too!


♥Kristen


I have a friend who has trouble with cutting. What should I do? I really want to help her, but I don't know how. (link)
Well if you haven't already, you could try talking to her..explaining how terrible "cutting" actually is & how it could effect her in the future. But I really don't think that she'll fully understand unless an adult speaks to her about it. Try talking to your (or her) parents about it, and maybe they can get through to her. You could even pull up sites with information about cutting and have your friend read them. Many of these sites get really into dept about this problem, and i'm sure they'll have some effect on her.

Just don't leave your friend alone with this, she needs the help. Cutting is a serious thing!
Good luck and I really hope that i helped!

♥ Kristen


I have always had naturally long finger nails, but I cut them about a month or so ago... and now they aren't growing back! They have always grown back before!!! Does anyone know why they arent growing back or how to make them grow back?? (link)
i have the same problem. try "nailgrowth miracle" nailpolish by sally hansen. it may take awhile, but if you continue using it it really does work. :)

♥Kristen


what kind of perfume do guys like best? (link)
i guess it depends on the guy. nothing too strong though. i wear soft-fruity ones & my boy loves it! (:

♥Kristen


I forgot . How often are you suppose to use it ?
Two times aday? (link)
yep! (: anymore than that would probably dry out your skin.

♥Kristen


i've only had sex 3 times. and everytime, it hurts. like i mean it feels good.. but it hurts... and i dont know like if it's just me or if theres something wrong.. but it doesnt feel good.. like doing other stuff feels great.. but sex never seems to feel right... uhmm help? (link)
how old are you? younger girls usually have more pain. it also depends on how "big" the guy is. lol and if that's the problem, just take it really slow and relax. evetually the pain with go away & it'll become more pleasurable (:

♥Kristen


How do you get mascara off the skin? I am always making mistakes in the morning when I am doing my makeup and it always takes forever to get mascara off... is there any easy way to do this? (link)
i use maybelline eye makeup remover. i also use some on a qtip for little fixups so i don't have to redo it all again.
hope i helped (:
♥Kristen


Alright, so this might sound really vague but maybe you'll know! Like, a year ago I was watching this show but it was only titled as Korean Drama.

I know it has a real name..
But anyway, it was about these people and in this episode they kept like slapping each others butts? But it was also serious at times.. and there was like a brown gate/fence thing in it that they went out of their house and I dunno, it's all so vague.

Do you have any idea what it could be? (link)
sorry, im clueless. but maybe you can search "Korean Drama" on youtube & you might be able to find it. youtube has many old shows.

♥Kristen


hi i am a 16 year old girl looking for help to stop cutting myself. the reason i cut myself is b/c im fat,ugley,and i have a broken hart. i need advice on what to do...? (link)
sweetie, cutting is basically taking all of your hurt & anger out on your own body...which id definitely not a good thing. you should really consider talking with your parents. if you're not comfortable doing that, then atleast with some other adult that you can trust. You're not ugly..no girl is ugly. As far as a broken heart goes, you could again..talk to somebody you trust...or there are also many websites that you can go on that help teens with depression. Cutting isn't going to get you anywhere...i knows thats probably very hard to understand, but i can guarentee you that if you talk to somebody your life will be MUCH easier. don't hurt yourself. STAY STRONG. life will get better for you!!

if you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
♥Kristen


ok well how much does a chocolate box cost well ik there will be a variety of costs but i need to know about how much it will be so i can get one for my bf plz help :D

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it depends on how big. but their not expensive...usually the small ones are $1-$3.



hi, i was just wondering if anyone has any advice on how i can be less shy around guys. Because around some guys i am completely comfortable but when it's like a hot guy or something i get intimidated or whatever and get really shy! most ptobably because the guy is hot and you don't want to look like an idiot or whatever but does anyone have some tips to make me less shy aroudn them?
thanks!!!! (link)
just walking up & starting a conversation with a hoy guy includes alot of confidence. keep it cool, keep a smile one your face, & keep the confidence. chances are, he's probably a bit shy around some girls too. many guys are, they just dont admit it! start off with a simple "hey, whats up". it'll become easier the more you do it. but dont let any cute boys keep you from talking to them, they want YOU t make the first move, so be confident & go fo it! (:

♥Kristen


Does anyone know any websites about the history of the thirteen british colonies?? Or any information would be great. I tried googling it but most of the websites tell me things i already know. Thanks. If you try you get a 5. =) (link)

here are some sites:]

xx- http://www.timepage.org/spl/13colony.html

xx- http://www.socialstudiesforkids.com/graphics/13mapnew.htm

xx- http://www.socialstudiesforkids.com/articles/ushistory/13colonies1.htm

xx- http://www.wintektx.com/freeman/13colonies.htm

hope this helped!
♥Kristen





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