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People say that i am funny and fun to be around. I am fun to hang out with but i do give great advice when my friends r down when there boyfriend breaks up with them.I know when to stop actin crazy and get 4 real.
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Yahoo: afcowgirl08@yahoo.com
Member Since: March 19, 2004
Answers: 29
Last Update: April 9, 2004
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whatz giveing head? (link)
puttin your mouth on a guys penis and sucking on it.


Sometimes I feel like Im dreaming when Im really awake like Im watching over things and I feel all light liek I dont weigh a thing Im just floating there.. and I also when I feel like this I cant hear as well liek things are quieter.. What does this mean??

I also ahve been dreaming of things and they happen the next day or awhile later.. they dont happen everynight but once in a while..
what the hell does this meannn!!!!!!

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That happenes to me it will be like i am watching tv and then i am thinking about something that hasnt happened yet and for the next day it happens. But i never can tell many one about what happens it like i forget and then when it happens i remember. I dont know what it means. But it sure is freaky. I dont wanna go to the hospital and be like i see things that happens the next day and put me in the crazy home.And run all these test on me and keep me in until i tell them something. Good luck finding out what is wrong let me know when u do plz..... e-mail me when u find out look my advice column or here it is afcowgirl08@yahoo.com .
-Jess


What do people meen when they say, masturabate? (link)
they say that becuase it when they do things to there penis or vagina. For a girl masturabatetion that means they stick there fingers in there vagina.the guy puts there hand on there penis and moves up and down.
-Jess


I have a boyfriend that i love alot but he hits me.But he say he sorry and he won't do it again but he keeps doing it. He said if I leave him then he will kill me.I'm so scared that he's telling the truth .He's already put me in the hospital 2 times I don't know what to do.So I need help ASAP if anyone can help me please.My life is on the line!

Love Apple (link)
this guy has a problem i dont know what ur waiting for? when he is sleep kill him before he gets to u. tell the police that he tried to kill u first set it up like he was trying to kill u. when u finally kill him just put some papers every where knock down some plates and the tv unless u want that. i am not joking i know someone that did it and it worked. so if ya need help planning where all here for u
-Jess


I'm 24 and have been married for 6 years.My husband is 32.My husband has sex with me when I'm asleep.When he sees that I'm waking up he stops.When I ask him about it he tries to denie it.I've told him that it upsets me but he keeps doing it.I don't know what to do.He also watches porn alot and masterbates.He tries to hide that from me.I've tried to join him but he won't let me.Then when I say something he just denies it.I feel very hurt by this and I don't know what to do.Please help. (link)
Trust me when a guy does it to u when ur sleep he has some problems.And he lies about it.Does he use a condom if he doesnt and then u could get pregent and then he wont lie to u about it. The best thing to do is act like ur sleep and when he starts fuckin u wake up and show him that u know what he is doing at night when ur sleep. But if u end up pregent he is going to ask u if u have been sleepin with anyone because he says that he doesnt have sex with u when ur sleep. If that plan doesnt work then u need to leave him thats just nasty.
-Jess


I need some good advice about my sister. She is 15 yrs. old {I am 21 if that matter's} and has been getting in alot of trouble at school & home. She got into a fight at school, stole my mom's car one night to go joy riding, tried to hook-up with a 26 year old ex-convict, and the other day was caught giving a note to a boy with a condom inside, asking him when they were gonna have sex! My mom, or me doesnt know what to do anymore. Talking to her about this doesn't seem to phase her. She just cries, promises to do better and never does. Do you think she is doing this for attention? Also, I told my mom I think she need's to get on birth-control, for the obvious reasons, so she will not get pregnant. My mom said NO! she said putting her on birth-control is just going to give my sister the go-ahead to have sex. I don't know if she has ever had sex or not, but if she's passin' out condoms to people then i dont think it'll be to long before she does. Any advice? (link)
Your sis is like one of those bad ass kids on Jenny Jones. Yall need to but her on one of those shows and send her ass to boot camp.After that she wont do nothing else bad.Where is she getting the condoms from anyways? She may do this for attention but who knows? Do yall have a father anywhere around maybe thats what she is missing out on her dad i know what its like with my dad coming to see me once maybe twice a week. Try to get your mom to send her to boot camp or at least get your dad around to talk to her. At least give her a scare one day bust the cops on her and let her spend a day in jail and that one phone call she will make to your mom and say i wabna go home and i am sorry and see if she does it again.
-Jess


Im on this site as in advice giver but obviously i cant take my own advice, im just not good at it.. i just need to know how to deal with my sexual life. Im a bisexual, and it is out to most people (i only tell people i trust) i feel that i cant tell anyone else because some people already hate me and think that just because im a girl i have to like guys, but thats not what i choose, i like both sexes. And i dont want anyone else to hate me forever because of what i choose to do with my life. Most of my real friends except that im bi and dont mind bein around me, but others who dont except it, make sure other dont either, or they make dirty looks, or say and do terrible things to me. I try to say that im not bi anymore so that i dont have to be humilliated by my peers. I just dont know what to do anymore, but i dont want people to hate me for my sexual life, it doesnt seem right, is there anyone who can help me? (link)

People shouldnt care what you are but there are some crazy people in the world. Just because u like different sex as they do u like both whats wrong with that.Most doctors say that everyone in there life is going to try a sexual thing with the same sex so when they r older or maybe now they think what if i was with a girl or a guy i wonder what it would be like. You should care what other people think of you as long as your, yourself and ur freinds except it i wouldnt worry about anything else.If they would make fun of me i would do something about it go to a teacher or adlut at your school and tell but you dont have to tell them that your bi if you want to you can. I hope i have helped u sorry if i didnt.
-Jess


how does the penis fit in the vagina? the hole is small does it open up or something and get bigger?i really want to know this help! (link)
THE PENIS GOES INTO THE HOLE. THE HOLE DOES GET BIGGER ON THE SIZE OF THE PENIS. THE VAGINA IS THE MOST STRECHABLE PART OF YOUR BODY. WHEN U HAVE A BABY ITS GOING TO GET BIGGER SO THE BABYS HEAD CAN COME OUT.LIKE A PAINT TOP YOUR VAGINA CAN OPEN UP AS BIG AS THAT.
-JESS


my boyfriend ignores me about almost everything even tho we get along i email him whenever we have a problem he is not a bad guy but a new guy wants to go out with me and we actually did go out once i would not say im gonna cheat but i just cant seem to decide when i am with my boyfriend i am happy when well for the most part anyhow and when i went out with the new guy i was happy also what should i do i feel right with both of them the second and newest guy is a bit slow but that dont bother me the first one is a bit over bearing at times wants to control me that is his basic only flaw except he hardly ever wants to listen to me (link)
if your boyfriend ignores u then y be with him i mean u dont need to be treated like that. When a guy ignores you that means hes cheating on or he doesnt want to be with u anymore and he wants u to know that and get the hint that its over. The new guy if hes who you wanna be with then u should be with him.If he makes u feel like your all he wants to be with then thats who u need to be with. Its not whats on the outside its what is in the inside.
-Jess




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