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15/f
me and my boyfriend will be together for two years in a month. sometimes things get a little boring. . what can we do to keep the relationship sparked and alive?? (link)
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Make deals with him.. I will go boweling with you if you go on a picnic with me.. Make the trips exciting. Tell him stories to keep his mind wondering. We all say we don't like people who play games be we really do. Tell him you have something for him but don't tell him what is really is. Boys like to be lead on and they will follow with chase.
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okk. so. i was friends with these two girls. lets call them M and J. J said some really bitchy things about my other friend. we'll call her A. we'll A got really upset, so i simply said to J that i thought what she said was totally uncalled for. and then she gets all pissy and mad at me. then M gets all mad at me. so i email her, and apoligize for whatever i did. then M emails me back and she says that she thinks i've changed alot. she said that she missed the old me who gossiped and care about what social standing her friends were at. i told her that i thought that i changed for the better. then she said that it might be better if we were not friends. so i said fine and i cut off contact with them and sat with my other friends at lunch. and it should've stopped there. but it didnt. they constantly talk about me. all the time. they said that i talk shit about them and that i'm a bitch. i cant take it anymore. i had a breakdown the other day. i was bawling. its just so hard when you have a whole group of ppl out to make ur life hell. i cant ignore it. everyone says that i should just ignore them and they'll leave me alone. well they dont care if i ignore them or not, they still do it. M and J ran by my house yesterday laughing and screaming to get me to hear them. they write mean notes about me. they talk about me in the halls. what the hell can i do to make them stop?? i swear i'm at the end of my rope. i really need help. please. (link)
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WELL lets see, First we know that M and J started all this because they could speak their minds about A. SO it was really about A and not you until you stuck up for A instead of M and J. M and J were going to dislike A. anyways so you made the better choice to stay with A. as a friend. M and J are just jelious that you would pick her over them and trying to get back at you. You have mind of your own and seem compasionate about others feelings were M and J don't. Im most eyes you were better off breaking the friendships with M and J because they are a bad influence. I you show them at all that their nonsense bothers you it will continue. You have to be strong and show them you are the better person. It will pass in time, but not if you give into them. It will only feed them and want more. If you start telling teachers and things it will only get worse. you need to find a new group of friends and only report it if it becomes violent and start hitting you. You have to bore them to death so they move on to a bigger and better target. This is the nature of some people so don't think for a second that it will stop or get better. ONLY IF YOU GIVE IN TO THEIR WAYS.. If you do this you have belittled yourself and your own social standing that you worked so hard to get. A new group of friends will controll this and the gossip group will move on to the next best story. To them you are still on the front page of the paper. Hope this helps
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My boyfriend asked me out about a week ago. I like him alot, especially becuase we were very good friends a long time before he asked me out. So, im really comfortable around him and trust him 100%. Well, for some odd reason i keep worrying im going to do something to cause him to stop liking me, and then breakup with me. I have no idea why this is bothering me so much...after every time i talk to him ill think to myself, did i say something wrong? sometimes ill even think things like, im not good enough, how could he ever like me. Does anyone have any advice for this, because its really starting to make me sad =/ (link)
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***clue***
YOUR FIRST SENTENCE...
My boyfriend asked me out about a week ago.
HOW ARE YOU NOT GOOD ENOUGH, HE ASKED YOU OUT!!!
YOUR THE BEST RIGHT NOW IN HIS EYES...
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yea.
so ive had this health teacher and i thought he was the coolest person ever. and then he said today:
"...males are only on earth to reproduce.."
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this statement. it...it makes me want to kill myself. im a 15 year old boy and i thought about that sentence DEEPLY for a LONG TIME, and i think i should kill myself. my life is a lie. they say eat healthy and stay in shape yet everyone dies anyway, and thanks to that statement i rly am questioning whehter or not i should go on in life.
idk. any statements? (link)
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YOU would only DIE, "physically", spiritually you would still be alive only if you know GOD. GOD says, not to destory the body for it is his temple. If you don't know GOD then then you will wish you had while you were still alive "physically" because spiriually you will be dead also. Therefore GOD would have never knew who you were even though he made you. You can only know GOD thru his son JESUS. FOR GOD is spiritual and JESUS is physical. SO Physically and Spiritually you would be a waste. All waste is left on earth to be destoryed by fire!!! YOU NEED TO LOOK AT THE LIFE THEREAFTER AND PLAN FOR IT WHILE YOU ARE STILL ALIVE BECAUSE IF YOU TAKE YOUR OWN LIFE EARLY YOU CAN'T CHANGE ANYTHING WHEN YOU ENTER THE NEXT...
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There's this guy at school I really like. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore. One problem... I'm a "good girl" and he's not a "bad boy" but he's pretty close. I'm a strong Christian and he won't even go to church. I know he has strong feelings for me too but he won't date me because he doesn't date "good girls". We're good friends and we talk a lot about getting together but he wants a lot more in the physical part than I'm willing to give. We talk about that a lot and he's always making jokes about wanting to do stuff with me that he knows I'd never do. He wants me to pretty much be a skank. :( I still really like him but I'm not really sure where to go with this... Any advice whatsoever would be helpful!! Should I pursue the relationship? Tell him how I feel? I'm so confused!! (link)
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Just from a Guys point of view, He told it all in he don't date "good girls". At least he is being upfront and giving you a clue that u may not pick up on because you like him so much. I would keep my stand and back off and just be a friend. Don't be mad or even upset. He will find his skank to sleep with but know that his real relationship lies with you. He already respects you by telling you that because he doesn't want to do anything you are not willing to do. So in his eyes he will find it somewhere else but in the back of his mind you will always be because he cant have it but he wants it. This chase could last for many years or he could just move on. If he does then there was not really a friendship at all and you saved yourself alot of pain.. Friendships grow even if he find his pleasure somewhere else, his true friend is in you and at this point he may not catch the clue. See we are blinded by emotions and feelings, both boy and girl. Let him go and you be yourself and if he still comes around, then he is coming around for the real u...
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i always get these random red things on my vagina.
i know they arent pimples, because it doesnt look like one.
it looks like a semi large blood bubble or something. and its super hard to pop, when i finally get it to pop it get keeps bleeding.
what is it?
i know it cant be any kind of disease because im not sexually active, and its not a cut because i dont shave down there yet
thanks (link)
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Sorry to tell you but this can be a form of herpes, you don't have to be sexually active to get it. Infact some babies contract it from the mothers vagina at birth and it lays dormant until puberty. I would see a doctor. If it is herpes then you will have to learn how to control the outbreaks and take medicine to keep it suppressed. For you will have an outbreak anytime you get stressed out or sick. SO you could have been born with it...
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so, im 17.. about 5'7 and 150lbs. Its not exactly overweight, but I do know I've got some extra flub that I really don't want. I try to eat less, and lately it seems like all I've been doing is eating.. and nothing healthy. I get so bored that that ends up all I do. What are some ideas to keep myself from over eating? and what are some ways to lose some weight by summer?! thanksss (link)
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If you feel like you have to eat, do it before 8pm. Try to not eat after 8pm. Our bodies have a biological clock and tells us to slow down and get ready to sleep. You will burn more calories before 8pm then any part of the day...
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So about 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up and we weren't in the best of spirits together. Well he went to Vermont to see his family and get away and figure things out.
He has been gone for 2 months and we have gotten back together.
He is coming back in 2 weeks and I want advice on some cheap and romantic things to do when he gets back. He comes home at 1:30 in the morning so I was thinking to go star gazing but I was just curious if any one had any more ideas to make it extra romantic? (link)
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you have a great idea, especially that he has been traveling and might be tired getting back early in the morning. i think your move is good and will give u 2 time to catch up. If he is not in the mood, you are not devistated or lost anything. Just pick up on it tommorow.
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So for a long time I have had boy troubles. I like someone and the feeling is never mutual or we do the whole dating thing and nothing happens after that. I feel like I might be doing something wrong. I don't come off too strong and I never jump the gun. I just feel like I lost track on how to attract a guy and how to keep him interested. Its been a long long time since I had a boyfriend and I would really like to know what to do. (link)
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Forget trying to attract him. He will become attracted to you just by being his friend, find the void in his life, the thing that noone else understands but you... Good Luck
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