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ok well my mom is getting sruvery tomorrow..a historectory..how ever you spell it..and like I'm really scared for her but like we're fighint because I failed my geography test and my teacher called my mom and told her and now we're fighting..and I'm scared something might happen to her and we'll be fighting..she said I'm grounded for 2 weeks and like I can't..like I have a life a big one...like I do stuff everyday with people..and my mom is always saying how she misses me because I'm never home or I'm talking on the phone or on the computer..and like I try to spend time with her but we always end up fighting..I just want to spend more time with her but have a life too..and I wanna get out of this fight before tomorrow because shes leaving for the hospital tomorrow at 5:00am and I'm not gonna see her..I'm soo scared that somethings gonna happened and we're gonna be fighting..please help..I'm sitting here crying cause I'm soo scared..I'll rate high! (link)
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I advise that you sit down with your mother tonight. You should put off your schedule for one night and try to sort through this with her. Maybe you can collectively make a schedule or a night one or twice a week when you dedicate all your time to each other.
As for the fighting part, try to tell your mother what is bothering you in a mature fashion. If you speak to her as an adult, she is more likely to treat you with respect as well.
Good luck to you and your mother, Jeanette
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ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween! (link)
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Your friend is obviously controlling. You need to decide if your friendship or relationship needs more of your attention at the current time.
Maybe she is uncomfortable with her family member going out with her friend. I advise that you confront her about this and get a straight answer. Once you have spoken and considered what she said, then you can decide whether to wait for her to go visit him or not.
Best of luck, Jeanette
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I am 13/f. Ever since I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been thinking things I really shouldn't be thinking. I keep getting all these...desires to do things to him. I shouldn't be thinking things like that, I'm only 13!!! How do I stop? (link)
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You cannot control your thoughts. With age, sexual tension begins to come up. You then have the choice of acting on them or not.
If you want some sexual release, try masturbation. That way you are not risking your safety.
You can't control your thoughts. You can only control your actions.
Never think that feeling these things are wrong. It is perfectly normal. Most teenagers around your age are beginning to experience the same kind of thoughts as you.
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okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
--thanks (link)
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From your question, I am gathering he had sexual relations with your friend. The thing to do is not to get revenge, but to deal with it in a mature way.
You first need to discuss this with him, and get a straight answer from him. It appears to be relationship that neither of you are comfortable with. You want to remain a virgin, and he wants to have sexual relations. I think that you cannot seem to find a middle ground, because obviously he felt he had to cheat on you.
Why would you want to be with a dishonest person anyway? You should find yourself someone who will be honest and true to you.
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Im falling in love with my best friend. I dont want to ruin our relationship, but i really want to be more than friends with her. We talked about it briefly, and she says she doesnt want to be, but she acts totally like she does. i dotn want to rush things, i just dont know if these feelings are true, or if i should be feeling them. help. im 18 m n shes 18 f (link)
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Girls are famous for their mixed signals. Females will flirt with anyone- I should know. It is a well known fact that people want others to be interested in them even if they may have no interest in pursuing a relationship.
If she really appears to be sincere, you can throw the idea out there in a manner where it is not obvious of your feelings. Maybe you could test the waters a bit, ask her if she is open to dating anyone at the present time. Inquire about her feelings- girls LOVE that.
It is very easy to have feelings for people close to you. I leave you with a couple of words of advice. Make sure you are willing to risk this friendship before you take a step foward. The results could be amazing, but you could also loose a friend.
Good luck to you,
Jeanette
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ok, i have liked this guy.. he knows it and basicly everyone knows it. including my best friend. now... one day i introduced them to each other. they liked each other and he asked her out... she said YES! what kind of best friend does that!? she knew i liked him!? am i crazy, or is that wrong?
please help!
what should i do!?
thank you! (link)
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If your friend knew that you really liked this guy then she is not a good friend. Good friends would respect another person's infacuation. I think that it is now up to you if you want to continue this friendship.
As for the guy, just forget about him. I can assure you that there are many guys out there. I know it may be difficult to let someone go, but it is better in the long run. Start going out to malls and socializing and leave out your radar for a new interest!
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