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its this slow rock song sung by a guy and it goes
"i will never let you fall ill stand up for u forever ill be there for u thru it all even if somethin somethin its ok its ok
seasons are changin and waves are crashin and somthin somethin "

plzzz tell me what its called

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This song is called
"Your Gardian Angel" by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus


Ok you answered a question for me eariler bout my ex getting pregnant and what i should do....i was just wondering do you think i should be there for her through it all or should i just kinda blow her off and not worry about it...the only thing is i dont really want to leave her cause i no she is going to need friends through all this stuff (link)
Honestly, I think you should let her handle it how she wants to. If she wants your support, she'll come to you for it! Until then, I think you should just step back and let it play out. Maybe, if you're worried about leaving her or you just need a little peace of mind about the situation, do this... just go to her and let her know that you're there for her if she needs it. I think saying something like that to her will help you let go a little bit. This will give her the space she needs but you can still be there if she needs you! Does that make sense? I think that will work, let me know if you have any more questions!


what are the famous songs of savage garden again? "truly madly deeply" "i knew i loved you" and what else..? (link)
"crash and burn" was one of their more popular songs too!


ok. last night i had a dream that I was in a car crash and died. I was right next to a place called Hendricksons. Well I talked to my friend who lives in Arkasas. And he told me that this morning some one died in the same way I did in my dream going to (Hendersons) Is this weird to anyone else? Cause i'm freeking out here. (link)
Well, that is not that uncommon! I think it is pretty cool to dream things and find out they actually happend. Well, not in this case because their was a dealth involved. Did you know or have any connection with the person who died in the car accident.

Well, since there was no connection with the person whatsoever, I'd have to say that it was a complete coinsidence! There are so many people in the world, it is bound to happen!


well, i have real bad acne on my back and on my chest and i want it all gone. im kinda self concious to wear a bathing suit or a shirt that buttoms up that ure supposed to leave open.

i was wondering if anyone had any known cures for it, like natural not store bought. store bought is fine too but it can't be too expensive.

thanks for anything. (link)
Not everyone believes this, but I believe that I good diet can clear up acne! Now I don't know what your diet is like, but if it is at all bad, just do some small changes to make it a little healthier. Having a good diet and exercising seems to keep the skin healthy for me. Give it a shot!


Oh well i went out with this girl for three and a half months well we got into a fight about 3 weeks ago and we broke up but being the kind of guy i am we were still going to be friends...so then 3 days ago we went to a basketball game and we made out for a little bit before i took her home however after i drop her off i find out she is going out with someone else so i feel like an ass for helping her cheat but thats just the start of this then sunday during half time of the superbowl game she calls me and says she is Pregnant(now first all we never had sex) So this leads to my questions 1) Should i tell her boyfriend she cheated with me on him? 2) Was i cheated on cause we just broke up 3 weeks ago today, and finally 3) What should i do to be there for her cause i still have many feelings for her???? (link)
First of all, it is a little messed up that she went and did that three weeks after you broke up. At the same time, in her doing what she did to you, she is showing that she does not have the same feelings for you as you do for her. So, you should be happy in a way because you know how she feels... it's not worth waiting around to see if she comes back to you. If I were you, I would not go talk to her boyfriend. You broke up three weeks ago, you were not together when she slept with this other guy. So therefore, it was wrong what she did, but she did not cheat on you. I suggest just stepping back from the situation and letting things play out. It may be very difficult to rid yourself of those feelings for her, but she obviously doesn't want a romantic relationship with you. So, just step back and let her do what she has to do and move on with your own life. It will be hard at first but the awkardness around her will eventually die down. I hope that helps, let me know if you have any other questions!


can any one help me find lyrics?
Double Decker Supreme by Gravy Train
ive been looking everywhere... (link)
Here you go:

CHORUS:
Get down on all fours, open your back door
Don't it feel so goood with a lady and a doood
Boy get in the center, she'll take off your sweater
I'll take down your panties, dress you all in leather

I had a fantasy since I was nine
'Bout blowin' loads in a butt while loads are blown in mine
Don't blame me for bein' sick for dick
Sometimes it's titties that I wanna lick
I'm such a slut I've tried everything
I've choked down six dix while eatin' Burger King
That ain't shit compared to what I've done
Once jacked off in a hot dog bun
So I got a idea, little boys listen here
Me and Hunx on you like cheese on a quesadilla
We're almost late for a 12:30 luncheon
It's your ass that we'll be munchin'
Kidnap your ass like you're Patty Hearst
Damn my dick is about to burst
Boy I know that your homework is due
But me and Chunx hella wanna screw

(CHORUS)

Two cocks one poosy, all three pretty juicy
More fire in my crotch than Danny Bonadoocy
Your mama looks like Tina Yothers
But I'ma eat you up like Sally Struthers
We'll take turns givin' ya head
You'll be the baloney in our Wonderbread
Stick your dick up in my coochie
I never thought I'd feel so bougie
I'll shove my nipples into your eyes
While Hunx hits your ass with a birthday surprise
I'm hungry, I'm randy and I just can't wait
I'm fishin' for sluts and usin' Chunx as bait
Playin' this game me and you together
Dress him all up like a daddy of leather
Pass the lube, the lettuce and the sour cream
It's time for a DOUBLE DECKER SUPREME!!!!

Oooh this dick tastes like shit
LICK THE CLIT! LICK THE CLIT!!!!
Oooh this clit makes me sick
LICK THE DICK! LICK THE DICK!!!! (x2)


why do people say be yourself? but what if they dont like how you act? its just hard to be yourself in public, because some people doesnt accept you who you are. i dont get life =[

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Life is complicated! One of the worst things you can do in life is not be yourself. You can put on an act all you want but someday its gonna come back and bite you. You don't want to be fake around people because of one thing, "thats not who you are!" You need to be real and be yourself, if someone doesn't except you for who you are, then forget them. All I have to say is do be yourself and don't put on an act to impress other people. People putting on an act and being fake is what makes this world so difficult.


what is the legal driving age in florida
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The legal driving age in anywhere in the United States is 16.


could anybody tell me who made this song its pretty old
"turn the radio up to that sweet sound hold me close never let me go turn the radio up and make me loose control baba baba ect (link)
Yeah, its "Make Me Lose Control" by Eric Carmen.


how do you stop loving someone? (link)
Okay, I just went through a horrible break-up where I was left with my feelings for the person. She broke up with me so I had no choice but to continue loving her. But anyway, the key to stop loving someone is work and time. You need to get out in the world and jumpstart your life. Hang out with friends, go see a movie, talk to people about other things. This will take time but eventually your love for this person will fade away.


OK well i got this girl i care the world for. I have wrote her a poem and am thinking bout printing the poem on microsoft word then putting a picture of a rose below the poem after i type it. Then i am going to roll the poem up and wrap it with some kind of ribbon. Then i am thinking bout getting her some real roses and being like i got you these real roses cause my love for you is real. And then getting her a fake rose and being like i got you this fake one to let you know my love for you will never die it will always be there. I have had people telling me to stay there and watch her read the poem and see her flowers then i have had some saying i ought o take it to her then leave my question is which should i do stay there while she reads the poem or give it to her and leave and wait for her to call? (link)
Dude, if I were you, I'd stay and watch the reaction. Your plan is a guaranteed good one! She will love it. Plus, in my opinion the greatest gift to you personally is going be seeing her reaction. Who doesn't want to see their loved one happy?




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