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Q: Heyy!,

Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!!

If you truly like him, it really shouldn't matter :]

Q: my friend has a horrible boyfriend. he always acts like he's in love with other girls when hes not around her. and when he is around her they are all over eachother. and knowing my friend, its kind of gross. and he's so rude to me and all my other friends. my friend just doesnt see this. i know he will break her heart sooner or later. because she knows that he isnt totally in on the relationship, but she likes him too much to notice that. i'm afraid for my friend. he will really hurt her heart. [trust me i'm not jelous, i would never like this guy]. what should i do? i rate 5's

As painful as it is, you're going to have to tell your friend how you feel. MAKE SURE you tell her you care for her and you are doing this just to protect her and to make sure she doesn't get hurt.

Most likely she will get angry or upset at you and accuse you of being jelous. Just don't let her push you too far away ( and don't be offended) If you can somehow prove to her that he hits on other girls, maybe she won't get mad.

Make sure you don't say " I told you so " or anything like that if she does get mad at you, then he breaks up with you.

It's the best thing you can do. Just be sure to tell her you think he's going to break her heart, she will love you for this. I promise. :]

Q: I'm using acne medication that I put on my face at night and wash off in the morning. Well, my acne is getting a little better but my skin is SUPER dry and flaky from it. It's gross!!! Well, if I use moisturizer, my skin just gets acne...so what do I do to keep my skin nice and fresh and soft but acne free?! (while still using the acne medication the dermatologist prescribed!)
i rate highhh!

You could go back to the dermatologist and see if s/he recommends anything. =]

I use acne medicine and I got dried out skin too. I use Neutrogena Dry/Sensitive Non-Oil face softener/lotion. Works Great. =]

Hope I Helped x3

Q: Okay well I had this boyfriend and we were only going out for two weeks and then he called me and said that we cant go out anymore. I wasnt that dissapointed because we hadnt been going out for too long. But then my best guy friend sent me their conversation and the kid that dumped me was really mad he did. He only did it because someone told him it would be weird to go out with me. He just asked me out again and I know that he will dump me again because that is what he did last year too. What should i do

mm. You're gonna have to follow your heart on this one. Is he worth going through this on/off scene ? Is he worth the trouble? If the answer is no, obviously just say no to him. Make him jelous and regret that he would do something so stupid as to listen to his friend instead of following his own heart.

If the answers yes, you should accept. Obviously he really means something to you.
=] Hope It Works Out . x3

Q: Hi,
Well can some one tell me some good song I've been listening to the same old one forever and I need some new one.

Pretty Girl by Sugarcult
=] I've been listening to it all day.

Q: ok so we are doing this secret santa thing in my class. yeah its kinda early. but any ways. so i have this guy whos like 16 and i have no idea what to get him. He's a pretty god freind of mine. i just have no idea. I dont normally buy presents for that many guys. so im kind of drawing a blank.

got any ideas?

mmm.
Cologne would be good.
Maybe a $5 or $10 giftcard to starbucks or a local resturaunt he likes.
A big bag of his favorite candy.
A small amount of money on a gift card to say blockbuster.
If you two have an inside joke maybe something that represents that inside joke.
Maybe a little stuffed santa or a small stuffed toy that represents the holiday season.

Theres lots of things,
I hope I helped =) =)

Q: OKay I just got my first kiss on the lips! Should I kiss him back everyday? I mean I love him, but is it right since its only our 1st?

Congratulations =]
First off: A kiss is special, if it's overdone it may lose its uniquness and it may no longer feel special when he kisses you.
If you kiss him every time you see him, he may think its required and he may stop doing it out of love and start doing it cause he thinks he has to.

So a kiss on the cheeck is good if you're just saying good bye after hanging out at his house or just hanging out with a group of people. A hug is also very good for a casual hangout goodbye. Save a one of those special kisses for a more romantic date to keep them worth the wait :)

Q: okay so my head itches and i have this weird bump inside and like i havent found any "Bugs" or "eggs,larva" but i cant help but itch my scalp..please help I DO NOT HAVE LICE!!!!!!!!!

This may be dandruff or just dry, dead skin on your scalp. There are plenty of shampoo's or special lotion's that will cure this :) Don't worry hun, many people have this problem. Just check out the haircare aisle at the local store for some dry/itchy scalps. ♥ Hope I helped. =]

Q: Ok so I like this really hott boy(well actually Ive seen hotter) and I like him alot. Well he sits next to me in science class. He knows I like him (long story on how he found out). I really want him to like me. Everyone says we'de be the perfect couple, and I'm only like 1 milimeter taller than him. Any advice on how I could get him to like me?
I rate 5's all the time.

One Word: FLiRT :)
hah. Trust me it works, you just gotta know how to do it. First off talk to him all the time. Maybe touch his arm every once in a while. Try to make him laugh. Smile at him if he looks over at you. Say hey in a cute voice when you pass him in the wallway. Write little notes to him class. Sit with him at lunch, hang out with him after school. Then start to invite him to the movies. Throw popcorn at him in a flirty kinda way. You just gotta be confident and go for what you want :)

I hope it works hunn x3

Q: hiii.
kay well. Im 14 and im a girl. Boys are so inmature now a days. All the guys I go out with are not good boyfriends. All they say to me is " your hot" And I really want a really long good relationship. I know thats not really possible at my age but i see it all the time. I want a guy who loves me for me and does all those cute little sweet things. Ive had a couple in the past like that but they turned out to be ass holes.
Why cant I find that type of guy?

I have this problem too. Guys just aren't looking for what we are just yet. They probably haven't even hit puberty. ;-). hah.

Anyways; You're just going to have to wait. I know it may suck but it's the only the you can do until Mr. Perfect comes around. Plus your 14, HAVE FUN. Take this time to become really close with your best friends and just have fun. You never know, Mr. Perfect could be right around the corner :)

Q: Hey!
I can never find jeans that fit!
I have really long legs but im not that tall. I know they say abercrombie is good for that, but they're jeans to be are so bulky and they're not a tight comfy fit.
Does anyone know wheere I can get jeans that are long and strechy and are tight? Like almot straight legged but still flare? But not too expesive.
anyone know what I mean?

I'm tall too, I often find this a problem. I have some cute Hollister Jeans that fit perfectly. They're a great length, and a tight fit. However, they are $50 jeans.

If your not into spending that much money Target has some great jeans. I know your probably thinking "Target? You've got to be joking me" But seriously, I got some majorly cute perfect fit jeans for only $15!

Hope I helped :)

Q: This girl that's my friend Jenna* and this guy that is my friend Greg* used to date. It was a nasty breakup. Well I stayed frieds with both of them. Well now me and Greg are really close. Like we hug at church and stuff but we are NOT dating. Now she thinks we have something going on. And she called me and said I saw his # in your cell phone and then I saw ya'll hugging...what is going on? I don't know what to do. I want to keep both of my friends please help!

Tell her the truth. If she doesn't believe it, it won't be your fault. She has a right to think what she wants. If you guys are just friends then you have nothing to worry about. Tell her your her good friend and you wouldn't do that to her. She could just be feeling insecure. :)

Q: I'm in this advanced choir. There's this new girl who just joined. She's 13, like me, only she's a grade ahead of me (I'm a 7th grader). I have to admit, she's pretty good. Everyone knows that she's got this beautiful high voice, a little like Sarah Brightman's. She's a bitch! She's always flaunting her voice. During camp, we all had to watch this documentary on opera, and she goes "I bet I could sing opera..." Jesus! She's only 13, right?!!!! She had to share a bunk with me. She's was a disgusting bunk mate. She was always spilling her milk all over my papers, bringing food into the dorm, not eating it, and soon there would be moldy peaches everywhere. She can NEVER stop talking about herself. It's always me, me, me, me, me, my voice, my hair, and my boyfriend. Once she was talking about herself and says "my friend and I were watching the Phantom of the Opera and I could sing that really high note at the end of the song 'The Phantom of the Opera.' " She sings the note and asks "Can you sing it?" So I tried, and of course I couldn't, because I'm not even a soprano, and she goes "ha-ha! i can sing the high E and you're all strained up. That's hilarious..." and goes off into another monologue about herself. Now I have to sit on the risers right next to her, and she's getting worse. She's also a brownnoser. She's always sucking up to our choir teacher, and so on...what can I do to put up with her? I don't want anyone to say "talk to her about it." It's not like she's my friend or anything.

She's what we call " Desperate for Attention" She wants everyone to recognize her strengths instead of her weaknessess. So she only shows her strengths. People like her are everywhere, try talking to her. Be like, "Look, I know your new, and your life may be fascinating .. but personally don't care" Or if you more of a nicer person try " I really like your voice, and you are talented, but I don't need to be reminded every second"

Your best bet: Ignore Her. If you don't give her the attention she's striving for, maybe she'll go off and try to get it from someone else. I Hope it all works :)

Q: ok so my friend Brendan has been ignoring me lately. We don't see much..and we were really good friends, but all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. We only talk over the internet and phone.so I don't know what's happening and I don't know what to do.

Maybe he just realized he likes you as more then a friend ? Your best bet would be to just talk to him. Find him at school, pull him aside, and just ask him whats up. If he won't talk ; Ask some of his other friends if he's mentioned anything about you lately. Hope It works out :)

Q: My friend is jealous that this year I made a new friend and now she is spreading mean rumors about me cuz shes jealous what do I do?? Much Luv

~~Mackie~~

I wouldn't call this girl your friend if she's spreading rumors about you. Since she's so jelous ; try including her in your and your new friend's plans. Other then that, your just going to have to move on. Those types of girls are everywhere; don't let her ruin your good time. :)

Q: okay im a girl.. wen i straighten my hair the right side always like curls out within an hour..its so annoying does anyoneee know how to fix it?

Simple: A Hair Straightening Serum.
You can find these a beauty supply store. They will protect you hair from the heat, help you straighten you hair faster, and keep it straighter longer :)

Q: ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for four weeks and we havent kissed yet. i really want to kiss him but it will be his first kiss and i dont know how to do it. i want it to be special. we really only see each other at skool so wuts a good way to do this at skool so neither one of us is put in an akward situation?

First off : If you plan the kiss, It may not be as special.

Here's some tips though:
Try meeting outside of school. Maybe a picnic, a trip to the movies, or simply a walk to the park. These are suttle but perfect spots to set the mood.

Then ..
Start talking about something meaninful. And slowly lower the volume of your voice and move closer to him. Maybe try putting you hands on his cheeks or try holding his hands. And just lean in for the kiss. If he acts a little shy, or pulls away don't worry. He must be nervous. Simply laugh it off and wait for a time when you are both ready.
:) I hope it works.

Q: I always wear the same makeup, same hair. My hair is shoulder length and really dark brown. I have dark brown eyes and VERY pale skin. So...what are some ideas to make my look better (hair and makeup)

Hey!
You could try a website ( seventeen.com ) for new hair styles. Try a hair cut, maybe some of those side sweeping bangs? Jergen's Natural Glow could gradually take care of the pale skin. You could try straightening your hair if its curly, or if its straight you could try scrunching it. You could try some different shades of eyeshadow ; or maybe even a lighter lipstick! Try not to go heavy on the dark make up. On pale skin, dark make up can make you look like a clown.
I hope it all works :)

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