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17 years old, I've pretty much gone through anything and everything you could possibly think of so don't be afraid to ask me anything! Totally judge free :)
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Age: 17
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what is a prep? (link)
umm well compared to the person who already answered this i feel dumb. when i hear prep i think of cheerleading where we stunt or put girls up in the air at a low level height. but correction to what i saw down there a prep as in a person does not neccisarilly speak that way or wear alot of makeup. prep is more of a type of style...


so im thinking of going somewhere to have a 'brazilian wax'.. Its my first time ever and i dont know what to expect exactly.
They will remove the hair on the mound, right? But what about the hair at the sensitive places like in between the legs? Does that get waxed too?
I used to wax there myself and i'd get ingrowns.. Will i get them if i get it professionally done?

Thanks so much for helping me out!
Any personal experiences etc. will be helpful. (link)
okay so you can tell them that you dont want your inner legs waxed. because they do usually wax there. so thats an option and as for ingrown hairs it really depends. some girls are just more likely to get them then other girls there really nothing you can do about it maybe just try shaving it instead? hope i helped!


Im having my sweet 16 in two months, and i need to think of a few songs

1-i need a song for when i dance with my dad the "father daughter dance" and i want it to be slow but known, but not overplayed haha

2- i need a song for my boyfriends candle. we have been together for over 2 years and i am completely in love with him, if you could list a couple of cute love songs, then that would be great

3-i have 4 songs for my best friends, but i want a couple more so i have some to choose from. what are good best friend songs?


thanks so much! (link)
More then words by franki J
Umm the immpossible by joe something lol I don't know his last name but those are good ones


I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He wants me to come with him to his brother's house this weekend to watch a game with him, his brother, and a bunch of his brother's friends. So basically it'll be me and a bunch of guys, plus maybe his brother's wife.

Here's the dilemma: This guy that I'm seeing is four years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 22. In the beginning we were both skeptical about the age thing but now it makes no difference to us. I've already met his parents and his friends and they are all really nice and seem to be fine with the age thing.

I've never met his brother before but I know that they very close with each other. His brother is 30 so most of the guys who will be there will be around that age. I am just going to feel SO YOUNG and out of place. I dred them asking me what school I go to and me having to tell them I'm still in high school.

On the other hand, I think it says a lot that he wants me to meet his brother and wants to bring me to this "gathering". I feel that if I didn't go i might regret it. Basically I just don't want to feel awkward or unaccepted. I don't know what to think, say, or what on earth to wear.

Please help. Thanks!!
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Ummm deffinetly go. Hahaha I think your more affraid of the gender thing then the age diff. But for that I'm sure your bf's brothers wife is gonna feel the same. Chill with her! And if not then you always have your bf to hang with. What to wear. You want a good impression but you don't want to look like your trying to make a good impression so no skirts or boots. Tight jeans and flats and sneakers or something and then a tight top or semi tip top with a tiny bit low cut. Hahaha. Hope I helped.


What is the slime on slime time made out of ? (link)
I stayed at the Nickolodian Hotel and got slimed. They told me that it was warm water with loads and loads of green food dye and a little Vanilla yogurt for the thicknise and yes it does smell gross. Hahaha I remember the guy pied me in the face and I asked why he goes 'because it smells realy bad. The smell of pie will cover it for a good 5 minutes so you have time to run back to your hotel and take a shower.' Hahahaha good times! Strange ? Though might I ask why you wanted to know?


What other places can I get songs for free other than Limewire? (link)
limewire dot com is absolutly free.


An old phone of mine (that I dropped in the water over the summer) has some very precious to me videos on it. The phone itself isn't completely ruined...I haven't turned it on since the incident (6 months ago) and I turned it on today and it worked without any problems but then it started acting up again.

I'm just wondering if there is any way I could possibly get the videos off my phone and either on to my new phone or how I could email them or something. I've tried to send them to my email but when I press send I get a message that says "Cannot Support High Resolution (320 x 240) FLIX MSG". Anything I can do? Those videos are very precious to me.

The phone in question is The V from Verizon. (Not the EnV....just The V.) (link)
Oh its easy. Take off the back of your phone and take out the SIM card. (the tiny little card probley the size of your thumb nail) on the side of your computer or laptop or maybe on the tower you can insert it and it will upload your videos probley, or put the SIM card in your new phone and it will work fine. Hope I helped!

~*~

Lindsey


I have very thick hair, and sometimes it is hard to control ; Im going for a hair cut soon and I want something quite emo or indie looking. My hiar is very thick, and quite long. Past half way down of my back. I really like it that length though. Any sugestions? any pictures?

thanks! (link)
Actually somthing a lot easier is go on google and type in Scene hair under images and all those types of long emo hair your talking about come up. =] hope I helped too!


Could people list songs that have to do with a girl being over her ec boyfrann because she found a new guy?
Anything that sounds good
Song title & band name please&thankyou (link)
Since you been gone-kelly clarkson

I can do beter-avril lavigne



so what are some weird/funny sayings like
'automatic doors make me feel like a jedi'
or
'on the other hand, i have fingers'

or words like
'fancy' or 'foxy'
hahah. thanks.

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Hahahaha that was a good one.


Don't reach for the stars you'll look like an idiot constantly stretching.

Stupid people are like slinki's. They do nothing and yet its always amusing when they fall down the steps.

if someones mad you say to them 'well aren't you just a flippin ray of sunshine?'



That's the best I got.


How can i make my girlfriend feel like the most im portant girl in the world? (link)
Tell her she's beautiful. Hug her from behind. Give her your jacket. Tell her how much you like her when she's with her friends. Defend her even if its a stupid little fight. And simply tell her she's the most important girl in the world.

Good luck.


Hey everyone
I have light tanned skin, light brown eyes and dark black hair. I want to put highlights in my hair. Should i put the same light, honey brown to match my eyes, or should i put a dark brown?
I know this is a little vague, but if someone is willing to help, i could send a picture.
Thank you!
16/f (link)
Hey I'm lindsey and I'm 14. I think that would look great. Ummm I looked for a picture that sounded like itd be your style. Keep in mind it doesn't have to be styled like the girls in the pic. Hope I helped!



http://renewpowderhaircolour.com/images/renew_highlight_blonde.jpg


my friend rob posted a bulliten on myspace saying that he was suicidal again. and he said that he had a knife and a lighter in his bedroom and he wasnt afraid to use them, he also said that meybe he'd add a rope in to and that he wasnt afraid to kill himself. should i tell someone? if i do, who do i tell? will he hate me? should i talk to him first?
he's a good friend of mine. i dont wanr him to die. please help me. (link)
Go see him in person as soon as possible. Not a call a mean go see him in the flesh. See haw bad the damage really is. If it is bad then get him help tell a consuler and give them all the info on him. His name age adress. Yes he will hate you. He'll say it wasn't your business exetra. But think about it he's the one who made it super obvious. He put it on the internet. He probley just wants attention. If not then do what I said asap. I mean he will hate you but after he see's what he's been doing and saying he will probley thank you for saving him. Be brave and be strong. Easier said then done I know but I believe in you!!

14F


Okay so I've had sex with girls(if that's what you want to call it), but now I'm going to have sex with a guy for the first time. My friends told me that their first time it wouldn't go in and it hurt really bad. Is it going to be extremely hard and painful for me? (link)
Well I can't answer ur question because idk whether your a guy or a girl. I don't know whether you mean anal or vaginal sooooo yeah. Haha sorry I could help.


My nipples feel really sensitive. What could it be, it just started happening right after having sex. What is it? I have been sexually active for a couple years now and this never happened, what do you think? (link)
I think there's a chance of you being pregnant. Sensitives nipples are a sympon of pregnancy. So I'd get a pregnancy test done. Hope you the best of luck.


Please do not judge me.
I have been Bulimic for
a year or so now,
and its become so that
i have to do it, its like in my
head, i feel horrible if i eat something
and dont throw it up...
i only do it once a day but
anyways...
my real question is
does it effect your birth control???
started taking it 3 weeks ago and i take it at like 1 in the afterrnoon
and i throw up after dinner which could be anywhere from 6-9 at night...
so does this effect the pill?
like is it still affective??? (link)
I'm not gonna judge bc I've been there too. Ummm idk. But I would think so because the pill most likely would have disolved up by then but I'm not a professional. If your curious then ask you doctor say you've been sick and want to know if it still works if you (throw up) say from your stomach being upset. Hope I help. Anyother questions you can just ask for my email.


How can i look older? i'm 17 and i dont really look it. And most of my friends look like that are like 19 and could serioysly pass for 21, its SO annoying! I don't wear that much makeup and so i try to wear more, but like too much looks stupid on me.

Any ideas?
THanks! (link)
I don't really think a lot of makeup makes you look older if anything trashy. I would say just eyeliner and mascara. Brings out your eyes and makes you look more mature. Also I would asume you act mature. Be more flirty maybe? Ummm also I'd say depending on how you already dress try to dress a little mature with a flare. Like jeans and a high cut top. I mean make sure you don't look sluttyish because like I said that makes you look trashy not older. Hope I helped!


im 13 years old and hes 14.
omg, ive liked him since last year, to last summer, to this year hahaa. so ive liked him for a while now, hoenslty, ithink im inlove, you might be rolling your eyes, but yeah thatdoesnt really matter right now, well we wer never THAT close to eachother, it was always like HI's and Byes or do you have a pencil? do we have h.w that stuff haha, but now this year me and him are pretty damn close, like in computer class we sit togehter and joke around and we'll go on paint and make fun of eachother, and he'll take my water bottle and like hide it from me and stuff and also when wer in class he'll be like go get me water,NOW!and he'll like be joking[my sis thinks its a way of flirting with me ] haha.
and whenever my sister is like talkin to him he has a straight face, and then when i come my sister notices him smirking and he neve rwants to look at me but ithink its cuase hes shy. but what do you guys think? i know yoiu cant know if he likes me or not but like what do you think about these stuff, im sorry its soo long haha :] htanks in advance kbye: ] (link)
It sounds to me like he likes you. But since your into the teasing thing I was in the same position. So be like (were gonna pretend his names joe) hey joe I heard this girl has a crush on you. And then keep giving him clues and eventually you'll be able to tell if he likes you through that if he keeps bugging you for an answer. Hope I helped!


17/f

Over the last year and a half one girl has basically ruined my life. She has assaulted me twice (ruined both grad events so far this year) and turned everyone against me. I don't have many friends, I can't go to parties.. it's just a bad situation. I didn't do anything to deserve this. I FINALLY told the principal last week because of the last assault (I am pressing charges) and now she has been expelled (the school board, not the principal.. she has a bad history as it is).

Except now her friends are all trying to make me feel guilty. They're telling me she is dropping out (not finding another school even though she has that option) and she is going back into using hard drugs. They're telling me about how she has no home (lives with a friend) and now no chance to get an education. This isn't my fault. I didn't tell her to ruin my life, I really didn't. I haven't said anything back to her friends. They're trying to pressure me into telling the principal that she needs to come back to our school. I don't want her back! I don't want this pressure either though. What should I do? Thanks.. (link)
Trust me if she wanted to go bac and do hard drugs that's her problem. And I don't blame you for not wanting her back. So what if her friends are pressuring you there probley just mad the lost a friend. So ignore it. And think about it, even if you did ask the principal to bring her back he wouldn't since you said it was also a school board decision and then he'd probley question why you want her back to begin with and then your in a big mess. You did the right thing so for now. Chill. I'm sure she was bullying other girls too and those girls are probley thankful you had the courage to talk about it to the principal so you did the right thing. I wouldn't be brave enough to do that. Be proud not sad. :)


My significant other and I have been fighting a lot for the past month. I don't know whether to leave him alone or talk about it. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it, so i asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said he didn't want to do that either. What should I do? I really want to get my mind off of him, and this situation. What should I do. Talking to him about it is not an option right now. (link)
We'll its not healthy to stay in a realationship with someone if your fighting a lot and if he doesn't talk about it then how will you fix it? My soulution is since it seems obvious you still like him a lot then ask for a break. Like a week or two. It could be many things. Like something could have happened with a family or a close friend. Or bad credit. It could be anything so just try and see what happens. Hope I helped. :)




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