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Hello, my name is Jessica, but I go by the name Fornorina online :)
I have had loads of experiences lately, so I figured I could lend some more people a hand with what I have to say.
I am going to try and answer a few questions every day via the Random Question link as I think it's a really good way to see questions.
I hope I can answer a lot of questions and give you some good advice.
My friends have always told me I give good advice, because I say everything from my heart and my previous experiences.
I think I can help a lot of people on Adivenators, because I know a lot about my favourite catorgories which you will see below.
My friend commit suicide last year, so I am still not over that because it's been my first death.
Please don't hesitate to contact me with any questions you have via email or straight into my inbox on advicenators.
Thanks :) X

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Hello, I am 16, and i am so sick of my life i really am. So far i ahve llost alot of my close friends,well what i thought was my best friends. They all left because well im not sure really.But have you ever just wanted to give up? yeh thats what i want to do really.give up. not sure what to do anymore. this life that everyone is talkinga about,this great life,is nothing but a lie.

I have to tell you, that there are a lot of other things that can be worse. Like, majorly worse.
Think about it this way, you are only 16 - so that means you've only lived 1/8 of your life!!
You have loads of things that is going to happen in the next 10 years that is more important than losing those friends like:
-A job
-College
-University
-A career which you will love
-Getting married
-Having kids and making your own family.
You might not want some of those last things, but the others are really important because they shape your future more than the friends you have just lost. Put it this way, they clearly didn't like you for YOU, and when you meet new friends when you get 1). a job, and 2). when you're in college, you will say to yourself, "why on Earth did I waste all of that time and energy on them?!"
Seriously, I bet there are loads more people at your school that would like to be more than just "class mates" or "acquaintances" with you.
I hope I helped, and good luck!
- Fornorina

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what is the best/fastest/smartest way to loose 5-10 pounds?

and not gain it back.

what is the best diet?

Exercise is a good one, and try to make your diet more healthy. Try to cut out those fattening foods one by one.
Make sure you do this at your own pace though.
- Fornorina

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I have known this guy for a year now we have been talking alot and i like him.. anyhoo he texts me every day after school and wants to hang with me and he says all this sweet stuff to me and was like thinking about someone lately and he finally told me it was me so what does he mean does he like me or what?

That means he totally into you.
Just go for it! What have you to lose? ;)
- Fornorina

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Ok, so in my sleep I moan really sexually, really loudly and I toss and turn a lot and I don't sleep consistently...
Like, I'll get a few hours(if that) at a time, then I wake up abruptly then can't get back to sleep for hours...

Is there anything I can do or take to fix this because it's really giving me the shits and it freaking my boyfriend out a little.

xxx

You should try some sleeping pills.
But if that doesn't seem to work, you should contact your doctor or someone you trust for medical advice.
- Fornorina

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I am fourteen, and my best friend has been really mean to me, she punches me in the stomach, pressure points me, squeezes my arm, and it's her way to take out her anger!! The other day she broke into my other best friends locker and tried to steal her gum! I don't want to rat her out, but I need to get her controlled!!

She rammed her violin into me because I didn't give her the answers to our math test! I told her she needs to figure it out, it's your test. Was i right about doing that? Should I remain friends with her? What do I tell her? How do I tell her? Please help me!!

What your friend is doing to you is wrong, but I think you already know that by now.
I think you should tell one of your teachers, or you mother/father and see what they say because they may have also experienced something similar.
I think if you generally had/have a good time with her at weekends and during school hours, you should stay friends. Because you never know, she might be having problems at home which may cause her to act the way she does towards you and her other friends. Therefore, you should probably text or ring her asking if she is OK and maybe why she acts like she does. You should also tell her that you are always there for her if she needs you. It may be that she is suffering from bi-polar or has anger problems - but these are of course extreme and if you agree, you should probably talk to a teacher whom you trust to talk about this with.
I hope I've helped you out a little!
Good luck,
- Fornorina X

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so im not the best at startin conversations no matter who im with, an i can tell it annoys me best friend and i dont wont her think im boring. so anyone got any tips on how to start an interesting convo ?

I usually just start a usual conversation, e.g. how are you? Got any plans for this evening? Done anything interesting today? Did you have a good weekend? Got any plans for next weekend? Just general questions like that usually get my started, and hopefully your best friend will reply with something interesting that you can both build on to form a really good conversation.
Maybe when you come to having a conversation with your best friend you've heard or seen something that is worth chatting about. Therefore, you could include that into your conversation.
Anything that you can get it all going is worth it.
I hope I've helped a bit!
- Fornorina x

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okay i'm 14/f and i already have my ear lobes pierced. today i asked my mom if i could get my cartilage pierced and she went off and said no. i was like wtf? the only reason she had was that ears aren't meant to be pierce their ears there. i even offered to pay to get it done but she still wont budge.. how can i get her to let me get it done? im about to just do it myself..

I would say to your mom that you can always leave it to close up... I tried that once and it kind of worked with a little more reassurance.
I'd try asking some people that you know who've had it done (if you know of some people that have - or I guess you could google it for info) and ask them questions that your mom might want to know.
Just try to find as much information as you possibly can and I think your mom might come around to letting you get it done.
- Fornorina

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Okay I like this boy, we have kissed a few times, and I really like him. Were friends on facebook yet never talk,and everytime i see him its usually at a club where ive been drinking. A lthough he always says hello i think its cos hes just nice. How do I know/ get him to reciprocate feelings?

Hey there,
Guy troubles can sure be hellish, but if you really like someone, you should let them know.
I think someone else replied saying that you should just ask him out to dinner - I totally agree. The only way you will actually know that he likes you back, is to converse with him however you can. Text, call, Facebook chat is always a very good one as well.
Maybe when you are in a conversation with him over IM or whatever you use, you can just pop the question, "are you liking any particular girls recently?" That way, providing he's an honest guy, you will find out some more about him.
Also, I would just build up on your friendship - that's the best way to get to know someone.
I hope this helped!
- Fornorina x

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