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Greetings,
I'm Jane.
I have been bleeding for 3days now and I'm not on period!
We were having sex, and I felt that vagina got cut after sex I was peeing and burning sensation I touched and there was blood. I looked I saw a tiny cuts too. It was burning and bleeding for a day. The next day it wasn't burning anymore but it's still bleeding. put my hand down there and looked at my had and it gushing blood. I had to put a pad on due to the amount of blood that was coming out, the next day i started to get symptom of my time of the month, but it is a little different. I am on day 3 still bleeding and not sure if it because of cut or period( which btw wuld be too early.
How to stop blood? I'm so afraid
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You are more than likely fine. Stress can induce bleeding for some people. IF you don't feel dizzy or light headed or passing out, you should be fine. Take a deep breath. If it last longer than 3 more days, go get it checked out. You are ok. Good Luck.
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I am 21 yo guy and got out of an abusive relationship. She was a total brat and no matter what she always picked up a fight with me and i was always the one apologizing. After 3 years i finally got fed up to such an extent that i left her.the only thing is i lied that it was because my parents will never accept us. She did realize my worth after i left and begged and cried for me to stay but i had enough by then. The drama and emotional abuse got worse. Now we do not talk anymore and i feel really happy but the only thing which bugs me is if she harms herself am i responsible ? I did not want any drama so i lied,was that correct ? In my defense i suffered a lot over 3-4 years.i was fed up and wanted to get out . Help needed. (link)
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If you overall feel happy now, then just live in that moment. You deserve it! In my experience, just give things time. When people are rash and hard to deal with and abusive, they have a lot of their own demons to deal with that predate you. So, there will be a time (believe it or not) that you guys will talk again. Not necessarily romantically but for closure. And when that convo comes. She will understand. Dont worry about the lies. Just find happiness. Let the universe work its magic! Good Luck!
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I'm wondering if it's racist to call a black person chocolate as a compliment. I hear it used in books and stuff often. But I've heard some people say it's offensive. Is is racist? Preferably answers by black people. (link)
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HAHHAH!!! There are sensitive black people where everything you say is offensive. Then there are chill black people who really could careless.
Personally, I love chocolate! And in commercials chocolate is always bringing people to their knees and looks so delicious. CALL ME CHOCOLATE lol.
It's all in context. If your intentions aren't offensive, don't let others make you feel bad.
It's not a big deal.
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Australian, Year 9, female.
Hi,
so I have been thinking a lot about starting online school. I've spoken to my parents about it and they seem slightly reluctant (as I expected), but I'm sure with good reason and persuasion they'll allow it. The thing is, I don't know if I should or not. I find myself constantly thinking of reasons why I should start online school. I really am not liking school, I don't like how teachers emphasise the 'importance' of tests, I don't like all the cliques and the 'popular' people (which also, is a reason why I am not very confident), I don't like that they make us do sport where balls are being thrown around everywhere, yes, I do active things, I just don't enjoy ball sports. I like to teach myself how to do things and I don't believe I need a teacher to do that for me, I am quite independant, it will be more free time for me - I can focus on other things I want to learn, have a part time job (I can make more friends that way too), write, read, make videos, etc. and I have self discipline. I come up with more reasons as I'm at school, just thinking now I can think of a few more reasons, but I don't want to bore anyone reading this.
I don't know all that much about online schooling, so maybe even if someone has done or is doing online school, they could give me a bit of an insight as to what it's like, the pros and cons. Solutions to some of the cons, and cons that don't really have a solution. We do have exams soon, I'm not sure how that works with online school... I just don't know how I would make friends in online school. I do have a group of friends at school at the moment by the way.
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I would say if your only main reason of doing online classes is to get away from problems, it would be a bad idea. Online classes are a lot more difficult to pass, especially if you are not an organized person or slack off. Been there. Done that. But if you are just genuinely interested in online classes and you are organized, you should try it for a semester or a year and see how you like it.
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Hello everyone. My name is Robert and I am 16 years old. We've just moved from Europe to California and it is difficult for me. My English isn't as good as another but it is quite ok. The biggest problem is crying. Eg. I was at school and we written test and I had bad score and next lessons we had next test and I didn't understand well and I was crying all lesson. Next example: I was at home and my Dad told me that I am not good in school and I should be better in Football after this one I had training and my couch shouted of me but not only at me he shouted about all members but nobody was crying only me. I fell very bed this month I don't understand what is happend with me. Once a day I've gone to the kitchen and I took knife and wanted to cut to my hand bu I didn't do this but I wanted. And all problem is my Friend Frederic he is lovely boy and I thing that I am fall in love I always thing about him and He miss me when I am not at school and I always see his pics on FB. I would like hug him and kiss but I know that isn't possible. I hate myself. :( (link)
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Take 7 days to do an inner child meditation on YouTube. Pick a time at night before bed to relax and meditate. See where that gets you.
This seems like deep family issues, especially between you and your dad that arent resolved. You may be looking for acceptance in another man rather than actually being gay. Sometimes when people truly understand us and are gentle with us, we can misinterpret our feelings for them.
Do the meditation for a week WITH HEADPHONES. See how it goes for you. YOu will be okay! Good luck!
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So I will start off by saying 24/female. I have been now living around the world for two years, across 4 continents and am really enjoying this lifestyle for the moment. It is a true blessing that even though I made happen, I still feel lucky to have the opportunity. I even fell in love in one of these places, and though its not perfect due to the traveling nature of both our jobs, it makes me happy.
The question I want to ask is regarding friendship. My friends from back home although I try to keep them in the loop of my life as often as I can, do not really know what is happening, which country I am in, or any real details about my love life.
Recently talking to a friend from home she asked me how my relationship was, and I told her it was great, though i went into detail for the first time about why it is challenging. Her answer truly disturbed me and made me wonder, do good people say and think things out of jealousy subconsciously even when they don't mean to?
Her answer to me explaining the challenges of the relationship was matter of factly, without her really knowing the details, the guy, or the situation at all. it was simply: " I don't mean to hurt you but it sounds to me like you're just not the one for him, he doesnt really love you". She was implying that if he did love me none of the challenges I described would exist because in the end love conquers all????
For someone to say that when they don't know much about the situation just made me think...is it possible that people say things because they are subconsciously rooting for you to fail (not because of anything to do with you, but because they feel better about their own lives and situation if they see someone else struggling).
I don't want to think my friend is like this on purpose, or at all, but the whole ordeal just made me want to stop telling anyone any details and just keep what is my personal life to myself. In the end you are the one that has to live with it and make decisions, but having an answer as such coming from a friend really took me aback, not because I think she is right (although I've considered all sides of this), but because during the whole conversation, no other option seemed possible to her except that I should dump him and be single because he doesn't love me. And with this girl according to her no guy has ever loved me because this has always been her advice. (I've only had 3 guys in my whole life and not one of them was good enough or truly loved me according to her)
Just doesn't seem right to me.
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Well this is a mixed answer. Especially since there arent any details about what was going on with you and this guy. But what I can say is that if it is cheating, then he doesnt love you.
But. Yes, sometimes people can say things out of jealousy naturally, especially if they want to be doing what you are doing. But that doesnt always mean they will sabotage your happiness because they are jealous. Now if these other serious relationships didnt work out, then they obviously didnt love you ENOUGH. I think that is what she meant. Not to down play the time you spent with these people, but looking at the bigger picture.
However it seems to me the biggest problem with this is that you are really defensive about all of this. It sounds like you and this friend have a deeper issue than her giving you shady advice on a guy you seem to have fairly recently met. Maybe you should talk to this friend about what issues you guys had that yall just kind of skated over. You would be surprised at how we can really overreact in small situations when we havent truly taken care of bigger fish with someone.
Good Luck!
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I'm 25/f. I can't take my relationship with my family anymore, and I would like to leave the city, but I can't at the moment. Allow me to further explain. Since I can remember, my family has been overly controlling. Since I was about 5 years old, they told me where I was going to go to college... and it was in the same city. They let me know that it was unacceptable to go away for school. You would think that as I got older, the control would subside. But, it has only gotten worse. They tell me who to date, who I can't date, etc. I can't take this anymore.
I was living in the next county in an apartment that I really hated. I hated my job there and the place that I was living. So, I moved back to my county, but got an apartment. I didn't move back in with my family. They hated the apartment I moved into and this prompted them to fix my mom's old house and give it to me as a gift. Mind you... this wasn't solely done for me, but it was necessary because it would increase the value of the house. But, I thought that this was the answer to all my problems. I would be able to sleep at my house and my mom sleep in hers.
A couple of months ago, my great aunt sold her house and moved in with my mom. She was given my bedroom. So, for about a year before I originally moved, I didn't have my own bedroom!!! I had to sleep with my mom. In each of the apartments I had, I had 3 roomates. So, getting my own house felt like I was a queen. Until I actually moved in... and realized that this was just a trap to keep me under surveillance.
My grandmother basically told my mom that she had to stay over with me and sleep there... in my bed... in my room. And that I shouldn't stay there alone. When she doesn't stay, she comes knocking on my door at 7am. She dictates who can and cannot come over. She calls me insistently to tell me that I need to kick out guests. When my best friend of 10 years wanted to stay over because she was too tired to drive home... my mom made me kick her out of the house! This has gone above and beyond what's acceptable. When I told her that I wasn't going to listen to her and that my bff had to stay over or if not she was going to get into an accident... she said I was a lesbian and didn't want anything to do with me. Then, she came knocking on my door at 7am... banging on the doors to wake me up and kick us out of the house because she said a cleaning crew was coming.
I'm so extremely tired. This is not a way to live. I don't want this house anymore because it comes with strings. I told her and she basically told me off and said that they shouldn't have fixed the house for me. Maybe not... but they also shouldn't have given my room away without asking me first. Or just expect me with being ok with sleeping in the same bed as mom without an end in sight.
My family only perpetuates this unhealthy attachment with my mom. They tell me that I can't even put gas in my car without her coming. This family is absolutely dysfunctional and I'm just done. I'm done. I can't do this anymore. I don't want to sleep in the same bed as my mom anymore. I don't want to have her accompany me to put gas. I don't want her telling me who I can and can't date. I don't want to have to report everything to her like if I was a child. I'm an adult with a full time job and a college degree. Last weekend, I got on a plane and went out of town. I never felt so happy and free in my life. Like I had to be looking over my shoulder. I literally feel stalked all the time. One day, I told her I was at the sprint store and I was literally across the street getting a sandwich. I was going to the sprint store... I just failed to tell her I was getting a sandwich. she literally texted me saying she drove by the sprint store and didn't see me inside. She expects me to tell her every move I make.
I've decided that I want to move away from this city so I don't have to feel that way anymore. But, the problem is that I'm currently in the process of getting my master's degree and I have a year left of school. I need to finish my degree so that I can find a good job to support myself in another city. I can't transfer because I'm already too far into the program and all I need is another year. But, I've realized that within that year, I can't continue living like this! It's effecting my school-work. It's effecting my job. My stomach feels sick all the time and I have to miss days. I need to move to an apartment where I can study and feel at rest.
But, I need help and advice. Staying in my house would mean saving more money. But, is it worth it if I am feeling physically ill and it's effecting all aspects of my life? Is it worth saving money if I can't be an independent adult. Are there any laws to protect me in this situation? At all?
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Your Story is My Story. Move away. Immediately. Once you get some true happiness away from the toxicity, you will see that the degree and the money have NOTHING on your sanity. Schools and Master programs will always be there. There is no pressure to finish immediately. You can always go back to school, but happiness is something you have to really work at. Get out and survive. You wont regret it! Good Luck!
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I'm a new college student who's tuition was paid in full this semester, but I don't know if my tuition will be paid next semester. I also have two bills I have to pay every month (car payment and insurance) which amount to about $420.
After two months of searching for a job that would work with my class schedule, I finally found a retail management position (which I've worked in management prior) that sounded perfect to me. The job is pretty easy and I love the mall that it's in and I don't dislike any of my coworkers.
The cons are that it barely pays above minimum wage and I wind up going through four tolls there and back every day which are probably going to take another $60 out of every pay check. Annually I'd only make around 8k which is definitely not a lot and I wouldn't be able to pay my tuition on it if I needed to. :(
I feel like it's been really hard to find a job though and I rather like this one.
Should I look for jobs elsewhere or stick it out?
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Jobs that you really like are very hard to come by. So I would stick with it. I dont know if you pray or meditate, but this would be a good time to do one of them. IF you continue to do your job to the best of your abilities, you never know what kind of great things will come out. You might get a promotion or a bonus. I would stick with the job and see how it pans out! Good Luck!
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Hi my name is Nick and there's a girl that i like in the grade below me at school (were already good friends). I'm 14 and in 8th grade, and she is 13 and in the 7th grade (age difference doesn't matter to me considering my parents are 6 years apart from each other). I'm planning on actual asking her out in high school but my problem is not that she's in a grade below me, but that she has a LOT of guy friends. She has more guy friends than girl friends! So that means it is almost impossible for me to tell what she feels or thinks of me. She does like to mess with me like occasionally grabbing my things and making me chase her for it or occasionally poking my shoulder, you know to mess with me. So if you have any advice on how to take care of the guy friends problem and even on how to make her interested I would appreciate very much. Thanks! (link)
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At that age, women are seeking validation especially if she didnt have a good father figure in her life. Most of the time, women have a lot of guy friends because they didnt have such a good relationship with their dads and dont get along to well with most girls (typically because they get so much attention from boys). Just sit her down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel directly. Let her know that you like her. Make sure you dont like her because everyone else does or just because she gives you attention. It can be tricky! But just seriously let her know. If she isnt interested, let things play out. Sometimes people might be shocked initially and then come around later. If she truly doesnt like you, you will be able to tell eventually. And if she does like you, go for it! Good Luck!
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im a girl ..im 3rd year in high school and i have white spots on my two front teeth ..and i am so depressed about it ...i have these spots since 11 and now im 16...i did nothing with it but now when im in high school i wanted to look good...everyone think im shy bc i dont open my mouth often bc of my spots on teeth (they are not so big but still !!)..im always afraid to open my mouth .. i want to talk with my classmates so much but i cant...i have no confidence bc it..6 months ago i went to dentist and he recommended me a gc tooth mousse. i´ve been using it for 6 months but i cant see any change :/...so i told my mum i want to go to dentist to get my white spots professionally removed..so she called a dentist and he said has no vacancy until 28th April :/ so i have to wait almost month..and im really depressed bc i really like one guy from my school but i cant talk to him :// mum says people have worse thing with their teeth but she doesnt understand how is it like to have these spots :/...so i hope that 28th April will finally work ...and i will have more confidence then (link)
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I would definitely look up what that means on google. Google, yes. I believe I heard that has to do with a vitamin deficiency, possibly calcium. Im not extremely positive. But definitely look it up. You can fix a lot of stuff naturally. And doctors typically have advice that may temporarily fix a problem, but they rarely cure it. Just resourceful I guess. But I can guarantee you that our insecurities are hardly ever noticed by other people. I have friends that have white spots on their teeth and even brown teeth. Nobody hardly pays attention to it. And usually the ones that do have a huge self esteem problem themselves. I say to see what you can do. See what people say. But also work on just loving yourself how you are! Good luck!
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I am a 12 year old female. I'm going to get a hair cut soon. I used to want to grow my hair out although now I kind of want it shorter. I've been looking up pictures online but I can't find anything. Some girls at my school cut it short and it looks nice on them. I cant can't really find the one I want to base it off of though. I also want to dye my hair a darker color. But I still want my hair to look kind of feminine, I dress pretty androgynous already so I don't want to look like I'm a boy completely. I think if I parted it to the side it would be cool. I keep seeing all these mowhawkes that I don't really like. I know it's going to be hard to find a feminine short hair cut because short hair is traditionally a boy feature, but idk I find it stupid the shape of our genetilia should determine the length of dead protein that grows out of our head. Any ideas? (link)
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1. Try out wigs at beauty supply store. See which ones you find cute!
2. Go on YouTube and find videos on faux short cuts.
3. Do a mini cut that you feel still looks feminine. Then, keep cutting until you find the perfect shape and length.
Do what you think looks good. Feeling confident is 80% of pulling of the look, boy cut or not!
Good Luck!
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Situation: Family Turmoil
Location - Florida
Father buys a house for son. Son and girlfriend of 17 years move in. Currently living there for over 7 years and paying mortgage to the father to date. Father and Son also have a business with the same arrangement for the last 13 years.
Father/son fall out: Father decides he wants out and demands payment in full for house and business. Son does not have that kind of money and has never been in control of the finances. Father was handling all the finances, both business and home. Father has kept son at arms length and had him not only work for free for these 13 years but had denied him medical benefits as well. To be clear, father has never paid the son a wadge for working and running the business for all these 13 years.
Girlfriend/boyfriend verbal agreement has the girlfriend paying all household expenses including (but not limited to) utilities, food, non-food household items, appliances, entertainment, etc...
Girlfriend has no written legal binding to the house or business. There is no lease and she has not been included on any of the house or business dealings. Girlfriend and boyfriend plan on maintaining their relationship as per usual.
My questions are as follows; Does the girlfriend have any rights? Is she entitled to anything regarding the home she has lived in and upheld for over 7 years? Can she be evicted without legal notice, court summons or termination notice? (link)
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No lease, no rights. Yes, she can be evicted and escorted of the property. The property belongs to dad, and girl and boy are there because dad says so. Once dad revokes verbal consent, girl and boy must leave. On the flip side, if there was no lease at all nobody has to pay anything but dad. So girl and boy can move out scott free without paying a dime. I would say they should both leave business deals and housing deals with dad alone. if he threatens them every time things go wrong, there isnt really good character there. so take it as a loss, and move on. Good Luck!
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12 year old female. I used to be suicidal majorly, for 2 years I was suicidal. Even had panic attacks. Eventually I started cutting. I cut on my arms, legs and stomach. It got to the point where for a year and a half every night when I took a shower I'd cut myself. It's been 4 months since I've done that and my life got much better. I now have a lot of friends, hobbys and everything is much better now in every area. The only thing is now when I shave I can't without trembling. The problem is hair is everywhere I used to cut using that razor. Now I need to shave with that razor, and every time I do that it reminds me of cutting and it freaks me out and I can't. How do I get over this? (link)
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It is definitely understandable. It is a form of post tramatic stress disorder. I think for now, you should definitely use some alternate forms of removing hair. I saw this really cool video about using honey and sugar. You can look it up on YouTube! But when you are ready, I would definitely try doing some inner child meditation. Look a little deeper to see what caused your suicidal thoughts. Once you do that, you will be able to pin point things and come up with a good plan to get yourself back comfortable (for lack of a better term) with yourself. Seems like there is a conflict between your high self (that helped you to stop) and who you believe that you are (that part that is afraid you may begin again). IN the meantime while find alternatives, you could probably find people who have similar stories to you in the community or online to talk to. One thing is knowing that you arent alone at any part of the process. There are people who are similar and have been successful in living fulfilling lives. You are going to be okay. You control your life. And make sure you are always attach something positive and beautiful to the phrase "I AM." What you tell yourself you eventually believe. Fake it til you make it!
I am:
in control
full of love
wonderful
beautiful
perfection
Good luck!
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If a guy has cancer and you swallow his cum do you get cancer ?
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No. But if you are worried like that, you should stop.
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Hi, what does he mean, when he randomly hugged and kissed me on the cheek? We're friends and we joke and wind each other up a lot and in our late 20's. We hardly hug and kiss but he's moving and it was more like a goodbye hug and kiss on the cheek but then he asked for it however felt like he wanted me to know something or maybe I'm overthinking probably, I don't know, I've noticed he'd make excuses coming closer and chatting along and giving side hug but only just holding up to my arms from his side. Should I be expecting anything from this? I think he fancies me but not sure. I do fancy him though. What should I do?
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He likes you. Be clear about your intentions and what you want (or dont want). Be direct. Seems like he just got the courage to start pursuing you. You dont want to lead him on if you dont like him. Good luck!
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Long story short, I've been dating a guy for two months. He puts on this persona like he's this really funny and awesome to be around guy. Everybody thinks he's a rising star and he's pretty much the "cool guy" on campus. He also pretends like he's very religious and sweet.
We're both 21 and live on campus at a University. I started dating him under the same pretense and for the first month things were great. Then he got very manipulative, dark, and controlling. He started telling me who I can and can't be friends with. He approached them and told them to stay away from me. He made me quit a club I was going to and also stop going to bible studies. Anytime I go out with my off campus friends he gets very angry with me and tells me my friends are losers and whores when he's never even met them. He's even waited in front of the dorm building for me to get back to see who I was with.
When we were on spring break and he had to go back home to another state he was constantly asking me who I was with and what I was doing. Even when I was with my mom he wanted me to constantly be answering him and got mad if I didn't do so promptly.
I also just got a new job and he's always heckling me to quit even though I need the money.
Another thing was when we first started dating he told me he wanted to wait until engagement to have sex. Then I found out he wasn't a virgin and then he started wanting sex from me. Now every time I'm with him he wants sexual favors and gets mad when I don't give in.
I've have a kidney infection for two days and I've been in a lot of pain from it. He knows this, but he refuses to believe it even though I'm on two prescriptions and he claims that the doctor is wrong. My doctor told me not to have sex until it goes away so I refused last night, and he started guilt tripping me and told me that our relationship isn't healthy when I refuse to have sex with him. I got upset of course and told him that it's my right to say no and then he replied with "You know I've ruined all of my ex girlfriends lives" and went into detail about it including a story about he convinced an ex's family that she commit suicide.
When things like this happen he always tries to smooth things over, by layering on compliments and telling me how much he cares about me. He's always asking me if I have faith in us and our relationship and telling me he does. If I try to tell him that I feel like his behavior is wrong he pretends to get really sad and says that I'm just misinterpreting his intentions and that he really cares about me and can see us together for the rest of our lives and then I get confused.
I'm so lost. I don't know what to do! I feel like I'm stuck and like hes blackmailing me into staying in the relationship. Nobody on campus would ever believe me if I reported him because he acts so nice and sweet to all of them. I don't want him to ruin my life and I know if I broke up with him he would. I'm scared that the only way for me to get away from him is to stick it out until summer vacation and then transfer colleges.
Please help!!! I don't know what to think or what to do!
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Get out now! Get a restraining order if you need to. You can start a report with campus police if you ever feel in danger. You've already seen him morph and not in a good way. It will only get worse. Dont fall for the charm or the pleading. The longer you wait to leave, the harder it will be. They prey on a certain type of woman. Be forceful about leaving and dont look back. You dont want this problem! Good luck!
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I've been singing for a couple of years now, mainly in church and at a couple of weddings every now and then. Over the years I can tell I've gotten a lot better from when I first started and recently I've had this idea to start my own YouTube channel. The problem is, everytime I actually get ready to create it, I start having doubts. I'm not sure if its confidence I'm lacking or not. I'll be so sure about it one day and the next I'll feel like it's a stupid idea and I shouldn't even bother. I really want to try and see how it'll turn out, but at the moment I'm not so sure. What should I do? (link)
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Just keep making the videos. You dont have to post them just yet, but at least make them. Putting yourself out there on YouTUbe is a huge deal! People with channels definitely make it look easy, but it is totally understandable to get uneasy. Dont force yourself. When you are ready, you will know. Keep singing because you like to. Dont force it! Good Luck!
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My dream job is to be a "senior sitter," where I just sit with someone's elder when they can't.
I want to volunteer and donate all the time, like at animal shelters, hospitals, soup kitchens, etc.
I want to donate blood, clothes and food.
I want to start now, but I don't have my license. With the depression and anxiety I have, I don't have the motivation to study. Can anyone help, please?
This is literally all I want to do with my life. Please help. (link)
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THe first thing you should do is get some help. You cant find love in others or even through helping others if you have a huge problem with yourself. Then once you sort out things with yourself, you will be better to help and love others. I totally understand the position you are in! But getting yourself together first is of the UTMOST importance. Then, opportunities will start to fall in your lap. You can look up the non profits in your area, see if you have any family/friends who are in a similar field, or go down to the local college and talk to their outreach team. There are plenty opportunities! Good luck!
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Ok so this is a bit complicated which is why I need some advice.
In January I found out I was pregnant , truth is I was using the timing and pull out method both not the best forms of birth control. I am 24 my husband 25 and not ready to be parents so we decided to terminate the pregnancy.
Since then I have been taking birth control and on top of that not having sex because in February we thought it was too soon and he was away on business all of March, until the end. He returned the weekend of the 26th of March and we made love then, and since I have been on birth control he finished inside. We continued to make love that Sunday and Monday in the same way.
The day of my last period was the 10th of March. Since then I started a new pack of pills and the active pills they just finished two days ago. Technically I should be having a period soon in the next three days but I am a little worried that I am not getting signs of it. We made love the first time again only 9 days before my period was due, and on top of that I have been taking my birth control not missing any days. The only thing I may have done is take it a couple hours late one or two days not exactly at the same time. But never missed.
It's too early to take a pregnancy test, is there anything I can do to induce my period sooner?
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Im sure you are fine, but you know the only way to prevent an unwanted pregnancy 100% is to stop having sex completely! I know plenty of people who got pregnant on birth control and where condoms broke. To many abortions and you could make yourself sterile. I've seen it before. Good luck!
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Good morning,
I'll start off by telling you that I'm 25/f. I work in a university in an office, 8:30-5:00. Seems like a pretty regular work schedule. But, for some reason, it's really taking a toll on me. I'll elaborate. There are three of us in the office and we all take lunch at separate times, with the exception of the manager. He is not included in the three people I just mentioned, so he takes lunch whenever he wants. Because I was the last person to be hired in the office, I take the latest lunch, which is from 1:30pm-2:30pm. This has posed a few problems for me. I am hypoglycemic, which means that my blood sugar drops and can get very low. In order to avoid this, I typically eat about every 3 hours. But, when I have a full meal, I can extend it a little bit longer. The problem is that if I'm eating snacks all day, that's not very satisfying. By the time that it's lunch time, one of two things has happened:
1. I've eaten way too much throughout the day. I've had to be eating snacks continuously to avoid my sugar dropping and at 1:30, I'm not even hungry, but I still have to eat... because I'm not gonna get another chance to eat until 5.
2. I haven't eaten enough and I'm starving. I have a glazed look in my eye. My hands are shaking. Basically all the symptoms of a hypoglycemic person.
If I were able to switch my time to a more descent time, like 12 or 12:30, it would be a lot easier for me!
When I leave at 5, the food is typically still heavy in my tummy because it's only been about 2 hours since I ate last. It makes it difficult to feel energetic after the work and get things done, like going to the gym and running errands. I am trying to get my lunch switched, but it seems like my supervisor isn't budging.
I know that I need to find a new job soon because they are not being at all sensitive to any accommodations I have requested. I requested a day off in April because it's a Jewish holiday and I was denied the request because it's a "blocked off day." However, I think religious observation is a pretty legitimate exception. I think that switching my lunch time due to a medical condition is also a legitimate exception. But, still, no one budges. So, I am looking for a new job. In the meantime, can anyone offer me some advice on what to do?
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Your title says it all. Try to look for a job that you can do on and off until you find something that you really like. There are things like mycastingfile.com where you can be a movie extra for a day or so. Or you can do mystery shopping with a company like Coyle hospitality. Basically, I would look for little odd jobs where you set your schedule. In the next interview that you do, make sure to interview your interviewer lol. See what kind of people you are dealing with and make sure they know your needs. You never want to work for a person that you cant see potentially being friends with. It seems like your current boss thinks you are expendable, so they dont care about your request. Your health is more important so quit. Live modestly until you find something else. Good Luck!
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