Emilyx3's advice column

askEmilyx3

advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: I'm not really that fat, but I am planning on going on a diet. (Dont worry I'm not annerexic). Anyway, I was wondering what types of foods to eat. Thanks so much%% .

try eating alot of fruits & vegetables, and stay away from fast food/junk food.

Q: tomorrow night is this carazzyyy dance. everyone goes crazy when they are there you are supposed to get way crazy and have the time of your life. i really like this one kid(joe) alot. this other kid(dan). well dan is going to the dance tm. he really wants to hook up with me but the only reason why i would is cause i like to hook up with people and i would just do it for fun. i have NO feelings for dan though and i really don't want joe to find out. should i hook up with him or with other guys? or not at all?

go for joe dude
if you like him,
he might like you too.
so go for it

Q: is there any way to make my boobs get bigger?
cos they're really tiny, like really tiny. and im almost 16, and i feel really uncomfortable in a bathing suit and it really just sucks cos im also really tall and really skinny, and i kinda look awkward.

birth control makes you go up a cup size :]
my doctor told me.

Q: when you put toothpaste on your zits, does it go away? and why

cause i have it on right now hoping it will go away lol

yaaa they do go away.
idk why but i tried it and they did disapear :]

Q: well, i completly blew all my chances with her

she was a friend, then a really close friend, then we were almost going out, now she's pissed at me. we both keep acting like dicks to eachother and it sucks. i havnt spoken to her all day and she is pissed, i wanna call her. and just talk on good terms with her...and i still of course wouldnt mind going out with her :-P but hehe idk about taht cause i can view this tension as, a strong building experiance, or how i think she sees it: as somthing she definitly wants to get the hell away from..

so i plan to call in 15min, what should i say.

pretend if you would, your this girl, who liked me at one point, but now your over me (i think) i still have feelings for you, and we're both angry at eachother, you more at me. can't we just end this stupidity and be on good terms again. bbbuuuutt! i wanted to go out with you the whole time :\

sry if its stupid

i think that you should just call her,
and try calmly talking to her.

you dont wanna sound desperate though.
try asking her whats wrong, and comferting her.

:]

Q: alright. well. me and my boyfriend have done the whole makeout thing for a while and i think were ready to move on... if you know what i mean. to "next base" i guess.

he has already gone up the shirt so im not talking about that. how do i let him know im ready without actually telling him??
thanks!

try making a move on him..
and that'll let him know hes ready ! :]

Q: okay well my friend is having a party on saturday. it` going to be really big andd really fun. she invited guys and the one i like is invited too. what do you suggest i do to get his attention at the party. i mean like should i wear something reallyy hott, or should i hang out with a bunch of other guys? how do i make him noticee mee?

pleasee helppp

i would suggest that you don't hang out with other boys, because if he likes you, you'll make him jealous, which isin't good, because then he'll loose interest in you.

you should probably try talking to him, and starting a conversation, that always works :]

Q: I've heard rumors that it's not healthy to wear a bra to bed, and i havent been for a while. Which is healthier, wearing a bra to bed or not? and why?

i don't think it matters.
my doctor told me just to wear whats comfterable :]

Q: okay so i've liked this guy for a really long time and we've been friends... friends with benifits... we tried to start a relationship... and that's where the confusion started in. so he was really into me.. but he was really moody... and i'm not sure why but he stood me up... so i've been mad at him for like a week and i haven't said a word to him... but today i just... went up to him and hugged him... but it wasn't a pelvic hug like usual... it was a hug... and just that. i'm still kinda mad that he stood me up with no explanaintion and no call... but i want to be around him sooo bad *sigh* so i'm not sure what to do cuz our relationship was the best when we were "just friends" but i really want more then that... what should i do? please help! o 16/f and he's 17/m by the way. and thankyou in advance!

give him time and don't rush into things..
he will probably tell you when hes ready :]

Q: 15/F
so theres this boy.. he doesnt go to my school, but he doesnt live that far away..
neither of us can drive and lately the older kid who we are both friends with has been away so we have no way of getting to eachother..
im afraid that if we wait to long, it could be really akward or we might not like eachother anymore once we finally chill.
what should i do??

awh that same thing happened to me too.
my boyfriend lived 20 minutes away, and we barely saw each other, well sometimes on weekends, which was rare.

i started to worry that hes flirting with other girls and stuff, and started loosing my trust since i didn't see him that much anymore.

the best thing to do, is to talk alot.. on the phone, online, text..etc.
then you'll know whats up.

& if he realllllly likes you.
he won't stop liking you.

:]

Q: if you have braces and kiss someone else with braces, is there a possibility you can get stuck together?

haha i asked my friends the same question.
and no they can't get stuck together,
they're not magnets ,
i have braces too and so did my boyfriend,
nothing bad happened.

Q: Ok! Soo... there's this guy that i like. he's 18, 19 in June. He's really hot. really nice. yet a big asshole sometimes. I like him a whole lot, but im trying to get over him. Im not quite sure how. He's always on my mind every minute of everyday. & even when i go out somewhere to forget him something reminds me of him. Im not sure what to do.
sincerely.
The Confused.

I know exacly how you feel.
Except that happened with my ex boyfriend.
We went out for 10 months, broke up, and it took me forever to get over him. I would cry every night, and every song i listen to, reminded me of him, and i would get sad. The best way to get over a boy you like/your ex boyfriend , is to start talking to other boys, and start conversations. Don't chase, replace !

Q: i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..

alright well..

one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.

i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.

i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.

i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?

thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice.

Ahh the same thing happened to me !
I'm not allowed to have a myspace either, but all of my friend's have one, so i felt like i needed to have one as well. I don't have one anymore becuase I KNOW my parents will find out.

If you're parents do find out about it, just come clean and tell them that you have a myspace. JUST DON'T LIE TO THEM. they'll be even more mad if you lie.

bio

My name is Emily & I'm 16 years old.
You cam come to me with advice about anything, i have probably been through it all and experienced alot of stuff, & i'll try to get back to you as soon as i can !