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i really really like this boy named james i cant stop thinking about him its just i know he will never be interested in an ugly girl like me. and all my friends know i fancy him and they wind me up. ii dont know what 2 do cos i really really like him but i know he wont be interested in me :( can you please help me :( (link)
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omg is your name vicky?
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i'm 5'5 and weigh 158lbs. i've been going on and off diets for awhile, and the one i was recently on worked great. i lost 15lbs on it! well, this weekend..i kind of over-ate and gained 5lbs back on (on thursday i weighed 152lbs).
i need tips on how to keep myself from cheating on my diets, and stick to it. i also need tips for snacking, excersising, and a way to beat cravings..
i have no deadline, really. if i can loose this weight before school ends, i'll be happy.
thank you so much for the advice :) (link)
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the person below me deserves 5 stars, deff! that stuff will help me too! um.. i guess you can join a track team or stick to a sport you love! diets in my opinion dont work. in order for everything to work well you have to change your bad eating habits entirely. sure you can eat some crap food in a while but like.. dont NOT eat them or soon you'll want to have a whole lot.. have like some maybe once a week or two or whatever? dont like punish yourself if you want some chocolate. a great way to beat cravings is to eat ice whenever you feel a craving. my mom does it and she also does like this aerobics thingy called "taebo" and shes been losing weight gradually! the most important part is the ice part, though. shes become an iceaddict, lol. and um ride your bike, rollerblade, skateboard, etc! so much to do to be fit! step one, get yo ass off the chair you're sitting in! lol good luck too
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i'm a girl who just turn 13 and i want to know what sex feels like,i've been fingered by my boyfriend and everything but i'm just wondering what sex actually feels like. (link)
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woah i think you should rethink this over... i mean having your bf already touch you and you just turned 13? your like my age.. and my best advice is for you not to get tangled in that sex stuff now and enjoy being a kid. because if your actually thinking of doing it, think of the consequences.. like the condom might break, you might forget to use one, or like etc. idk much about it because im just a kid and you are too... jeez theres much better things in life than doing it especially at such a young age.
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Hi. i need some help withh coming up with a new screen name for aim. haha. lame i know. but i really cant thinkk of any good names. well my name is danielle. and i love life. and boys. and candy. haha and myspace. i hate hoes. ha. and um im origonal? idk. just help me come up withh some names please. thnks :]] (link)
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candyydanix3 (something like that, you can change the number if it doesnt work)
dani is samart (haha some girl i know has a variation of that)
x3live laugh learn (life)
danis in the house (no words needed.)
OMFGOZ DANIS HERE (hahah my friend and I made something like that once.)
dani raises roofs (raise the roof!)
dani is on fire (the roof is on fire!)
xsweetlikecandy (candy? XD)
the elle life (the "elle" is from danielle, and is also a popular like.. fashion magazine)
no wai its dani (haha)
and many others.
use that noggin of yours.
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I was just wondering..is it possible to change your eyes? i want them to look like this:
http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/7503/sharingan111fm.jpg
i searched up som images on google and i saw some people with them or it could be the fact im really gullible and they must hav editted the pic so good or used somthing to change the pic to fool people but i dunno. so anyways is it possible? will it hurt? do they sell them at stores so you can buy and possibly design your eye yourself or do you hav to see like som sort of eye specialist to do that for you and how much will changing your eyes cost? its not that i dont like my eyes, i like them, they hav dots too but a lot and at a lot of places and they creep people out when i pop them open which is kind of fun but i just really like the design of that eye on the pic. i really hope its possible. -^_^- (link)
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i think thats just a joke. because the sharingan is a certain type of eye on an anime show called Naruto.. and whoever did that pic like they obviously edited it XD;
there may be contacts.. but er.. idk.
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i've been trying to eat a healthy lunch to help lose some weight. This is what I ussauly bring.
~1 banana
~light yogurt
~ 1-2 pb&j sandwiches OR a small sub with
cheese, no fat mayo, and green olives
~fruit juice of some sort
~ and sometimes I'll buy a lil bag a pretzels
Am I right the right track to being healthier and skinnier? If not what should I fix.
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- the sandwich is okay, i dont know about it all being made of cheese.. and olives. maybe put a thin spread of peanut butter or jelly (not mixed, thats quite alot of unwanted calories) or something. my mom says that like ham and stuff like that is usually chemically enhanced.. like they feed chemicals to the pigs so they can get fat quicker and then they process the food to make it last longer and stuff. it may not even be all made of ham.. you'll be suprised to know what some of the things in it could be. perhaps horse meat too? lol jk but hopefully ya get my drift.
- a banana and light yogurt are good. have a banana one day and a yogurt the other. having them both AND a sandwich is quite alot of food. like for me usually i eat a peanut butter sandwhich on whole weat bread, an apple, and like.. water but once in a while gatorade. and unless your school lunch sucks ass, try it but tell them no fries, and dont get pizza, well unless ya want a treat. get like a sub (a healthy sub with like lettuce in it), a lil fruit cup, and MILK (very good for you! it can even be chocolate or strawberry if ya like). or instead of a sub, get salad or a chicken wrap or anything else healthy looking. but dont get school lunch too often because you dont know exactly how they made their food either, lol not to make you freak out, the foods probably safe.. but ya.
-pretzels are okay.. but dont treat yourselves too often, especially to the ones that have alot of salt. too much sodium aint good, my friend.
- calories hide in crazy places i tell you, so at restaurants make sure to read the amount of calories and such before ordering. even stuff like salads can be decieving.. one at ruby tuesday had more than a thousand calories! wow thats a whole lot. there was a news thingie about it.. maybe sometime this week you'll catch it on CNN or something. or search it up on the internet.
thanks and sorry this was so friggin long heh
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wich is the MOST funny video you've seen at youtube???? or the moste amazing! magic trick !???? please tell me (link) (link)
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=d-fBQMUk70E
my math teacher dancing.. haha maybe the guy could have taken a better video but when we were there and you know the teacher personally its even greater. i think this video was even showed on tv once, and the singer of the song he danced too saw it too, lol.
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question. whats the difference between saying
let's see if we can find a tree
and
let's see if we can't find a tree (link)
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let's see if we can find a tree: that means to like... go and see if you'll find a tree! lol pretty simple.
let's see if we can't find a tree: that means to go out and see if there arent any trees around. like if you were in an area with no trees, but someone maybe didnt believe there were no trees at all there, you'd say "lets see if we cant find a tree" so like you'd go out and look.. and find that there are no trees.
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What's the difference between latinos and hispanics? and what is chicano (link)
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www.urbandictionary.com
look them up and see which definition fits what you're looking for. :]
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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP. (link)
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i know how you feel but not everybody is perfect. nobody at all in this world is flawless, either. being pretty doesnt depend on being skinny... okay maybe gorgeous but thats an opinion. someone may like you but you just have to wait.. and like be yourself and try not to envy these people. have fun with your friends.. not everyone has boyfriends/girlfriends and ofcourse alot of us want to have them now. but you'll get one eventually... i mean, dont give yourself in too easily and settle for an average guy just so you can have a boyfriend. get the guy you really like and stuff, so you wont regret it. how do these girls get guys so quick? probably confidence, among other things. have confidence in yourself, like maybe exercise if you wanna lose weight (but being anorexic/bulemic isnt good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) by doing sport(s) you like, or just run outside alot of you dont really like any sports. or like go shopping, and put a little more effort in your appearance, and people will notice. dont dress like a slut though.. but i really dont know what your sense of style is.. just get what you think looks good, not what others think is good. and i promise that soon someone will love you for being yourself, and they'll find you prettier than all the other girls you seem to envy.
There are times when i want a boyfriend too.. like when you hear love songs, valentines day, and etc when you want someone to love who loves you back. sure theres friends.. but its like what you said. but like just be optimistic, there are plenty of guys out there that would probably go out with ya eventually.. hahah and be friendly, confident, and flirt with these guyss!
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alright so i was watching spongebob the other night and squidward said his line and it was, "I QUIT WORKING AT THE KRUSTY KRAB!" so then i thought to myself "well what is squidward going to do for income?" im thinking like it's some reality!! and that's when i caught myself that i do that all the time about thing,...
what's wrong with me??? (link)
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haha it means you have a brain unlike me who never thought about things like that in that way.
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okay so i used to like this boy, lets call him bob, a whole lot, and we used to talk all the time and stuff. but now we like switched seets in the classes we were in together and we dont sit by eachother and we never really talk anymore.
anyway, he asked me out a few days ago and i said yes and i was all its a dream come true! but im not really sure if i really still like him the same. like we never really talk and when ever i see him i feel like i want to run away and not look at him but i still really want to kiss him. i have no idea what to do! please help, thanks in advance! (link)
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omg haha i know exactly how you feel.
i'd say to just be friends before you go out with him, but let him know that you like him... like give hints, dont just flat out tell him.
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some people say its "gross" when guys havnt been circumsized.. but really is it that gross? its just a little piece of skin right? how much does it really effect things? thanks (link)
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dont you get that when your a baby?
(um please dont rate this answer!!!)
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i lovee to bake...and i want to try a complicated recipe...but not that would taste "complicated" (i'm a picky eater)...can anyone give me a good recipe??
Thanks so Much!! (link)
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enchiladas are the best. make those.
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I have a feeling that this guy, who knows I like him, might diss me in the middle of the school cafeteria... dont ask why i know this.
What should I do when this happens? Any tips?
and pleaseee don't tell me to confront him earlier or anything, i know the public humiliation is coming. (link)
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okay when it happens, just act like you really dont care. what do you think hes going to do exactly? or say? give more information about this.. send it in the feedback, and i'll reply again. why would you like a guy that would diss you like that anyway?
EDIT: hmm... well those people obviously dont have anything that great to do in their lives if they spend so much time trying to make you get embarassed. i still stick to my advice. dont give in. dont back down and please them. act like you dont care, or even laugh at what the guy is saying so the time he and that other girl took to make you sad is really wasted. are you like a shy kid? do you really care about like.. being confronted in the middle of the cafeteria? these are things to consider. just get prepared. have confidence in yourself so you dont start bawling and make a fool out of yourself then and there. what do you suppose he might do, anyway? or like ask a guidance counselor... or your parents.ooh or like another boy so that you wont get as badly hurt if you still kinda like him.
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What do you do when you're so desperate that you just long for the touch of any human? (link)
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touch yourself? lolz
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Alright...well lately, i think im depressed.
i make the biggest deals out of everything.
i feel like everyone hates me.
i dont think im pretty whatsoever.
i suck at school.
im fat
K well what I think is cuasing this is:
-My freinds leave me out 90% Of the time. (mainy becuase of bball which is ending soon. also, my two best friends always hang out..without me...) This makes me feel like total sh!+. they say stuff like, ur a loser..and lately, ive been taking it seriously...and ic ant help it.i dont feel like i fit in with anyone.
ok i relaly dont think im pretty whatsoever.
ive been getting bad grades in just abotu everything. or, what i think is bad grades; ,more like 70's & 80's. i know i can do better, but i dont feel motivated. i just want to sleep....
i think im fat. im 5'2 & am 125.....
i have a lot of famiyl problems... my mom is "depressed" too...my dad has epilepsy so hes home all the time....my grandfather passed away ( i was very close to him)....and my aunt is in a coma for the rest of her life (i was starting to get close to her too)....
so ... what do you think? am i depressed?
please help me... (link)
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like one of the people said, you arent fat. maybe you just appear to be kinda like.. chunky, but you're relatively light. Because muscle weighs more than fat, so if you become heavier but it doesnt really appear that you are, but you still think you're fat, you're not. its just the muscle.
im sorry about your losses and family. if you want to see things go better, try doing random acts of kindness for them. like for your mom, maybe like.. make her breakfast one morning, or give her a hug, or something she likes. for your dad, well.. i dont really know what to say, but just be a good kid and not cause too much problems for them in general. why is your mom depressed? is it because of you? if it is, shes probably worried about you if you show your family your depressed side too, and she wants you to be happy. for everyone else, just know that they'll always be in your heart, and in the future the strength you gain from that will outweigh the bad.
okay this is kinda my preference, but those grades arent horrible, but you want to achieve higher. i dont really know what to say to keep you motivated.. you're probably not feeling motivated because youre depressed so your like "whats the point in studying?" and such. i dont even like studying. but like.. just work hard or after high school, you'll end up in a crappy home and live a crappy life. no offense or anything, but its just facts. okay maybe im exaggerating, but grades are REALLY important. in every grade. because what you do in 1 grade affects the next. if youre in middle school dont be like "who cares, it only counts in high school" because you can fail middle school and repeat (again im exaggerating. your grades arent THAT horrible.. but not exceptional either.) and you could get put in a lower class and not get in honors in high school, which affects how much you learn, and your grade on the SATs, and etc. Everything ya do counts, in general.
Okay people all look different but we all have something pretty about us. Get a makeover and you'll appreciate yourself better. You may not even be as bad as you think you look. Dont compare yourself to others because you are yourself and like.. dont try to fit in but dont try to be so outrageous that it scares people.. well actually you can, but still have good manners atleast. Anyway, people like people not just because they are pretty. Having confidence and a good personality among other things really attracts others. And friends... are just needed to have a good life.
For the friendship problem, i wouldnt say to drop them, because in my opinion i think its best to keep alot of friendships, unless you cannot forgive the people, and you really dislike them. why are these 2 your BFs if they leave you out and call you names you dislike?? dont keep them so that you can feel secure because they're your friends. think. do you honestly think these should be your best friends forever? try making new friends.. dont change yourself to fit others personalities. you want friends that love you for who you are, so you dont have to worry about acting a certain way and you'll just have more fun. also, its more interesting to be different and unique than be exactly identical to a friend. we're all different anyaways. just be friendly, say hello, smile and mean it, appreciate the little things in life, and well.. BE YOURSELF, BABE!
i make big deals out of things too. sometimes i lack confidence, or think im fat, etc. your not the only one.. i dont think your depressed, but like your not being very positive about the situation. maybe if you had a better attitude about things, things wouldnt be so hard for you. except the family part, but that wasnt really your fault. you have to be mature and like deal with that.. its good because it teaches you to be like mature and stuff as a kid, and bad because well.. its not fun. try going on a vacation, having a little time for yourself, or like join clubs or sports (that you like) to make more friends, and such.
good luck! :]
(hahah i know this was hella long but hopefully its worth it. send me a message if this helped!!)
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there's this kid that im friends with and we have a class together and we talk but dont share secrets or anything. usually when we talk its about random stuff, and then i tease him in the"i don't like you but im going to flirt with you anyway" kind of way and when he teases back i usually get physical and hit him in the arm or throw a highliter at his face ahhahah i just remembered i did that yesterday, anyway so i want to be nicer and less physical, does anyone have any come-backs that i can use instead of punching him? (link)
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well you know what? your mom.
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Does anyone know what song was playing when they were showing like a little video about Heidi and..I forgot the other girl? It was like..she's beautiful..something something brightens something.. (link)
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hmm it might be "suddenly i see" by kt tunstall. haha im a SYTYCD freak, which is why i know this. XD
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Alright, so i have been wondering this for a while.. i think i have small boobs compared to everyone else i know... I am 15 years old and i am 5'4ish. i know i am probably a late bloomer, but i hate it. I was thinking of trying this High-Calorie diet thing to gain more weight so..ya know haha. Anyways, its really embarrassing because my boyfriends friends make fun of me because of it and all my friends have bigger boobs than i do and its intimidating....i know i should try a push-up bra, but i find them uncomfortable, if i had a choice i wouldnt wear them at all, but..i guess its a 'requirement' and i would be even more flat.. so im in a bit of a crisis, anyone help? (link)
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eat alot of good foods. not like mcdonalds or like junk food or something. uh.. dont just have a high calorie diet because you will get fat, unless thats what you want (but there are alot of bad stuff that can happen with your health if you do become fat enough). ignore other people.. i guess you're a late bloomer though, but either your hormones havent really kicked in yet (you may even grow taller soon) or you're just that way because of your genes (is your mom or like other girls in your family flat chested?) and you'll have to learn to love that. or you can get implants.. but i personally dont reccomend doing that. love yourself for who you were born to be.. not for paying like.. alot of money to get fake boobs. some guys will like you for who you are too.. or theyr'e not for you. you wouldnt just want to be liked for having big boobs either, lol. its not that much a crisis is what Im saying.. you'll probably grow.. or not. -shrug- youre lucky you even have boobs, because some people that get breast cancer have to chop em off, lol.
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