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There is this guy that i like alot! And i've hooked up wit him before but we never went out! and one of mmy best friends i was hangin out wit her and i introduced her to him and when ever i was on the phone wwit her he would ask who it was and once he grabed the phone from me and told her that she has the biggest ass he has ever seen! and a couple days ago she said that they talk on the phone every nite and he was hangin out wit her one nite when her parents were gone and she claims thatthey didnt do anything and he claimed that they did stuff that i do not need to know about! this is really pissing me off and she knows how i feel bout him and a couple days ago she told me she liked him and he liked her and that i shouldnt be jealous if they go out becaz they go together and she made me feel bad and i waz pissed and now there're goin out and i exploded when i found out caz i just really really like this guy and now shes goin out wit him and im really mad at her wat should i do????

i think you should let both of them go. if your friend was your true friend then she wouldnt hurt you like that. and for her to do this to you over a boy, really means your friend and the guy aren't worth your time. if you still want to be friends with her then just tell her you dont apreciate the way she just ripped him away from you though you two weren't going out. and if she could have easily said no in order not to hurt you as her friend.

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My best friend goes out with this boy, She loves so much that no matter what he does she wont leave him. He could cheat on her, beat her, ANYTHiNG !! She wont leave him, But now shes confused, hes acting to diffrent he acts like shes the greatest thing in the world WHEN THERE ALONE ! But when hes with his friends, its diffent. Like if you see them in the hall alone he has this look that "wow i love her so much shes the greatest thing in the world,i dont know what i would do with out her" but when hes with friends its like "oh yeah , i "love her" no she just thinks that shes just another girlfriend" but everyone knows he really does love her. And now shes confused she loves him and she doesnt want to leave him, but she crys all the time other it, does she just stay with him and cry? Or cry because she lost him and its all her fault. i NEED TO HELP HER BEFORE SHE DOES SOMETHiNG STUPiD !!! HELP ME TO HELP HER !! GiVE ME ADViCE !!

i think you need to talk to the boyfriend and tell him how much she loves him. and when you tell him make sure he knows. then tell him that you have been watching him around his friends and the way he talks about her. the way he sounds as if he doesn't care.let him know, that now your friend thinks she's just another one of his grls. and if he really loves her then he wouldn't hav to put on the cool act around his friends. then i think you should tell your friend you talked to him for her. and tell your friend if she feels neglected, dont keep hurting herself emotionally over him.

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i love this guy so much hes so awsome and i luv him so much but weve already broken up once and now were togeather again and its kinda weird but i wanna go out with him he means the world to me and i dont know how to tell i love him withtout getting isshuy and mushy and gushy i luv hes my boo what should i do

well if you have feelings for him still, let him kno. just tell him you still want to be with him. tell him you love him alot and want him back. you dont have to make it isshuy or mushy. just say it in a calm relaxed tone. and even if you did get mushy i'm sure he wouldn't mind.

hope i helped
~ash~

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u already answerd one of my questions about wut i should do about this guy and u said to tell him that to tell him this is his last chance to win my heart and keep it. The thing is that if we've gone out like 5 times already how do i kno he's not gunna just do the same thing and then that's gunna hurt me more... i kno that he cares about me cuz he's tellin like every 1 to talk to me about him n so every1s tryin to get us back together but if hes all over other gurls that means he must not really like me or else he woulda thought about that before... he also tried to talk to my sister about it and now my sisters like "he loves u u need to go back out with him!" and all this stuff and i kno i cant really get mad at him cuz i held a guys hand while i was goin out with him... so should i tell him about that or not... wut should i do? seriously! thanx for the advice

well the one thing you need to have is trust. trust is important to a relationship. it seems you've lost his trust. but if you love him as much as you say you do have faith that he won't break your heart. since it's happened to you b4 all there is to do is to be prepared and ready for anything that comes your way in your relationship. u need to let him know that your willing to put the past behind you and forgive and forget if he's ready to do the same. but if he's not then let him go.

hope i helped
~ash~

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i became friends with this one girl named Jenna who was new this year. weve been in school for about 5 monthes now and me, one of my best friends, and one of my guy friends are her only friends in our school. well one of her guy friends from her old school likes me and i dont like him back. he saw me at the movies one night and gets mad because im with another guy, he tells Jenna and Jenna gets mad at me and says some extremly mean things to me, things that a "bff" (as she calls us) would NEVER say. she then apologizes the next day when she hears the real story from one of my friends. i dont know if i should forgive her because she really feels bad.. or shes apologizing because she needs friends at our school and if im mad at her, then she knows my friend and my guy friend will surly be mad at her too.. also she has gotten me in a LOT of trouble.. like trouble with cops.. please help!

i think you should orgive, because thats what having friends is all about, forgive and forgetting. ans about the cops part. maybe you should talk this out with her 1-on-1. and keep her out of troble by keeping her busy so she has no time to get in trouble. all you can do is be the best friend you can be. and forget the little things like that. because being mad over little things like that only tears you apart and makes you become enemys. and as you know she needs friends and everyone could always use another!

hope thats what u needed!

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I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?

i think you should let him know your serious this time. that this is his last chance to win your heart and keep it. and you cant always believe what other people say. and amybe he means it if he cried infront of all of his friends. and since others grls would give a leg and you dont have to because you have him keep him. if you give him a chance for him to be away from you the more time you r give him to become interested in other girls. so just let him know you mean it.

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Wuts ur age? i was hopin that u were 12 cause i need advice from sum1 mi age. evry1 here is sooooo old. can u help?

yes whats ur question? im around ur age so go ahead and ask

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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed

this is very serious. i have had the same problem with a friend. she would eat but as soon as she ate she would run to the bathroom and throw it up. she tied ropes around her waist and denied it all. i tried to help her everyway i could. u can try to talking to her about it. you could also go to her parent(s) about it. when it is something as serious as this dont wait and dont be afraid to talk to an adult about it even if it means her being mad at you. she needs help and in the long run she'll thank you soooo much. because by going to a teacher or parent then you just saved her life. and if you dont fell confortable talking to her parents talk to your mom or dad and have them talk to her parents!


hope i helped because this is very serious and i know how you feel

~ash~

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Me and me two best friends are really close but one has been my friend forever and the other just recently i feel like she trying to take my other long time friend away from me i am just jealous or should i be worried?

-green eyed monster?

it may be a little jelousy.but you shouldnt be worried if your old friend was your true friend she wouldnt let some1 just yank you guys apart. so all i can say is just keep hanging out with both and c how it plays out.


hope that was helpful
~ash~

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In my little groupie at school there is this one girl who is kinda changing and making the rest of the group fight i still want to be her friend but if she making other relationship worse should we spend less time with her or guess that she is PMSing and hope that it will be over soon?

-groupie love trouble

well the worst thing to do is to leave her. maybe thats why shes causing all the drama,because she thinks u all are about to leave her. if u arent gettin through to her by ur actions then get through to her with ur words. sit her down and tell her how u feel. let her know that u are there for her if there is a probalem causing her to act this way. but try to be as nice as u can, because you never know her situation.

hope i helped
~ash~

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There is a boy I really like who shall remain nameless but he is in 8th grade and i am in 7th I only meet him once and we danced and i want him to go out with me or become good friends one of my friends knows him and siad she hook me up but should i even bother?

yes of course u shou;d go for him! talk to him first cuz the last thing u want to happen is for him to turn out a jerk. and as for ur friend....there has always been the " u got talk to him for me" deal. well thats all playe out so go for him and dont wait cuz he might get taken. and the more time u wait the more time he has to get interested in other grls.

hope i helped
~ash~

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Dear Ashley,
I dont have any friends and i'm tired of talkin to my self and my dolls..like my doll tiffany..shes the best.. i am n the 8th grade..
help me pleez

try to make friends. but whatever u do dont change who u are inside. if people cant be friends with u for u then u dont need them. i'm sure ur a great person and u deserve respect. so keep ur head up u'll make friends soon.

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Dear Ashley,
OK...Tell me y i got broke when i was coming ^ the steps at skool...every body was there..and i was tryin 2 get my foot out from under neith it befor any teachers came and saw me. I couldnt get my foot out and the princable saw me...i got my foot out then got it stuck under another step..the a lot of people saw me becuz i fell over onto the ground and my glasses broke n half
wat can i do 2 prevent this 2 happend again

Lost and gettin BROKE

well very simple. well first b more careful. but another thing dont be inbarassed c the only way not to feel like people are laughing at u is to laugh at urself. hav fun dont always think about what people will say about u. and 3rd buy one of those straps that go around ur glasses to make sure they stay on!

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Dear Ashley,
I am a little worried becuz i have a paper cut on my pinky..and i dont know if i will b able to keep playin b-ball...i am really scared...i have gone to a foot doctor and he said he couldnt help me so i'm stuck..pleeez pleeez pleeez help me with my serious problem.

thanxs
cut pinky

omg...what a horrible horrible thing. i am so sry that this has happened. well the best thing i kno to do is to tell ur mom and hav her put i nice band aid on it!

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Sorry it's long, but please try to help.
This might be confusing, so if it is, sorry. But this girl I've known since 6th grade,(I'm now a freshman, grade 9) Brittany, and have had classes with since 7th, and became friends with this year, well her mom had a tumor in her eye. And Brittany's mom had it removed about a week ago. And she had to have her head shaved because they were doing surgery going through her head. Well, lately Brittany has been getting upset a lot in class, and I want to try to cheer her up, and make her happy, but her mom might be dying because the surgery didn't go to well, she's recovering, but not the best way possible, so I have a few questions.

1.) What can I say to her to comfort her, she knows I give advice, and a lot of times she asks me, but when it comes to a personal friend, it's hard

2.) This really weird teacher that none of us like who is a lesbian (not saying that's bad, but... it's weird w/ what she's been doing) Well, she, w/o Britt's permission, told the whole class about Britt's mom, and Britt ran out crying, and we didn't know how to comfort her. And then that teacher gave Britt her cell phone number, and was like call me, and don't leave a message, keep calling until you reach me, so I was wondering, is that okay for a teacher to do that? None of us like her, and Britt said she asked 2 teachers about it, and they said it wasn't normal, but Britt does tend to over exaggerate, or lie about things (she's really popular, and does whatever she can to boost the popularity, I didn't like her until this year b/c I always thought she had a perfect life and was concieted, b/c she's really rich and stuff, but now that I've gotten to know her, I've realized why she acts that way.)

3.) We're only 14, and freshman in high school. I don't associate with her that much outside of school, unless it's at a game, or if we see each other at the mall, like I don't invite her to the mall with me and my friends, but if we see each other, we talk, and/or walk around w/ each other. So please, help me try to comfort her, and is it right for that teacher to be doing what she's doing? What can I do to help, or what can I say. Also are there any gifts I could give her for x-mas that might make her feel better, or might make her laugh, or smile? I'm not trying to be weird, or act gay, but it's been so long since I've seen her smile, and it's been so long since I've heard her laugh. She's cut her wrists in the past, and I don't want her to use self-harm again, and I'm afraid about with what's going on with her mom, she might go farther than just cutting her wrists.

Oh, and about the whole teacher thing, we don't know how that teacher found out, Brittany didn't say anything to her, we figure she must've overheard Britt telling one of us. Please, any help would be appreciated! And if you're one of those people that like to leave sarcastic, or rude advice, I could do with a good laugh, so make it funny. Thanks in advance for all the help. And again, sorry it's so long.

i think its great u want to help her. i think that to keep her from cutting her wrist or hurtin herself u should keep her occupied. ask her if she wants to go get smoothies look at some zines. make a scrap book of ur memories together or do something funny, something daring, but the only way for u to comfort her is to make her feel as if she is leaving behind all problems for a while! make her feel like she has a friend and she's still a kid like she doesnt hav to act like she has to worry and she can be herself again and do things she wants to do!

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