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Last night i had a dream that i was chasing after a white rat. i finally caught it and it spoke to me, it only said it was hungry though so i fed it some chicken....yeah i know weird but the majority was chasing the white the rat. than i found my self curled up sleeping on the floor next to my front door in my ex boyfriends arms....i was so happy i was absolutely sure it wasn't a dream. then he woke up got up and walked out the door without so much a word. i sat there confused and depressed and then it blinked back and i was again on the floor with him and this time he sat up and kissed me. he took me to my room where i noticed on the dresser where my alarm clock was that time was going backwards. like 9:00, 8:59, 8:58 and so on. I was so thrilled when he put his arms around me on the bed and he kissed me again telling me how attracted he was to me. Then i woke up, the only thing is i havent spoken to my ex in over 3 months and if i did i dont think he'd really care. i have a boyfriend now, a different one, but i cant help but kee[ thinking about this dream, what does it mean? what should i do? (link)
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Dreams can't really be explained. Dreams are your inner conscience. Awake, you can push back emotions and thoughts, but when dreaming you can't. It's how you actually feel or think. Now, not saying you're thinking about rat, but the rat could be a symbol. You chasing a something could represent you trying to get to someone or something. It could range from a goal to a person. All depends. But, seeing that your ex was in it, it mostly involves him or a relationship in general. Time, you mentioned time going backwards, and you haven't spoke to him in months. I believe you should try contacting him again. Maybe even staying friends with him will give your inner mind what it wants. Just try it.
Hope I could be some help. :]
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so i was reading some thing on the internet about how breathing can change your metablolism, or the way you breathe can depend on how your metabolism works/how you burn calories. and it was a bunch of like breathing excersizes and stuff that you do for 30 minutes that like works on the way you breathe or something and it says its suppose to raise your metabolism. is this true? can the way you breathe have an affect on how you burn calories or how you metabolism works? (link)
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It could. Doing breathing exercises can increase your heart rate, which burns calories.
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17/F
Okay lets start here, I recently started hanging out at my sisters house a lot. Well this guy started coming around and i didnt really draw any attention to myself because thats stupid.. well apparently he noticed me anyway because i heard he said something to my brother in law about liking me. So I got his number out of somebody phone and casually started texting him.. i asked if he was at my sisters and he said no blah blah.. well just to play it cool i was like ok thanks well he kept the conversation going. we've benn talking for like a week now and last night i was at my sisters and he acted real chill and didnt say anything really. so i got home and was like so im a stranger huh and he said he didnt want to draw attention to us cuz yes it would make people mad.. so i was like whatever.. my mom knows the whole situation and was like don't worry he was watching you and stuff but my question is what can i do for him to give me more attention? like i really like him and i wanna do everything right. please give me ideas anything is better than nothing.. I'm stuck and i dont know what to do.
thank you
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Well, you know he's interested, so just go for it. Don't wait around till he makes a move and talks. Make him want to talk to you more, by not being shy and starting a conversation. ;D
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alright,
so me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 5 months ago. he was the first real boyfriend i had ever had, and i was the first real girlfriend he had ever had. We went out for about 6 months, and then we broke up. after a little while, i told him that i wanted him back, and he said he wanted to wait untill next year. It has been about 3 months since we talked about that, and i want to know if i should start talking to him again. Right now, me and him dont talk at all. What are some ways you think i could get him back?
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Okay. Well, first off, you should never wait for a guy. No matter how long you've dated, if he doesn't want to be with you now, he probably wont later. If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you now. But, I guess it depends on the reason why he wants to wait till next year. Is he busy? Is he seeing someone? If you guys don't even talk, then how did you keep the connection alive I wonder. Or is it just because you have dated him before for so long.
Yours and his relationship will never exactly be the same as it used to be. So I would guess you should open the connection again. Start talking more, and try getting that closer connection you used to have. Maybe when he sees what he's missing, he'll come crawlin' back. ;D
Good luckkk.
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I have been really scared after the recent Mumbai Attacks where the terrorists gunned down everyone in sight. I just want to know does it hurt if you are shot at? What does it feel like?
18/F (link)
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Shot at? Not really. I mean, it scares you, and it's loud. If you're actually shot, ofcourse it hurts. xD.. Just imagine a bullet going through you, it bouncing off bones and organs. That's how it feels. D:
But you'll be okay.
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me and my bf broke up a couple months ago and he dated other people but i havent and weve talked since then and he says he will always love me and stuff and wants me back sometime but i want him now! more than anything! what do i do cause i already told him that like 5 times and he agrees but doesnt ever do anything! (link)
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Then you need to make the move. Be honest with him, and tell him that you think you guys should date. If he doesn't ask, you should.
No hurt in trying.
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besides black friday, what other day has big sales? especially on clothes. (link)
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Usually right after christmas they're really good sales.
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so for the past 2 weeks ive been eating completly healthy. all fruits, veggies, protein only. anyways this weekend i wanted to have a bad weekend since it was thanksgiving. i ate so much food at thanksgiving and when i got home i felt like i just needed more?! so when i got home i ate 4 of my moms home made brownies even after i had tons of food and deserts at our thanksgiving dinner! i just indulged completly! the next day, well tonight anyways, i went out to lunch and out to dinner with my friends and afterwards just about an hour ago i was watching movies eating candybars and chips all night!!!
am i going to be a fat cow tomorrow morning from all of thiss?? am i going to gain any weight??
i mean i did eat a tonnnnnn!?!?!? (link)
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You wont gain so quickly.. But you will most likely gain something. Seeing that you so quickly changed your diet isn't good for your body. Haha.. you should try not eating as much. :] But hey.. we all have those urges sometimes. xD
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Heyy, i was wondering about lucid dreaming or conscious dreaming. (dreaming while being aware that you are in a dream and therefore can control what you do in the dream.)
i have read all about it and know all there is to know but i was wondering if anyone here knows haw to do it. If so can you give me any tips on how you learned how to train yourself to dream lucidly? i would really like to learn how.
please get back to me if you know how to do it! (link)
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Lucid dreaming isn't exactly something you can train yourself to do. It's a state of mind, and you can't really control it. It has to come naturally..
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are nokin cameras good? specifically nikon coolpix?
whats better least to greates sony canon and nikon
thanks
if you know any more good please list.. (link)
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I have a Nikon Coolpix. It's an amazing camera. But. I think the canon one will be better. Which ever one that has more Megapixels, I suppose. But yeah.. Coolpix isn't so good with moving objects.
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I'm having a problem with my boyfriend not picking up my phone when I call later. Like I emailed him, and he stated he was busy talking to some people at work and he wasn't at his desk to answer me(something that was not work related) He admitted he was wrong and apologized. Than the next day I call him, and he doesnt pick up his phone, he calls me back 20 minutes later. Later on in the day, I text and he was saying his phone was on viberate so he didnt hear it. Than Today I called him, and he called me back an hr later. The problem is if i was to do the same thing once he would be very upset. He has been doing this three days in a row. Right now I don't even wanna deal with him, but i feel so sad, I wanna cry. How do I get my mind off this??? Please help, I need some cheerful advice!!! (link)
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Don't just assume he's lieing! I mean, if he didn't want to talk to you, he wouldn't have called back, right? :D
So, just stop calling him for awhile, and see if he calls you then. Meanwhile, focus your energy on something likkkee.. listening to music, writing, hanging out with friends, or anything else you like to do. :] Remember, no need to get upset over something you're not too sure about. 8D
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list some of your guys favorite songs! mostly slow rock kind of songs about love and heartbreak! (link)
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Hate me - Blue October
Weight of the world - Blue October
I miss you - Blink-182
Wherever you will go - The calling
Until the day I die - Story of the year
Lover I don't have to Love - Bright eyes (Not sure if you'd like it)
Try those. xD
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i feel like me and my boyfriend always do the same thinggsss. like, we go out to a movie or the mall or something, then we come home and make out since theres nothing to do at my house :P. im getting bored . and no, im not asking for like sexual advice, cause im not planning on going much further anytime soon. but like i hang out with him once or twice a weeeeek and i just need something else to do with him. advice? thankkss (link)
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I have the same problem sometimes!
You should try hanging out in groups, or whatever. I mean, alone it's a bit harder to find other things to do. But in a group of friends, there are tons of possibilities.
Try planning ahead of time also. Maybe you can go other places, or sit at home and do something simple, like play a game. :] Or, just ask him what he'd like to do. I'm sure he might think of something.
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Hello everyone. My name is Bryan and I am transferring from Illinois to Arizona State University in January and I want to make 2 cds for my parents to give them the day that I leave home to go to school. I want to make one cd for my mom and one cd for my dad. My mom likes country/classic rock music and my dad likes 70's/80's rock, newer rock and the blues. Please give me some suggestions of which songs I should put on each of their cd's. I have a very open mind and I am willing to take ANY suggestions. Please help me immediately with this. Thank you for your time everybody! (link)
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Well, ask them their favorite bands. :] As for your Dad's, I high suggest Journey. Lol. And, try looking up sappy country songs for your mom. ;D But, one song I think you should totally add is Don't you forget about me. Lol, good song, good song. Haha. They'd probably like it. :D
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The situation I'm in is so complicated I myself don't understand. I met my best friend (who is a male) at a party when I was 14 years old. I was introduce to him because I wanted to dance with someone so my cousin's boyfriend at the time went to look for a partner for me and he found him. At first, I liked him so much.Me and him talk on the phone and went to other several parties with him. The problem was that my mom sometimes when she felt like gave me permissions to go to the parties and sometimes she didn't let me go. Then if she let me go I could only stay til' 12am (which sucks because usually he would get there around 10pm) and didn't even get the chance to dance with him or anything. Anyways, I enter high school and he went off to college. I realized we were better off friends, and only talked to him several times on the phone. When he had breaks, we will come see me and spend time with me and my family. One time he told me he liked me, I liked him too but the problem was my mom and myself. I was having really bad anger and mental problems at the time and spend almost all my teen years in psych hospitals. Anyways, I didn't want him to know that side of me, so I decided to tell him that we were better as friends. Years passed by and sometimes he will come see me. My sisters and my mom became really close to him, my mom even calls him "son". There's was one time that I wanted to wait for him until he finished college and then give it a shot. But then my medications increased my appetite and I got bigger and bigger. He noticed every time he came to see me and tell me "you are getting fat", "what's wrong with you?" "are you OK"? So I decided to give up and stay friends with him because I noticed that he wasn't liking me like he use to anymore due to my physical changes. About a month a go he wrote me on messenger. We talked everyday about random things. One day my best friend (a female) told me she wanted a good boyfriend, who goes to college and is a great person, fun at the same time and serious. I decided to introduce him to her through messenger. They talked for several days and I was so happy my best friend was meeting someone finally and that my other best friend was going to meet another possible girlfriend. I played the part of cupid basically. I was happy, yes but at the same time felt jealousy towards her. But my happiness was greater than my jealousy so I ignored that feeling. And anyways, I have a boyfriend now of three and a half years that I supposedly love (that's what I thought I felt) and care about, we even live together. Yesterday, we went to my mom's house for thanksgiving dinner. Here was a chance for my two best friends to meet in person and get a chance to know each other more. But things didn't go right. They had no connection what so ever and completely ignored each other. Then to screw things even more, my cousin shows up and Joseph remembers her from the party back in 2004. She is the type to flirt with anybody, and give it up the same night. Basically she is a whore. And the only reason why my best friends weren't connecting is because in the first place he just wanted a "one night stand" and my best friend is a virgin and only wanted to get to know him more and he didn't want that so he completely ignored her. Then like I was saying, when my cousin showed up they started to talk and have a conversation. Knowing my cousin I knew where she was going with this. I was so pissed off that I started to drink and trying to get drunk because I couldn't believe what was going on in front of my eyes. Then my mom and my grandma notice what I was doing and wanted me out of the kitchen because they didn't want me to do something stupid. I just wanted to hit her so bad. One thing is my best friend (who I love to death) but the other thing is my cousin (who I hate to death, don't like her for ****). And anyways he came to my house to spend time with me, my sisters and my best friend not meet my ******* cousin. Anyways, then I realized I was jealous and that I still love him, and that I want him bad. I can't believe I didn't took care of myself and not wait for him. What you think should I do with this situation? My best friend is hurt, my cousin is a ******* whore who took my best friend to her apartment (not to play Bingo) after 2 hours of conversation (what a ******* whore), and my boyfriend and family are suspicious of me being jealous of my cousin. What should I do? (link)
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Wow.. Well, for one thing, you should start to be honest with yourself. Do you like the person you're currently with? Or would you rather be with the other guy? And for your cousin and best friend, just.. mind your own business for now. I mean, it's their life, therefore you can't really tell either of the what to do. Although you can confront your cousin and tell him that it bothers you that he was hitting on your best friend, and should refrain from doing it again.
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17/f dnt kno where this goes??!!!
i keep stressing over every little thing at the momnet and i have been fighting with my best friend that iv known for 8 years because im getting close to someone she doesnt like, i think she is scared ill forget about her, i have to do all the house work at home mainly becasue i am the only one who cleans up around the house and i never have time to just watch a movie or do wat i want, i stressing out at school cos i just started my hsc, and cos of all the stress i cant eat.
my friends are trying to help me but i keep pushing them away and screwing up everything.
i just feel sad all the time and i feel lost and confused.
i keep getting nervouse like anxious nervous and i dnt know why could it be anxioty? cant spell. what it anxioty
and 2 years ago i had an eating disorder does that explain anything??
help me plz i dnt no wats wrong with me!!! (link)
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You could infact have anxiety. Seeing that the most of the cause of it is from stress. I've been through the same thing, and I know how that feels. You really need to stop the drama going on your life first of all. Your friend will get over the fact you're getting close to someone she doesn't like. She's just jealous, just assure her that she's your number one, and you've been through too much to just put someone before her. If she doesn't listen, then just give her time.
Just relax, it'll all be fine. Try different ways to relieve stress. Such as writing, talking to someone, listening to music, or any other thing that makes you relax. It's hard, I know, but it'll get better. Nothings wrong with you, it just takes time. Calm down, and get things back in order. Good luck, hun.
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How do you get over a guy that you have went out with and still really like him. I've gone out with him 5 times, and has broken up with me everytime. He seems like a jerk sometimes, but he has his really good moments that make me feel special. Please help! (link)
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First off, if you broke up more than once, you probably don't have that good of a connection. Seeing that communication is a big part of relationships, you have to understand that if you can't work out your problems, then it's not going to last long. Any guy can say sweet things. It's a rare guy that actually means it.
So, my advice is, really think about if it's worth being together if you might break up anyways.
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ive know this guy since the 6th grade i am now a junior in hs. so its been a while. I used to like him back then and he knew it i guess he just didnt like me so w.e i moved on. We lasted like 3 yrs without talking simple because we didnt go to the same school anymore and i never see him around. He goes to the same school as my besfriend and he asked her to say hi to me. Well weve been talkin and w.e but idk if he has feelings for me or if hes just trying to mess wit my head im kind of falling all over. =/ i dont want to get my hopes up but i mean i would like him as a friend what should i do?.. (link)
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He says he likes you. Guys don't usually play mind games like girls do. I would know, I'm a girl. ;D But yeah, I think that if you really like him, that you should just trust him for now and go with it. What will it hurt to try? :D
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This year for Halloween I want to be a song. Example: "Devil With the Blue Dress" by The Greatful Dead - Pull it off by wearing a blue dress and devil horns and tail.
Two years ago my sister was the witch doctor. (Self explanatory) I have no idea what song to be. My friend suggested "Janie's Got a Gun" by Aerosmith but I couldn't pull it off other than carrying a gun around...any ideas??? (link)
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How about try "everyone wants to be a rock star by Nickel back" or "I am the walrus by beatles" Or "Pirates that don't do anything by Relient K"
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16/f
I have this huge crush on this one guy and I don't know what to do about it. People tell me that they think he likes me, but I don't really know for sure. He doesn't go to my school, but we talk online and stuff almost everyday. How can I hint to him that I like him more than a friend? Would asking him to go a movie be too forward of me? Or should i wait for him to ask me? I'm not sure of what i should do. (link)
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I believe it would be best for you to ask him to the movies just as friends and see if anything happens. You could try hinting to him that you like him and see what happens if it seems he like you, go for it and ask him out. If you guys have fun go and try doing other stuff together.
And about hinting to him about you likeing him sometimes its best to be straightforward and tell him that you having feelings for him.
Well good luck and hope this advice helps.
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