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lost and confused [sorry its long...help!!]


Question Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 3:56 pm

17/f dnt kno where this goes??!!!

i keep stressing over every little thing at the momnet and i have been fighting with my best friend that iv known for 8 years because im getting close to someone she doesnt like, i think she is scared ill forget about her, i have to do all the house work at home mainly becasue i am the only one who cleans up around the house and i never have time to just watch a movie or do wat i want, i stressing out at school cos i just started my hsc, and cos of all the stress i cant eat.

my friends are trying to help me but i keep pushing them away and screwing up everything.
i just feel sad all the time and i feel lost and confused.
i keep getting nervouse like anxious nervous and i dnt know why could it be anxioty? cant spell. what it anxioty

and 2 years ago i had an eating disorder does that explain anything??

help me plz i dnt no wats wrong with me!!!


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Anthro_Wolf89 answered Saturday November 22 2008, 12:55 am:
I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with you, I think you are just overstressed.
I know I'm not a doctor, I really think that's all it is. If I were you, I would sit your guardian down and have a talk with them. Ask them if you can have a bit of time away from your house work (or whatnot) because you are getting overly stressed, and mention you've been working very hard. Tell them that you need their help.
Hopefully I helped.
Good Luck
19/F

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Dakizah answered Friday November 21 2008, 8:43 pm:
You could infact have anxiety. Seeing that the most of the cause of it is from stress. I've been through the same thing, and I know how that feels. You really need to stop the drama going on your life first of all. Your friend will get over the fact you're getting close to someone she doesn't like. She's just jealous, just assure her that she's your number one, and you've been through too much to just put someone before her. If she doesn't listen, then just give her time.

Just relax, it'll all be fine. Try different ways to relieve stress. Such as writing, talking to someone, listening to music, or any other thing that makes you relax. It's hard, I know, but it'll get better. Nothings wrong with you, it just takes time. Calm down, and get things back in order. Good luck, hun. <3

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