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Ok so Im 13/f. I want to know really nice/cute hairstyles for my age. My hair is a dark auburn colour and it is shoulder length, and pretty thick. If you can, attach pictures or if you have a specific website that would have hairstyles for my age, that would be greatly appreciated. (Im kinda growing my hair out at the moment)

go to youtube and write cute girls hairstyles and subsribe to the user cause she gets new hair styles every week and they are amazing for every hair.
website if you can't find it

http://www.youtube.com/user/CuteGirlsHairstyles?feature=chclk

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Ok so I'm in 5th grade (which your prob wondering to young for arelationship but I do have a Facebook) so like 5 people asked me out and two of them have a Facebook so I don't like any of them but one but I never said yes I would go out with him cuz it was a text so instead of telling the other people no I didn't answer I tried to hide my relationship status but they keep texting me on fb and I don't wanna say no and I don't wanna say yes I like the other dude (and please don't say I'm to young thereisalot of people my age with boyfriends) please help!!!!!!!!!!

ok the easiest way is to make them not like u. act different in front of them like the opposite of your personality say "lets be friends and get to know each other. Later maybe we'll see"

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Ok so today I made I huge discovery! I found out why I am so shy! But I need your help to overcome it. I think the reason is that I want to be who others want me to be, in other words, I want everyone to like me and be my friend. So until I know them well enough, I am shy! This doesn't only effect my friendships but it effects my relationships. I have had three relationships and they all went badly because of me...mostly. I close up and only text them, I get scared to talk to them in real life! Then they get tired of that and they break up with me. I am SUPER DUPER UBER determined to stop that! But how??????? I am sick of sitting around being the shy girl who nobody knows! I mean you can kinda see my personalitly through this right? Am I awesome? Or just annoying?!? IDK! But if I suddenly become out there and outgoing then they will all be like, whoa your weird...you are supposed to be quiet! UGH! Being held down to just the people I know now and my family is boring! How do I become "out there"? ...lol... I don't have good parents so I have NO CLUE what a real good relationship looks like so I need to know that too. Because that is why I hide in a nut whilst in relationships...I think thats it. Thanks for helping me! :D Do you think I have a personality that most people would like? Yea that's it ok now BYE!!! btw I am 13 years old...

I agree with babymoby and mannequin24 ITs not going to be easy to overcome your shyness becaus it take time i think this will help
-Raise your hand in class more often
-most importantly find these special friends that you can hang out with everyday. Don't try to make every like you that's not going to happan. Trust me someone will still hate you i had the same expiriance.
-Join activities dance and sports
-ignore when someone is talking bad about you
-wear something unique. Colorful
-don't hesitate to ask questions to kids or start mini-conversations.
Follow this steps and i grantee you will fit in and BTW don't be mean or too nice people can take advantage of it. Be clever and laugh at silliest jokes. Be funny. P.S> i am thirteen 2

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Today a new student came to our school. I like him, but like we literally just met. I like another guy, who i've liked for 4 years -- both of them make me laugh(Even the new student). I don't know who to like. I don't want fo like both, because it just makes me feel weird. Help!!!

i am sure everyone had this kind of a problem including me. My advice to you would be to wait and see. Know both guys and wait and see which one your more attracted too. But be careful, there are players out there and they will just brake your heart. I know how you feel trust me i had the same problem but then i saw that one of the guys i liked only cared about himself and was a cry baby, literally! He cried because he got in trouble. Guess what he actually caused the trouble than cried. Lame. :D So now i seriously hate him. Waiting really helps trust me its one of the best ways to go! Good Luck! :D hope this helps!

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17/f. I've never really had a good relationship. I've been cheated on, lied to & disrespected. On Wednesday I met this guy(andrew) through my friend (it's her boyfriends cousin) and he asked if I wanted to hang out with him. We went to the park and the mall and hit it off real good but it seems as if something's not rite because he seems too perfect. He's 19, VERY respectful, and he claims to be loyal. He's been snoking cigarrettes since he was 14 and when i told him i didnt like that he told me he would quit for me. The next day he came to my school to visit me and it went good too. I can help but try to look for something bad about him because I'm not used to it. How can I stop being paranoid that he's goin to hurt me? We've been talking everyday and he tells me everything does.

My friend says that you should try to hurt his feelings first to see how he reacts to it and see what he does. does he threatens to kill you or is he okay with it and can say i can move on and doesn't hurt you. If he is ok then you can tell him you were testing him and that you like him.

I think you should talk to him and see what he says. Tell him how you feel about him and that you disagree that he is perfect. Talking is the best way to get info quickly.

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I am riding a new horse named Penny and she is very sensitive. I barely have to pull on her reins to steer her or stop her. When I pull to hard she tosses her head. But, when I try to steer her she doesn't turn so I have to pull a little harder, then when I pull harder she tosses her head. I can't get to the point where I can turn her. I can usually turn her when we are walking but only then. She keeps her head like right behind another horse's butt. I ride in group lessons and she is faster than the other horse's but since she won't turn, I can't get her head out of other horse's butts! lol. Any tips?

I think you need to get closer to your horse. She's new I am pretty sure it will work out. Just be closer to her, practice more, make her feel at home. Give her treats i am pretty sure it will work
GOOD LUCK!!!!!

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I'm in 7th grade and not the most popular person but this guy that is staring me is one of the most popular boys in my grade. He's only in one class of mine and he sits across the room from me. I see him staring at me at least twice a day. I have only talked to him once for about an hour, but it was on facebook...And it was a year ago. I know he's not staring at something behind me because we meet eyes quite often in the hall for a short time. I don't consider myself the prettiest person so I don't know if he likes me or not...any advice?

Hey weird coincidence. I am in seventh grade and have related problem. There is a guy in my school that i think i like. He's popular and i'm not. He's always mean to me and i see him staring at me through the corner of my eye more then two or three times a day. I'm not sure he likes me since he says and does some mean things buts that's what i think.

If you want just go and talk to him more. If he is mean he probably likes you or if he acts different, he probably likes you.

I would do the same but in my case its a little different.
so good luck!!!!!!!!!

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Im 13/f,and my parents disapprove of who I am.
I'm a HUGE lover of music,it's my life.
I LOVE bands/artist like :Escape the Fate,Falling in Reverse,D.R.U.G.S.,Black Veil Brides,Get Scared,My chemical romance,Asking alexandria,Bring me the horizon,Vampire's Everywhere,and bands of the metal,screamo,rock,and alternative music.
I love "dark things".My favorite color is black.
I'm always learning about cults,love vampire's,and things like that.
But,my parents disapprove of my "emo" lifestyle.
They say it's "demonic".
But that's just who I am.
They've tried taking that music away from me,and "making me normal".
I've told them this is who I am,but they don't wanna hear it.
Help!

I am also thirteen and i think that you just need to show your parents that your fine yu just like dark stuff.
So do something they want you to do to show them your fine but you prefer your own style. Dress different listen to other songs then show them that your upset with it and that you want your old life style. TALK TO THEM!

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I need a mystery story for school, and I'm bad at thinking of one, so will you please help?

how about solving a murder crime. try searching in the internet some mystery topics maybe you'll find some

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My bestfriend has liked me a lot for awhile and I told him i just wanted to be friends. Its been a month since then and I think my feelings for him might be changing but im not sure. I want to know what it means if I think about him all the time and imagine us together and sometimes I get butterflies in my stomach when I think about him, but then when I see him at school the feelings go away. Can someone tell me if I might like him or if I still just think of him as a friend?

i think that you do like him. You just can't admit it when your alone. When your with him you act like everyday and your ok.

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Hey 13/F. My friend went out with this guy and they broke up . Then he asked me out so I said yes coz I like him but when he went out with my friend he cheated on her with a nother girl how do I know he is not cheating with me. And I don't wanna ask him thanx

Hey I am in middle school to. I think if you want to c if a guy is cheating on you try looking for some signs.
Like you know different perfume if he wears same perfume. is he coming late for some reason. if he does anything unusual than he is probably cheating. If you can follow him.

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what should i do for my school talent show i am from newbern,nc

try singing or dancing or look up in the internet some good simple show talents

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Soo for starters I'm female,13 and my i guess 'friend' atm is male 15,i like him ALOT (perhaps even love:P) and i dunno how he feels about me anymore,for instince a couple of tuesdays ago (we had both agreed to go seperate ways for a couple months) and he re-asked me out,of course I said yes then that friday(i see him every fri night) before i'd see him he messaged for us to 'just be friends',he's done this several times and idk what to think,please don't say to get over him because believe me i have tried to,most of the time i do feel over him until i see him(which is 1-2 times every week)or even think about him. He is my first boyfriend and i've know him since i was 10 but didn't have that spark until last fall,it's not like me and him ever liked 'had it' the furthest we've ever done(don't laugh!:P) is a long hug,(by long i mean like only 7-10 seconds). Please tell me what i should do,& how to make a guy re-interested in you etc,all help is VERY much appreciated. :P -ConfusedChic

ok for starters the next time he brakes up with u and wants to re-date. Tell him that he needs to make up his mind, get angry at him (fake cry >p). You know and don't talk to him for a while. Or if that doesn't work u know ask him about it. y he is acting like that.

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My exboyfriend and I broke up almost 3 weeks ago. We dated for quite a while and we've been really rocky. But generally when we would break up, he would come back within a few days. Although the time before this time, it took him 3 weeks to come back. The situation has changed quite a bit because now we arent living in the same place and we broke up because we just kept fighting and i couldnt seem to trust him. Now I know that this already sounds like a train wreck and I do know that we aren't meant for each other right now. But the thing is when I broke up with him, i was hysterical and he was saying that he really loved me and wanted to be with me again but we needed our time apart.
I feel so like torn, cause I really think about him a lot but its not like most break ups where i sulk at home. Im going out and having fun but I still just wish there was some way we could have worked it out. None of my friends and family like him and I agree that I wouldnt like him if I was looking in from the outside. I never was a priority and he kept some huge secrets about drugs from me.But hes been clean and sober and ive never seen him this driven and I can tell he isnt doing drugs anymore. I need help, I cant keep holding onto this because if he never comes back Im going to be so torn apart. I mean do you guys believe that if it was true love he would come back eventually?
I think the thing that hurts me the most is that he isnt coming back and inside my head that means that he doesnt miss me and he doesnt think about me as much as i think about him. I want so badly for him to realize that I was sucha good girlfriend to him.
I know that I shouldnt still be upset and I know this is pathetic but today was really hard and I just need some reassurance or some advice.

If he relizes he made a big mistake he will come back i am sure of it. i think you should tell him the problem and figure out whats wrong he did came back a few times right exactly he might comeback to if he relizes it dont be down girl you can do it. I cant give you more advice gl and hope he will be back

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What are some cute names to call your boyfriend, that are not simple like babe,baby,love,honey,hun. Something Unique?

um what do you think your bf is like maybe you can pick a nickname by his traits

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My friend pricilla is a cool friend but shes a total tomboy and bully shes always hurting me and if i tell her to stop bothering me i know she will kill me or at least give me a black eye i need seriose help.NOW!!

maybe she likes you have you ever thought about that i mean have you watched hey arnold in there there is a girl who is mean and keeps being mean to the guy she likes but she can't tell him that maybe thats how she feel. you can ask her to tell you the truth y she keeps hurting you or you can ask someone closer to her to ask it for you

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Hi, you gave me good advice about the boy and how he dosent know who to choose between me and the other girl, i heard today at school that he fingered the girl i told who acts like a couple. That disturbed me alot. and i do want him to make a choice can you give me more advice and what i should talk about with him and etc. but one thing i didnt like was that i believe he is telling ppl i like him and i really dont want anyone to know cause my firneds are telling me everyone knows but arent saying anything and i feel embaraased for some reason i just dont want ppl to know.

ok sry that i answering late i wasn't here a while i started school 2 and its been hard but anyways dont show people you like him do you know the friendship you have with your friends just chatting and stuff well do the same with him just be friends for a couple of days you know talk about stuff and get to know him better. then step up your game step by step dont do it at one slowly make him more atractde to you know wat he likes and other things start to flirt but make it un noticeable

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Okay im 14 in the 8 th grade. in 6th grade i wasent popular 7th grade i was popoular and now 8th grade im just loseing my friends , i hang around certain people sometimes i just feel like im following them and i dont want it to be that way cause they end up leaving me going to talk to other people one of my friends say i dont know how to include myself in coversations but thats being nosey and none of my business and they arent really talking to me. also i dont wanna be a loner and be just all bye my self loooking like something is wrong, i lost two of my most important bestfriends over a dumb sistuation caus e she yelled at me telling me that my ex boyfriend dosent like me and she told me to the only way we could be friends is if i cry i know its sounds mean but i told her she was following someone so she was mad at me for that , im very sensative by the way i was talking to my friend she says im annoying sometimes even my family tells me that sometime idk what to do i just waant my friends back and thing to go back to they way they usto be. what do i do.

ok 1 i think they r right change yur attitude use the words like i am sry they are probably right /

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So i was dateing this boy two years back and i didnt care for him much after we broke up and this oother boy broke us up cause he wanted to go with me so he fed us lies now, i like him again. im jst gonna tell the storey so he asked me what i wanted for my birthday i said you he said thats funny i said is that so wrong he said no i said so am i gnna get my birthday gift and he said it depends. he tells his friends i look good and im pretty but im competing with three others girl and one of them went with him previous years back like i did but me and him didnt last as long as him and the other girl did he flirts with me tells me im pretty calls me baby etc. playing around i guess but there is the Ghetto girl who barley comes to school she may come like 2 or 3 days out of the week and everyone is scared of cause she ghetto and me and her a cool.she is really bad and gets in trouble alot cause she skips and attendence and she was susposed to leave but idk etc. and when she comes the boy i like follows her around picks her up and etc. like they are a couple. but he dosent do this with me, but today he said are you ready to go out with me again he prolly just playing.

um r u sure he was playing around. y dont you try to get him back with girl charms use your charms if you know what i mean. talk to him often, be around him more,and be attractive he will ask you out by himself i hope. Try it if it doesn't work i will give you another advice :)

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okay so our school will be celebrating teachers day on the 17th because of the ongoing exams
as it is going to be my last teachers day in school
i want to give something to each of the teachers who have taught me for atleast two years now
i have a maths sir who teaches me and the rest five subjects are taught by women

any sugestions???? i need help.
i don't have a very huge budget. but i can splurge a lil'.


you can give each teacher a book about there subject like for math get a book about math no the ones where you have to solve something just a book that has something to do with math or. you can get something man stuff for your man teacher and for the other woman teachers you can give a flower bouquet and chocolates :)

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