Q: 22/f
I know that guys get blue balls but what about girls? I have just started seeing someone and we havent gotten any where but ever since then all day today I have been very very arosused and he wasnt even here for most of it. is it normal?

Q: This is a weird one... I'm 22 and I've had sex with three guys. Through random luck, all three had larger than average-sized penises. (Going by the average size reported by studies.) The last guy I dated was ridiculous; despite being short and thin in stature, his penis was 7.5 inches long, 6.5 inches in *circumference* - I'm not kidding. Sex was actually a bit painful sometimes!

Anyway, I'm seeing someone at the moment and I have realised I have this really stupid fear - that he's going to be small. It's not that I care in terms of my pleasure (so far he's been pretty good with his hands, if you know what I mean, and I think he'll be good in bed too). But I have no idea what to say if he's small! When I found out how big my exboyfriend was, I gasped and said, "Jesus Christ!"... Is it ok to say nothing if a guy is average or small, or do guys appreciate it if you pretend to be impressed even if you aren't?

Sorry this question is so bizarre, but I'd really appreciate some advice on this topic!

Q:

I'm 5'3, 160 lbs.
I know i need to lose weight, and WANT to for that matter :) i have the diet part down, but i'm at a plateau.i can't seem to lose any more weight. i want to add outdoor activity such as jogging to my lifestyle, but i always feel l ike when i run down the street everyones watching me. i don't know how to get past this! im after to go after school when i get home because if a school bus is by me that means kids on the bus might see me! .. idk its really not a big deal, but its kinda an anxiety for me, and its what is holding me back to go jogging.. does anyone have any ideas? i would go jogging w/ my friends. but they dont live near me. and i have a brother but hes way more in shape than i am and i wouldnt be able to keep up with him.

Q: Hi im 13/f and i thought you would be a good person to ask a question to:)

Well at first i really liked my crush and thought he liked me too. he would talk to me all the time, flirt, stare at me, ect. and this all started in Nov. then about last month my friend said that she told him so i got all scared and didnt want to talk to him because o he doesnt like me and i made a fool out of myself. well anyways all of a sudden he started talk to me. he would always try to since i stopped talking to him. he tried to sit with me(this all happened in one day), he was flirting, and then he was messing with me at lunch and at the end of the day al the stuff we do. So things went back to normal and then i decided that things went better if i didnt talk to him first all the time and playing hard to get and i still do but its kinda a reaction (ill get to that soon). so then on he would always talk to me first and we would stare everyso often and flirt ect. then about last week i found out his friends finally convinced him to ask out this girl because he liked her. my friend and i were walking up the stairs and all the girls came up to talk to himand were like, "O she said yes!!" and he was really quiet about it. then they all left and once i heard everything i was completely filled with rage! he started to quicken his steps so he could talk to me(he does that alot.) he was like, "Hi Brianna (from Behind)." i didnt bother to turn around and respond. so he kept going. "Brianna? dont you wanna talk to me?" i said no. he asked what did he do ect and i just didnt want to talk to him. he hurried to get his stuff and left his friends and was chasing after me to talk to me. he was asking,"What did i do, i didnt even mock you today (this thing he does to me. flirty thing only to me suprisingly). i just said dont talk to me, dont bug me ect. after that things havent been the same. i cant get myself to talk to him. or its just not the same. he chased me the next day and asked me what was up the other day and i said i was just tired. then i said sorry and we started flirting but its jsut wasnt the same you know. i watch him and his so called "Girlfriend" and they never even talk. they dont do anything. then last Thursday i kinda experimented and went in the same direction he was and walked infront of him so he could see me and all of a sudden i heard his footsteps and he was like flying down the steps and i turned around and he was cutting through people and then the next minute he was right there and we were talking. then the next day he did the exact same thing except that time he just came up to me and just smiled at me and i asked what was the smile for and he started walking backwards to his class smiling at me. so does he like me??

Q: ive had a big crush on my best friend for the longest time. in feb, i told him how i felt about him and he told me that he couldnt commit and would rather just be friends. he kept giving off the wrong ideas to me because thats the way he shows affection, by hugging flirting ect. but he did not like me. basically i kept getting hurt because i kept wanting to believe he did and then got let down. until one day i told him i got over him (not entirely true).

ever since we've become best friends and earlier this month he confessed somthing to me. he told me that he was going through a phase where he wasnt sure of his sexuality, in other words he thought that he was gay. but he said that he realized that he is strait. and he told me that when i told him i liked him, he wasnt sure what to do because really he does care about me but he couldnt see me like that. but now things are so totally different. the only thing keeping us apart is fear, he is afraid or commitment. he said that he cant afford a relationship because well lets just say his first girlfriends broke his heart and his second one was too clingy. and he doesnt want to ruin our friendship i guess.
god if only he knew that i wont be like them.

i really like him and he doesnt even know about it. he really seems to like me too, i think. i mean he always sits next to me, puts his arm around me, grabs my hands and plays with them, hugs me- and then says he wants another hug, waits for me, wants to hang out with me all the time, makes fun of me- by calling me pet names, and the other day i saw him looking at me in class and when i looked at him he turned away.

i gave up all hope on him until he hinted that he might like me but obviously he isnt gonna put his feelings on the line because he thinks that i dont like him. if thats what he really wants i could stand just being friends, its not that bad actually. but i really do like him and well i want to tell him but i dont exactly know how to. do u think that if i threw major hints then he might respond? what are some good hints that he wont miss? seriously i need help on this one. how do i let him know that i will be a great girlfriend and i wont break his heart. how can i make him get over his problems with commitment?
THANK YOU SO MUCH =)

Q: Well basically in my group of friends, I have always been that background girl. Out of drama, out of fights, the nice shy one of the group. Although that may sound pretty good, I'm also the one that gets overshadowed by EVERYONE. I never, ever get the attention from guys, I'm never the one that all the girls want to hang out with. Pretty much, I'm never in the spotlight. I'm so sick of hearing how my friends are jugglin like 4 different boys constantly, and I have a difficult time getting one, especially when guys must be crazy if they pick me over my friends (all my friends are absolutely gorgeous by the way) I've always acted like it never bothered me, but lately it's just been really getting to me, because my whole life this is the way its been, and just for once, I would love to get the attention even just for a slight second. I don't know...any thoughts or advice would be appreciated :-/

Q: 16, female

well theres this guy, we're pretty good friends =) actually we call each other "best friends" as a joke but i fell hard for him last summer, because we would flirt soo much and it was adorable, lets just say hes a stud. but he didnt know i fell for him, and i didnt wanna say anything because he was interested in this girl and plus we were so close it would of been wayyy to awkward they but they ended up goin out and this hurt me =( keep in mind they're still going out and hes says its been like 10 months already!! anyways all summer i was sad, but we still kinda flirted. then i tried getting over him, and i finally realized i had no feelings other than just being friends with him and we could still hangout alot and i would be fine but now lately i am getting these "feelings" back. like tonight it was me and him and my cousin and like at the restaraunt i was like day dreaming and they started walking without me and then im like thanks guys!!! and they're already sitting down and i start walking over and he scoots in so i can sit by him. and then he like takes my phone, reads my texts, and i try to get it from him, we touch hands/hold for a sec but i just dont know! we were like this in the summer, then it stopped and now it seems like its starting again. and when we were sitting he put his arm like behind me, like on the seat (if you know what im talking about) but i just wanted to like lay my head on his chest, and once he got really close to my face and looked at me and just smiled and i couldnt stop thinking about how much i wanted to be with him. it would be soooo much easier if he didnt have a girlfriend but shes soo pretty and i know he loves her, she loves him and it kills me to see the "i love you, alot" in her profile, and it saying i love my boyfriend he is amazing and same for his. i hate when he talks about her, it makes me so jealous of what they have. i mean i want him to be happy but its killing me!! i wish i could hangout with him without having these feelings and talking to him wont help because he'll just say im sorry, i love sarah (his girlfriend) or it would just make things SOOO unbelievable weird between us. what should i do?! i hangout with other guys too, its not like i just hangout with him. i thought last summer, oh they wont last, maybe i'll just wait and see what happens, and they're still going STRONG.....these two quotes explain how im feeling EXACTLY.. "i hate the way you can push me to the limits with the things you do & then you know just the right time to say something sweet to make me fall for you all over again" *i know you just want to be friends .. and that's okay with me .. but please just stop making me fall even harder*.

Q: I'm a stranger to myself. I don't know why I do the things I do. I don't know who I am. I don't know who I want to be. I don't know what I like. And I don't know when I'm pretending to like something. I really don't know anything about myself. I change from week to week. Last week I hated rock and emo , had big earings, curly hair and hip-hop clothes. This week I'm all about emo, dark clothes, lots of eye-liner. Everyone's calling me a poser and a fake. And I guess I am. That's ok, I don't care what they think. I just want to find the real me, but how? How do I know when I'm pretending and when it's actually THE REAL me?

I'm almost 18, shouldn't I know by know?

Q: okay so i have a couple questions about discharge :]

1. about how long should you have it. like ive had mine since like..6th grade and im in 8th now.

2. okay so do you have to wear a pantyliner thing when you have discharge. like me i ussaully just wear my underwear because i have discharge EVERY SINGLE DAY. and like its kinda a waste to get pads and shioot. so yeah. i just thro it in the wash.

3. okay this kinda has to due with the question up there. like.. since i have discharge every day. is that like normal? i mean like i dont get it when i get my period obvouisly but like.. i have it any other time. just like always. so yeah. is that normal or what?


thankkkkkkkkkkkkkkyou. :]

Q: do the ppl from scarred the show on mtv and mtv2 have myspaces becasue alot of them are really hott and i would not mine seeing there myspaces but yes if any of you have them could you leave the links ? plzz&&&thanks

Q: I'm trying to lose weight or at least become more lean and muscular. and i'm trying to eat better but i've been eating what i think is alot. like i'll eat an 2 gonola bars and i'll be like oh i'll work it off later. its not that much only 90 calroies for such a good taste. so normally i eat it. but then later sometimes i'm like ahh why did i eat tha ti'm so stupid. and i just wanna like go back and not eat it. and then i usually end up never working it off. so what can i do to not eat that extra gonola bar or whatever. or what are some tips to help me eat healither.
thanks.

Q: My love handles are HUGE
any way i can reduce the fat on them, or make them look slimmer?
I can not wear tight shirts because of that!
My stomach isnt even big...its only my sides!
Thanks...im deperate :/

Q: 15 f
my mom is so mean lately she comes from work and all she wants to do is argue. so lately ive been going out alot with m my friends, that bothers her!! all i do is go to their house i dont do anything bad! she always talks bad to me if i ask her a simple question she would just answer me so roudly. i cant take it anymore! so she always tries to find things to argue with me about. she told me i can never go out with my friends anymore. but seeing that tomorow is saturday my bestfriend invited me to go to her house and her mom also asked me to come. now i know my mom is going to say no. but what can i say or do to convicne her please help. i really wat to go to her house. i really need help. my mom is becoming meaner like every second. and i have tried to talk to her alot she doesnt listen and when i do try to talk to her she always gest mad and tells me that im changing or whatever. so please dont tell me to talk to her. i tried alot of times and it neevr works it just gets worse.
thanks
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Q: 15/female. My life is great. I have everything I could ever need, and a small group of friends that I could tell ANYTHING to. My parents love me, and 99% of my family is beyond incredible, but sometimes I get too overwhelmed. I'm an only child, and my parents expect a LOT out of me. If I don't have straight high-A averages, I get privleges taken away because "I can do better" and I KNOW that they're right. I always LOVED school, and don't get me wrong, I still do, usually. But now that I'm in highschool there's more drama to deal with, and teachers are more eccentric, for lack of a better word. Sometimes it's too much to deal with. My mother attempting suicide last year was essentially my breaking point. She's got that worked out (nasty hospital screw-up and severe allergic reaction led to a decrease in serotonin; she's fine now) but nowadays I think constantly that something even worse will happen not just to her, but to many people I care about.


Sorry that was so long, but as you can see I really need to work some things out. Would it be weird to go to a therapist just ONCE, to have someone else to talk to, or would I be forced to go nine thousand times?

Q: hi i am a 24 years old female, i have been with my current partner for 3 and a half years, i have a baby girl with him but, i am so miserable. i have met someone else on a chatroom whom i have spoke to many times and it is cause of this i have realised that i am trapped in my current relationship. i am scared to leave him as i dont want to hurt his feelings and fear i wouldnt be able to manage without him over the past 3 and a half years he has totally brain washed me to thinking this, he puts me down all the time and bullies me to make me feel worthless. i dont no what to do please can some one help me

Q: I'm 16/f, my bestfriend is 16/m. When he was leaving to go home last night, we gave eachother our usual hug, but I had a clip in my hair and he accidently pulled it, and it sorta hurt. I was like "oww" and he kissed the top of my head. Do you think he did this just to be nice, or does he like me? He's never done anything like that, usually we just hug.

Q: ok so everytime i have my period i get bloated. im a skinny person so when i get bloated i look pregnant. im not exaggerating, ill gain about 3 inches on my waist when im bloated. are there any foods to reduce bloating? why do woman get bloated when we have our periods?

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