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hey i'm courtney! :)i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.
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im having soon
i need some MAJOR ideas for food...
im not getting it catored. please help!
pizza is good, hot dogs, hamburgers, chips, cupcakes, salads, spaghetti, bread and butter. anything similar to these will be a big hit! have fun, and good luck! (:
So, i'm like, a sexaholic with my boyfriend, and he used to be the same way, but we've been together for over a year now, and sex has become rare. MAYBE once a month, if i'm lucky. I constantly want it, once i get it i'm good for a day or two, then i want it again. idk if it's because it makes me feel attractive or because he's so good or what it is, but it's driving me NUTS that he doesn't want to do it anymore. he's always too tired or has to work in the morning or is sore or spends all night on his video game and doesn't get off of it till he's ready to pass out. I want him to want me! i've tried sexy dances, sexy clothes, talking sexy, everything! i even bought whipcream and handcuffs..... what can I do to bring his sex drive back? he says it's not a personal issue, no depression, nothing wrong with me, but idk. i don't know what to do.
:(
maybe he is just going through something emotionally, try connecting with him on another level. and ask him if how you feel like the sex is so great, maybe he doesn't. talking here is key.
this question is directed towards people on the Depo Provera birth control shot or people who are very knowledgeable about it. 16/f i have been on the shot for about two months, and everything that i've read about it said that a condom is not necessary while taking the shot, so recently, i haven't been using one. is this unwise? ALSO, my boyfriend and had sex and then i went upstairs and i was bleeding A LOT! it could just be that he ripped me a bit, but if it was spotting, i wanted to know if you have sex while your spotting on the pill can you get pregnant? i think not but i just wanted to be sure. thank you so much,
i'm not sure about the pill thing,but if you stop taking it it won't work, even if you keep changing the cycle of it. also, you can get pregnant, ANYTIME. whether you're spotting, on your period or off. anytime. use protection, and make sure you regularly take the shot and pills when you are prescribed to.
okay ive been with this guy for three years and we have been through our ups and downs..hes cheated on me three times and i have not cheated on him back nor have i cheated on him at all he says hes cheated on me because i make him feel like i dont care..he says its because of numerous of things like.when i dont answer his phone calls. after he disrespects me and i feel attacked i end up hanging up on him He calls me out of my name and says really mean things about me..so i end up hanging up on him. and he says thats one of the reasons why he does what he does is because i dont answer his calls he says that im just another girl in his phone and says that i just tell you i love you to make it sound good..he tells me all of this when we argue. but when we argue i dont say things liek that..i dont tell him that i got other dudes on the side or im just sayign i love you just to say it. I always forgive him and let things go..hes very insecure and points the finger at me. he gets mad for the most dumbiest reasons. we just had an arguement about how i dont tell him things..like he tells me when he gets new clothes and shoes...and he says that when i buy new clothes and shoes i dont tell him..like today he seen my new shoes and said why when i ask you have you bought any new shoes you jsut tell me you bought a pair but you have more than one. He says why dont you ever just tell me the truth i was like are you serious okay babe im sorry i will tell uyou next time he got so mad and was cutting me off when i was tryig to comprimise with him..and he jsut said whatever you just wanna say sorry and just drop it and end the problem your way. I honestly dont know why hes like this why he acts so angry and trippy off the most littlest things...im so lost ive been completely disrespected by him and been cheated by him. and i have forgave him for so much i let things go that usually no one would let go. He still doesint appreciate me doing that. He doesint see that my girl just forgave me for the most hurtfull things that ive done to her..Instead he keeps doing what he does and calls me out of my name and says that im worthless and just another B#### in his phone and that he can mess with me when he wants. I love this guy and your probebly thinking why? But i do and he also doesint see that he has told me you dont love me and i tell him are you serious i have forgave you for cheating on me disrespecting me that should show you that i love you a lot that im letting my guard down for you..I dont know what to do im so confused and lost, hurt, Every time he disrespects me and does thing to me he calls me back and says baby im sorry and that he needs me in his life and that im the reason why he acts crazy and disrespectful. I really dont see that I dont feel that im the reason of his wrong doings i feel that thats jsut what he wants to do..But i end up feeling sorry for him and take him back because i love him a lot. what should i do?
you won't like my advice but seriously he treats you so badly b/c you let him do it. he clearly knows that he's made mistakes and does not care or feel bad about it. you have even told him how much he hurt you and still he has done it numerous times, it's ridiculous, and you need to put an end to it all. it's not fair to you, he disrespects you,and should never call you a B****. that's so wrong on so many levels. and you deserve someone who will make you happy most of the time, not feel weaker and like you are worthless. break up with him. see if he tries to change his error of ways, and if he does, take him back one last time. and if he still keeps messing things up, move on girl. a smart one like you knows better. i always say this ' fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me' .. he's already cheated three times, how much more are you willing to take? he needs to learn, and isn't. good luck dear!
Hey! So I'm a 15 year old girl. And I live in a smaller house. Not like super small, but small. Hehe. Anyways, after we redo our bathroom and fix carpet in one of our rooms, we intend on moving. Right now, my room is in a tropical theme. I realllyyyyy want to redo it, but if we move within a year or so, there's no point in redoing it now. If I do redo it, I want to do it in a black and white theme. I really like my tropical theme now, but I'm ready for something more sophisticated. And if I did do it here are the ideas that I have so far: Black and white beadspread, pictures of me and my friends, but black and white pics, actual black and white pictures that you can buy, maybe a lamp or something. And I was actually thinking of maybe painting one wall black, and leave the rest white, and putting a some kind of white picture on the black wall. So what I'm asking is does anyone have any other ideas? and where I can get things? And also, what should I do with the tropical things I already have. I have pictures on my wall, some were kinda expensive and a beadspread, oh, and tropical necklace holders. What should I do with that stuff when I'm ready to get rid of it?? Thank you all!
maybe try selling some of the tropical things on e-bay or at a yard/garage sale. or ask your mom to store them in the closet, incase you need to use them again some day, you never know. and maybe try going to tjmaxx for cheaper bedroom things, or wal*mart is always good!
Hii everyone!
em, my hairs usually good all the time but summers so hot and my hair starts getting so frizzy! i move around so much i dont know how to be active without it getting knotty! and it gets frizzy. but i cant brush it in the day bcz that only works when its wet but i cant go out with wet hair because it frizzes when it dries.
any products to de-tangle it and un-frizz it?
thanks so so much!!
john reida hair serum. comes in a clear bottle i bought mine from rite-aide. it thins the hair, and helps de-tangle and makes it silky soft,while keeping it straight.
Hia again ,
I just wanted to know , what guys like to get as a bday gift from the gf's? because my bf's birthday is coming up and I have no idea what to get him..
please help ,
thank you so much ,
Betty
try clothings, like a sweater, a hoodie, polo, or a tee shirt. or you could get him a card and write him a sweet message. i have bought my b/f the 'kiss kiss bears' from hallmark once and he thought it was cute. or try buying him a cd or something for his car. good luck!
Does anyone know what that game is for dogs that involves agility, obstacles, and a pedal tat the dog steps on to flip a ball into the air? It would be really helpful if I just knew the name of that game.
try searching for games on yahoo.com
type in key words for it. sorry i couldn't be of more help.
Hey I was just wondering ,
since summers headin' soon , I wanted to know , how you use the nair wax strips to do your bikini lining , I tried but they don't work..
HELP PLEASE!
if it didn't work i suggest just shaving the whole area off, or trying buying them again, and read the directions more closely.
I'm trying to buy lawn tickets to the WMZQ fest this weekend, but it won't work! Where can I buy lawn tickets online? Can I buy them there, and if so, is it a sure thing that there will be tickets left?
try going here:
www.ticketmaster.com
hope this helps!
I don't know what category this should be under but, i really want to become famous. Mainly for acting. I would LOVE to be in a movie or be on disney channel. how do i find out about aditions and stuff. I live in chicago so i'm not really around any places that important. any ideas on how to get started. i don't want to look online in case its like spam or like fake. please help all advice appresheated! s/p
you need to move either to LA or NY. you can't get famous sitting on the computer in chicago. you need to take some acting classes, and get an agent. (: good luck! oh and tell your parents you're very serious about this.
Heres the deal his names sam and i'm head over heels for him! well me and him use to be close friends and we just started to drift apart. Then all of a sudden he starts wanting to sit with me in class and he passes notes to me and he steals my pencil and i try to grab it from him and he grabs my hand trying to hold it so we hold hands like a few times throughout a class. & i'm like oh dear does he like me cuz ii like him alot. so after the weekend monday he acts like nothing happened like we were back to the basics he had his friends and i had mine. i glared at him and he would catch me glareing at me and he'll wave hiiee. but thats it we dont sit beside eachother talk to eachother nothing. whats going on?
is he playing me?
shy?
i want him to talk to me again.
is it cuz on that day most of his friends wern't at school so he wasnt shy to be around me without getting teased?
can someone tell me what to do to get back to that very moment.?
it's your turn to make a move. pass a note, or wink at him. he's just scared, probably not sue about how you feel towards him. let him know, you got a crush on him. good luck .(:
everyone who i have asked is just like you like him and what not...
soo there is this boy that i have never met but might be interested in dating, or just hanging out. But there are some problems...
-he has a girlfriend
-my lil brothers 16 year old friend
-my brother thinks i can do better
i know that if he still has a girlfriend then i wont go anywhere near him. But i just dont know..i have feelings sometimes like i like him, but then other times im just like you cant like him you dont know him...so what do you think is going on....
Now keep in mind i have NEVER met him, just once...and we talked for 5 seconds...and i know i will not go near him if he has a girlfriend, its disrespectful...
16/f
well you have a crush. which doesn't mean you like him, just that you have a crush. and if he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to break up with her then it can't go anywhere. you need to find a new guy. and if he's interested in you, then tell him he needs to be honest with his current girlfriend. good luck dear. (:
okay. yesterday, my bf and i kissed for the first time and today i have scrapes on my hands. do i have stigmata? can you get stigmata from kissing other people? also, does this mean i could be pregnant?
you aren't pregnant unless you had sex, and even then so, scrapes doesn't come from being pregnant. do some more research on stigmata on google or yahoo. maybe those are symptoms of that. but definitely not of being pregnant.
okay so there is this girl that my boyfriend and his friends used to be obsessed with. they always talked about her and thought she was the hottest thing alive. well now i have been dating my boyfriend for a verrry long time and he hasn't talked about her at all ever since we first started going out. but i can't help but feel upset whenever i think about how he used to talk and stuff. especially when we see her at school. i always think he is going to look at her and be intrigued or whatever. he always says that no one is prettier than me but i think he might think that she is. it doesn't seem like it should be a big deal.. but for some reason it is to me. i don't know how to get over these feelings. please help
honestly come out with him and just tell him how you feel. make sure he realizes you have a minor problem with the whole thing. i'm sure he thinks you're gorgeous, listen to me. if he wanted her, then why is he with you? :)
I am going to the beach and need to go shopping!!!! Where is a good place to go shopping to get some cute sundresses and shorts and cute summer tops. I don't want anything expensive or name brand like hollister, or aeropostale.
maybe try this..
www.wetseal.com
www.tjmaxx.com
www.gabs.com
www.marshalls.com
im very young to be pregant.butt ive been geeting pains in my stomach.not cramps.i feel like vomiting but i cant.are theese symtoms?
get tested, buy one from the store. and if you're really young then you shouldn't be having sex. and you don't get cramps/pains until you're second trimester in being pregnant.
ok so. my boyfriend and i have been kind of talking about the possibility of sex for a while? not actually saying "hey, lets have sex on THIS day" or whatever, but just like "yeah i want to," and yeah. well the past few times i went there things had gotten pretty heavy, but his friend was always in his room with us, so i always made him stop. but yesterday his friend wasnt there and we were making out on his bed. eventually i pulled apart from him for a second and pulled out a condom a brought. and i asked "how far are you willing to go with this?" and he kind of looked at me as if i was crazy or high or something.
I HAD NEVER BEEN SO EMBARRASSED IN MY LIFE. he was feeling me up and we were making out for what it seemed like 4-6 minutes! am i getting mixed signals here??? did i do something wrong? i dont even really know why i did that except for the fact that i thought something was about to happen. i talked to him later last night on aim. and he said he didnt want to because he loved me. WTF IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!?!??!! i think im kinda ready. and hes not a virgin! so i dont get it! can someone attempt to explain this to me? im avoiding him now and i dont wanna talk to him and i wont for a while but i think im wrecking everything but im just so confused. HELP?? thanks.
well he is just as confused as you are apparently dear. just take things slower for awhile. it'll be alright okay? and, make sure you are ready.you saying ' i think i'm ready to have sex' doesn't mean that you are. kay? you might not be. i lost my virginity at 16, and thought i was ready, and wasn't. i wish i would have waited longer.
maybe he just doesn't want to ruin things with you b/c he's afraid that after you two have sex, you'll feel differently about him and maybe resent him for rushing into having sex. or it's just an exuse him saying i love you, he could possibly be cheating.
for one of my class assignments i have to write a graduation speech and present it to my class it has to be lengthy and sound really good.. i've been working on it for a couple days but i was wondering if anyone had anything i could say in it. some good quotations or advice to say in it or whatever, i would appreciate it. thank you.
maybe something inspiring, that will touch everyone on a different level, remincse. remind them of silly things that were important, and now you just laugh about it.
I'm 16 & me & my family dont get along at all. I dont see life the same as my family does. They try to restrain me from having a life & its getting hard. They try & keep me very close to them when they know I'm growing up. They want me to be baby again so that I'll just shutup & listen. Too bad it wont work. I need to figure out a way to be happy. Thats just the general question. If you want the full story I'll be glad to tell anyone lol.
lol parents are annoying in this way. honestly the best thing you can do is hear them out, their opinions and when they clash (which they will), you want to do things they probably won't allow explain to them that you're growing up and you shouldn't be treated like you're ten anymore. you aren't leaving them for good, you just want to experience life, make mistakes, and have fun. that's what life is about. tell them something like that.