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There is this guy I've been crushing on for about a year. We are friends, but everytime we are like, "Let's hang out." it kind of just never happens, because there is nothing to do around here. Well, people have been telling me to just tell him I like him, but I'm scared. So for Christmas, I was thinking of doing something like getting him a hersey kiss and putting it on a piece of paper saying, "I don't have the guts to give you a real one, so I guess this chocolate kiss will have to do. Merry Christmas." Is that too cheesy? What other things can I do that will make him smile? (link)
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that is so perfect. If he likes you that will give him the perfect oppurtunity to make a move, and if he doens't than you can just play it off as a joke.
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i know this is gross so i will just come out and say it. when you have anal sex or are being fingered analy, wont the guys dick or finger get all shitty??? how would you clean something like the inside of your anal?
thanks in advance and sorry for such a gross question.
oh. btw. im female (link)
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well I have had both done to me, and I am female, and that hasn't happened to me. If you think that you might have either of those things happen, make sure that you take a shit earlier in the day, but you should be just fine. and by the way make sure to use a lot of lubrication.
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14/f -- i'm not prude, but i don't hook up with people alot. the last time i did was in october, and before that in may. i don't know if i'm a bad kisser, but one of the guys i hooked up w. told his friends i was but he changed the story. so i don't know -- but getting to the point, is there anything i can do with my tongue that people generally like to improve my kissing? or my hands, or basically anything that will make the experience for more pleasureable for both of us. i know that everyone likes different things, but just from your experiences or what you've heard, i guess. (link)
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make sure to relax your mouth. don't be tense. try using burt bees lip balm. it is minting and will make both of your lips tingle. try putting your right hand on his cheek while kissing, and will be very lady like and make him feel special. take little 2 second breaks from kissing every now and then, that way he can look at your beautiful face and eyes, it will make him want you more. but most importantly like I already said make sure that your mouth is relaxed.
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Hi, so i'm a bit stuck. I lost my virginity a few weeks before I was 16 (which i'm quite proud of considering the reputation of my school and friends). I was at sgegness and I met a boy through a friend I have there. We clicked straight away it wasn't love at first sight or anything. I had only known him a few days and we weren't technically together but I had sex with him anyway. The next day he asked me out although we knew we lived too far apart and I didn't want anything serious. But I said yes and we had sex again that night because it was my last night. I left and we kept in touch but we lost contact. I definately don't regret it. But I never loved him and everyone says that your supposed to love the person you lose your v to. Am I wierd for not loving him? will rate all answers :) (link)
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you are not wierd for not loving him. there is the sterotype that if guys sleep with a girl they just met that they are a "pimp" and if a girl does the same she is a slut. that is complete crap. you should do whatever makes you happy. and it is good that you don't regret. just make sure that since now you are having sex to use a condom. but don't let anyone make you feel wierd about enjoying sex, it is your perogitive.
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Hi,I'm 15, male and very shy. I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me back because i caught her staring at me serveral times and i some time stare back at her but I'm still not convinced that she likes me to ask her. what should I do? (link)
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you should causually go up to her and say that you didn't understand what the teacher was talking about in you class, and could you two go over her notes together. This will give you some alone time with, and help you figure out whether or not she is interested in you.
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i think i have that .. how do i get rid of it.
i brush all the time -- but it doesnt seem to die down.
what products would work great?
& i also have braces.. (link)
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if you think you might have gigivitis then you deffinately need to go to the dentist. because you don't know what it could be, and you need to be safe, you don't want to not go to the dentist and then have it be something serious, and end up losing you teeth.
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Me & my boyfriend have been going out for a while and all we have done is kissed...i want to move further and so does he..but i'm nervous about tossing him off, thats the only thing i'm scared about ... do i like get on my knees? or do i stand or what?
help me please?
loveeess xx (link)
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you do what ever makes you feel the most comfortable. and ask him what he likes. and then go from there.
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I recently got Diagnosed (sp?) with an std that I wont ever be able to get rid of. I was wondering if you guys new of any sites online where people can talk about these things.
Sense I found out I have felt completely hopeless and I just feel like giving up but I cant do that to my parents.
So it would be really helpfull if you guys could give me a couple sites..
Please and thanks
i rate high!
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I don't know of any sites specifically but you can google it and I know that a ton of sites will pop up. and if you need someone to talk to you can IM me. I will listen.
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Hi I would like to know I am i'm involved with a guy and we had sexual activities like mutual masturbation, but no anal penetration.
I wanna know if its possile to get an STI by simply getting seamen on your penis or in your urethra.
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it is deffinately possible. you need to talk to the guy and find out if he has been tested. and even if he says he has you still need to get tested yourself.
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Hi All,
This is the low down, I have a boyfriend we have been going out for approx. 2 months it's been quite rocky as we both approach relationships differently but recently he seems to be really getting on my nerves to the point where I can't even controll my anger. He recently got a car which he said he needed badly to get to work and back and I was all for it I was supportive throughout the process. But now it's become more then Just a car for going to work and back now every week-end or randomly during the week he goes out with his brothers and friends and comes back late at night and during that period he won't even text me to say his safe and missing me. He even tells me little white lies about where he's going with his friends I have no problem with him going out because I trust him. But I've taken the backseat in this relationship because of his car. He gets very annoyed or angry when I tell him about his faults and he just replies ''ok'' to everything. I just feel neglected and I just feel his not romantic enough he doesn't even take me on dates nor do small things for me to show he cares. Nor makes time for me anymore.
If there's anyone out there who could please give me some advice on how I should handle this situation with him beacause he has an attitude when it comes to problem solving.
Thank-you all for your time.. (link)
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you are at the time in a relationship where the "honeymoon period" has ended. you guys have gotten to know eachother more, and learn about eachother a lot. you just need to confront him, and tell him how you have been feeling, and see if things change. if nothing changes then it is probably best that you go your seperate ways rather then staying around and getting attached to someone who isn't right for you.
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I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 3 years.
He's always getting text messages from girls. Girls that I've never heard of, that don't live in our town, let alone our state. He watches porn when I go to bed (which I don't really care about, he is male.) He's just really secretive about things. Like when he's on his computer, he won't do anything when I'm around.. but as soon as I go to another room he's typing away. And I'll come back in and he'll close everything he's doing. I always ask him if he loves me and means it, and he always says yes. I just sometimes feel like he isn't being honest or faithful to me. I worry a lot. I feel like maybe this relationship has been a waste of time.
I don't know what to do. Like I want to talk to him about the girls and the text messaging and all, I just don't know how to bring it up to him at all. (link)
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these aren't good signs. but I don't think you should end it if you guys have been together for 3 years. just sit him down and tell him you need to talk to him about some things. there is no real good way to bring it up. so talk to him about it, and if he doesn't have any answers, or squirms, or gets defensive, then he is probably hiding something. and you deffinately don't deserve that.
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Okay, so I'm 15/f
I have a feeling that this guy I like is going to ask me out, mainly because everyone's been saying he likes me and he keeps on asking to be alone with him for a few minutes sometime this upcoming week. I know, I shouldn't get my hopes up because I can get disappointed majorly. But to be prepared:
What are some good ways to say "yes" to him if he asks me out nonchalantly. Not excited/naive sounding but at the same time not "I'm not interested but I'll go out with you out of pity" sounding. Help!
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if he does ask you, you don't want to act nonchalantly. you should smile and say yes and then kiss him. it is the perfect "yes".
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ok it all started on thursday and i seen a boi named Danny at his skool and i seen him the next day which was thursday at the bowling alley where he works and my mom bowl's at every week..i asked him if he went to that school and he said yea then i said well ppl from around the neighborhood r goin to the moviez and he said i would go but i promiised my friend that we would go cosmic bowling and he invited me to go but he didnt tell me which bowlin ally so it turned out me and my friends went to the wrong one so i called him and he saiid go on home and i have to work tomorrow at the bowling alley and he said he wanted me and my friends 2 come and visit him at work so i did and he flirted w/ me sooo badd and he held my hand but then the next day i went to his work again w/ my friendz and they asked him if he liked me and he saiid no but now he is lik talkin 2 me askin me personal questions and askin me to come to his work by my self and i reallllllly do like him but how do i know if he likes me???
wat should i do.......pleasse help me (link)
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you should keep seeing where it goes. no guy is going to admit how they feel for a girl until they are sure that that girl likes them. no guy likes to get rejected. if your friends asked you if you like him, and you did, you would tell them you did. But if the guy's friends asked you that same question I bet you wouldn't answer truthfully. Keep flirting and seeing where it goes. if he keeps wanting to spend alone time with you then I think he is definately interested.
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I was at a bar with my bf the other day. Suddenly in walks in this Britney Spears look-a-like wearing a really low cut top with her tattoo showing on her boobs. She sits on our table with her friends (we were on one of those really, really long tables with a bunch joined together) As soon as she sat down, my bf started staring at her. I ignored it at first, I mean, she was striking and you would notice her. But then 10-15 minutes later he was still staring at her, and when I looked at the girl she gave me an uncomfortable look and then said something to her friends who looked our way and looked angrily at us. Then some guy said "Quit it, mate." I've never been so embarassed in my entire life. I asked him why he was staring at her and he said she looks like one of the Suicide Girls (it's a goth/punk erotica site) and he recognised her by her tattoo. I got up and walked out of the bar, because I felt really uncomfortable (as did the girl, I could tell)
We've fought since then. He said he is sorry and feels like a pervert for objectifying a woman like that AND for staring at another girl when with me. I'm not unreasonable in that I get mad when he looks at other girls, but he went WAY too far. Right now we're kinda on the verge of breaking up. I can't believe he would do this. Should I take him back and give him another chance? I'm so hurt and angry and feel like I'm not good enough for him. Some people say I'm being too harsh, am I? I can't believe he'd do this to me.
thanks - 19/f (link)
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so he definately was out of line. but I definately don't think that you should end things with him. But think about it, lets say that your favorite hot celebrity guy walks into the club/bar you are at, wouldn't you stare? you should talk to him, and make sure he knows that it upsets you. tell him you understand that sometimes it is human nature to look at an attractive female/male, but in the future try harder not to stare so much. Tell him to remember that he has you, and that you are an amazing gf.
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