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hey ppl.. i need your helpp badly! please
anyway so here it is!!!!
my school starts real soon about a week nd some days.. anyway i really wanna lose weight im "average" but i have a stomache and i gotbig legs well the exercise stuff is easy i got tht covered up i did lose wieght because of my exersicing but The prob is is that i dunt kno how to stop my cravings i get hungry so much please help me:!!! i really need it
thank u!!:D:D (link)
haha. throw away your junk food. and then just whenever your hungry, eat vegtables. =) or even try a sandwich with lettece,egg,carrot, etc.


A lot of times i'm really angry but I'm not a violent person so I always just hold it all in.

I don't yell or punch things but it's like when I FUME (imagine it as when I'm so mad smoke comes out of my ears), my throat starts to burn or hurt really bad but I don't even like yell, growl, or use ym mouth or open it at all.

Why does my throat hurt and burn? is that normal for when a person is mad? (link)
i think it hurts since your angry. Well when im angry and wanna say something back at someone (like not by typing), i start to cry sometimes. I can't help it. So everyones different. If your angry, you shouldnt keep it in. Probaly take a coat or something with you and go to the washroom(so no one can see you) and then yell on it. No matter how loud you yell, people(and you) can only hear a small sound. Trust me. or at home, use a pillow,cushion, etc. it also works. =)


does anyone have any advice on how to get over a relationship that lasted almost a year, i am in a rut. (link)
happend to me before. Sorry this happend. =( But you will somehow get over it. mmm, well I get over him by somehow liking another guy but then ending up dumping him. =P (issues). hehe. Well you will get over it. It also umm. Took me at least.. Like almost a year to get over him.haha. Most sad part is tht he dumped me right after my birthday. sucks eh? so don't feel too bad. This happend to a lot of people I bet. =]


I want to convert vedio files on my computer to mp3 audio format so that i can put it on my mp3 player.

I've heared that jet audio can be used to convert vedio files to mp3.If so how can i do this?


If not is that any free softwares available on the net that i can download for this purpose?

please please help me! (link)
sadly no. you can only have the video format of the music video onto an mp4, or an ipod nano. since it has a bigger screen. mp3s are only used for music. i had an mp3 and i wanted a song from a mv. but sadly, it wont work. and there is no software for it. If you want the song, then look harder for it. =P i somehow found the song i wanted. =D but now i have a mp4, i can do anything. hope this helps!



Whoever reads this please help!!!!I have this friend who me and my friends are fed up with she always starts drama and to add some stuff she can cry on command to make people feel bad for her!!!!I SWARE!!Ok so she likes this guy and is OBSESSED and he hates her so much...BTW everytime we get in a fight she basically says rude remarks about this guy to us because me and my friend hang out with him alot beacause she is JEALOUS!!!I really need some help. Like and when she feels like being mean she will say a rude remark and when she is trying to be nice she trys to act cute "which never is" and if me and my friends didnt hang out with her she would have none because she is so mean to everyone else!!Then when we talk about "girl stuff" she trys to make her boobs look big cause she has none! And one time she wrote me a note saying how greasy my face was but if you read this please help me!! i NEED HELP LIKE SHOULD I still be friends with her and if not how do i tell her to be nice and not bratty?!?!?!?!?!?!

THanx
MissyMay123 (link)
actually, this girl doesnt seem very nice. some people just cry for attention. If she always brags, then that isnt nice cause she knows she has small breasts, and then you dont say anything. but then she then tells you how greasy your face looks, and you dont say anything. So I don't think she is a very good friend by just those 2 things. Just say like, how come you always cry for attention? if she says no, then say well how come you always cry then? if she says something mean back, then reply by saying: you know you shouldnt make your breasts look so big, i dont say anything about you and you called my face greasy. and then blah, if she says like reasons, then just say I dont think we should be friends anymore. and just ignore her.


it seems like im always left out of things that my friends do. whenever they have sleepovers and stuff, or if they go to movies, im not invited.
it really stinks because a lot of my really close friends dont go to my school, and i dont see them as much as my school friends. sometimes i ask them if they want to do something or go some where.
its just that i always feel left out and stuff..
what do i do?? (link)
ask them if you did anything wrong. or maybe how your acting. if they say nothing is wrong, then say how come they aren't inviting you to anything.Or maybe they arent a good friend.


i cant put a tampon in. i have tried so hard. but i can not seem to know where your supposed to put it in. everyones liek the hole. but what hole? im so confused. i have tried several times. im afraid im going to put it in somewhere wrong or try to put it in and it hurts me like where something goes wrong with me. please help! i want to use one so bad! (link)
a hole = your vagina. Cause some people don't like mentioning vagina, so its like "hole". wel there should be instructions on the tampon box.


I'm not sure if this is the right category.. but oh well.

I have a bad habit of biting my nails or doing the same thing, but using my hands to uh tear? them.

What can I do to stop doing this ?
& can you make your nails grow faster ?

My nails are pretty short because of the biting..
& I really want them longer.

BUT, I don't want fake nails.

So, is there any way to help stop biting them & make them grow longer ?

Thanks! (link)
Well there is a Sally Hansen Nail Growth polish thing. It comes in a lot of colours like regular nail polish, but it also has a clear one. Thats a way to make it longer. if you want to stop biting your nails then erm. put bandages on them? =S or even put them in lemon juice. hehe. hope this helps


I am from Japan. I know english...Kinda.
I never had period before I am just wondering how you know when period comes. Like. I heard you start to get cramps before period, or Brown discharge... It would be grateful for some answers. :) Ty. (link)
hello!=) well here are some i got from my elementry school book about puberty.
- discharge (kinda gooey, slimy, kinda white and clear)
- your breasts feel heavy
- you get moody (example. sad for no reason, and angry for no reason o_o)

Some girls get their period by suprise, but i heard you can feel it the first time. But its very quick. Its like one second. You will feel something coming out of your vagina. As if you was peeing in your pants. but coming out by its self.
im sorry if you didnt understand that, but i got this translation website.
こんにちは! =) ここの井戸は私が思春期についての私のelementry 教科書から得たいくつかである。- 排出(ちょっとgooey 、slimy 、ちょっと白くおよび明確い) - あなたの胸感じる重く- 不機嫌になる(理由のため無しに悲しく、理由のo_o のため無しに怒っている例) 何人かの女の子はsuprise によって彼女達の期間を得るが、それを最初に感じることができることを私は聞いた。しかし非常に速い。その同類1 の第2 。何かをあなたの膣から出ることを感じる。あなたのズボンでpeeing が、自己によって出て来ていたように。

sorry some didnt work. but hopefully you know what it is! =)


In your own personal opinion, could you please tell me whether or not I'm suited to be a model?

http://a555.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/68/l_65b79c8cae81f557eea3af183969c0b2.jpg

http://a907.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/84/l_e86e91e169984f9c9fccc32a860503a2.jpg

http://a375.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/19/l_0d29c5e1b6d363286b0332a656fdc13e.jpg

In all honesty please. My feelings don't get hurt easily. Constuctive criticism will be taken well. (link)
yes! it would help if you showed pictures of your whole body then your head though.. But I think your face just has that modeling face. I swear. I watch america's next top model and canada's next top model, and you look like one of them. =)


13/f

I've been getting my period for every 21 days lately.. is that normal? And also, my last period only really lasted about 5 days and it was really light. It usually lasts about 6-7 days and is regular for me. Im getting really nervous about this.. is it normal? (link)
yes of course its normal! =) no need to worry. perios can even last 3 days!!! and its okay if your period comes every 21 days. some it could come earlier, or even later. hormones are very annoying eh?


i eat mcdonalds like all the time and everytime i do i get the hiccups. is this just because its just something that gives me the hiccups or is it because mcdonalds is bad for me or what? (link)
well actually, it shouldnt be about mcdonalds. hmm. dont know why that happens to you but anyways. there are a few reasons why you get hiccups when you eat mcdonalds.
1. your eating fast (i dont mean like finishing in a second or something if you get what i mean)
2. you are talking while eating
3. oh yeah, about #1, you might be eating fast cause its good =P, but it is possible..

Some ways to reduce hiccuping:
- don't eat too fast, better to eat slowy to take your time, eating fast wont do any good, when you eat slowy, well as in like chew into smaller bits, etc. it will digest. trust me
-when hiccups do occor, then drink water.
-or hold your nose and drink a gulp of water, or just swallow saliva.


I have a hard time looking for jeans my size. I'm 14/F and I normally wear a 0 or a 1 short. However, they are still too long. I'm about 5 feet and I'm not sure what size my waist is. Is there any stores that sell 0 or 1 short? I can't wear a 00. Tried and well..doesn't work. (link)
hehe! im only 13/f. =] yeah im like 5'4. im actually not tht tall compared with the other girls. anyways. im the same size as you, you could try sears. And I dont think American Eagle will work, i went there and then its like size 0-1. but its like long. probaly by like at least 4 inches. well hope this helps! =)


Im 5'3 what should i my weight be ? (link)
about 100-120 pounds.


What exactly is Feng Shui [ fung-shway] ?
Is it good for you?
Does it bring any kind of luck?
Can it help you spiritually ?
Is it easy to learn?

Thanks ! (link)
haha! well since im chinese, I know what it is. Its just like positions for like houses, schools, etc. Like something about like when you open your door for your house and there is a bathroom infront of it, its bad or something. It just depends on your parents if they believe it or not. Well i heard if you want your family to get rich or something, you put like a coin (like pennys, etc.) in each corner of your house. But i think it works if you just move in or something.


Ok...Im going through this stage where I want to meet new friends and kind of start High School with new people. I want to make new friends and be in a more popular group. I am kind of shy and I need to know how to get out of the shyness and how to make new friends. I am also kind of like a sporty kind of girl. I would like some help on becoming more "girly" and less "tomboy_ish." Thank you for all your help! (link)
Its okay to play sports. nothing bad with that, popular or/and girly girls play sports. Well if your trying to be more girly-ish, then try some make up, and some more stylish clothing. =)


basically i'm overweight.
i need to loose 10-12lbs to be healthy.

what diet should i go on?

i want to loose it by before school starts. so around August 31st - after labor day.

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Well a very good suggestion for me, is to do excersises every night for about 30 minutes. Cause you dont want to over-do your body. I dont mean like jumping jacks or something. maybe like stretching, leg lifts, sit ups. you get what I mean. another suggestion is to try and make yourself NOT to buy any candy, or junk food. so keep that in mind. heh, and keep something in mind. Dont try and wear tight clothing.. >_


I got fitted at Nordstroms today (bras on sale!) and I found out I am a 30DD (but they didn't have any there in that size) or a 32D (but it doesn't fit as well as the 30DD). I got 2 32D's, but I'm trying to find more.

Now we all know it's impossible to find 30's. Especially 30DD's. And its also impossible to find 32's bigger than B's. (I wear 32C's now and I only have 3 bras because theyre so hard to find).

I only went to Nordstrom because of the sale... but where can I look to find bras for my odd size that aren't insanely expensive (I am willing to pay a little more if I can find my size)?

I'm desperate! (link)
try Lasenza, they sell quite a lot of things


Ok well i'm going into a school that wears uniform and I HAVE to wear blakc shoes, which isn't a great thing since black is nt realyl my most liked colour.

Can anyone send me pictures of black shoes that won't look like a old lady shoe but really nice, stylish, for teenagers, would be appropreiate and comfortable, matches good with grey pants, jumper, skirt, and hopefully won't look weird with thick socks?

thank you so much! (link)
Well it actually depends on your budget on shoes. You can try begging your parents to get you brand named shoes. I mean, other people will envy you by your awesome shoes. hehe. well. here are some suggestions:
Light Comfortable shoes - Puma (the velvet ones)
Okay weight, feels like as if your shoes has air in it - Nike Shox, or Nike Air

Then there are some non brand ones, but then they are very nice too =)
Ex. Flats (the type of shoes tht are shaped like ballerina shoes but better with a bow on it)




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